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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are there any subjects that you feel shouldnt be talked about on here?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Are there any subjects that you feel shouldnt be talked about on here? "
should from a moralistic point of view or shouldnt from a "makes me cringe" point of view?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are there any subjects that you feel shouldnt be talked about on here? should from a moralistic point of view or shouldnt from a "makes me cringe" point of view?"

either

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

yes

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Adhereing to forum rules is a given.

I do feel that people share too much personal info on here....but some like to do it as form of getting support from forumites so i can see why they may share stuff that personally i wouldnt....all the fun of the forums i guess.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I'm easy (I know!) about any and everything being discussed. I don't read the topics that don't interest me. I stop posting on anything I get bored with.

I don't like it when people get personal about other people. Disclose what you want about yourself but don't expose someone else.

I don't like it when people attack each other instead of the point being made. I don't have to agree with people to continue debate with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

be careful talking about sex on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a newbie in here

What are the Forum Rules ?

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Vegetables. Bores me to tears

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"As a newbie in here

What are the Forum Rules ?

"

If you access the forum via the desktop site there is a link on the main forum page

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As a newbie in here

What are the Forum Rules ?

"

theres a list of them somewhere but im on my mobile so cant navigate you to the right place unfortunately.

Welcome to the forums though.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"As a newbie in here

What are the Forum Rules ?

"

I don't know how to find them other than when you go to post a thread. Click through on the link there. That's what I did before posting my first time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Vegetables. Bores me to tears"

we've talked burgers to death though Ryan! Now, hot dogs is a whole other subject entirely!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres a few subjects i think shouldnt be allowed to be talked about on here, but then theres other that arnt allowed to be talked about and i cant see why

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Vegetables. Bores me to tears"

Fruit ok? It can all be burgers and kebabs.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I prob am the worlds worse but i do keep lot of my private life private...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sheep don't talk about sheep!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Vegetables. Bores me to tears

we've talked burgers to death though Ryan! Now, hot dogs is a whole other subject entirely!!! "

Not the same since Mr Fritzy went backpacking in Nepal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all seriousness to the op's question; I cringe at times when people openly discuss some very personal situations on here - it's just not something I'd do. But I guess those people get some sort of reassurance or comfort from the advice given. Not my thing though

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Maybe there should be a rule that says any subject cannot be repeated for at least 7 days or you get publicly flogged. That would keep us on our toes

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

[Removed by poster at 22/11/12 14:07:18]

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Forum RulesIn summary: If you treat other people with respect, you can't go far wrong. Don't forget that the forums are meant to be fun, if you find yourself fuming and writing long angry messages you're probably best taking a break from it.

How we moderate

We don't want the forum to be over-moderated, so we'll only remove threads where absolutely necessary if we believe it to be in the best interests of the site or where we're legally obliged to. When threads are closed the mods will add a note explaining why.

Threads we remove

Threads containing racism, threats, nasty stuff like that will be removed and the posters banned or given timeouts. We also don't want discussions of serious illegal subjects like rape, child abuse, illegal drugs because inevitably someone will post about their own crimes / experiences of crimes and we can get hauled up in court to provide evidence. We do this for fun and we don't want the hassle, sorry.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Threads about 40.3mm twin ion suppression valves always seem to go bad for dome reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you for that .. I'm using my phone so its hard to find anything

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Maybe there should be a rule that says any subject cannot be repeated for at least 7 days or you get publicly flogged. That would keep us on our toes "

and those who enjoy a good public flogging would keep repeating threads

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I hate those threads that start off one thing then for some reason start talking about my bottom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate those threads that start off one thing then for some reason start talking about my bottom."

Can't say I'm suprised

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I hate those threads that start off one thing then for some reason start talking about my bottom.

Can't say I'm suprised "

Don't encourage him. The whole fan club will be out and there'll be another Funky Bottom thread on the go. I know you're new but just search for Funky's bottom and you'll see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are there any subjects that you feel shouldnt be talked about on here? "

Television programmes-particularly mindless ones.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"Are there any subjects that you feel shouldnt be talked about on here?

Television programmes-particularly mindless ones."

What about Eldorado or Albion Market?

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"I hate those threads that start off one thing then for some reason start talking about my bottom.

Can't say I'm suprised

Don't encourage him. The whole fan club will be out and there'll be another Funky Bottom thread on the go. I know you're new but just search for Funky's bottom and you'll see."

I've really no idea how perfectly normal threads just detour and become about my bottom.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"I hate those threads that start off one thing then for some reason start talking about my bottom.

Can't say I'm suprised

Don't encourage him. The whole fan club will be out and there'll be another Funky Bottom thread on the go. I know you're new but just search for Funky's bottom and you'll see.

I've really no idea how perfectly normal threads just detour and become about my bottom."

It is a nice arse even if I/we do say so myself/ourselves

I'm allowed to say that 'cause it's not gay as it's only my arse but in a different timestream.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate those threads that start off one thing then for some reason start talking about my bottom.

Can't say I'm suprised

Don't encourage him. The whole fan club will be out and there'll be another Funky Bottom thread on the go. I know you're new but just search for Funky's bottom and you'll see.

I've really no idea how perfectly normal threads just detour and become about my bottom.

It is a nice arse even if I/we do say so myself/ourselves

I'm allowed to say that 'cause it's not gay as it's only my arse but in a different timestream. "

You two should get together, you'd make a lovely couple of arses - although I fear one may have a split personality!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shouldn't have a heart shaped bottom then wouldn't get discussed lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't believe I would have issues with anyone posting a thread on any subjects, just don't expect me to participate in them.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I cant think of topics that should not be discussed provided this is done in the spirit of the site and following site rules. I am personally only interested in a few and those are the ones in which I participate. Each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Vegetables. Bores me to tears"

Well there's a turnip for the box!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't believe I would have issues with anyone posting a thread on any subjects, just don't expect me to participate in them. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talking about other peoples' health or relationship issues bother me. If someones in hospital and you get forum members typing on here that they've heard from them and there having such a nd such test done etc...other peoples health issues are confidential and shouldn't be divulged, regardless of whether the person involved wouldn't mind.

Similarly discussing other peoples relationships. Again personal issues should not be up for discussion on a public forum

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