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Not Sub Sub? What am I?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I love a woman to take charge and be on top; amazon position etc but I don't like being told what to do or being demeaned! I guess I basically love it when someone seems desperate to jump my bones! Is there a term for that; i generally meet ppl where i am more dominant as i do love to take charge too but then get frustrated that i cant explain what i find a turn on. Any help guys/girls?

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Call it what ever you want to buddy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Call it what ever you want to buddy"

Aye dude but just to try and clarify fun times ,i'm basically finding naturally sub ppl and asking them to be quite dom (but not dom) tis a bugger!

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

I wouldn’t have though a woman being on top was demeaning??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldn’t have though a woman being on top was demeaning?? "

Where did u get demeaning from?! Nothing in sex should be demeaning - only agreed safe spaces here. Just asking ppl who generally dont take charge to do so and wondering if there is a way foe that, switch dom? I meant that some people think that sub men should be quite docile and well..subserviant but I'm not that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldn’t have though a woman being on top was demeaning??

Where did u get demeaning from?! Nothing in sex should be demeaning - only agreed safe spaces here. Just asking ppl who generally dont take charge to do so and wondering if there is a way foe that, switch dom? I meant that some people think that sub men should be quite docile and well..subserviant but I'm not that"

Sorry just realised where demeaning was from , i mean i dont want to be a sub that is abused or asked to do things i find demeaning ( i guess conversation is the answer) but i would say i find it a turn on to be led by the woman , position wise which is sub in the actual act of sex

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I wouldn’t have though a woman being on top was demeaning?? "

He didn't say it was. He said he liked a woman to take charge and be on top however some see it as he likes to play submissively and with that comes bring told what to do and being demeaned.

You like assertiveness in partners OP. Maybe put it like that. Or that you enjoy seeing a woman on top.

Not all submissive play has a demeaning aspect to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe I’m misunderstanding but basically you just want a woman to go on top and ride the bollocks off you?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Forget the labels and just communicate, so that everyone explains what they'd like - which is part of the negotiation towards either filtering, flexibility and consensusm.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Pillow princess

You want others to lead in the act of sex. Its not a Dom/sub thing at all. Leading during sex doesn’t make you Dom nor does it make you a sub to be led.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need an older woman. They all know what they want

Mr

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldn’t have though a woman being on top was demeaning??

He didn't say it was. He said he liked a woman to take charge and be on top however some see it as he likes to play submissively and with that comes bring told what to do and being demeaned.

You like assertiveness in partners OP. Maybe put it like that. Or that you enjoy seeing a woman on top.

Not all submissive play has a demeaning aspect to it.

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Exactly this ?? thank you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe I’m misunderstanding but basically you just want a woman to go on top and ride the bollocks off you?"

Well...yeah also love amazon position (not to be confused with amazon women who are also quite nice )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Call it what ever you want to buddy"

What he said. I call it sex.

I don’t class myself a ‘sun’ the way lots do, and I don’t call myself a dom either.

If a woman is on top of me getting herself off using my body and my wonderful cock, there is nothing about that, that could make me feel demeaning.

In fact, I encourage it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pillow princess

You want others to lead in the act of sex. Its not a Dom/sub thing at all. Leading during sex doesn’t make you Dom nor does it make you a sub to be led."

Oooh just looked it up; sort of yeah! Just love a woman who really desires me in that moment (but then what person doesn't want that?!)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Btw i am learning that the forum needs a like button for posts! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe I’m misunderstanding but basically you just want a woman to go on top and ride the bollocks off you?

Well...yeah also love amazon position (not to be confused with amazon women who are also quite nice )"

I don’t think that has a specific name. That’s just sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well there ain't no love then there ain't no use.

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

possibley "primal " or primalprey " like to be pounced on and used for sex or be the user ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"possibley "primal " or primalprey " like to be pounced on and used for sex or be the user ?"

Ooooh i like the sound of that *furiously googling in the private browser!*

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