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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I had a message a couple of days ago that I read and looked at the profile. The profile a 1 pic which was a standard dick pic and very little info on it so I didn’t bother replying. Today he sent a message telling me I should get tattoos on my face to cover it up! Why are some people so rude?

I’d love to have the time to reply to every single message but don’t!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just realised it’s a torso pic not a dick pic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know it sounds easy but ignore the haters, look at it from outside and you immediately think well that’s a dickhead right there, block and wonder who raised them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not the website that's the issue, it's the people that send the messages.

It's always been a thing and always will.

Take it as a compliment. They really wanted to fuck you. The worse the insults the more the fancy you and the sadder they are..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately the internet allows some people to be even more dickish than in real life. I got called boring the other day because I didn't want to suck the cock of someone I'd never spoken to before nor even seen a photo of

Block and move on, the issue is theirs not yours.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

There's no accounting for the sheer level of stupidity/impatience and cruelty you'll brush up against in the online world. It's best not to dwell on it and move on like they never existed.

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

I think I get abuse at least two or three times a week. You need broad shoulders at times to be on here. I reply then report and block the idiots now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not the website that's the issue, it's the people that send the messages.

It's always been a thing and always will.

Take it as a compliment. They really wanted to fuck you. The worse the insults the more the fancy you and the sadder they are.. "

This is so true!

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all so much. It’s the first time it’s happened thankfully! X

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By *ase4122Man
over a year ago

Lancashire


"So I had a message a couple of days ago that I read and looked at the profile. The profile a 1 pic which was a standard dick pic and very little info on it so I didn’t bother replying. Today he sent a message telling me I should get tattoos on my face to cover it up! Why are some people so rude?

I’d love to have the time to reply to every single message but don’t! "

Unfortunately some men on here just can't take the fact that not all women on here want to sleep with them, or even chat to them.

We aren't all like this and can only apologies for the idiots, there actions spoil it for the oral ones on here.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I wouldn't ssay normal, but perhaps more common than is desirable.

Ten years ago I had a message telling me I should be grateful for any attention as a fat 47 year old. I'm even fatter at 57, and get even fewer messages but questionable attention still doesn't make me want to submit* to their requests.

*Submission is what they really want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally think it’s just over eager men it’s definitely not you

I don’t usually make the first move think it’s more like club rules fab I don’t speak till I’m spoken to

Good boy like that

Also kinky fucker but there you go can’t have everything lol

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley


"So I had a message a couple of days ago that I read and looked at the profile. The profile a 1 pic which was a standard dick pic and very little info on it so I didn’t bother replying. Today he sent a message telling me I should get tattoos on my face to cover it up! Why are some people so rude?

I’d love to have the time to reply to every single message but don’t! "

Unfortunately it happens. Some men don't take rejection kindly. I'm afraid you have to develop a broad back on here and ignore the insults.

You look great by the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally think it’s just over eager men it’s definitely not you

I don’t usually make the first move think it’s more like club rules fab I don’t speak till I’m spoken to

Good boy like that

Also kinky fucker but there you go can’t have everything lol "

Over eager is a bit of a polite way of putting it.....they are rude, self entitled, self important fucking idiots.

To the OP, sorry it happened. Have to do your best to ignore it, block and reporting helps.

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By *ase4122Man
over a year ago

Lancashire


"I wouldn't ssay normal, but perhaps more common than is desirable.

Ten years ago I had a message telling me I should be grateful for any attention as a fat 47 year old. I'm even fatter at 57, and get even fewer messages but questionable attention still doesn't make me want to submit* to their requests.

*Submission is what they really want.

"

Curvaceous not fat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pay them no attention just block and report! I get multiple insults a week on here. Some men have fragile ego’s.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldn't ssay normal, but perhaps more common than is desirable.

Ten years ago I had a message telling me I should be grateful for any attention as a fat 47 year old. I'm even fatter at 57, and get even fewer messages but questionable attention still doesn't make me want to submit* to their requests.

*Submission is what they really want.

"

That’s awful! I think some people just expect others to fall at their feet! X

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Some folk shouldn't be allowed to adult if they can't act like an adult

Sadly you don't know who they are until they are already there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pay them no attention just block and report! I get multiple insults a week on here. Some men have fragile ego’s."

