FabSwingers.com forum: Messages!!!!

By *cotmaster OP Man
over a year ago

Ayr

Why do properly written, well mannered, intelligent messages get continually ignored????

Or shud I just revert 2 txt speak and cum across as a total wnkr who has fuck all manners..................

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be honest I ignore peoples messages myself eg I just had a man ask if he could suck my big cock... if he read my profile he would know im not interested

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Have a look on the swingers board they are currently discussing it

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area

"Why do properly written, well mannered, intelligent messages get continually ignored????

Or shud I just revert 2 txt speak and cum across as a total wnkr who has fuck all manners.................."

depends what was in the message and what the person you sent it to was looking for probably.. might be worth searching the forum some big threads on this subject over last couple of days you might find answer in there...

No one owes you a reply.. if they arent interested they dont have to reply.. basically..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have a look on the swingers board they are currently discussing it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most likely reason? They aren't interested!

There's no 'right to a reply' - and expecting every message to get a response just results in frustration and a negative outlook!

Hang around longer than a couple if months and you'll soon learn! Some will reply and some won't. If they're interested in your profile, pics, interests - and of course your message - then the chances are greater that they will.

Good luck!

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By *cotmaster OP Man
over a year ago

Ayr

I'm aware know one owes anyone a reply but having received winks from fellow members ( which I understand to be a basic acknowledgement at least), having then written an informative message, they still get ignored.

I assume I should just revert to the bog standard message ' fancy a fuck doll'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The same reason profiles are not read lol. Don't let it bug you just block, delete and look elsewhere

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I read your profile.. I would just say no thanks.. .Im not submissive.People have to like what you write in your profile to want to continue speaking with you..That is how I see it anyway. Aside from that I find your profile picture off putting so most likely would ignore. probably not what you want to hear.

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By *cotmaster OP Man
over a year ago

Ayr

I don't mind hearing all sides and opinions, I'm not that far up my own ass that I can't take criticism and rejection.

My point is I assume that when they wink, they have read my profile (I understand the majority may not like).

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I never look at winks or friend requests.. so no that wouldnt apply. I look to see where the person sending the message is from and if its more than 40 I feel its a pointless situation.

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

"Why do properly written, well mannered, intelligent messages get continually ignored????

Or shud I just revert 2 txt speak and cum across as a total wnkr who has fuck all manners.................."

Perhaps this might shed some light on it

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/79519

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By *cotmaster OP Man
over a year ago

Ayr

I wouldn't expect either to get a response from someone at the other end of the country, then again I would have no interest in messaging someone else that far away. I tend to at least fairly realistic in that sense.

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