FabSwingers.com forum: Scratching and biting

By *odgerMoore OP Man
over a year ago

Rummage Up The Jumper

Why is it some women feel the need to savage you like a crazed leopard during sex - i had one woman recently (1996) who scratched me and properly bit me when she came - obviously I made her cum so many times I looked like an unlucky zookeeper when we were finished… women… explain yourselves!!

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I don't like it. The Bratty ones know that and know it's a sure way to restrain and maybe a good spanking when they should know better.

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

Essex

You say that like it’s a bad thing. I love the feeling of Michelle’s nails as she cums hard

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By *agertha73Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Nails are good! X

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I have a tendency to claw during orgasm. I have trained myself to claw at bedding at headboards rather than at my partner though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a reaction to that Grrrrr! Feeling when you're up there and loving it and it's intense and hitting a spot. Hence the bite when climaxing too.

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By *odgerMoore OP Man
over a year ago

Rummage Up The Jumper

So it seems the explanation so far is ‘ its my fault for being an awesome shag?’

I guessed its about tension and release - be interesting to see if all the explanations follow the same route or not

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I quite like it , but then I give far worse than I get, usually.

Have been caught by surprise a couple of times though , it’s like a switch just flips….it’s a great feeling though waking up aching with sore tingling skin , bruised, scratched and bitten.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it. There’s something so animalistic about it and it usually means she’s enjoying herself.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"I don't like it. The Bratty ones know that and know it's a sure way to restrain and maybe a good spanking when they should know better."

It’s not bratty, bratty is playfully misbehaving, submissively playing up , they are more likely to edge you knowing it drives you mad than scratch and bite you. This is animalistic passion or sometimes a switch / dom thing that is released. And sometimes it’s an SM preference too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like it both ways

But only with passifc people

Ie I never do it to random hook ups

Or first times

But if it’s a regular and they like it then yes

That sort off play need trust as things can turn bad if they aren’t in to it

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By *outhwesthornMan
over a year ago

Pilning

I love pain when a lady is in the zone scratching biting I don't mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me, I can think of better ways to express myself

Plus I can't stand long nails so the scratching won't happen anytime soon either.

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By *odgerMoore OP Man
over a year ago

Rummage Up The Jumper

"Not for me, I can think of better ways to express myself

Plus I can't stand long nails so the scratching won't happen anytime soon either. "

Still can’t message you privately… its an outrage!!

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By *aximus74Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

I like it...only happens when the passion is mega intense.

Love kisses and nibbles on the neck,but the more it the more intense and passionate and the nibbles get harder and the passion intensifies

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I have a tendency to claw during orgasm. I have trained myself to claw at bedding at headboards rather than at my partner though!"

This. Because leaving scratches is a bad plan.

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By *aximus74Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

I like it...only happens when the passion is mega intense.

Love kisses and nibbles on the neck,but the more it happens and harder,the more intense and passionate and the nibbles get harder and the passion intensifies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not for me, I can think of better ways to express myself

Plus I can't stand long nails so the scratching won't happen anytime soon either.

Still can’t message you privately… its an outrage!!

You must be old then...... ha

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

Against the marquess of queensberry rules aren't they?

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By *odgerMoore OP Man
over a year ago

Rummage Up The Jumper

"Not for me, I can think of better ways to express myself

Plus I can't stand long nails so the scratching won't happen anytime soon either.

Still can’t message you privately… its an outrage!!

You must be old then...... ha "

How very dare you… Im like a vintage sports car…. Smell abit musty - not as comfy as when newer and might need to crank me manually to start me… but you’ll soon feel a throbbing I can tell you!!!

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

"I don't like it. The Bratty ones know that and know it's a sure way to restrain and maybe a good spanking when they should know better.

Excuse me, who are you to tell me what it is or isn't? Just another one of them on here

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By *artorialMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Errm I quite like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t do it but love it done to me and a good way to get into headspace

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By *eductiveEyesKillerThighsWoman
over a year ago

Nowhere & Everywhere

Erm... Yes Please! Giving and receiving.

Had one guy tell me I should grow my nails longer so I'd I'd able to scratch better... My short nails soon left him with marks on his back that he had for over a week.

Then he came back for more

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

If I'm very turned on but can't reach climax I want to bite and scratch... some sort of strange primal urge maybe?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

It definitely taps into a primal urge inside of me - it's very very rare that I'm relaxed enough to do that, whether it's because I'm not sure the other person would appreciate it or because I’m too tense to relax fully and be me, with all my sexual desires unleashed.

