FabSwingers.com forum: Cougars….

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I was just sat pondering …..

Is it the age of the woman that makes her a cougar?

Or the age of the guys she meets?

Or the combination of the 2?

Always curious

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

I would say that it is with the age. I say from 50+ is a good cougar age

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

Most don’t like the term cougar

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I find most guys consider 45+ as "cougar" territory.

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

I’m only 42 and been called a cougar in messages before

I’m also not a mum but been called a milf

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By *hilledGuyClactonMan
over a year ago

Little clacton

Because my mate hates the term cougar,Her age 33

but would say mid 40's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s all relative. The younger the man the younger his perception of what a cougar will be.

Sort of how at 18 you think 30 is ancient then at 30 you don’t feel old at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s all relative. The younger the man the younger his perception of what a cougar will be.

Sort of how at 18 you think 30 is ancient then at 30 you don’t feel old at all."

One of my kids is 14 and just said 30 was middle aged. FFS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s all relative. The younger the man the younger his perception of what a cougar will be.

Sort of how at 18 you think 30 is ancient then at 30 you don’t feel old at all.

One of my kids is 14 and just said 30 was middle aged. FFS

I’ll just head over to the retirement home now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s all relative. The younger the man the younger his perception of what a cougar will be.

Sort of how at 18 you think 30 is ancient then at 30 you don’t feel old at all.

One of my kids is 14 and just said 30 was middle aged. FFS

I’ll just head over to the retirement home now

I'm close to death, myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cougar

Mature

Fine like vine ( wtf)

I hate those

I am only 40

But younger lads on hare are very bold sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s all relative. The younger the man the younger his perception of what a cougar will be.

Sort of how at 18 you think 30 is ancient then at 30 you don’t feel old at all.

One of my kids is 14 and just said 30 was middle aged. FFS

I’ll just head over to the retirement home now

I'm close to death, myself

We’ve had a good run.

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington

Cougar...

Informal - a powerful woman (40 or older, in her sexual prime, emotionally more mature and energetic) that is not as satisfied with men stuck in an old mind-set about women/ sex/ politics etc. Usually prefers younger men (or younger looking men )

Formal - a large American wild cat with a plain tawny to greyish coat, found from Canada to Patagonia

I always wondered why the association between the two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the age the guy is. Can you have a 50 year old guy looking for cougars?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now pondering what is the term for male cougar - I’m gonna go with DOM (Dirty old man)

(No one’s gonna know when I just say ‘ohhh you look like a Dom’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They would have to be 70 to be a cougar for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s all relative. The younger the man the younger his perception of what a cougar will be.

Sort of how at 18 you think 30 is ancient then at 30 you don’t feel old at all.

One of my kids is 14 and just said 30 was middle aged. FFS

I’ll just head over to the retirement home now

Average life expectancy in the UK is a smidge over 80, median age just a touch over 40 so 40 is give or take the genuine "middle age". However, as I refuse to accept I am no longer middle aged and are now old until I'm well past 50, I have to accept that your child is right and middle age is 40 +/- 15 years it starts at 25 and extends to 55

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Now pondering what is the term for male cougar - I’m gonna go with DOM (Dirty old man)

(No one’s gonna know when I just say ‘ohhh you look like a Dom’

Pervert is a common one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just call them women older than me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s all relative. The younger the man the younger his perception of what a cougar will be.

Sort of how at 18 you think 30 is ancient then at 30 you don’t feel old at all.

One of my kids is 14 and just said 30 was middle aged. FFS

I’ll just head over to the retirement home now

I'm close to death, myself

We’ve had a good run."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s all relative. The younger the man the younger his perception of what a cougar will be.

Sort of how at 18 you think 30 is ancient then at 30 you don’t feel old at all.

One of my kids is 14 and just said 30 was middle aged. FFS

I’ll just head over to the retirement home now

Mr"

That's some top notch fiddling there

I'm middle-aged and my child calls me it again there will be consequences! Hate the phrase.

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

I think it depends how old the guy is,

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Do you ever get Deja vu here...

(deep breath...)

So, based on a woman's age, this scale classifies women (who prey on younger men for their sexual appetite) as felines.

