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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I split from my ex in January. I gave myself a few weeks then went back out there as a single swinger. I’ve been having SO much fun and had quite a few veri’s. I run my own business and swing by night and have done for many years.

A couple of days ago, ex’s mum started sending me awful message relating to my veri’s. Obviously my ex is fab stalking me and passing this on. I’ve hidden my page, but don’t think I should. Is this harassment and should the police be acting on it???? Any help is appreciated x

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

You should go to the police right away. These things to tend escalate sadly.

C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Copy/ screenshot all messages from them and note any phone calls. Info to use as evidence.

Definitely go to the police.

Was your ex a swinger too?

don't let them get you down.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes, we were both on there as a couple, but his mum didn’t know that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, we were both on there as a couple, but his mum didn’t know that "

Tell her! Let her know the truth about her son.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Interseing thread. A stalker ex tracked me down on here and I had to hide profile and change name hoping she wouldn’t track me down again

I’m on about 5 blocked numbers

2 blocked facebooks

20 minimum blocked insta accounts

1 blocked Reddit account

And now 1 fabs account

When do I tell the police?

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

“Should the Police be acting on it?”

Yes, and they will. Stalking is classified as Domestic Abuse.

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World


"Yes, we were both on there as a couple, but his mum didn’t know that "

Tell her, you may find the messages stop when she learns the real truth about her precious son and also tell them you will go to the police.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a dick move this is i get hes upset but this is like a little kid move aaaaaaaw im tellin ya mum on you fuckin loser

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Interseing thread. A stalker ex tracked me down on here and I had to hide profile and change name hoping she wouldn’t track me down again

I’m on about 5 blocked numbers

2 blocked facebooks

20 minimum blocked insta accounts

1 blocked Reddit account

And now 1 fabs account

When do I tell the police? "

I would have done so already. The other half had to do so with his ex as have I because she started following me in my car. My viewpoint after that is sooner rather than later and nip it in the bud. At least you have records of your complaint, in case she decides to report you and you've done nothing wrong.

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds


"Interseing thread. A stalker ex tracked me down on here and I had to hide profile and change name hoping she wouldn’t track me down again

I’m on about 5 blocked numbers

2 blocked facebooks

20 minimum blocked insta accounts

1 blocked Reddit account

And now 1 fabs account

When do I tell the police? "

After the first time.

They will laugh at you (like they did me) but by the time she had threatened to track down my kids and kill them infront of me, the pathetic twunks had stopped laughing.

C

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"Interseing thread. A stalker ex tracked me down on here and I had to hide profile and change name hoping she wouldn’t track me down again

I’m on about 5 blocked numbers

2 blocked facebooks

20 minimum blocked insta accounts

1 blocked Reddit account

And now 1 fabs account

When do I tell the police?

I would have done so already. The other half had to do so with his ex as have I because she started following me in my car. My viewpoint after that is sooner rather than later and nip it in the bud. At least you have records of your complaint, in case she decides to report you and you've done nothing wrong. "

I do worry because technically I don’t have any records of this. I just block and delete and I assume she deleted the account after to make a new one to get around the block

She’s messaged people I know in the past being mean or telling them stuff about me they don’t need to know

I’ve been reluctant to go to the police, mainly because I can’t be bothered, it’s becoming less and less now. And that can’t be bothered in compounded by th fact I don’t think they’d take it seriously anyways

I do worry what things she’s said to people I know and they just haven’t brought it up to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I did contact the police but clearly they are not taking it seriously and I’ve had no officer allocated to me. I didn’t want to make a fuss and make a fool of myself. I’m going to go down there and follow up x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interseing thread. A stalker ex tracked me down on here and I had to hide profile and change name hoping she wouldn’t track me down again

I’m on about 5 blocked numbers

2 blocked facebooks

20 minimum blocked insta accounts

1 blocked Reddit account

And now 1 fabs account

When do I tell the police? "

Today. Tell them today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interseing thread. A stalker ex tracked me down on here and I had to hide profile and change name hoping she wouldn’t track me down again

I’m on about 5 blocked numbers

2 blocked facebooks

20 minimum blocked insta accounts

1 blocked Reddit account

And now 1 fabs account

When do I tell the police?

I would have done so already. The other half had to do so with his ex as have I because she started following me in my car. My viewpoint after that is sooner rather than later and nip it in the bud. At least you have records of your complaint, in case she decides to report you and you've done nothing wrong.

I do worry because technically I don’t have any records of this. I just block and delete and I assume she deleted the account after to make a new one to get around the block

She’s messaged people I know in the past being mean or telling them stuff about me they don’t need to know

I’ve been reluctant to go to the police, mainly because I can’t be bothered, it’s becoming less and less now. And that can’t be bothered in compounded by th fact I don’t think they’d take it seriously anyways

*I do worry what things she’s said to people I know and they just haven’t brought it up to me "

* I have this problem but nothing I can do about it. If they believe what has been said then they are cunts and not worth my time or worry.

Can you screenshot any of the account info? Try and make a note of any details. You can ask the police for advice and they may be able to help.

Do you mean the stalking is less and less? Hope so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did contact the police but clearly they are not taking it seriously and I’ve had no officer allocated to me. I didn’t want to make a fuss and make a fool of myself. I’m going to go down there and follow up x"

Make a fuss. You shouldn't have to be anxious or fearful of this kind of thing.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"Interseing thread. A stalker ex tracked me down on here and I had to hide profile and change name hoping she wouldn’t track me down again

I’m on about 5 blocked numbers

2 blocked facebooks

20 minimum blocked insta accounts

1 blocked Reddit account

And now 1 fabs account

When do I tell the police?

