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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone free now xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No one In Bolton free xx

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By *nubisIsisCouple
over a year ago

Field Of Reeds

Why don’t you put a meet up?

Anubis

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

The odds of this being successful are astronomically slim. Probably got a better chance of winning the jackpot twice in the run

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bolton must be busy. 32 minutes and noone was free in that time.

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By *nubisIsisCouple
over a year ago

Field Of Reeds

I know right

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


" Bolton must be busy. 32 minutes and noone was free in that time."

Bolton is a shithole, especially the town centre! There's no-one free because no-one wants to go there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The odds of this being successful are astronomically slim. Probably got a better chance of winning the jackpot twice in the run "

true story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don’t you put a meet up?

Anubis "

I did that once. … same result as doing nothing.

What’s going on in Bolton op? I feel like it’s the place to be today.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok ok thank you all so much for the positive vibes they are much appreciated.

Yeah I'm not exactly slow it's a dry post but I'm new to this site so can I have a bit of slack or you keyboard warriors just going to bully me xx

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

No one's bullying you. Just pointing out that this is probably the least effective way possible to get a meet.

Post up a meet in the meets section or actually go to a pub and try and meet someone would be my advice.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"No one's bullying you. Just pointing out that this is probably the least effective way possible to get a meet.

Post up a meet in the meets section or actually go to a pub and try and meet someone would be my advice. "

I'm not sure you can post a meet if unverified

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"Ok ok thank you all so much for the positive vibes they are much appreciated.

Yeah I'm not exactly slow it's a dry post but I'm new to this site so can I have a bit of slack or you keyboard warriors just going to bully me xx"

Good luck with it op.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What so go to pub and tell them where I am and come here.....

It's a bit frustrating as I just want to get off the mark xx

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"No one's bullying you. Just pointing out that this is probably the least effective way possible to get a meet.

Post up a meet in the meets section or actually go to a pub and try and meet someone would be my advice. "

Wasn't asking for advice... Just if anyone was free in Bolton.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I'm free. But I'm not in Bolton.

I really fancy a coffee and conversation though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Great I have now got one potential person but not where I am lol xx

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Great I have now got one potential person but not where I am lol xx"

If you use reply+quote it makes it easier to see who you're responding to

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Great I have now got one potential person but not where I am lol xx"

Have you tried putting your location on and searching who's near? Might be worth a go fella

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"Great I have now got one potential person but not where I am lol xx"

Zoom and a kettle?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Great I have now got one potential person but not where I am lol xx

If you use reply+quote it makes it easier to see who you're responding to"

Thanks for thar.... I'm really new to this site xx

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

I'm not free. Can I ask the OP what he's heard about this site? X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not free. Can I ask the OP what he's heard about this site? X "

I assume you mean myself, a colleague from work told me about it xx

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I'm free. But I'm not in Bolton.

I really fancy a coffee and conversation though "

Come to Bolton! Guaranteed chat for you there (but maybe not in the town centre).

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Great I have now got one potential person but not where I am lol xx

If you use reply+quote it makes it easier to see who you're responding to

Thanks for thar.... I'm really new to this site xx"

No worries. Helping each other out makes everyone's fab forum experience a little bit brighter after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What so go to pub and tell them where I am and come here.....

It's a bit frustrating as I just want to get off the mark xx"

Yeaaahhhh it takes a lot more than just posting up like this to "get off the mark". Interact on the forums. Build a rapport with others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone free now xx"

try tinder this is site for swingers

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I'm free. But I'm not in Bolton.

I really fancy a coffee and conversation though

Come to Bolton! Guaranteed chat for you there (but maybe not in the town centre). "

Mrs KC... are you asking me out?

(Please say yes, please say yes, please say yes... crosses fingers and makes that face that looks a little like I'm trying not to poop my pants and a little like I'm praying)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah kinda got the hint I'm shit and you lot are boss.

But thanks for the confidence boost xx

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Yeah kinda got the hint I'm shit and you lot are boss.

But thanks for the confidence boost xx"

You're not shit, OP.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah kinda got the hint I'm shit and you lot are boss.

But thanks for the confidence boost xx

You're not shit, OP."

Appreciate it hun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah kinda got the hint I'm shit and you lot are boss.