The scale is as follows:

Age 0-12: Housecat

Age 13-17: Bobcat

Age 18-21: Wildcat

Age 22-29: Lynx

Age 30-39: Puma

Age 40-49: Cougar

Age 50-59: Jaguar

Age 60-68: Panther

Age 69: Pussycat

Age 70-79: Cheetah

Age 80-89: Leopard

Age 90-99: Tiger

Age 100+: Lioness

Think we can rule out house cat and Bob cat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you ever get Deja vu here...

(deep breath...)

So, based on a woman's age, this scale classifies women (who prey on younger men for their sexual appetite) as felines.

The scale is as follows:

Age 0-12: Housecat

Age 13-17: Bobcat

Age 18-21: Wildcat

Age 22-29: Lynx

Age 30-39: Puma

Age 40-49: Cougar

Age 50-59: Jaguar

Age 60-68: Panther

Age 69: Pussycat

Age 70-79: Cheetah

Age 80-89: Leopard

Age 90-99: Tiger

Age 100+: Lioness

Think we can rule out house cat and Bob cat

Do we have to be preying on younger men? Can we just like them?

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"Do you ever get Deja vu here...

(deep breath...)

Do we have to be preying on younger men? Can we just like them?

It can most definitely be a personal preference

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I’d rather just be an older woman, not a fan of all these terms

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"I’d rather just be an older woman, not a fan of all these terms"

I'd prefer just to be a woman... why label anyone as anything?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d rather just be an older woman, not a fan of all these terms

I'd prefer just to be a woman... why label anyone as anything?"

We have lazy brains that love labels. A single word can convey a huge amount of information. I was picked up earlier on a word choice, not a label, something far simpler but it shows just how powerful words are. Also, despite what anyone says, we all love to label ourselves (you just chose woman as yours) and are incredibly possessive of the meaning we want attached to the words. It's only labels we don't like that we get upset about.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I’d rather just be an older woman, not a fan of all these terms"

Me neither. Would be a block from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d rather just be an old woman, not a fan of all these terms

Me neither. Would be a block from me with the zimmer "
your not old nora

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I’d rather just be an old woman, not a fan of all these terms

Me neither. Would be a block from me with the zimmer your not old nora

. Cheeky buggar you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you ever get Deja vu here...

(deep breath...)

Do we have to be preying on younger men? Can we just like them?

It can most definitely be a personal preference

I'm not a predator

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Do you ever get Deja vu here...

(deep breath...)

Do we have to be preying on younger men? Can we just like them?

It can most definitely be a personal preference

I'm not a predator

No, but I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you ever get Deja vu here...

(deep breath...)

Do we have to be preying on younger men? Can we just like them?

It can most definitely be a personal preference

I'm not a predator

No, but I am

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"I’d rather just be an older woman, not a fan of all these terms

I'd prefer just to be a woman... why label anyone as anything?"

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Most don’t like the term cougar "

But it’s on their profiles ….

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"Most don’t like the term cougar

But it’s on their profiles …. "

Who’s profile. Not mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get called this sometimes even though I don’t meet significantly younger guys lol

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"I’d rather just be an older woman, not a fan of all these terms

I'd prefer just to be a woman... why label anyone as anything?

Exactly this

I'm not a fan of being called a cougar or mature!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most don’t like the term cougar "

I'm not one, i like it. I much prefer it to "MILF"

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

"Most don’t like the term cougar

I'm not one, i like it. I much prefer it to "MILF""

Both are awful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think point of comparative reference as others have said, dictates terms sometimes.

As does the diet and rate of consumption of pornography, and intellect, and whether or not they actually really hope to get some.

So please, all you fitty milfy cougars in your late twenties, where are you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I find most guys consider 45+ as "cougar" territory.

But the ladies … what do they consider ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m only 42 and been called a cougar in messages before

I’m also not a mum but been called a milf

By a certain aged guy?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s all relative. The younger the man the younger his perception of what a cougar will be.

Sort of how at 18 you think 30 is ancient then at 30 you don’t feel old at all."

And the woman’s thought?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Cougar

Mature

Fine like vine ( wtf)

I hate those

I am only 40

But younger lads on hare are very bold sometimes

Only the younger lads?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depends on the age the guy is. Can you have a 50 year old guy looking for cougars?