I would have done so already. The other half had to do so with his ex as have I because she started following me in my car. My viewpoint after that is sooner rather than later and nip it in the bud. At least you have records of your complaint, in case she decides to report you and you've done nothing wrong.

I do worry because technically I don’t have any records of this. I just block and delete and I assume she deleted the account after to make a new one to get around the block

She’s messaged people I know in the past being mean or telling them stuff about me they don’t need to know

I’ve been reluctant to go to the police, mainly because I can’t be bothered, it’s becoming less and less now. And that can’t be bothered in compounded by th fact I don’t think they’d take it seriously anyways

*I do worry what things she’s said to people I know and they just haven’t brought it up to me

* I have this problem but nothing I can do about it. If they believe what has been said then they are cunts and not worth my time or worry.

Can you screenshot any of the account info? Try and make a note of any details. You can ask the police for advice and they may be able to help.

Do you mean the stalking is less and less? Hope so. "

It’s become less and less, I think she’s just getting bored of my zero reaction stance. Just block and move on.

I’ll start taking screenshots of stuff from now on and trying to make a record of things. Hopefully nothing comes of it, but stupidly I didn’t make records when I should have

Thanks

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Interseing thread. A stalker ex tracked me down on here and I had to hide profile and change name hoping she wouldn’t track me down again

I’m on about 5 blocked numbers

2 blocked facebooks

20 minimum blocked insta accounts

1 blocked Reddit account

And now 1 fabs account

When do I tell the police?

I would have done so already. The other half had to do so with his ex as have I because she started following me in my car. My viewpoint after that is sooner rather than later and nip it in the bud. At least you have records of your complaint, in case she decides to report you and you've done nothing wrong.

I do worry because technically I don’t have any records of this. I just block and delete and I assume she deleted the account after to make a new one to get around the block

She’s messaged people I know in the past being mean or telling them stuff about me they don’t need to know

I’ve been reluctant to go to the police, mainly because I can’t be bothered, it’s becoming less and less now. And that can’t be bothered in compounded by th fact I don’t think they’d take it seriously anyways

I do worry what things she’s said to people I know and they just haven’t brought it up to me "

When my other half spoke to the police they actually took it very seriously. But what we did was to screenshot things and kept a diary. So we had evidence against her, I strongly recommend you do the same.

Same she tried lying to the courts to prevent my other half from having access to his daughter. So the evidence he had collected was needed. She's also told other a huge pack of lies about him. It's only now starting to come out as she's doing the same shit with her new boyfriend.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"I did contact the police but clearly they are not taking it seriously and I’ve had no officer allocated to me. I didn’t want to make a fuss and make a fool of myself. I’m going to go down there and follow up x"

They can be slow, especially if there's no evidence of them physically abusive. But keep following up and nagging them. Remember to gather as much evidence as you can.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Thankyou I’ll definitely start recording stuff now

It’s different for me because I’m really not worried snout anything physical happening

But when I see that name pop up on my phone, my heart just sinks.

I should add 2x email addresses blocked to the list too.

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

Get fab admins involved as well if you can. They can block his email address from creating a new account.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Get fab admins involved as well if you can. They can block his email address from creating a new account."

My ex used to create a new hotmail account with every new user name so it’s pointless

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Interseing thread. A stalker ex tracked me down on here and I had to hide profile and change name hoping she wouldn’t track me down again

I’m on about 5 blocked numbers

2 blocked facebooks

20 minimum blocked insta accounts

1 blocked Reddit account

And now 1 fabs account

When do I tell the police? "

You should have already, 3 or more incidents is harassment.

You can try sending one last "cease and desist" message, then if it continues they've had fair warning.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Thankyou I’ll definitely start recording stuff now

It’s different for me because I’m really not worried snout anything physical happening

But when I see that name pop up on my phone, my heart just sinks.

I should add 2x email addresses blocked to the list too. "

It's causing you distress, that's reason enough.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"I did contact the police but clearly they are not taking it seriously and I’ve had no officer allocated to me. I didn’t want to make a fuss and make a fool of myself. I’m going to go down there and follow up x"

Definitely do. Or even better, email them, then there's a trail.

You have every right to make a fuss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you’re a site supporter you can see who is viewing your profile. Look for people who are repeatedly viewing it and block them.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I have been stalked by an ex for 6 years and here is one of the places he used to contact me after I blocked him everywhere else. I did speak to the police and I was very lucky to be interviewed by an officer who was a specific domestic abuse officer. He was great and I was totally open with him about everywhere my ex had contacted me from messaging apps to normal social media, through friends and on places like here. He was very non-judgmental and said it was likely my ex would use avenues like this because he would think I was less likely to report it. However, he was also very frank with me about what persueing prosecution would look like, how long it would take and what the court process would look like. If I was willing to submit my evidence from here, was I prepared for that to be held up in court and scrutinised by his defense team as well. Ultimately I decided not to proceed with that. He encouraged me to keep a personal log and screenshots of all contact in case things escalated to a point it was worth persueing a prosecution for. He also gave me my crime reference number and said to quote it if I wanted to report further harassment. An alternative to pursuing an injunction through criminal proceedings is applying for a civil injunction. Depending on eligibility, there may be costs involved with this.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Interseing thread. A stalker ex tracked me down on here and I had to hide profile and change name hoping she wouldn’t track me down again

I’m on about 5 blocked numbers

2 blocked facebooks

20 minimum blocked insta accounts

1 blocked Reddit account

And now 1 fabs account

When do I tell the police?

