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Introducing new partner to swinging

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

By MysteryMan22PR OP Find posts by MysteryMan22PR Man

5 minutes ago

Preston

So I have recently been meeting with a lovely woman, not through fab, we get a long so well, the sexual chemistry is mind blowing, my predicament is the fact I still love to swing and have adventures, how do I addres this with my new partner without her running a mile and more importantly how do I ask her to come and explore with me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She'll do one of two things either run or stay

Question is could you give up swinging for her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She'll do one of two things either run or stay

Question is could you give up swinging for her. "

Thats the other question you need to be able to answer when talking to a non swinger about the lifestyle

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By *imandherPRCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes its a tricky one lol I just really fantasise about her with another woman but worried that will be too much for her to take in so early on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes its a tricky one lol I just really fantasise about her with another woman but worried that will be too much for her to take in so early on"

Has she said she’s bi and could you ask her about fantasies etc to see how open she is or where her mind goes when she fantasises.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes its a tricky one lol I just really fantasise about her with another woman but worried that will be too much for her to take in so early on"

Test the waters by asking her what her fantasies are. Then when she's told you maybe tell her you've thought about her with another woman. However if she's receptive to that you may have to be receptive to her wanting another cock. Also it maybe she's not into ladies but does want other guys.

Hope this helps op

Max

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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Yes even if she agrees to the swinging which theres a big chance she may not, there's another chance she won't be bi, I'm straight and I wouldn't play bi just because a guy wants me to.

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West


"Yes its a tricky one lol I just really fantasise about her with another woman but worried that will be too much for her to take in so early on"

So it’s all about what you want? I’d tread very carefully otherwise you might loose her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please communicate sooner rather than later

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

If you didn’t / haven’t had sec yet yet then I’d just go slowly and get to know and let her get to know your preference for non monogamy but definitely don’t have sex under a false pretence , not a good way to start a relationship.

In my experience some women are open to the idea but feel it’s wrong and so just needed to

meet the right man to lead them astray , some are just voyeristic and like being introduced to clubs but not swinging, but most are not happy sharing their man for a long time

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