Well as long as he has a young mindset (as above)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you ever get Deja vu here...

(deep breath...)

So, based on a woman's age, this scale classifies women (who prey on younger men for their sexual appetite) as felines.

The scale is as follows:

Age 0-12: Housecat

Age 13-17: Bobcat

Age 18-21: Wildcat

Age 22-29: Lynx

Age 30-39: Puma

Age 40-49: Cougar

Age 50-59: Jaguar

Age 60-68: Panther

Age 69: Pussycat

Age 70-79: Cheetah

Age 80-89: Leopard

Age 90-99: Tiger

Age 100+: Lioness

Think we can rule out house cat and Bob cat

Deja vu ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’d rather just be an older woman, not a fan of all these terms"

Not meant in a derogatory manner…. But just a term that most recognise and therefore can relate

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Most don’t like the term cougar

But it’s on their profiles ….

Who’s profile. Not mine"

your profile ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s all relative. The younger the man the younger his perception of what a cougar will be.

Sort of how at 18 you think 30 is ancient then at 30 you don’t feel old at all.

And the woman’s thought? "

Women don’t have thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These terms make my shit itch. I'm a woman, the end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes my shit itch, I mean I love the figurative imagery of annoyance being conveyed.

The literal imagining of it though, makes me wiggly.

I'm adding that to the collection

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By *cruffymooWoman
over a year ago

Skelmersdale

"Do you ever get Deja vu here...

(deep breath...)

So, based on a woman's age, this scale classifies women (who prey on younger men for their sexual appetite) as felines.

The scale is as follows:

Age 0-12: Housecat

Age 13-17: Bobcat

Age 18-21: Wildcat

Age 22-29: Lynx

Age 30-39: Puma

Age 40-49: Cougar

Age 50-59: Jaguar

Age 60-68: Panther

Age 69: Pussycat

Age 70-79: Cheetah

Age 80-89: Leopard

Age 90-99: Tiger

Age 100+: Lioness

Think we can rule out house cat and Bob cat

Lmao jaguar here.

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By *r AnalyticMan
over a year ago

Nuneaton

"I find most guys consider 45+ as "cougar" territory.

I would say a woman 10 years older than a man is a cougar. Ie guy 25 woman 35

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"These terms make my shit itch. I'm a woman, the end."

I had assumed I had referred to those that use the term for they would know how / why they come to the point of the label?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"These terms make my shit itch. I'm a woman, the end.

I had assumed I had referred to those that use the term for they would know how / why they come to the point of the label? "

You might of assumed that, but I can still respond to the thread

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

"Do you ever get Deja vu here...

(deep breath...)

So, based on a woman's age, this scale classifies women (who prey on younger men for their sexual appetite) as felines.

The scale is as follows:

Age 0-12: Housecat

Age 13-17: Bobcat

Age 18-21: Wildcat

Age 22-29: Lynx

Age 30-39: Puma

Age 40-49: Cougar

Age 50-59: Jaguar

Age 60-68: Panther

Age 69: Pussycat

Age 70-79: Cheetah

Age 80-89: Leopard

Age 90-99: Tiger

Age 100+: Lioness

Think we can rule out house cat and Bob cat

Lmao jaguar here."

I level up to Jaguar a week tomorrow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's genuine Cougars where I'm at. They scare me more than a wink from strangers on fab...pure muscle apex predator.

Which makes me ponder of how some, want to chase 'Cougars' yet ultimately they're the predator? What's supposed to happen in this dynamic?

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

" There's genuine Cougars where I'm at. They scare me more than a wink from strangers on fab...pure muscle apex predator.

Which makes me ponder of how some, want to chase 'Cougars' yet ultimately they're the predator? What's supposed to happen in this dynamic?"

I think they just like to try and make sure they're eaten alive

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By *ris007Man
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

Instead of cougar I say "more experienced " lol...

I manged to hook up with a teacher I had a crush on at school..ever since then I look for more experienced women

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"These terms make my shit itch. I'm a woman, the end.

I had assumed I had referred to those that use the term for they would know how / why they come to the point of the label?

You might of assumed that, but I can still respond to the thread"

Again, my point wasn’t that certain people can’t get involved but merely trying to understand …. The more the merrier for the thread it’s good to interact

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