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Is the swinging lifestyle hindering my chances?

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By *rettyflamingo OP   Woman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

I have been a swinger now for the last few years and really enjoy the lifestyle. However, I am single and at the end of the day would like nothing more than a significant other to share life’s wonders with and grow old together.

Is living this lifestyle hindering any prospects of something more?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are people who want that out there you got as much chance being out n about than sitting home no matter what your doing

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"I have been a swinger now for the last few years and really enjoy the lifestyle. However, I am single and at the end of the day would like nothing more than a significant other to share life’s wonders with and grow old together.

Is living this lifestyle hindering any prospects of something more?"

Do you feel it might be?

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I would say it depends how you look at it. Would you want to meet someone to share this lifestyle with? If not then it may do. If you do then it may be more difficult but you're in a better place to find a compatible partner.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

It's probably reducing the size of your Pond for sure.

But depends on if you want to enjoy the lifestyle with someone else or leave it behind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say no not at all for me I find it makes it better

As when I am on a date I haven’t got sex on my mind so it allows me to look at the quality’s in someone’s without need to have sex with them

You can do both fronts

If you find someone to settle down with you can just leave fab and shut the door don’t need to tell them

As it shouldn’t hold any merriment against you for what you did before meeting the person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably. But you can’t pick who or where the person who wants something more with you is going to come from anyway

How many people you know are trying traditional dating with no success?

Partners who want to be more than just a quick fling will come out of the blue op. Just be you, it’ll happen when it happens.

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By *rettyflamingo OP   Woman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live


"I would say it depends how you look at it. Would you want to meet someone to share this lifestyle with? If not then it may do. If you do then it may be more difficult but you're in a better place to find a compatible partner. "

I’d like someone who enjoyed this lifestyle too

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Whilst this isn’t a dating site you probably stand more chance of finding someone here!

Dating sites are less about sex but definitely more about fuck and go!

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By *rettyflamingo OP   Woman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live


"Probably. But you can’t pick who or where the person who wants something more with you is going to come from anyway

How many people you know are trying traditional dating with no success?

Partners who want to be more than just a quick fling will come out of the blue op. Just be you, it’ll happen when it happens. "

Thank you lovely

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By *opman121Man
over a year ago

stoke on trent

This is fine for me , single life is good and some fun now and again

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I would say it depends how you look at it. Would you want to meet someone to share this lifestyle with? If not then it may do. If you do then it may be more difficult but you're in a better place to find a compatible partner.

I’d like someone who enjoyed this lifestyle too "

Then I would say being involved already is a positive. I've introduced partners to clubs and stuff before and it was useful we weren't both new to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say it depends how you look at it. Would you want to meet someone to share this lifestyle with? If not then it may do. If you do then it may be more difficult but you're in a better place to find a compatible partner. "

There's your answer

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By *ORBCouple
over a year ago

Dundalk

I don't see why it would.And surely it's better to be open about what you want,there will always be someone who wants the same as you. Be it on here or in life outside of here.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Obviously I’d say yes, because the majority of society isn’t into this stuff, so you are significantly reducing the pool of partners you have to pick from

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By *idnight RamblerMan
over a year ago

Pershore

That question really needs asking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I’d like someone who enjoyed this lifestyle too "

I think that’s the ultimate goal, but it’s a very hard thing to find someone for a LTR that is totally on the same page with regards to swinging and the inherent jealousy and trust issues that seems to come hand in hand with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don’t think it is

However, on here , as anywhere I guess - people are extremely fickle. They can tell you everything you want to hear !!!

I truly wish you all the luck

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By *estLondonDeepMan
over a year ago

London

It depends on whether a potential partner appreciates and understands the lifestyle. If not, there may be an issue.

Some men do look at a woman's past when determining if there's a future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably. But you can’t pick who or where the person who wants something more with you is going to come from anyway

How many people you know are trying traditional dating with no success?

Partners who want to be more than just a quick fling will come out of the blue op. Just be you, it’ll happen when it happens.

Thank you lovely "

You’re welcome.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

All sorts of things hinder your chances with some people but the same things increase them with others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends on whether a potential partner appreciates and understands the lifestyle. If not, there may be an issue.

Some men do look at a woman's past when determining if there's a future. "

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

OP I've had LTRs from stumbling across a fellow minded soul on Fab and it's just happened... then you find the balance as a swinging couple if that's what you both want.

There's plenty of other couple examples here now too who met through Fab.

Hang in there, and just enjoy what you're enjoying

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By *rettyflamingo OP   Woman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live


"It depends on whether a potential partner appreciates and understands the lifestyle. If not, there may be an issue.

Some men do look at a woman's past when determining if there's a future.

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This very true I’d ideally like to find someone already in this lifestyle

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By *rettyflamingo OP   Woman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live


"OP I've had LTRs from stumbling across a fellow minded soul on Fab and it's just happened... then you find the balance as a swinging couple if that's what you both want.

There's plenty of other couple examples here now too who met through Fab.

Hang in there, and just enjoy what you're enjoying "

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"I have been a swinger now for the last few years and really enjoy the lifestyle. However, I am single and at the end of the day would like nothing more than a significant other to share life’s wonders with and grow old together.

Is living this lifestyle hindering any prospects of something more?"

Without knowing you personally, how could anyone besides you, objectively and accurately answer this question in the first place?

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