You should have already, 3 or more incidents is harassment.

You can try sending one last "cease and desist" message, then if it continues they've had fair warning."

They don't advise any contact.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

1. You are on a public site.

2. Your verifications are public.

3. He has read them ( you think ) ( maybe it's someone else )

4. Someone has shared them with his mum.

5. His mum has messaged you.

None of the above is stalking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Out of interest, why do you believe that your ex is the issue not his mum given that it is her who is messaging you?

I'm not implying you're wrong, often with threads like these details are missed out but that was what came to mind when I read your OP.

Mr

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Your ex is seeking attention, rise to it, respond and it will encourage him to do so, regardless of the outcome. Block his mums number, block him, live your life as if he didn’t exist, he soon won’t. Do not feed him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Out of interest, why do you believe that your ex is the issue not his mum given that it is her who is messaging you?

I'm not implying you're wrong, often with threads like these details are missed out but that was what came to mind when I read your OP.

Mr"

He is a narcissist (which I recently had to accept) he will try and manipulate me into trying to get back with him indirectly. His last email a while back said “every action creates a reaction” he knows by telling his mother, she will react on his behalf which he thinks would make me contact him to confront him. He is into mind games. He knows I have a family that knows nothing about my swinging life, and a business which is doing well….his mum made references to my business and some racist comments. He is feeding this to her. We had no communication from her in the 10 years we were together, as soon as we split I hear he is back with him mum. She is in her 70’s and clueless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Out of interest, why do you believe that your ex is the issue not his mum given that it is her who is messaging you?

I'm not implying you're wrong, often with threads like these details are missed out but that was what came to mind when I read your OP.

Mr

He is a narcissist (which I recently had to accept) he will try and manipulate me into trying to get back with him indirectly. His last email a while back said “every action creates a reaction” he knows by telling his mother, she will react on his behalf which he thinks would make me contact him to confront him. He is into mind games. He knows I have a family that knows nothing about my swinging life, and a business which is doing well….his mum made references to my business and some racist comments. He is feeding this to her. We had no communication from her in the 10 years we were together, as soon as we split I hear he is back with him mum. She is in her 70’s and clueless"

Maybe have a look at the Womensaid website. Also Google 'grey rock method'.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"

You should have already, 3 or more incidents is harassment.

You can try sending one last "cease and desist" message, then if it continues they've had fair warning.

They don't advise any contact. "

I was given different advice!

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

control freak,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's important not to react but to keep a diary of every contact.

I've had to go to the police and they were fairly sympathetic but advised me to leave fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He is right, every action does get a reaction but it’s how you react that gets you on top.

I had this experience with an ex to the point where she would be sat in a car at the end of my driveway and watch my home for hours.

At first I fought her. I reacted to her vile messages and actions wrongly.

Eventually I learned the ignoring her worked to a point but eventually made her willingness to follow me worse.

I did contact the police and not only was she arrested but she was also received counselling which helped her mind and stopped her behaviour. I didn’t want to go down that route but as she was willing to accept help it led to no further action on her part and I have since had an apology letter which I had to allow to be written first.

Honestly. It seems uncomfortable telling the authorities about these these but they need stopping before they go too far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Out of interest, why do you believe that your ex is the issue not his mum given that it is her who is messaging you?

I'm not implying you're wrong, often with threads like these details are missed out but that was what came to mind when I read your OP.

Mr

He is a narcissist (which I recently had to accept) he will try and manipulate me into trying to get back with him indirectly. His last email a while back said “every action creates a reaction” he knows by telling his mother, she will react on his behalf which he thinks would make me contact him to confront him. He is into mind games. He knows I have a family that knows nothing about my swinging life, and a business which is doing well….his mum made references to my business and some racist comments. He is feeding this to her. We had no communication from her in the 10 years we were together, as soon as we split I hear he is back with him mum. She is in her 70’s and clueless"

Thanks.

Mr

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Get fab admins involved as well if you can. They can block his email address from creating a new account."

You can create multiple email address in minutes so that won't make a difference.

The site can spot if the same IP is used but again, VPN's can be used to hide that and many mobiles don't use static IP's either.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"If you’re a site supporter you can see who is viewing your profile. Look for people who are repeatedly viewing it and block them."

Unless they select the option to hide from your 'who's viewed me' list in their privacy settings....

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I split from my ex in January. I gave myself a few weeks then went back out there as a single swinger. I’ve been having SO much fun and had quite a few veri’s. I run my own business and swing by night and have done for many years.

A couple of days ago, ex’s mum started sending me awful message relating to my veri’s. Obviously my ex is fab stalking me and passing this on. I’ve hidden my page, but don’t think I should. Is this harassment and should the police be acting on it???? Any help is appreciated x"

Go to police! It can be classed as stalking and malicious communications. These things escalate so quickly, I'm going through it at the moment and it's horrendous. The police deal with this time so delicately and take it very seriously. Don't be embarrassed xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m going through similar with my ex, I don’t want to go into too much detail but generally the police won’t do much unless it escalates to real life, for me I had criminal damage.

