FabSwingers.com forum: Contradictions

By *ryandsee OP Man
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I am someone with much respect for everyone until given reason for that to change. I enjoy the forums and the chat, the banter and all the good info around. I have come though to notice some people contradicting themselves in different posts. It's quite revealing really and I now pay more attention to that. A sort of cross-referencing so to speak. I am sure some of you will have also noticed that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t pay that much attention to remember most of it but what sort of contradictions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I've never noticed that.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I’m sure it must happen from time to time OP. They may be like me and change their mind in the blink of an eye

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I notice it a lot.

I might even be guilty of it myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

I usually see the username and think "bullshit" before I've even read the comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I notice it a lot.

I might even be guilty of it myself

I think we can all change our minds though. I like to think I'm big & ugly enough to admit when I've initially got something wrong. There's a difference between that and absolute pig headedness ( is that a word?)

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

yes i think we all do it little bit,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I notice it a lot.

I might even be guilty of it myself

Well you've proved you talk rubbish

I like to think I'm big & ugly enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all do it eventually?

Frustrations, emotions, life's pressures must impact how we feel and react on a daily basis?

One day you'll see someone post about "Be kind, you never know what someone's going through in life", followed by "That guys an asshole" the next.

I have been known to contradict myself for these reasons on more than one occasion

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By *heNerdyFembyWoman
over a year ago

Eastbourne (she/they)

Absolutely, on the flip side though there is also an element of people misremembering what they have read.

They remember something based on how they interpreted it as opposed to what was actually written.

Combine the two together and it is quite common to have things not track consistently.

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

I think there are some (not many) posters on here that are more inclined to agree or disagree with certain other posters than share their own thoughts.

It's all part of any forum though

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By *heNerdyFembyWoman
over a year ago

Eastbourne (she/they)

"I think there are some (not many) posters on here that are more inclined to agree or disagree with certain other posters than share their own thoughts.

It's all part of any forum though "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes. Very much so, OP.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

My answers always depend on how badly I want to fuck the OP or the person I am responding to

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

Never noticed

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By *ryandsee OP Man
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Thanks for your comments. I was just curious. As most of you suggested, I appreciate that is not always as clear as just a simple comparison of posts

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I'm certainly aware of it from people I know and it's one of the reasons I refuse to engage with them anymore.

They contradict themselves publicly to suit their agenda and to make sure they are relevant in other people's lives while hoping nobody notices.

They contradict themselves from private comments to forum comments by demonising and lambasting someone in private and a few minutes later acting like they are fab besties on the next thread.

There are a few that I don't know at all but because they are very productive on here it's easy to pick up on their contradictory behaviour which is also tailored around validation.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I think of it as a community here in forums! There are those that when u see there name I think ohh God here we go! That tbh I don't care much for! (I'm sure there them that think same of me as I won't hold back in voicing my opinions politely of course!) And there are lots that i think ahh it's lovely so and so ! Just like in life situations work etc., x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I've noticed that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reserve the right to contradict myself.

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By *heNerdyFembyWoman
over a year ago

Eastbourne (she/they)

"I reserve the right to contradict myself.

No you don't *grin*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is full of contradictions lol I certainly think there’s a lot of people who play to the room to increase their chances of getting laid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forums on any platform are no different than Les Dawson and Roy Barraclough chatting over the garden fence. Gossip, gossip, gossip. The vast majority of it unimportant and I genuinely wouldn't notice people contradicting themselves, because their opinions on the whole are irrelevant, regardless if I agree or disagree. It's the reason I don't do any social media. Irrelevant people's, irrelevant opinions. I see the irony in writing that btw. However I do enjoy the Fab forums because of the swinging and sexual content. If it weren't for that though, the forums would be no different than Facebook and we all know that's a cess pit. So the short version, no I don't notice, because that's what people do, and I don't notice, because I don't really care

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I've probably appeared to be a contradiction today. Normally, I'm level headed, full of confidence and all the rest but today, I'm not in that headspace. It's not a contradiction, but a manifestation of having too much stuff to deal with. Normal service will probably resume another day. Probably.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Forums on any platform are no different than Les Dawson and Roy Barraclough chatting over the garden fence. Gossip, gossip, gossip. The vast majority of it unimportant and I genuinely wouldn't notice people contradicting themselves, because their opinions on the whole are irrelevant, regardless if I agree or disagree. It's the reason I don't do any social media. Irrelevant people's, irrelevant opinions. I see the irony in writing that btw. However I do enjoy the Fab forums because of the swinging and sexual content. If it weren't for that though, the forums would be no different than Facebook and we all know that's a cess pit. So the short version, no I don't notice, because that's what people do, and I don't notice, because I don't really care

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