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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you've never started a thread the question is why?

Confidence?

Afraid?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I usually just post any random shit that comes into my head

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I usually just post any random shit that comes into my head "

My question is for non thread creators,if thats a thing? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely it's an option to or not

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Can't be trusted

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely it's an option to or not"

Your right but my question is why? Not can you?

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

The couple of times I started a thread, I had one or two posts

It's just easier to comment on other people's threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely it's an option to or not

Your right but my question is why? Not can you?"

But I'm not getting the theory behind your question....its a choice why should there be a reason?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The couple of times I started a thread, I had one or two posts

It's just easier to comment on other people's threads "

But you've started some....I have to start a thread if something pops into my head,some good but most bad,im not fussed about being liked on the forums I do threads because no one is doing the ones I wanna post on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely it's an option to or not

Your right but my question is why? Not can you?

But I'm not getting the theory behind your question....its a choice why should there be a reason?"

Ok,so why dont you start a thread?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Surely it's an option to or not

Your right but my question is why? Not can you?

But I'm not getting the theory behind your question....its a choice why should there be a reason?"

Some people have previously commented that they're reluctant to start threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m to shy

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds


"If you've never started a thread the question is why?

Confidence?

Afraid?

"

I asked the posters but the My Little Pony ones just looked at me weird.

C

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I rarely start any because most topics have been done to death, and the crap that goes through my head is better left unsaid.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely it's an option to or not

Your right but my question is why? Not can you?

But I'm not getting the theory behind your question....its a choice why should there be a reason?

Some people have previously commented that they're reluctant to start threads."

But thats why I'm asking, why do some do and some dont? I'm just curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apathy...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m to shy"

But you've started threads so why sat that? Its just a question

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Surely it's an option to or not

Your right but my question is why? Not can you?

But I'm not getting the theory behind your question....its a choice why should there be a reason?

Some people have previously commented that they're reluctant to start threads.

But thats why I'm asking, why do some do and some dont? I'm just curious "

I know that's why you're asking.

I don't want to answer on behalf of those people though but they do give reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely it's an option to or not

Your right but my question is why? Not can you?

But I'm not getting the theory behind your question....its a choice why should there be a reason?

Some people have previously commented that they're reluctant to start threads.

But thats why I'm asking, why do some do and some dont? I'm just curious "

Because they just don't want to??

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

No one replies to my 'let's see your vagina pics' threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one replies to my 'let's see your vagina pics' threads"

You used the word vagina on fab...

They probably think your a gynaecologist

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

Ive started threads elsewhere in if I feel I have a question that needs answers or something original to bring to the table but dont start them here in the lounge.

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands


"No one replies to my 'let's see your vagina pics' threads

You used the word vagina on fab...

They probably think your a gynaecologist "
maybe I am

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"No one replies to my 'let's see your vagina pics' threads

You used the word vagina on fab...

They probably think your a gynaecologist "

Yea, you get strung up by your gonads for calling vulva a vagina.

Try pussy instead

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"No one replies to my 'let's see your vagina pics' threads

You used the word vagina on fab...

They probably think your a gynaecologist "

Yea, you get strung up by your gonads for calling vulva a vagina.

Try pussy instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m to shy

But you've started threads so why sat that? Its just a question "

Because like most of my threads it was an attempt at humour just like yours in the earmuff thread so chill out geezer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one replies to my 'let's see your vagina pics' threads

You used the word vagina on fab...

They probably think your a gynaecologist

Yea, you get strung up by your gonads for calling vulva a vagina.

Try pussy instead "

I think I've tried in vain to help him out

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By *owhambamMan
over a year ago

clacton


"If you've never started a thread the question is why?

Confidence?

Afraid?

"

I only pop into forum now and again, reading what others have posted. I’ve posted my thoughts but usually I’m days too late. Not got anything that needs me too start a subject

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"No one replies to my 'let's see your vagina pics' threads

You used the word vagina on fab...

They probably think your a gynaecologist

Yea, you get strung up by your gonads for calling vulva a vagina.

Try pussy instead "

Damn, I'll put the endoscope away.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've said on here before that not a single comment I made in the lounge was acknowledged or responded to for the first 18 months of using the forums.

If it hadn't been for the replies I got in the Irish forum I would have given up.

During that time I started a handful of threads, all of which disappeared and are floating in the ether without a response.

Even though I've started dozens of threads since I often start typing and then can't be arsed and delete it.

It's never been about popularity. If it was I would have walked away a couple of years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't answer your question because I do start threads I can tell you why I start them.

Because I want to is the main reason in all honesty, Some are just silly, some more serious and some asking a question I would like an answer to. Some get lots of responses, some get hardly any and others go completely off Topic. I don't let that put me off because If nobody started threads there wouldn't be anything for anyone to comment on.

What I will say is those that don't want to start threads because they are worried no one will comment just do it anyway as you never know and is the end of the world if they don't? If you think the topic has been done to death and nothing new could be added then maybe put a twist on it. Some people just don't want to start threads because actually it can be quite hard work. There are many many reasons but what I will say is people really shouldn't feel put off from starting any thread, A lot of it has to do with expectation and why you are doing it.If it's for affirmation it might not go as you expect.

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By *ister CMan
over a year ago

liverpool

I tend not to start them as I find the forums cliquey, full of people who seek to misinterpret, or just post vitriol due to being triggered. There's an alarming amount of uptight people within the 'community...

Sprinkle it with a healthy dose of white Knighting and there's the reasons.

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

North West


"If you've never started a thread the question is why?

Confidence?

Afraid?

"

I'd like to create threads, but I'm afraid of the "social tumble" of them dying unnoticed!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to not get any traction from my comments so I figure the same for a thread

Plus it seems so clique-ish & not entirely here

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Most of mine crash n burn

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

North West

[Removed by poster at 04/08/22 06:20:08]

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By *idnight RamblerMan
over a year ago

Pershore


"I tend not to start them as I find the forums cliquey, full of people who seek to misinterpret, or just post vitriol due to being triggered. There's an alarming amount of uptight people within the 'community...

Sprinkle it with a healthy dose of white Knighting and there's the reasons.

"

Ouch! That's a bit close to the bone

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Because there are very few topics where I am interested in the opinions or comments of strangers.

Other people however feel differently and invite it all the time

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