When I showed them the messages from fab they said “anyone can make a profile with those pictures”and only took action after it all continues after changing my phone number etc, and direct threats were made to me in the real world, turning up to my house etc.

It’s devastating and it ruins your life. I hope you can get it sorted x

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Not sure why this thread has been brought back up as it's 6 months old ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The original thread is 6months old, but another fabber is having the same issues, probably many more, so any forumites who can advise and assist will be helping numerous fabbers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I split from my ex in January. I gave myself a few weeks then went back out there as a single swinger. I’ve been having SO much fun and had quite a few veri’s. I run my own business and swing by night and have done for many years.

A couple of days ago, ex’s mum started sending me awful message relating to my veri’s. Obviously my ex is fab stalking me and passing this on. I’ve hidden my page, but don’t think I should. Is this harassment and should the police be acting on it???? Any help is appreciated x

Go to police! It can be classed as stalking and malicious communications. These things escalate so quickly, I'm going through it at the moment and it's horrendous. The police deal with this time so delicately and take it very seriously. Don't be embarrassed xxx"

LittleBoeKink, can I DM you please?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"The original thread is 6months old, but another fabber is having the same issues, probably many more, so any forumites who can advise and assist will be helping numerous fabbers. "

Gotcha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure why this thread has been brought back up as it's 6 months old ?"

Things happen a lot slower in Wales Granny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The original thread is 6months old, but another fabber is having the same issues, probably many more, so any forumites who can advise and assist will be helping numerous fabbers.

Gotcha x"

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"I split from my ex in January. I gave myself a few weeks then went back out there as a single swinger. I’ve been having SO much fun and had quite a few veri’s. I run my own business and swing by night and have done for many years.

A couple of days ago, ex’s mum started sending me awful message relating to my veri’s. Obviously my ex is fab stalking me and passing this on. I’ve hidden my page, but don’t think I should. Is this harassment and should the police be acting on it???? Any help is appreciated x"

Would you not just give the whole swinging thing a miss for a while? I mean, ive no idea how long you were together but dumping someone and then back in the saddle a few weeks later, especially when its so obvious on a site like this, is rubbing the guys face in it.

I know that's probably not your intention, but if i were you, i would just focus on other aspects of your life for a while, your business etc and leave him heal in peace.

Yes before anyone chimes in, i know shes doesnt HAVE to do this, but it would be an easy option within her own power to make the whole situation go away. Surely people can live without a fuck site for a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did contact the police but clearly they are not taking it seriously and I’ve had no officer allocated to me. I didn’t want to make a fuss and make a fool of myself. I’m going to go down there and follow up x"

it should be seem as coercive behaviour and they should do something

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"I split from my ex in January. I gave myself a few weeks then went back out there as a single swinger. I’ve been having SO much fun and had quite a few veri’s. I run my own business and swing by night and have done for many years.

A couple of days ago, ex’s mum started sending me awful message relating to my veri’s. Obviously my ex is fab stalking me and passing this on. I’ve hidden my page, but don’t think I should. Is this harassment and should the police be acting on it???? Any help is appreciated x

Would you not just give the whole swinging thing a miss for a while? I mean, ive no idea how long you were together but dumping someone and then back in the saddle a few weeks later, especially when its so obvious on a site like this, is rubbing the guys face in it.

I know that's probably not your intention, but if i were you, i would just focus on other aspects of your life for a while, your business etc and leave him heal in peace.

Yes before anyone chimes in, i know shes doesnt HAVE to do this, but it would be an easy option within her own power to make the whole situation go away. Surely people can live without a fuck site for a while"

There is no reason at all that she should have to give up what she enjoys because her ex is being a total idiot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I split from my ex in January. I gave myself a few weeks then went back out there as a single swinger. I’ve been having SO much fun and had quite a few veri’s. I run my own business and swing by night and have done for many years.

A couple of days ago, ex’s mum started sending me awful message relating to my veri’s. Obviously my ex is fab stalking me and passing this on. I’ve hidden my page, but don’t think I should. Is this harassment and should the police be acting on it???? Any help is appreciated x

Go to police! It can be classed as stalking and malicious communications. These things escalate so quickly, I'm going through it at the moment and it's horrendous. The police deal with this time so delicately and take it very seriously. Don't be embarrassed xxx"
slightly different but left dv situation and it was mostly stalking and control police classes as coercieve and police took it seriously please try again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interseing thread. A stalker ex tracked me down on here and I had to hide profile and change name hoping she wouldn’t track me down again

I’m on about 5 blocked numbers

2 blocked facebooks

20 minimum blocked insta accounts

1 blocked Reddit account

And now 1 fabs account

When do I tell the police?

You should have already, 3 or more incidents is harassment.

You can try sending one last "cease and desist" message, then if it continues they've had fair warning.

They don't advise any contact. "

I was told they have to prove it’s unwanted contact, so there has to be at least one message saying ‘stop’. It would be the same force that you reported to as well, so I don’t know why they have given us different advice

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"I split from my ex in January. I gave myself a few weeks then went back out there as a single swinger. I’ve been having SO much fun and had quite a few veri’s. I run my own business and swing by night and have done for many years.

A couple of days ago, ex’s mum started sending me awful message relating to my veri’s. Obviously my ex is fab stalking me and passing this on. I’ve hidden my page, but don’t think I should. Is this harassment and should the police be acting on it???? Any help is appreciated x

Would you not just give the whole swinging thing a miss for a while? I mean, ive no idea how long you were together but dumping someone and then back in the saddle a few weeks later, especially when its so obvious on a site like this, is rubbing the guys face in it.

