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It funny how rude people can be

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By *ovlad1986 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bedworth

Why is it you are nice to people and they are just rude back

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

the same as in everyday life....

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

some will be, some won't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like View said it reflects life in general some people are unhappy at times and snap at people without a real reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it you are nice to people and they are just rude back "

What do you mean "you are nice"?

How are they 'being rude' back?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was accused of being rude earlier this evening by a gentleman on here, he messaged asking for a meet.

I checked his profile and saw he was outwith my area, I mention twice in my profile I only meet locally

I messaged him back saying that I did not meet outwith my area and he replied saying I was rude and had attitude.

To him I was rude, to me he was rude to message in the first place.

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By *ovlad1986 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bedworth

Well sent a nice message to say hi and just got a message back poking fun and taking the piss and then blocks you I am a thick skinned person so not moaning about it just asking are most people like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More nice than bad, always get a few, sometimes messages can be read in wrong way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're just ignorant twats, ignore them, there small minded

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

Sometimes its really difficult to judge someones mood by just reading a message and it can be read as being nasty or rude or intimidating etc when really the person didnt mean it like that at all. Dont take it personal, x

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By *ovlad1986 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bedworth


"I was accused of being rude earlier this evening by a gentleman on here, he messaged asking for a meet.

I checked his profile and saw he was outwith my area, I mention twice in my profile I only meet locally

I messaged him back saying that I did not meet outwith my area and he replied saying I was rude and had attitude.

To him I was rude, to me he was rude to message in the first place. "

Well I would offer but I'm out your age and area. And I'm sorry to hear what he did

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

One person's nice message is another person's "not another fucker who can't read"

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"Well sent a nice message to say hi and just got a message back poking fun and taking the piss and then blocks you I am a thick skinned person so not moaning about it just asking are most people like this "

did they have on their profile that they wish to meet single guys fitting your profile ie area u live in .. age range etc ??

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By *ovlad1986 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bedworth


"They're just ignorant twats, ignore them, there small minded "

I have the person just came across as she only after a shag and can't take it when someone nice and dose not want that from the word go maybe them type rude just the way forward

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By *ovlad1986 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bedworth

Yes they did understand if they didn't

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By *ovlad1986 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bedworth


"One person's nice message is another person's "not another fucker who can't read""

Thanks

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By *ovlad1986 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bedworth


"One person's nice message is another person's "not another fucker who can't read"

Thanks "

I did read the profile and talked about bits in her profile

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Having been sent message from a number of people who have then gone on to post about 'sending nice messages' and either being ignored or whatever..... I can safely say their idea of a 'nice message' and mine differ somewhat.

A generic 'Hi, do you fancy a chat' or something similar is more often the case..... usually from people who have chosen to ignore what it says on the profile.

Excluding the question "fancy a shag" is no excuse to ignore people's preferences and then 'expect' a generic minimal effort message to have a positive reply.

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By *ovlad1986 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bedworth


"Having been sent message from a number of people who have then gone on to post about 'sending nice messages' and either being ignored or whatever..... I can safely say their idea of a 'nice message' and mine differ somewhat.

A generic 'Hi, do you fancy a chat' or something similar is more often the case..... usually from people who have chosen to ignore what it says on the profile.

Excluding the question "fancy a shag" is no excuse to ignore people's preferences and then 'expect' a generic minimal effort message to have a positive reply. "

I my message was a little about me and how I fit in to what she looking for and I would not ask for a meet or shag in the first message

And I was just wondering if most on here was just down and out rude as talked to a few people on here and they have been nice To talk to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it you are nice to people and they are just rude back

What do you mean "you are nice"?

How are they 'being rude' back?"

Bump

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP... perhaps people are confused when they get a message from you. Are your messages similar to what you post here, I mean by that...well, your style of writing on the threads is nothing at all like your style of writing on your profile?

I would find that a bit fishy if you messaged me for example... I might not be rude about it of course, but ya know.

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By *ovlad1986 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bedworth


"OP... perhaps people are confused when they get a message from you. Are your messages similar to what you post here, I mean by that...well, your style of writing on the threads is nothing at all like your style of writing on your profile?

I would find that a bit fishy if you messaged me for example... I might not be rude about it of course, but ya know.

"

I have dyslexia so typing not best bit about me and on my profile I have looked over and over to see how I can make it stand out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wasn't refering to spelling. I was refering to 'style' but yeah, ok.

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By *ovlad1986 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bedworth


"I wasn't refering to spelling. I was refering to 'style' but yeah, ok."

What you mean then ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not so sure you do read profiles, you recently messaged me and don't fit all that I am looking for. I did reply politely.

As for previous poster talking about how you write on forum and how profile has been written, it comes across to me as if two different people have done the writing.

The profile has been put together well, grammatical, broken down into paragraphs.

Messages on here seem to be more one long sentence without commas etc, hence completely different styles of writing

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By *ovlad1986 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bedworth

Ok sorry I did as I have posted I looked over and over what to put in my and when I message you

I was still getting use to mailing people but I will start to take more time on my posts so will take me a longer time to reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't look for the meet let the meet find you . You havnt wasted you're time sending a nice message so nobody can send a rude one back . Simples

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By *ovlad1986 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bedworth


"Don't look for the meet let the meet find you . You havnt wasted you're time sending a nice message so nobody can send a rude one back . Simples "

Don't think the meets would find me

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