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By *rg4 OP   Man
over a year ago

hunktown

Would you give someone a 3rd chance if you’ve planned to meet with them twice previously and they cancelled last minute on both occasions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you give someone a 3rd chance if you’ve planned to meet with them twice previously and they cancelled last minute on both occasions?"

Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me springs to mind here.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"Would you give someone a 3rd chance if you’ve planned to meet with them twice previously and they cancelled last minute on both occasions?"

It depends on reasons ...everyone has lives outside of fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope they wouldn’t even get a second chance

I one give one Chance or in less they a regular

I understand things can crop up so if I have meet them before I will let them off with a warring and tell them not to make a habit off it

But other then that nope first meet one chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably not.. once is understandable, twice is taking the piss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would depend on how well I know them and if they have ongoing issues in their life.

If it was a random, then no. Saying that, I once fell for it 13 times with someone not from here

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By *uckyNineMan
over a year ago

prescot

Absolutely not

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

6 times is the cut off on here now so I’ve heard

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I've watched too much Catfish.

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By *undance_KidMan
over a year ago

London

Lol re 6.

The answer is no f’ing way.

Sorry but if they wanted to meet you badly enough they would have.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Incredibly unlikely.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Would you give someone a 3rd chance if you’ve planned to meet with them twice previously and they cancelled last minute on both occasions?"

Maybe, some people are genuinely scatty and disorganised but still worth it. Just be realistic, they are likely to change. First impressions count for a reason.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Nay!

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Agree with the post above, really depends on the reasons and whether you beleive them or not. Life outside fab happens as we all know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the reasons given for cancelling and whether I believe them or not.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Nope!

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By *rg4 OP   Man
over a year ago

hunktown


"It would depend on how well I know them and if they have ongoing issues in their life.

If it was a random, then no. Saying that, I once fell for it 13 times with someone not from here "

Jesus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to say no but it depends on the person and their reasons for cancelling.

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

Nope, takes the piss that

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

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By *rg4 OP   Man
over a year ago

hunktown

It’s weird. She’s defo real and seems keen but this last cancellation was very suss. First one seemed believable but who knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope! I don’t even give second chances let alone third!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just all depends on what's happened in their life. If the reasons are not great then nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No don't waste your time

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

When it's happened to me it's been an absolute no. Not shaving my fanny THREE times for nothing!

It depends on what the reasons are and how well you know each other, whether you've previously met etc. though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the person, if I feel they’re worth meeting, and if I feel their reasons for cancelling are sincere.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

A lot would depend on the circumstances, if life got in the way, and I had got a message to say such, I could accept that, if they just didn't show up, which I seem to be getting a lot of at the moment, then no second chance, let alone a third

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

No.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Nope not even a second chance! X

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Would you give someone a 3rd chance if you’ve planned to meet with them twice previously and they cancelled last minute on both occasions?"

Never.

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

On here they usually only get one, never three

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

After 2 last minute cancellations I would probably have blocked them, unless there was a VERY good reason, nobody gets a 3rd chance.

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By *rg4 OP   Man
over a year ago

hunktown

I think it’s time to call it a day then. I fear if I arrange another one it’ll be another last minute cancellation and don’t fancy chucking another hotel fee down the shitter

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Shit happens if they had a really good excuse then yes, its easy to tell if someone is bullshitting, one whiff there's not even going to be a second chance.

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By *rg4 OP   Man
over a year ago

hunktown


"Shit happens if they had a really good excuse then yes, its easy to tell if someone is bullshitting, one whiff there's not even going to be a second chance."

Yea this second time reeks tbh I’m pretty annoyed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once I could forgive but not twice.

What was the reason for the second cancellation?

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By *rg4 OP   Man
over a year ago

hunktown


"Once I could forgive but not twice.

What was the reason for the second cancellation?"

First time was baby sitter had to go to hospital with asthma attack. Second was no contact from said lady until 6pm and apparently she had been try all day and couldn’t get ahold of the babysitter until then at which time they said they’re not going to do it. (Babysitter is sister)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once I could forgive but not twice.

What was the reason for the second cancellation?

First time was baby sitter had to go to hospital with asthma attack. Second was no contact from said lady until 6pm and apparently she had been try all day and couldn’t get ahold of the babysitter until then at which time they said they’re not going to do it. (Babysitter is sister)"

Yeah that sounds a bit off

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

I don’t think I would, no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

Unless you get off on humiliation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once I could forgive but not twice.