I know that's probably not your intention, but if i were you, i would just focus on other aspects of your life for a while, your business etc and leave him heal in peace.

Yes before anyone chimes in, i know shes doesnt HAVE to do this, but it would be an easy option within her own power to make the whole situation go away. Surely people can live without a fuck site for a while

There is no reason at all that she should have to give up what she enjoys because her ex is being a total idiot. "

As ive already said, i know she doesn't HAVE to...but its a reasonable suggestion to help make the whole thing go away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I split from my ex in January. I gave myself a few weeks then went back out there as a single swinger. I’ve been having SO much fun and had quite a few veri’s. I run my own business and swing by night and have done for many years.

A couple of days ago, ex’s mum started sending me awful message relating to my veri’s. Obviously my ex is fab stalking me and passing this on. I’ve hidden my page, but don’t think I should. Is this harassment and should the police be acting on it???? Any help is appreciated x

Would you not just give the whole swinging thing a miss for a while? I mean, ive no idea how long you were together but dumping someone and then back in the saddle a few weeks later, especially when its so obvious on a site like this, is rubbing the guys face in it.

I know that's probably not your intention, but if i were you, i would just focus on other aspects of your life for a while, your business etc and leave him heal in peace.

Yes before anyone chimes in, i know shes doesnt HAVE to do this, but it would be an easy option within her own power to make the whole situation go away. Surely people can live without a fuck site for a while"

Or you know... Maybe her ex could have just acted like a grown up vs a petulant, petty, vindictive little arsehole

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"I split from my ex in January. I gave myself a few weeks then went back out there as a single swinger. I’ve been having SO much fun and had quite a few veri’s. I run my own business and swing by night and have done for many years.

A couple of days ago, ex’s mum started sending me awful message relating to my veri’s. Obviously my ex is fab stalking me and passing this on. I’ve hidden my page, but don’t think I should. Is this harassment and should the police be acting on it???? Any help is appreciated x

Would you not just give the whole swinging thing a miss for a while? I mean, ive no idea how long you were together but dumping someone and then back in the saddle a few weeks later, especially when its so obvious on a site like this, is rubbing the guys face in it.

I know that's probably not your intention, but if i were you, i would just focus on other aspects of your life for a while, your business etc and leave him heal in peace.

Yes before anyone chimes in, i know shes doesnt HAVE to do this, but it would be an easy option within her own power to make the whole situation go away. Surely people can live without a fuck site for a while

Or you know... Maybe her ex could have just acted like a grown up vs a petulant, petty, vindictive little arsehole "

Yes. However hes not here on this thread to address now is he?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I split from my ex in January. I gave myself a few weeks then went back out there as a single swinger. I’ve been having SO much fun and had quite a few veri’s. I run my own business and swing by night and have done for many years.

A couple of days ago, ex’s mum started sending me awful message relating to my veri’s. Obviously my ex is fab stalking me and passing this on. I’ve hidden my page, but don’t think I should. Is this harassment and should the police be acting on it???? Any help is appreciated x

Would you not just give the whole swinging thing a miss for a while? I mean, ive no idea how long you were together but dumping someone and then back in the saddle a few weeks later, especially when its so obvious on a site like this, is rubbing the guys face in it.

I know that's probably not your intention, but if i were you, i would just focus on other aspects of your life for a while, your business etc and leave him heal in peace.

Yes before anyone chimes in, i know shes doesnt HAVE to do this, but it would be an easy option within her own power to make the whole situation go away. Surely people can live without a fuck site for a while

Or you know... Maybe her ex could have just acted like a grown up vs a petulant, petty, vindictive little arsehole

Yes. However hes not here on this thread to address now is he? "

Neither is OP...

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"I split from my ex in January. I gave myself a few weeks then went back out there as a single swinger. I’ve been having SO much fun and had quite a few veri’s. I run my own business and swing by night and have done for many years.

A couple of days ago, ex’s mum started sending me awful message relating to my veri’s. Obviously my ex is fab stalking me and passing this on. I’ve hidden my page, but don’t think I should. Is this harassment and should the police be acting on it???? Any help is appreciated x

Would you not just give the whole swinging thing a miss for a while? I mean, ive no idea how long you were together but dumping someone and then back in the saddle a few weeks later, especially when its so obvious on a site like this, is rubbing the guys face in it.

I know that's probably not your intention, but if i were you, i would just focus on other aspects of your life for a while, your business etc and leave him heal in peace.

Yes before anyone chimes in, i know shes doesnt HAVE to do this, but it would be an easy option within her own power to make the whole situation go away. Surely people can live without a fuck site for a while

Or you know... Maybe her ex could have just acted like a grown up vs a petulant, petty, vindictive little arsehole

Yes. However hes not here on this thread to address now is he?

Neither is OP... "

What? She created the thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I split from my ex in January. I gave myself a few weeks then went back out there as a single swinger. I’ve been having SO much fun and had quite a few veri’s. I run my own business and swing by night and have done for many years.

A couple of days ago, ex’s mum started sending me awful message relating to my veri’s. Obviously my ex is fab stalking me and passing this on. I’ve hidden my page, but don’t think I should. Is this harassment and should the police be acting on it???? Any help is appreciated x

Would you not just give the whole swinging thing a miss for a while? I mean, ive no idea how long you were together but dumping someone and then back in the saddle a few weeks later, especially when its so obvious on a site like this, is rubbing the guys face in it.

