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By *anger mouse and Emma OP   Couple
over a year ago

Honiton

I have a work friend that I have done nothing but be nice to for the last 2 years.

However she has just totally ignored me for the last 3 weeks. Can anyone just tell me how I can stop hurting just a little bit? I cannot get away from her as I work in the same room.

Please and Thank you

This is no silly game I am just hurting so much I could do with some help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There must be a reason she won't talk to you. Have you asked her?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Do you know why?

I don't think there's an easy way to stop hurting without stopping caring.

Can you ask her what the problem is?

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By *anger mouse and Emma OP   Couple
over a year ago

Honiton

I have tried just walked away from me

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Can you ask someone to intercede on your behalf?

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By *anger mouse and Emma OP   Couple
over a year ago

Honiton

I could try my supervisor on Monday

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I'd do that. You can't continue like this.

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By *anger mouse and Emma OP   Couple
over a year ago

Honiton

I really want to thank you I really do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there anyone you work with who is nasty to you? They may have given up on being horrible to you and instead spread rubbish amongst your friends

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By *anger mouse and Emma OP   Couple
over a year ago

Honiton

There is one boy not to keen on me but says hello and good bye at the end of the day.

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By *anger mouse and Emma OP   Couple
over a year ago

Honiton

I will speak to my supervisor on Monday

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Is it possible she has discovered you're on a swingers site and judged you on that ??

Just a thought

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By *assycitygirlWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I think if it's making your work place difficult to work in, then you have every right to ask for a conversation with her and have your supervisor or better still HR sitting in. It's awful to have a valued colleague and friend turn your back on you when you have no idea why.

Good luck OP, and I know it's easy to say but try not to dwell on it too much over the weekend, she hasn't given you chance to know why she's acting this way. In that circumstance you have no way of rectifying the situation, so until she does don't be so hard on yourself. X x

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By *anger mouse and Emma OP   Couple
over a year ago

Honiton

Just thank you to everyone

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