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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do people on here refer to sex as 'fun' can't we just call it what it is, sex. Surely it shouldn't be a difficult word to use?

Gives me the ick

Pxx

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I like the word, ‘shenanigans’

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I like the word, ‘shenanigans’ "

Ooh - good word.

How about 'rumpty pumpty' ?

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Play" as well. Children play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate “fun” and “playing” when referring to sex. It makes me cringe, seems a bit immature to me.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…


"I like the word, ‘shenanigans’

Ooh - good word.

How about 'rumpty pumpty' ?

A"

And that old classic; ‘A bit of how’s your father.’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like frolicks and frolicking

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Hmmm….I might opt for ‘Anyone want to slap bellies/knock boots with me?’

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I call is squelching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone fancy smooshing booties?

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I hereby declare I wish to engage in the act of sexual gratification with you

I most graciously accept thine offer of ones splendid penis

Shall we commence on the morrow?

Certainly.

...

wuu2 u wnt fun now?

??

??

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I don't particularly like "fun" or "play" but I can't think of better alternatives. It's not always sex. Those words do the job.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its all good fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex can be a lot of fun

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…


"I hereby declare I wish to engage in the act of sexual gratification with you

I most graciously accept thine offer of ones splendid penis

Shall we commence on the morrow?

Certainly.

...

wuu2 u wnt fun now?

??

??

"

Strewth! That’s rendered me throbbing that has

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I hereby declare I wish to engage in the act of sexual gratification with you

I most graciously accept thine offer of ones splendid penis

Shall we commence on the morrow?

Certainly.

"

Is it bad this would actually work on me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok lets fuck

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By *ildmanYorksMan
over a year ago

Doncaster & Bembridge

Open your legs, I'm going to invade your inner sanctum

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton


"Ok lets fuck "

Now??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok lets fuck

Now?? "
hard n ready

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But it's not always the specific act of sex is it.

Many many people on here do all kinds of various sexual activities that don't involve the act of sex itself.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

lets get naughty and fuck,,

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol


"I hereby declare I wish to engage in the act of sexual gratification with you

I most graciously accept thine offer of ones splendid penis

Shall we commence on the morrow?

Certainly.

Is it bad this would actually work on me? "

Maybe this is the reason I don't get many replies... My messages don't read like that of a dandy cad.

Look out ladies

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton


"Ok lets fuck

Now?? hard n ready"

On my way!! You best be on your back when I get there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But it's not always the specific act of sex is it.

Many many people on here do all kinds of various sexual activities that don't involve the act of sex itself. "

That is very true

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Most of the “fab” words and phrases give me the ick

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World


"Most of the “fab” words and phrases give me the ick"

Most of fab gives me that feeling ha ha ha

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Yeah baby, fancy a shag? Groovy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok lets fuck

Now?? hard n ready

On my way!! You best be on your back when I get there! "
i will be its about 3 hours il be fast asleep

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton


"Ok lets fuck

Now?? hard n ready

On my way!! You best be on your back when I get there! i will be its about 3 hours il be fast asleep "

S'ok, I'll wake you up

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

The word ick gives me the...nope, can't bring myself to say it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok lets fuck

Now?? hard n ready

On my way!! You best be on your back when I get there! i will be its about 3 hours il be fast asleep

S'ok, I'll wake you up "
il leave the shorts off n the door open stiffen it and climb on im sure il wake

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""Play" as well. Children play "

Exactly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"lets get naughty and fuck,,"

Can't stand the word naughty either

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever


"Why do people on here refer to sex as 'fun' can't we just call it what it is, sex. Surely it shouldn't be a difficult word to use?

Gives me the ick

Pxx"

Gosh, so true. I can’t stand the omnipresent “fun”, gives me the ick too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But it's not always the specific act of sex is it.

Many many people on here do all kinds of various sexual activities that don't involve the act of sex itself. "

I get that but the word sex can cover a spectrum, if detail is really needed then it can be given .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The word ick gives me the...nope, can't bring myself to say it."

Sorry!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Most of the “fab” words and phrases give me the ick

Most of fab gives me that feeling ha ha ha "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do people on here refer to sex as 'fun' can't we just call it what it is, sex. Surely it shouldn't be a difficult word to use?

Gives me the ick

Pxx

Gosh, so true. I can’t stand the omnipresent “fun”, gives me the ick too!"

See, glad it's not just me.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

What do you call the bits in between?

Is sex just penetrative or does it cover any form of genital activity?

Why can’t sex be “fun” if you have fun doing it?

Why can’t it be “play” if you are playful when doing it?

Using the word sex would be a misnomer for me as there are so many other things we do outside the envelope of genitals touching.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You wanna bummin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people on here refer to sex as 'fun' can't we just call it what it is, sex. Surely it shouldn't be a difficult word to use?

Gives me the ick

Pxx"

Because there's more to sex than sex, the whole experience should be fun. It depends on your version of fun too I suppose

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I don't mind fun to be honest, for a similar reason to fet above.

But if someone calls me their playmate? I'd probably not be one to them for very much longer. Even if it is irrational.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Also I’d remove the comment in your profile about having fun, especially if it gives you the ick.

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By *ackdaw52Man
over a year ago

Chesterfield

I had a "fun couple looking for fun" that kept messaging me with one word;

"fun"

I'll bring the Pictionary shall I?

But yes, I've always found it a bit odd that a community that prides itself on liberation and openness can't say 'sex'.

Instead we get nawty fun, playing etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Also I’d remove the comment in your profile about having fun, especially if it gives you the ick. "

Fun doesn't have to be just bumping uglies

E xx

(Who is possibly not ick'd by the use of the word, but would be boring if we all had the same likes)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Also I’d remove the comment in your profile about having fun, especially if it gives you the ick. "
I'm blaming Eros for that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally don’t really see the ick to it, but that’s just me.

Although I would use it in a past tense to describe the time I had with someone (not just about sex, might have been dancing in a club). “I had a fun evening with you”

I personally wouldn’t use it in a way of the word sex - “Do you fancy having some fun”

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"Fun doesn't have to be just bumping uglies "

I get that, so what word would you use instead of fun if you wanted to suggest to someone that you engage in some enjoyable activities that may or may not involve sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I get this

But I get far too much ick to be on here anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People can call it what they want, it’s all the same thing.

But ‘Play’ is my least favourite thing to hear or read. ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I personally don’t really see the ick to it, but that’s just me.

Although I would use it in a past tense to describe the time I had with someone (not just about sex, might have been dancing in a club). “I had a fun evening with you”

I personally wouldn’t use it in a way of the word sex - “Do you fancy having some fun”"

This is more what I meant, I just described it badly I'm not against the word totally, it's when it's used to describe sex.

Pxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fun doesn't have to be just bumping uglies

I get that, so what word would you use instead of fun if you wanted to suggest to someone that you engage in some enjoyable activities that may or may not involve sex?"

I think possibly because we're both Poly and looking for more than just sex and likely social more than anything else we just generally wouldn't be talking about sexual acts via an electronic medium.

So no specific word, not defining it and just letting things flow.

We'd possibly be more direct if there was a bdsm component to avoid miscommunique.

E

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

Yes fun is what you have in the theme park

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

How about " A good hard fucking "

That works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes fun is what you have in the theme park "

And do you fancy a go on the Big Dipper?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How about " A good hard fucking "

That works "

Works for me

Pxx

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Calling it 'fun' is childish...how about 'nuddy stuff'?

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