I know that's probably not your intention, but if i were you, i would just focus on other aspects of your life for a while, your business etc and leave him heal in peace.

Yes before anyone chimes in, i know shes doesnt HAVE to do this, but it would be an easy option within her own power to make the whole situation go away. Surely people can live without a fuck site for a while

Or you know... Maybe her ex could have just acted like a grown up vs a petulant, petty, vindictive little arsehole

Yes. However hes not here on this thread to address now is he?

Neither is OP...

What? She created the thread"

24wks ago, since she is now in a new relationship, and hasn't been active on Fab for a month. I doubt it's at all relevant to her situation anymore. It's a zombie thread resurrection due to someone else having a similar problem. Presumably because some men have awful issues surrounding letting others get on with their lives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I split from my ex in January. I gave myself a few weeks then went back out there as a single swinger. I’ve been having SO much fun and had quite a few veri’s. I run my own business and swing by night and have done for many years.

A couple of days ago, ex’s mum started sending me awful message relating to my veri’s. Obviously my ex is fab stalking me and passing this on. I’ve hidden my page, but don’t think I should. Is this harassment and should the police be acting on it???? Any help is appreciated x"

At the moment this sounds like an issue you should take up with fab.

If it escalates to getting postal or physical intimidation, that makes it a police matter.

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"I split from my ex in January. I gave myself a few weeks then went back out there as a single swinger. I’ve been having SO much fun and had quite a few veri’s. I run my own business and swing by night and have done for many years.

A couple of days ago, ex’s mum started sending me awful message relating to my veri’s. Obviously my ex is fab stalking me and passing this on. I’ve hidden my page, but don’t think I should. Is this harassment and should the police be acting on it???? Any help is appreciated x

Would you not just give the whole swinging thing a miss for a while? I mean, ive no idea how long you were together but dumping someone and then back in the saddle a few weeks later, especially when its so obvious on a site like this, is rubbing the guys face in it.

I know that's probably not your intention, but if i were you, i would just focus on other aspects of your life for a while, your business etc and leave him heal in peace.

Yes before anyone chimes in, i know shes doesnt HAVE to do this, but it would be an easy option within her own power to make the whole situation go away. Surely people can live without a fuck site for a while

Or you know... Maybe her ex could have just acted like a grown up vs a petulant, petty, vindictive little arsehole

Yes. However hes not here on this thread to address now is he?

Neither is OP...

What? She created the thread

24wks ago, since she is now in a new relationship, and hasn't been active on Fab for a month. I doubt it's at all relevant to her situation anymore. It's a zombie thread resurrection due to someone else having a similar problem. Presumably because some men have awful issues surrounding letting others get on with their lives. "

Thats all irrelevant to what i was saying.

She started the thread and her profile is still active so i see no issue with me contributing to it, as others have.

Or is your issue really just that my opinion is different to yours?

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"I split from my ex in January. I gave myself a few weeks then went back out there as a single swinger. I’ve been having SO much fun and had quite a few veri’s. I run my own business and swing by night and have done for many years.

A couple of days ago, ex’s mum started sending me awful message relating to my veri’s. Obviously my ex is fab stalking me and passing this on. I’ve hidden my page, but don’t think I should. Is this harassment and should the police be acting on it???? Any help is appreciated x

At the moment this sounds like an issue you should take up with fab.

If it escalates to getting postal or physical intimidation, that makes it a police matter."

What can fab do about it? It reads to me like the messages the mother has been sending are on a different platform to fab. Presumably text message or whatsapp etc. Unless the messages are being sent on fab, the OP isnt clear

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By *ottom charlieMan
over a year ago

washington


"I split from my ex in January. I gave myself a few weeks then went back out there as a single swinger. I’ve been having SO much fun and had quite a few veri’s. I run my own business and swing by night and have done for many years.

A couple of days ago, ex’s mum started sending me awful message relating to my veri’s. Obviously my ex is fab stalking me and passing this on. I’ve hidden my page, but don’t think I should. Is this harassment and should the police be acting on it???? Any help is appreciated x"
sounds as if your ex is loading the bullets for his mother to fire,,, if you go to the police and report it which of them will get taken to court and maybe jail,,, not much of a man if he is willing to risk his mother going to prison,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I split from my ex in January. I gave myself a few weeks then went back out there as a single swinger. I’ve been having SO much fun and had quite a few veri’s. I run my own business and swing by night and have done for many years.

A couple of days ago, ex’s mum started sending me awful message relating to my veri’s. Obviously my ex is fab stalking me and passing this on. I’ve hidden my page, but don’t think I should. Is this harassment and should the police be acting on it???? Any help is appreciated x

Would you not just give the whole swinging thing a miss for a while? I mean, ive no idea how long you were together but dumping someone and then back in the saddle a few weeks later, especially when its so obvious on a site like this, is rubbing the guys face in it.

I know that's probably not your intention, but if i were you, i would just focus on other aspects of your life for a while, your business etc and leave him heal in peace.

Yes before anyone chimes in, i know shes doesnt HAVE to do this, but it would be an easy option within her own power to make the whole situation go away. Surely people can live without a fuck site for a while

Or you know... Maybe her ex could have just acted like a grown up vs a petulant, petty, vindictive little arsehole

Yes. However hes not here on this thread to address now is he?