But thanks for the confidence boost xx"

It's not anyone's boss or shit. You just need to think of it as the same way you converse with people normally. We're still people on here. Join in the chat. Get to know people

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Yeah kinda got the hint I'm shit and you lot are boss.

But thanks for the confidence boost xx

It's not anyone's boss or shit. You just need to think of it as the same way you converse with people normally. We're still people on here. Join in the chat. Get to know people"

Think of it as a bar. Chat and see what happens. This is good advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers xx

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West


"Yeah kinda got the hint I'm shit and you lot are boss.

But thanks for the confidence boost xx"

There is lots of information on fab for those newbies who want advice. Spend some time having a look. It’s not instashag though far from it. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah kinda got the hint I'm shit and you lot are boss.

But thanks for the confidence boost xx

It's not anyone's boss or shit. You just need to think of it as the same way you converse with people normally. We're still people on here. Join in the chat. Get to know people

Think of it as a bar. Chat and see what happens. This is good advice "

I do have good advice sometimes hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah kinda got the hint I'm shit and you lot are boss.

But thanks for the confidence boost xx"

I think a lot of people here on the forum are just at home, having a bit of a laugh on here, just friendly banter. So I wouldn't take anything to heart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah kinda got the hint I'm shit and you lot are boss.

But thanks for the confidence boost xx"

We're definitely not bosses, and you're not shit...in fact we probably experience exactly the same amount of frustration and rejection.

Like someone above said, treat it as a bar? You wouldn't walk in and say who wants a shag then get disappointed when noone responds immediately?

One caveat....treat it like a Starwars bar!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yea yeah I'm getting the point mare and thanks for the advice x

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"Great I have now got one potential person but not where I am lol xx

If you use reply+quote it makes it easier to see who you're responding to

Thanks for thar.... I'm really new to this site xx

No worries. Helping each other out makes everyone's fab forum experience a little bit brighter after all"

Seems not everyone shares your view of it posh.

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By *ob Carpe DiemMan
over a year ago

Torquay

I read this as Bolton is now a free town

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah kinda got the hint I'm shit and you lot are boss.

But thanks for the confidence boost xx

We're definitely not bosses, and you're not shit...in fact we probably experience exactly the same amount of frustration and rejection.

Like someone above said, treat it as a bar? You wouldn't walk in and say who wants a shag then get disappointed when noone responds immediately?

One caveat....treat it like a Starwars bar!!! "

Can I be jabba the hut??? Hahaha

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"What so go to pub and tell them where I am and come here.....

It's a bit frustrating as I just want to get off the mark xx

Yeaaahhhh it takes a lot more than just posting up like this to "get off the mark". Interact on the forums. Build a rapport with others"

That's what he's doing isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fuck me I will be anikin the virgin xx

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West


"What so go to pub and tell them where I am and come here.....

It's a bit frustrating as I just want to get off the mark xx

Yeaaahhhh it takes a lot more than just posting up like this to "get off the mark". Interact on the forums. Build a rapport with others

That's what he's doing isn't it? "

Not really no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What so go to pub and tell them where I am and come here.....

It's a bit frustrating as I just want to get off the mark xx

Yeaaahhhh it takes a lot more than just posting up like this to "get off the mark". Interact on the forums. Build a rapport with others

That's what he's doing isn't it? "

It's not hoe we saw it tbh.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Fuck me I will be anikin the virgin xx"

You need to put effort in in you want to get out anything from fab and you arnt at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one's bullying you. Just pointing out that this is probably the least effective way possible to get a meet.

Post up a meet in the meets section or actually go to a pub and try and meet someone would be my advice. "

It's also hardly friendly. It is possible to suggest someone may have more success by posting a meat rather than a lot of the sarcasm that has been happening.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

See fab forums providing its traditional warm welcome to new guys. Be proud.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone free now xx

try tinder this is site for swingers "

So swingers can't meet for coffee no? Swingers can't meet at very short notice no?

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"See fab forums providing its traditional warm welcome to new guys. Be proud. "

Are you fed up too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah kinda got the hint I'm shit and you lot are boss.

But thanks for the confidence boost xx

It's not anyone's boss or shit. You just need to think of it as the same way you converse with people normally. We're still people on here. Join in the chat. Get to know people"

Absolutely nothing wrong with the way this poster has asked for anything. Definitely something wrong with some of the responses though.