But anyway, I love it. There's something about it that intensifies and heightens the experience for me; when I'm being slowly fucked and digging my nails in it's because I can't get enough of their body and want to feel everything, keep chasing that high. Or sometimes I want to sink my teeth into their flesh as I orgasm or just before they are, bite into them and feel their skin yield slightly. Even biting them on their inner thigh as I work my way up their body slowly, seeing that little mark of me on their skin drives me crazy.

It's very much lust driven and when I can't get enough of the person, their touch, the way their body feels under my nails and teeth.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

It's really not good to send PMs to ladies instead of replying on the thread.

It's an excellent way to piss them off and get blocked.

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By *odgerMoore OP Man
over a year ago

Rummage Up The Jumper

"It definitely taps into a primal urge inside of me - it's very very rare that I'm relaxed enough to do that, whether it's because I'm not sure the other person would appreciate it or because I’m too tense to relax fully and be me, with all my sexual desires unleashed.

It's very much lust driven and when I can't get enough of the person, their touch, the way their body feels under my nails and teeth. "
kinell!! Im going to open a window - _eli you sex grenade!! Xxx

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By *odgerMoore OP Man
over a year ago

Rummage Up The Jumper

"OP

It's really not good to send PMs to ladies instead of replying on the thread.

It's an excellent way to piss them off and get blocked."
explained the reasoning

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"OP

It's really not good to send PMs to ladies instead of replying on the thread.

It's an excellent way to piss them off and get blocked. explained the reasoning

Most post to interact as part of the ongoing discusion. DMs are taking that away from the thread and in many cases simply adds another unwanted message to that ladies inbox.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Why is it some women feel the need to savage you like a crazed leopard during sex - i had one woman recently (1996) who scratched me and properly bit me when she came - obviously I made her cum so many times I looked like an unlucky zookeeper when we were finished… women… explain yourselves!!

This is an interesting recent experience

I do bite a bit (gently) and grip tightly, but I don't think I go as far as scratching. One can get rather, *ahem* overcome at key moments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont like it it makes me want to put a pillow over there gob

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By *odgerMoore OP Man
over a year ago

Rummage Up The Jumper

This is an interesting recent experience

I do bite a bit (gently) and grip tightly, but I don't think I go as far as scratching. One can get rather, *ahem* overcome at key moments

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seems to be the reasoning for most - they just get lost in the moment - but for some it seems they cant climax without it?

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

It depends on my mood. Recently I happened to pin someone down and have my way with him and I found incredibly erotic…watching and feeling his reactions to my nibbling his hip bone, biting his inner thighs, drawing my nails down his rib cage, teasing his nipples with the tips of my nails, digging them into his biceps when pinning his arms above his head - I left a little mark on him which when he noticed gave him flashbacks of the moment - I think it’s just giving into that animal instinct, having him right where you want him, unable to get enough, I like unleashing my wild side with the right person xx

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By *odgerMoore OP Man
over a year ago

Rummage Up The Jumper

"It depends on my mood. Recently I happened to pin someone down and have my way with him and I found incredibly erotic…watching and feeling his reactions to my nibbling his hip bone, biting his inner thighs, drawing my nails down his rib cage, teasing his nipples with the tips of my nails, digging them into his biceps when pinning his arms above his head - I left a little mark on him which when he noticed gave him flashbacks of the moment - I think it’s just giving into that animal instinct, having him right where you want him, unable to get enough, I like unleashing my wild side with the right person xx"
is it me?? Definitely hot in here…

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"If I'm very turned on but can't reach climax I want to bite and scratch... some sort of strange primal urge maybe?"

A Scratching post?

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"If I'm very turned on but can't reach climax I want to bite and scratch... some sort of strange primal urge maybe?"

I have experienced this before, much more uncontrolled and sometimes tears come and lashing out., I’ve had a bad experience once with uncontrolled lashing out.

I’ll often take an animal position hold her still in my teeth and claws I’d she’s one of those ! !

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Is it a humble brag to say you had sex in the 90’s?

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"I don't like it. The Bratty ones know that and know it's a sure way to restrain and maybe a good spanking when they should know better.

Excuse me, who are you to tell me what it is or isn't? Just another one of them on here

Frontier Psychiatrist, I had to read your post a couple of times before I got what you were saying. For you it's something brats do to get attention, a button they know they can press right?

If so i think you're both right. For some it might be bratty, for others a primaliatic thing that transcends or negates D/s...

I probably sit more on the primal side of things, I'm not really a brat more that it's a primal raw urge that adds to my horn level

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By *artorialMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Well my cat regularly bites and scratches me but the feeling of my lover using her nails all over me sends me off into levels of ecstasy I don't have the words to describe. The cat however just hurts

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By *aximus74Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

It's very much lust driven and when I can't get enough of the person, their touch, the way their body feels under my nails and teeth. "

Such a spot on explanation!!

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