Neither is OP...

What? She created the thread

24wks ago, since she is now in a new relationship, and hasn't been active on Fab for a month. I doubt it's at all relevant to her situation anymore. It's a zombie thread resurrection due to someone else having a similar problem. Presumably because some men have awful issues surrounding letting others get on with their lives.

Thats all irrelevant to what i was saying.

She started the thread and her profile is still active so i see no issue with me contributing to it, as others have.

Or is your issue really just that my opinion is different to yours? "

Well, your comment that she give it miss for awhile is pretty relevant to the fact its been 24weeks since, no? I have no issue that your opinion is different to mine. Yours always are from what I've read

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"I split from my ex in January. I gave myself a few weeks then went back out there as a single swinger. I’ve been having SO much fun and had quite a few veri’s. I run my own business and swing by night and have done for many years.

A couple of days ago, ex’s mum started sending me awful message relating to my veri’s. Obviously my ex is fab stalking me and passing this on. I’ve hidden my page, but don’t think I should. Is this harassment and should the police be acting on it???? Any help is appreciated x

Would you not just give the whole swinging thing a miss for a while? I mean, ive no idea how long you were together but dumping someone and then back in the saddle a few weeks later, especially when its so obvious on a site like this, is rubbing the guys face in it.

I know that's probably not your intention, but if i were you, i would just focus on other aspects of your life for a while, your business etc and leave him heal in peace.

Yes before anyone chimes in, i know shes doesnt HAVE to do this, but it would be an easy option within her own power to make the whole situation go away. Surely people can live without a fuck site for a while

Or you know... Maybe her ex could have just acted like a grown up vs a petulant, petty, vindictive little arsehole

Yes. However hes not here on this thread to address now is he?

Neither is OP...

What? She created the thread

24wks ago, since she is now in a new relationship, and hasn't been active on Fab for a month. I doubt it's at all relevant to her situation anymore. It's a zombie thread resurrection due to someone else having a similar problem. Presumably because some men have awful issues surrounding letting others get on with their lives.

Thats all irrelevant to what i was saying.

She started the thread and her profile is still active so i see no issue with me contributing to it, as others have.

Or is your issue really just that my opinion is different to yours?

Well, your comment that she give it miss for awhile is pretty relevant to the fact its been 24weeks since, no? I have no issue that your opinion is different to mine. Yours always are from what I've read "

Its still relevant, unless she gave an update in the meantime that circumstances have changed. I dont see that, so theresfore its reasonable to assume things havent changed. If however they have changed in the meantime and she hasnt shared that, then good luck to all concerned

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By *immy PMan
over a year ago

nottingham via worksop

i'd just keep screenshots of the messages and see if they continue... maybe a polite, keep your nose out and see if that works..

but you shouldnt have to put up with it...

good luck...xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I split from my ex in January. I gave myself a few weeks then went back out there as a single swinger. I’ve been having SO much fun and had quite a few veri’s. I run my own business and swing by night and have done for many years.

A couple of days ago, ex’s mum started sending me awful message relating to my veri’s. Obviously my ex is fab stalking me and passing this on. I’ve hidden my page, but don’t think I should. Is this harassment and should the police be acting on it???? Any help is appreciated x

Go to police! It can be classed as stalking and malicious communications. These things escalate so quickly, I'm going through it at the moment and it's horrendous. The police deal with this time so delicately and take it very seriously. Don't be embarrassed xxx

LittleBoeKink, can I DM you please? "

Of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The original thread is 6months old, but another fabber is having the same issues, probably many more, so any forumites who can advise and assist will be helping numerous fabbers. "

Please message me! Wonder of it's the guy I'm dealing with!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fabbers, the OPs post is 6months old, yes, but someone else who is having similar problems has posted more recently. And other fabbers will be going through similar.

The answer isn't to remove yourself from fab - that equates to victim blaming. No, the perpetrator needs to be held to account, and hopefully prevent it happening to others.

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Fabbers, the OPs post is 6months old, yes, but someone else who is having similar problems has posted more recently. And other fabbers will be going through similar.

The answer isn't to remove yourself from fab - that equates to victim blaming. No, the perpetrator needs to be held to account, and hopefully prevent it happening to others. "

It is an option though, is it not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fabbers, the OPs post is 6months old, yes, but someone else who is having similar problems has posted more recently. And other fabbers will be going through similar.

The answer isn't to remove yourself from fab - that equates to victim blaming. No, the perpetrator needs to be held to account, and hopefully prevent it happening to others.

It is an option though, is it not? "

From the person who endorses Andrew Tate - good one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fabbers, the OPs post is 6months old, yes, but someone else who is having similar problems has posted more recently. And other fabbers will be going through similar.

The answer isn't to remove yourself from fab - that equates to victim blaming. No, the perpetrator needs to be held to account, and hopefully prevent it happening to others. "

Yes. The victim shouldn't have to leave everywhere. I currently am due to it being a police matter now and he's scared me alot x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Yes. The victim shouldn't have to leave everywhere. I currently am due to it being a police matter now and he's scared me alot x"

Please DM me. LadyO

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Fabbers, the OPs post is 6months old, yes, but someone else who is having similar problems has posted more recently. And other fabbers will be going through similar.

The answer isn't to remove yourself from fab - that equates to victim blaming. No, the perpetrator needs to be held to account, and hopefully prevent it happening to others.

It is an option though, is it not?