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville


"I'm not free. Can I ask the OP what he's heard about this site? X

I assume you mean myself, a colleague from work told me about it xx"

Yes you're the OP cos you started the thread, what did your mate from work tell you about this site? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not free. Can I ask the OP what he's heard about this site? X

I assume you mean myself, a colleague from work told me about it xx

Yes you're the OP cos you started the thread, what did your mate from work tell you about this site? X"

Why does that matter? If the OP was woman Would you feel the need to question the post or what they have been told about the site. He is simply asking a question and this thread is exactly why the forums are not a fun place to be at the moment.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"What so go to pub and tell them where I am and come here.....

It's a bit frustrating as I just want to get off the mark xx

Yeaaahhhh it takes a lot more than just posting up like this to "get off the mark". Interact on the forums. Build a rapport with others

That's what he's doing isn't it?

Not really no "

Interact on the forums?

So he isn't starting a thread and interacting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What so go to pub and tell them where I am and come here.....

It's a bit frustrating as I just want to get off the mark xx

Yeaaahhhh it takes a lot more than just posting up like this to "get off the mark". Interact on the forums. Build a rapport with others

That's what he's doing isn't it?

Not really no

Interact on the forums?

So he isn't starting a thread and interacting? "

Yes I did spot the irony in this one.

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville


"I'm not free. Can I ask the OP what he's heard about this site? X

I assume you mean myself, a colleague from work told me about it xx

Yes you're the OP cos you started the thread, what did your mate from work tell you about this site? X

Why does that matter? If the OP was woman Would you feel the need to question the post or what they have been told about the site. He is simply asking a question and this thread is exactly why the forums are not a fun place to be at the moment. "

Am I not allowed to ask the OP a question, he may be on here for a quick hook up, or he may be a swinger? I'm entitled to ask surely to goodness! I'd ask the same question to a woman if I needed to check

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not free. Can I ask the OP what he's heard about this site? X

I assume you mean myself, a colleague from work told me about it xx

Yes you're the OP cos you started the thread, what did your mate from work tell you about this site? X

Why does that matter? If the OP was woman Would you feel the need to question the post or what they have been told about the site. He is simply asking a question and this thread is exactly why the forums are not a fun place to be at the moment.

Am I not allowed to ask the OP a question, he may be on here for a quick hook up, or he may be a swinger? I'm entitled to ask surely to goodness! I'd ask the same question to a woman if I needed to check "

But what do you need to check?

And of course you're allowed to ask a question and I'm allowed to ask why you felt the need. The OP simply asked if anyone was free in Bolton now. Doesn't matter who told him about the site or what he expected from it. It doesn't matter why hes here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP welcome to the site. It might be worth being a little bit more specific in what you mean. I hope you stick around the forums and enjoy them. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP welcome to the site. It might be worth being a little bit more specific in what you mean. I hope you stick around the forums and enjoy them. X"

Appreciate it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah kinda got the hint I'm shit and you lot are boss.

But thanks for the confidence boost xx

It's not anyone's boss or shit. You just need to think of it as the same way you converse with people normally. We're still people on here. Join in the chat. Get to know people

Absolutely nothing wrong with the way this poster has asked for anything. Definitely something wrong with some of the responses though. "

Didn't say there was. If that's how he wanted to start off then ok. I was merely offering a way for the op to get more traction on posts. If meeting this way is your thing the go knock yourself out. Its not for us.

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville


"I'm not free. Can I ask the OP what he's heard about this site? X

I assume you mean myself, a colleague from work told me about it xx

Yes you're the OP cos you started the thread, what did your mate from work tell you about this site? X

Why does that matter? If the OP was woman Would you feel the need to question the post or what they have been told about the site. He is simply asking a question and this thread is exactly why the forums are not a fun place to be at the moment.

Am I not allowed to ask the OP a question, he may be on here for a quick hook up, or he may be a swinger? I'm entitled to ask surely to goodness! I'd ask the same question to a woman if I needed to check

But what do you need to check?

And of course you're allowed to ask a question and I'm allowed to ask why you felt the need. The OP simply asked if anyone was free in Bolton now. Doesn't matter who told him about the site or what he expected from it. It doesn't matter why hes here. "

I think that it does, hence why I asked him a genuine question

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West


"I'm not free. Can I ask the OP what he's heard about this site? X

I assume you mean myself, a colleague from work told me about it xx

Yes you're the OP cos you started the thread, what did your mate from work tell you about this site? X

Why does that matter? If the OP was woman Would you feel the need to question the post or what they have been told about the site. He is simply asking a question and this thread is exactly why the forums are not a fun place to be at the moment.

