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By *edwayman94 OP   Man
over a year ago

Gillingham

I truly have no luck on this site and I have no idea why? Any one know why? Surely I can’t be that bad looking lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the high viz jacket. Hard to see you?

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Bad looking ? You have a photo of a high vis jacket, and a photo of a cock sat with his pants around his ankles. No face visible (not saying it should be).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I truly have no luck on this site and I have no idea why? Any one know why? Surely I can’t be that bad looking lol"

Need more than 2 pics. And not just cock pics tbh.

Also use your bio to sell yourself. Why should the ladies pick you out of the thousands of other guys on here??

Max

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard to tell mate. I can only see a hi-vis n a helmet. Is this how you approach women In real life??

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By *edwayman94 OP   Man
over a year ago

Gillingham

Thanks for you input. Don’t wanna show face due to privacy reason but didn’t know the pictures was that bad! Will take this all on board. If anyone would like to Dm me and have a chat about it. Would appreciate it. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant show face and cant accommodate?

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

So, you're married then?

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Your profile content is very generic and tells the reader nothing....I don't have a six pack, looking for fun, I'm discreet, mail me.......

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By *edwayman94 OP   Man
over a year ago

Gillingham

Really that bad is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're profile needs to stand out above the crowd.

For men is difficult, need something to sparkle, grab the attention, humour, a hobby, something I could relate to etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op look at my profile for guidance...dont copy it but take inspiration, do you know I got 6 yes six views yesterday....follow my advice and you could be getting that many views...good luck and get those condoms ready

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"Really that bad is it?"

It's not that 'bad', we were just pointing out what we think might not be helping your quest

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By *edwayman94 OP   Man
over a year ago

Gillingham

Can anyone help me improve it?

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I’d be assuming married/cheating and you’d be blocked. Some on here willing to overlook that but there’s nothing there that’s appealing in any way. Also not a fan of cam verifications and that it’s a man but profile says straight would make me wonder also.

If you are cheating there are other sites and apps that cater to that sector

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"Can anyone help me improve it? "

Type in 'profile advice' into the forum Search box. There are lots of threads giving advice to what is often asked.

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By *edwayman94 OP   Man
over a year ago

Gillingham

I’m not cheating just don’t want people knowing

I’m on here!

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Try searching the forum as others in past have asked similar as yourself and you might pick up some useful helpful advice only you know

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"I’m not cheating just don’t want people knowing

I’m on here! "

Click on 'reply and quote' so we know who you are responding to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not cheating just don’t want people knowing

I’m on here! "

Why not your here as straight???

My guess is you are married????

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Then adjust your privacy settings and your filters accordingly so only site users can see you.

None of us really want to advertise the fact as people are judgmental idiots at times but you have to decide if you’re in or out.

It’s entirely possible to have pics that don’t show identifying features - you’ll also find advice on this in the thread search already suggested. Crop pictures, blur, use different colours and contrasts etc. check other mens profiles (in ?? stealth mode I’d suggest) purely as an objective way of seeing different types of pics DO NOT just have a ton of cock pics - boring!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP .... Be brave and put a smile on your profile it's such a nice one

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By *edwayman94 OP   Man
over a year ago

Gillingham


"OP .... Be brave and put a smile on your profile it's such a nice one "

Thank you so kind of you! X

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