What was the reason for the second cancellation?

First time was baby sitter had to go to hospital with asthma attack. Second was no contact from said lady until 6pm and apparently she had been try all day and couldn’t get ahold of the babysitter until then at which time they said they’re not going to do it. (Babysitter is sister)"

And you have paid for hotels both times??

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

no I wouldn't at all ..

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"No.

Unless you get off on humiliation "

So you would then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once I could forgive but not twice.

What was the reason for the second cancellation?

First time was baby sitter had to go to hospital with asthma attack. Second was no contact from said lady until 6pm and apparently she had been try all day and couldn’t get ahold of the babysitter until then at which time they said they’re not going to do it. (Babysitter is sister)

And you have paid for hotels both times?? "

Do you have 100% proof telephone call or ideally a video call to know your actually engaging with a woman?

KJ

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Maybe a few years ago but no not now ... our times too limited to be messed around ... we never stand anyone up and expect the same

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"Once I could forgive but not twice.

What was the reason for the second cancellation?

First time was baby sitter had to go to hospital with asthma attack. Second was no contact from said lady until 6pm and apparently she had been try all day and couldn’t get ahold of the babysitter until then at which time they said they’re not going to do it. (Babysitter is sister)

Yeah that sounds a bit off "

have to agree sounds a bit suss to me especially the no contact all day..surely if shes struggling for sitter she would keep you updated.. do you believe her ? Is she well verified ?

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

I’d give someone a 3rd chance if they have a few days notice each time (even 24hrs) but not if they cancelled twice last minute. One maybe, not twice.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Would you give someone a 3rd chance if you’ve planned to meet with them twice previously and they cancelled last minute on both occasions?"

No way. I would be sceptical about the second meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you give someone a 3rd chance if you’ve planned to meet with them twice previously and they cancelled last minute on both occasions?"

Probably not to be fair, once you can understand but twice is definitely taking the piss

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"Once I could forgive but not twice.

What was the reason for the second cancellation?

First time was baby sitter had to go to hospital with asthma attack. Second was no contact from said lady until 6pm and apparently she had been try all day and couldn’t get ahold of the babysitter until then at which time they said they’re not going to do it. (Babysitter is sister)

Yeah that sounds a bit off "

Yep. I call BS here too. Both times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I dont give secon chances let alone 3rd

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Two chances is probably enough, things happen in life but to have it happen three times then no thank you, I use the two strikes and you’re out method

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By *o scandalousWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Nope.

I’ve two cheeks on my face and they slapped one each time they didn’t show up, so they definitely don’t get to slap my arse cheeks.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Would you give someone a 3rd chance if you’ve planned to meet with them twice previously and they cancelled last minute on both occasions?"

Of course not.

That's not giving them a chance. It's being a mug.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

No. Two chances max.

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By *aughty Couple ABCCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Luckily for us a lovely man who we had to let down a couple of times before (due to family commitments) , has persevered and I (Mrs) finally managed to meet him for a coffee. A meet has now been arranged for later in the week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you give someone a 3rd chance if you’ve planned to meet with them twice previously and they cancelled last minute on both occasions?

It depends on reasons ...everyone has lives outside of fab "

I had a meet that had to be postponed twice. One by me, once by them. Third time, we meet and they were worth waiting for.

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

No chance…. But of course I hardly get to the date side of this anyway, ladies are hard to tie down to a date

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By *rg4 OP   Man
over a year ago

hunktown


"Once I could forgive but not twice.

What was the reason for the second cancellation?

First time was baby sitter had to go to hospital with asthma attack. Second was no contact from said lady until 6pm and apparently she had been try all day and couldn’t get ahold of the babysitter until then at which time they said they’re not going to do it. (Babysitter is sister)

And you have paid for hotels both times?? "

Yes

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By *rg4 OP   Man
over a year ago

hunktown


"Once I could forgive but not twice.

What was the reason for the second cancellation?

First time was baby sitter had to go to hospital with asthma attack. Second was no contact from said lady until 6pm and apparently she had been try all day and couldn’t get ahold of the babysitter until then at which time they said they’re not going to do it. (Babysitter is sister)

And you have paid for hotels both times??

Do you have 100% proof telephone call or ideally a video call to know your actually engaging with a woman?

KJ"

Yes, she’s 100% real, I know people who have met her

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By *rg4 OP   Man
over a year ago

hunktown


"Once I could forgive but not twice.