Am I not allowed to ask the OP a question, he may be on here for a quick hook up, or he may be a swinger? I'm entitled to ask surely to goodness! I'd ask the same question to a woman if I needed to check

But what do you need to check?

And of course you're allowed to ask a question and I'm allowed to ask why you felt the need. The OP simply asked if anyone was free in Bolton now. Doesn't matter who told him about the site or what he expected from it. It doesn't matter why hes here. "

Well being more specific saves people asking doesn’t it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not free. Can I ask the OP what he's heard about this site? X

I assume you mean myself, a colleague from work told me about it xx

Yes you're the OP cos you started the thread, what did your mate from work tell you about this site? X

Why does that matter? If the OP was woman Would you feel the need to question the post or what they have been told about the site. He is simply asking a question and this thread is exactly why the forums are not a fun place to be at the moment.

Am I not allowed to ask the OP a question, he may be on here for a quick hook up, or he may be a swinger? I'm entitled to ask surely to goodness! I'd ask the same question to a woman if I needed to check

But what do you need to check?

And of course you're allowed to ask a question and I'm allowed to ask why you felt the need. The OP simply asked if anyone was free in Bolton now. Doesn't matter who told him about the site or what he expected from it. It doesn't matter why hes here.

Well being more specific saves people asking doesn’t it? "

Being more specific about what he would like to do today in Bolton absolutely. What he has heard about the site is irrelevant.

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville


"I'm not free. Can I ask the OP what he's heard about this site? X

I assume you mean myself, a colleague from work told me about it xx

Yes you're the OP cos you started the thread, what did your mate from work tell you about this site? X

Why does that matter? If the OP was woman Would you feel the need to question the post or what they have been told about the site. He is simply asking a question and this thread is exactly why the forums are not a fun place to be at the moment.

Am I not allowed to ask the OP a question, he may be on here for a quick hook up, or he may be a swinger? I'm entitled to ask surely to goodness! I'd ask the same question to a woman if I needed to check

But what do you need to check?

And of course you're allowed to ask a question and I'm allowed to ask why you felt the need. The OP simply asked if anyone was free in Bolton now. Doesn't matter who told him about the site or what he expected from it. It doesn't matter why hes here.

Well being more specific saves people asking doesn’t it? "

Thank you that's absolutely why I asked.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


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Seems not everyone shares your view of it posh. "

Way I see it, the Lounge is like a pub... and everyone starts off as the person that walks through the door for the first time.

Takes balls to do that when you don't know anyone and it's nice to welcome people with a smile and a "how are you" rather than have the whole place go silent and stare at you... or start the "banter" before you know the regulars and know the rhythm.

We've all got our own way of doing things, that's just mine. Others greet new folk by engaging them in banter and assuming they'll join in. I'll do me, others can do them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not free. Can I ask the OP what he's heard about this site? X

I assume you mean myself, a colleague from work told me about it xx

Yes you're the OP cos you started the thread, what did your mate from work tell you about this site? X

Why does that matter? If the OP was woman Would you feel the need to question the post or what they have been told about the site. He is simply asking a question and this thread is exactly why the forums are not a fun place to be at the moment.

Am I not allowed to ask the OP a question, he may be on here for a quick hook up, or he may be a swinger? I'm entitled to ask surely to goodness! I'd ask the same question to a woman if I needed to check

But what do you need to check?

And of course you're allowed to ask a question and I'm allowed to ask why you felt the need. The OP simply asked if anyone was free in Bolton now. Doesn't matter who told him about the site or what he expected from it. It doesn't matter why hes here.

Well being more specific saves people asking doesn’t it?

Being more specific about what he would like to do today in Bolton absolutely. What he has heard about the site is irrelevant. "

Actually I think your wrong about know what he's heard about the site.

We won't interact with people just after fucking as many people as they can. So for this know his motives for joining let us know if he's what we're looking for

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"I'm not free. Can I ask the OP what he's heard about this site? X

I assume you mean myself, a colleague from work told me about it xx

Yes you're the OP cos you started the thread, what did your mate from work tell you about this site? X

Why does that matter? If the OP was woman Would you feel the need to question the post or what they have been told about the site. He is simply asking a question and this thread is exactly why the forums are not a fun place to be at the moment.