Just saw your status and I’ve started to just delete messages where people obviously haven’t bothered to read my profile! It’s so frustrating! X

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington

You need very very VERY thick skin to be on fab...once you are able to ignore the haters and ignorant people (which are quite a few I'm afraid) you will enjoy fab to it's fullest.

I'm sorry for your bad experience, but if you stay persistent, you will find some decent people on here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pay them no attention just block and report! I get multiple insults a week on here. Some men have fragile ego’s.

Just saw your status and I’ve started to just delete messages where people obviously haven’t bothered to read my profile! It’s so frustrating! X"

Don't read the profile, often send a unsocialised dick pic then post on the forums asking why they never have any luck on here

Miss S x

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Fucking nugget! Mind games. Block him. x

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington


"So I had a message a couple of days ago that I read and looked at the profile. The profile a 1 pic which was a standard dick pic and very little info on it so I didn’t bother replying. Today he sent a message telling me I should get tattoos on my face to cover it up! Why are some people so rude?

I’d love to have the time to reply to every single message but don’t! "

No it's not normal but it happens a lot. It's some sad pathetic little man who's upset you won't have sex with him so he all he has is insults.

Report, block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pay them no attention just block and report! I get multiple insults a week on here. Some men have fragile ego’s.

Just saw your status and I’ve started to just delete messages where people obviously haven’t bothered to read my profile! It’s so frustrating! X"

It’s annoying as hell lol about 95% of the messages I get are from unsuitable guys lol

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

these guys are so stupid they like school boy remarks,,

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field


"....Today he sent a message telling me I should get tattoos on my face to cover it up!... "

Message him back to tell him its a great idea, and you're booked in to get '*username of the idiot* is a limp dicked cockwomble' inked on your forehead...then block him so he can't reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just block the small minded people

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"I wouldn't ssay normal, but perhaps more common than is desirable.

Ten years ago I had a message telling me I should be grateful for any attention as a fat 47 year old. I'm even fatter at 57, and get even fewer messages but questionable attention still doesn't make me want to submit* to their requests.

*Submission is what they really want.

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Err.....you're hot to trot x

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

It’s just an immature dickish reaction from someone who thinks he’s being powerful, but in all honesty his Mummy never taught him right and wrong.

Rise above it, there’s plenty of decent guys around.

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

Barely spend time here these days, good to see things haven’t changed and people are still dicks.

OP, don’t worry one more minute about that person, block them and carry on chatting to people worthy of your time. It most definitely is not you, it’s them.

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

There are lots on here that behave disgracefully, from narcissists who think are God's gift to those that think there must be something wrong with you if you say no. That's why so may people have such long block lists. However there are lots of nice people too. As many said, block and don't give it another thought

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Just block op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it’s normal

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Some on here like him spoil it for the good ones! Ignore him! His not worth your time ! X

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By *olinOfBathMan
over a year ago

Corsham

Just block the Neanderthals.

Then, look for someone more mature and intelligent, with multiple verifications from meetings that describe him as respectful.

*Ahem*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore them babe!

I get called all sorts on here by men who aren’t really worth my time anyways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Abuse does happen unfortunately.

I got abuse because I didn’t reply within 20 minutes of his message, so apparently I was rude

You either block single men, or learn to brush it off (which is wrong, but that’s just how it goes)

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

Sad truth is, it's a free site and as such its legitimate community are subject to all the pathetic bullshit some individuals feel the need to put out into the world they are so clearly frustrated with.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Sad truth is, it's a free site and as such its legitimate community are subject to all the pathetic bullshit some individuals feel the need to put out into the world they are so clearly frustrated with. "

They're part of the community.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some bloke called me a boring cunt because I said we're not compatible. Something about me never finding anyone because I'm so awful.

I apologised and said I would love to meet him. He said cool... when?

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Some bloke called me a boring cunt because I said we're not compatible. Something about me never finding anyone because I'm so awful.

I apologised and said I would love to meet him. He said cool... when? "

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington


"Sad truth is, it's a free site and as such its legitimate community are subject to all the pathetic bullshit some individuals feel the need to put out into the world they are so clearly frustrated with.

They're part of the community.

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They're really not If they behave loke that.

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

It's unfortunately normal according to females I chat with, doesn't do decent blokes any favours, it's just a shame it may put some more timid female members off the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple fact is. Normality on here goes thus… oh my god you’re gorgeous. Sorry .. not interested…. Wouldn’t touch you with a barge pole anyhow you minger. Sums it up really

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