What was the reason for the second cancellation?

First time was baby sitter had to go to hospital with asthma attack. Second was no contact from said lady until 6pm and apparently she had been try all day and couldn’t get ahold of the babysitter until then at which time they said they’re not going to do it. (Babysitter is sister)

Yeah that sounds a bit off

have to agree sounds a bit suss to me especially the no contact all day..surely if shes struggling for sitter she would keep you updated.. do you believe her ? Is she well verified ? "

Exactly, fair enough if she was struggling but she could’ve easily let me know.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Probably 2 chances.

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By *rg4 OP   Man
over a year ago

hunktown


"Luckily for us a lovely man who we had to let down a couple of times before (due to family commitments) , has persevered and I (Mrs) finally managed to meet him for a coffee. A meet has now been arranged for later in the week. "

Did you let him know before hand ?

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"Once I could forgive but not twice.

What was the reason for the second cancellation?

First time was baby sitter had to go to hospital with asthma attack. Second was no contact from said lady until 6pm and apparently she had been try all day and couldn’t get ahold of the babysitter until then at which time they said they’re not going to do it. (Babysitter is sister)

Yeah that sounds a bit off

have to agree sounds a bit suss to me especially the no contact all day..surely if shes struggling for sitter she would keep you updated.. do you believe her ? Is she well verified ?

Exactly, fair enough if she was struggling but she could’ve easily let me know. "

At the end of the day , you have more knowledge of her than us and have to decide what YOU want to do going forward what others say or believe is really irrelevant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once I could forgive but not twice.

What was the reason for the second cancellation?

First time was baby sitter had to go to hospital with asthma attack. Second was no contact from said lady until 6pm and apparently she had been try all day and couldn’t get ahold of the babysitter until then at which time they said they’re not going to do it. (Babysitter is sister)

And you have paid for hotels both times??

Yes"

Has she offered to help with those wasted costs? (due to her last minute cancellations)

KJ

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By *aughty Couple ABCCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"Luckily for us a lovely man who we had to let down a couple of times before (due to family commitments) , has persevered and I (Mrs) finally managed to meet him for a coffee. A meet has now been arranged for later in the week.

Did you let him know before hand ? "

Definitely, would have been rude not to

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By *rg4 OP   Man
over a year ago

hunktown


"Once I could forgive but not twice.

What was the reason for the second cancellation?

First time was baby sitter had to go to hospital with asthma attack. Second was no contact from said lady until 6pm and apparently she had been try all day and couldn’t get ahold of the babysitter until then at which time they said they’re not going to do it. (Babysitter is sister)

And you have paid for hotels both times??

Yes

Has she offered to help with those wasted costs? (due to her last minute cancellations)

KJ"

Nope, even if she got cold feet before hand and just was honest at least I could’ve tried cancelling or at least using it myself

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Depends how fit they are and how badly I want to masterbate thinking about getting a handful of their minge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd give her another chance x

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By *rg4 OP   Man
over a year ago

hunktown


"I'd give her another chance x"

When are you going to give me a chance I’ve been trying 5 years x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends how fit they are and how badly I want to masterbate thinking about getting a handful of their minge "

Hahaha that made me laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No.

Unless you get off on humiliation

So you would then. "

Nope

You get 1 shot with me

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

I had a meet cancelled on me by the same person 3 times however were now almost(FWB) a couple

And now have a couples profile on here too .....I'm so glad I didn't give up

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Probably not, but then I’m an unforgiving cowbag!

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably not, but then I’m an unforgiving cowbag!"

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Err no

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Almost certainly not, but i couldn't absolutely rule it out. It depends on the circumstances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ordinarily I have a rule of 2 and done, I’ve only once given someone more chances and OMG best decision ever!!

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Nope ,they've had enough chances and in my past experiences will never meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I wouldn’t even give them a second

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you give someone a 3rd chance if you’ve planned to meet with them twice previously and they cancelled last minute on both occasions?"

I'd follow my heart.

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By *idnight RamblerMan
over a year ago

Pershore

Yes (third time lucky and all that). If you're let down again, the course of action is then crystal clear.

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

No I wouldn't even give a second chance in here. Far too many time wasters

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Probably not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I doubt it very much. I think the second time is the time when peoples confidence needs to be built up again, imagine taking the piss out of someone, twice? I wouldn’t do it, so I don’t want it done to me.

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