Am I not allowed to ask the OP a question, he may be on here for a quick hook up, or he may be a swinger? I'm entitled to ask surely to goodness! I'd ask the same question to a woman if I needed to check

But what do you need to check?

And of course you're allowed to ask a question and I'm allowed to ask why you felt the need. The OP simply asked if anyone was free in Bolton now. Doesn't matter who told him about the site or what he expected from it. It doesn't matter why hes here.

Well being more specific saves people asking doesn’t it?

Being more specific about what he would like to do today in Bolton absolutely. What he has heard about the site is irrelevant. "

Maybe he heard it was full of welcoming open minded friendly folks who like to socialise?

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Also... people will read text communication in different ways, and sometimes something can come across as moody or whatever when it isn't

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West


"I'm not free. Can I ask the OP what he's heard about this site? X

I assume you mean myself, a colleague from work told me about it xx

Yes you're the OP cos you started the thread, what did your mate from work tell you about this site? X

Why does that matter? If the OP was woman Would you feel the need to question the post or what they have been told about the site. He is simply asking a question and this thread is exactly why the forums are not a fun place to be at the moment.

Am I not allowed to ask the OP a question, he may be on here for a quick hook up, or he may be a swinger? I'm entitled to ask surely to goodness! I'd ask the same question to a woman if I needed to check

But what do you need to check?

And of course you're allowed to ask a question and I'm allowed to ask why you felt the need. The OP simply asked if anyone was free in Bolton now. Doesn't matter who told him about the site or what he expected from it. It doesn't matter why hes here.

Well being more specific saves people asking doesn’t it?

Being more specific about what he would like to do today in Bolton absolutely. What he has heard about the site is irrelevant.

Maybe he heard it was full of welcoming open minded friendly folks who like to socialise? "

Why are you being so negative. Not getting any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also... people will read text communication in different ways, and sometimes something can come across as moody or whatever when it isn't "

Absolutely but also people will unwelcome or that they have somehow made a mistake. The poor op simply asked if people were free today in Bolton.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also... people will read text communication in different ways, and sometimes something can come across as moody or whatever when it isn't "
this. Threads can sure degenerate into bickering fast.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not free. Can I ask the OP what he's heard about this site? X

I assume you mean myself, a colleague from work told me about it xx

Yes you're the OP cos you started the thread, what did your mate from work tell you about this site? X

Why does that matter? If the OP was woman Would you feel the need to question the post or what they have been told about the site. He is simply asking a question and this thread is exactly why the forums are not a fun place to be at the moment.

Am I not allowed to ask the OP a question, he may be on here for a quick hook up, or he may be a swinger? I'm entitled to ask surely to goodness! I'd ask the same question to a woman if I needed to check

But what do you need to check?

And of course you're allowed to ask a question and I'm allowed to ask why you felt the need. The OP simply asked if anyone was free in Bolton now. Doesn't matter who told him about the site or what he expected from it. It doesn't matter why hes here.

Well being more specific saves people asking doesn’t it?

Being more specific about what he would like to do today in Bolton absolutely. What he has heard about the site is irrelevant.

Maybe he heard it was full of welcoming open minded friendly folks who like to socialise?

Why are you being so negative. Not getting any "

Absolutely no need for that!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ha ha ha stop all this nonsense and make love to me ha ha xx

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Also... people will read text communication in different ways, and sometimes something can come across as moody or whatever when it isn't

Absolutely but also people will unwelcome or that they have somehow made a mistake. The poor op simply asked if people were free today in Bolton. "

He did indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also... people will read text communication in different ways, and sometimes something can come across as moody or whatever when it isn't this. Threads can sure degenerate into bickering fast. "

It's not a bickering fest it's simply saying to people there is no need for some of these comments. I see people moaning all the time that threads are clique or there's no new people and then we see a thread like this and have the answer.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"I'm not free. Can I ask the OP what he's heard about this site? X

I assume you mean myself, a colleague from work told me about it xx

Yes you're the OP cos you started the thread, what did your mate from work tell you about this site? X

Why does that matter? If the OP was woman Would you feel the need to question the post or what they have been told about the site. He is simply asking a question and this thread is exactly why the forums are not a fun place to be at the moment.

