FabSwingers.com forum: New job

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So... just started a new job and im damned sure the guy training me is someone i spoke to on here before.. im not sure how to play it! The guy training me is hot... half my age and has already bluntly told me he is trying to sleep his way round the staff list! He is bloody hot but i got a rule.. i dont fuck people local to me. They try to mess up your life and i had several turn stalkerish..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd stick to your rule myself

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By *jorkishMan
over a year ago

Seaforth

Sounds a right charmer. Follow your rule

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would probably not just leave it be don’t shit whare you work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice OP is you are there to work. This is your career and your reputation to uphold and protect, therefore I wouldn't mix business with pleasure.

You need to make a good impression and the right impression to your employers. Don't become a notch on the trainers bed post, being office gossip as soon as you join a new organisation could be a stigma hard to remove.

NBVN x

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

If you've just started the job and he's bluntly said he's trying to sleep with many of the staff. I highly doubt he's not going to bluntly tell others what you get up to.

I met M in work so not going to lecture on appropriateness of relationships in the workplace. His attitude though would make me uneasy.

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

And he sounds like a complete arse if he's already told you he's trying to sleep with everyone on the staff list.

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

Sleeping with someone from work can get very messy. I wouldn't if I was you.

You've just started there, don't want to get a reputation right away

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Never mix work and please, it always ends up badly

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

What could possibly go wrong...

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

Out of interest, has he told you the ones he's slept with already?

Might be an indication of how discreet he isn't.

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By *rg4Man
over a year ago

hunktown

"So... just started a new job and im damned sure the guy training me is someone i spoke to on here before.. im not sure how to play it! The guy training me is hot... half my age and has already bluntly told me he is trying to sleep his way round the staff list! He is bloody hot but i got a rule.. i dont fuck people local to me. They try to mess up your life and i had several turn stalkerish..

Wank him off under the desk seems the most reasonable resolution

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

Seems a creep regardless of him being hot.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Out of interest, has he told you the ones he's slept with already?

Would that be in real life or his imagination?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Seems a creep regardless of him being hot. "

Yep! He's only 21 though he has much to learn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't matter who how hot he is, he's not into you. You're just a name on a list he's trying to achieve, give yourself a little bit more respect than that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

He hasnt name dropped but i didnt ask either. Yer your all right... i set a rule for a reason so should stick to it. Even if he works out i am someone he chatted to on here.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

He sounds professional lol my gosh I would be telling the guy to keep his pervy views mitts away and just do his job of training me

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

He doesn't sound at all professional, I'd never mix work and pleasure personally, plus if he's slept with half the staff that makes for some awkward work friendships.

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