Am I not allowed to ask the OP a question, he may be on here for a quick hook up, or he may be a swinger? I'm entitled to ask surely to goodness! I'd ask the same question to a woman if I needed to check

But what do you need to check?

And of course you're allowed to ask a question and I'm allowed to ask why you felt the need. The OP simply asked if anyone was free in Bolton now. Doesn't matter who told him about the site or what he expected from it. It doesn't matter why hes here.

Well being more specific saves people asking doesn’t it?

Being more specific about what he would like to do today in Bolton absolutely. What he has heard about the site is irrelevant.

Maybe he heard it was full of welcoming open minded friendly folks who like to socialise?

Why are you being so negative. Not getting any "

Still being friendly I see

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"I'm not free. Can I ask the OP what he's heard about this site? X

I assume you mean myself, a colleague from work told me about it xx

Yes you're the OP cos you started the thread, what did your mate from work tell you about this site? X

Why does that matter? If the OP was woman Would you feel the need to question the post or what they have been told about the site. He is simply asking a question and this thread is exactly why the forums are not a fun place to be at the moment.

Am I not allowed to ask the OP a question, he may be on here for a quick hook up, or he may be a swinger? I'm entitled to ask surely to goodness! I'd ask the same question to a woman if I needed to check

But what do you need to check?

And of course you're allowed to ask a question and I'm allowed to ask why you felt the need. The OP simply asked if anyone was free in Bolton now. Doesn't matter who told him about the site or what he expected from it. It doesn't matter why hes here.

Well being more specific saves people asking doesn’t it?

Being more specific about what he would like to do today in Bolton absolutely. What he has heard about the site is irrelevant.

Maybe he heard it was full of welcoming open minded friendly folks who like to socialise?

Why are you being so negative. Not getting any

Absolutely no need for that!"

He is putting the site down. I’m sure the op doesn’t need to hear about the downfalls of fab

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Ha ha ha stop all this nonsense and make love to me ha ha xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *tarflyLouWoman
over a year ago

Preston


"Ha ha ha stop all this nonsense and make love to me ha ha xx"

Welcome to Fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bet you wish you never asked now lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely "

I wouldn't worry about it, I find that a status is best though, as it is focused to your area, whereas it's hard to find someone in the forum which is for all UK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you ventured into Wigan to see if anyone is free ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you ventured into Wigan to see if anyone is free ? "

No why do you know of any places xx

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Just wanted to make it really clear that my comments about Bolton town centre being a shithole was no reflection on the person who posted the thread. The town centre IS a shithole and getting worse, most people seem to agree who have known the area for a long time. It used to be half decent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wanted to make it really clear that my comments about Bolton town centre being a shithole was no reflection on the person who posted the thread. The town centre IS a shithole and getting worse, most people seem to agree who have known the area for a long time. It used to be half decent "

Are there plans to regenerate it. X

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Just wanted to make it really clear that my comments about Bolton town centre being a shithole was no reflection on the person who posted the thread. The town centre IS a shithole and getting worse, most people seem to agree who have known the area for a long time. It used to be half decent

Are there plans to regenerate it. X"

Allegedly but the council is no overall control so no-one can agree anything. There's been plans for years that never get done. Honestly, it's in a right old state.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So… Is anyone free in Bolton? Asking for a friend.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"So… Is anyone free in Bolton? Asking for a friend."

You might have a bit more luck than the op.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So… Is anyone free in Bolton? Asking for a friend."

Cheers xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just wanted to make it really clear that my comments about Bolton town centre being a shithole was no reflection on the person who posted the thread. The town centre IS a shithole and getting worse, most people seem to agree who have known the area for a long time. It used to be half decent

Are there plans to regenerate it. X

Allegedly but the council is no overall control so no-one can agree anything. There's been plans for years that never get done. Honestly, it's in a right old state. "

Who are you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wanted to make it really clear that my comments about Bolton town centre being a shithole was no reflection on the person who posted the thread. The town centre IS a shithole and getting worse, most people seem to agree who have known the area for a long time. It used to be half decent "

Previously worked in Bolton, I agree. It is a shithole, the town centre is mostly closed down shops now.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Op, I’m originally from Bolton actually born in a two up two down house on Waterloo Street. So from one Boltonian to another, get yourself down to the Gatehouse Moses gate area. Better chance in a club than on the forums.

The first time I started a thread on the forums I got some grief from another TV. I had called myself a TV and a CD, she took umbrage to my self labelling. So it’s not unusual for people with opinions to give those opinions some air.

Enjoy it on here and accept that they’ll be times when it’s better to ignore than to reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wanted to make it really clear that my comments about Bolton town centre being a shithole was no reflection on the person who posted the thread. The town centre IS a shithole and getting worse, most people seem to agree who have known the area for a long time. It used to be half decent

Previously worked in Bolton, I agree. It is a shithole, the town centre is mostly closed down shops now."

Op ask who's free not a tripadvisor review.

I don't know who need to know this but they have a Cinnambons there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wanted to make it really clear that my comments about Bolton town centre being a shithole was no reflection on the person who posted the thread. The town centre IS a shithole and getting worse, most people seem to agree who have known the area for a long time. It used to be half decent

Previously worked in Bolton, I agree. It is a shithole, the town centre is mostly closed down shops now.

Op ask who's free not a tripadvisor review.

I don't know who need to know this but they have a Cinnambons there "

I wasn’t replying to the OP though was I? I was replying to the person that I quoted.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Just wanted to make it really clear that my comments about Bolton town centre being a shithole was no reflection on the person who posted the thread. The town centre IS a shithole and getting worse, most people seem to agree who have known the area for a long time. It used to be half decent

Previously worked in Bolton, I agree. It is a shithole, the town centre is mostly closed down shops now.

Op ask who's free not a tripadvisor review.

I don't know who need to know this but they have a Cinnambons there "

Not any more.... Closed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bolton is a shithole, especially the town centre! There's no-one free because no-one wants to go there "

Now hold on just a god damn minute....

....you’re right actually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do people not remember how they felt when they first posted on here, when they didn’t know anyone ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people not remember how they felt when they first posted on here, when they didn’t know anyone ? "

Thanks for reminding me…. Damn, why did I even stick around?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people not remember how they felt when they first posted on here, when they didn’t know anyone ? "

My first post was about the nations favourite Katie Hopkins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore the taters OP, you are the one planning to go out and interact in the real world instead of being sat behind a keyboard

Good luck on finding someone to meet, I'm miles away unfortunately

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds


"I'm free. But I'm not in Bolton.

I really fancy a coffee and conversation though "

We have coffee on, milk will be steamed. Pop over.

C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok ok thank you all so much for the positive vibes they are much appreciated.

Yeah I'm not exactly slow it's a dry post but I'm new to this site so can I have a bit of slack or you keyboard warriors just going to bully me xx

You won't last most places if your first goto when criticised is to accuse people of bullying you.

Give your head a wobble and take what is said on board. You'll be better for it.

C "

Or maybe people should learn to be a little bit nicer. Your comment Wasn't necessary. I would say it is pretty close to bullying what has happened on this thread.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Yeah kinda got the hint I'm shit and you lot are boss.

But thanks for the confidence boost xx

It's not anyone's boss or shit. You just need to think of it as the same way you converse with people normally. We're still people on here. Join in the chat. Get to know people"

Or post if someone wants to meet . He doesn't have to do with what other people say he should do

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Yeah kinda got the hint I'm shit and you lot are boss.

But thanks for the confidence boost xx

There is lots of information on fab for those newbies who want advice. Spend some time having a look. It’s not instashag though far from it. Good luck "

He didn't ask for an instashag

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"Yeah kinda got the hint I'm shit and you lot are boss.

But thanks for the confidence boost xx

I think a lot of people here on the forum are just at home, having a bit of a laugh on here, just friendly banter. So I wouldn't take anything to heart."

It is only banter if the person you are "bantering " with is in on it

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"

Maybe he heard it was full of welcoming open minded friendly folks who like to socialise?

Why are you being so negative. Not getting any

Absolutely no need for that!

He is putting the site down. I’m sure the op doesn’t need to hear about the downfalls of fab"

He wasn't, he was pointing out how rudeand unwelcoming some people have been on this thread, then you were rude to him

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

To the OP, welcome to the forum. Your post was fine to post, if you want to post another in the meet section you might get more luck. In the meantime stick around in the forum, I promise you it isn't always so unwelcoming so please don't be put off.

If anyone spoils your next thread, click on the report link and a Mod with deal with it

Good luck

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