From the person who endorses Andrew Tate - good one! "

What exactly about what ive said before has 'endorsed' anyone?

Perhaps you could provide a quote

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fabbers, the OPs post is 6months old, yes, but someone else who is having similar problems has posted more recently. And other fabbers will be going through similar.

The answer isn't to remove yourself from fab - that equates to victim blaming. No, the perpetrator needs to be held to account, and hopefully prevent it happening to others.

It is an option though, is it not?

From the person who endorses Andrew Tate - good one!

What exactly about what ive said before has 'endorsed' anyone?

Perhaps you could provide a quote"
I think the thread was closed down?

Aside from that, the fact is that you are suggesting that someone who is being terrorised should change their lifestyle to enable a perpetrator to carry on perpetrating.

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Fabbers, the OPs post is 6months old, yes, but someone else who is having similar problems has posted more recently. And other fabbers will be going through similar.

The answer isn't to remove yourself from fab - that equates to victim blaming. No, the perpetrator needs to be held to account, and hopefully prevent it happening to others.

It is an option though, is it not?

From the person who endorses Andrew Tate - good one!

What exactly about what ive said before has 'endorsed' anyone?

Perhaps you could provide a quote I think the thread was closed down?

Aside from that, the fact is that you are suggesting that someone who is being terrorised should change their lifestyle to enable a perpetrator to carry on perpetrating. "

Nope havent said they should at all.

I suggested it as an option within their own immediate control.

How many more times do i have to clarify this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fabbers, the OPs post is 6months old, yes, but someone else who is having similar problems has posted more recently. And other fabbers will be going through similar.

The answer isn't to remove yourself from fab - that equates to victim blaming. No, the perpetrator needs to be held to account, and hopefully prevent it happening to others.

It is an option though, is it not?

From the person who endorses Andrew Tate - good one!

What exactly about what ive said before has 'endorsed' anyone?

Perhaps you could provide a quote I think the thread was closed down?

Aside from that, the fact is that you are suggesting that someone who is being terrorised should change their lifestyle to enable a perpetrator to carry on perpetrating.

Nope havent said they should at all.

I suggested it as an option within their own immediate control.

How many more times do i have to clarify this? "

But why should they? They have done nothing wrong. The other person needs to be held to account for their actions. End of.

I am not prepared to discuss this matter further with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fabbers, the OPs post is 6months old, yes, but someone else who is having similar problems has posted more recently. And other fabbers will be going through similar.

The answer isn't to remove yourself from fab - that equates to victim blaming. No, the perpetrator needs to be held to account, and hopefully prevent it happening to others.

It is an option though, is it not?

From the person who endorses Andrew Tate - good one!

What exactly about what ive said before has 'endorsed' anyone?

Perhaps you could provide a quote I think the thread was closed down?

Aside from that, the fact is that you are suggesting that someone who is being terrorised should change their lifestyle to enable a perpetrator to carry on perpetrating.

Nope havent said they should at all.

I suggested it as an option within their own immediate control.

How many more times do i have to clarify this? "

Having been in the position, it doesn’t stop someone who really wants to hurt you.

I changed my number, came off all social media, changed jobs, got a new car, if the housing market wasn’t so poor I’d have moved too. None of it made a blind bit of difference.

Where does it end before the other party gives up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Having been in the position, it doesn’t stop someone who really wants to hurt you.

I changed my number, came off all social media, changed jobs, got a new car, if the housing market wasn’t so poor I’d have moved too. None of it made a blind bit of difference.

Where does it end before the other party gives up? "

^^^^^^ This!

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Fabbers, the OPs post is 6months old, yes, but someone else who is having similar problems has posted more recently. And other fabbers will be going through similar.

The answer isn't to remove yourself from fab - that equates to victim blaming. No, the perpetrator needs to be held to account, and hopefully prevent it happening to others.

It is an option though, is it not?

From the person who endorses Andrew Tate - good one!

What exactly about what ive said before has 'endorsed' anyone?

Perhaps you could provide a quote I think the thread was closed down?

Aside from that, the fact is that you are suggesting that someone who is being terrorised should change their lifestyle to enable a perpetrator to carry on perpetrating.

Nope havent said they should at all.

I suggested it as an option within their own immediate control.

How many more times do i have to clarify this?

But why should they? They have done nothing wrong. The other person needs to be held to account for their actions. End of.

I am not prepared to discuss this matter further with you. "

Once again, i have said they should.

I have suggested it as an option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fabbers, the OPs post is 6months old, yes, but someone else who is having similar problems has posted more recently. And other fabbers will be going through similar.

The answer isn't to remove yourself from fab - that equates to victim blaming. No, the perpetrator needs to be held to account, and hopefully prevent it happening to others.

It is an option though, is it not?

From the person who endorses Andrew Tate - good one!

What exactly about what ive said before has 'endorsed' anyone?

Perhaps you could provide a quote I think the thread was closed down?

Aside from that, the fact is that you are suggesting that someone who is being terrorised should change their lifestyle to enable a perpetrator to carry on perpetrating.

Nope havent said they should at all.

I suggested it as an option within their own immediate control.

How many more times do i have to clarify this?

Having been in the position, it doesn’t stop someone who really wants to hurt you.

I changed my number, came off all social media, changed jobs, got a new car, if the housing market wasn’t so poor I’d have moved too. None of it made a blind bit of difference.

Where does it end before the other party gives up? "

This!!!

I hid away, deleted all socials, hid in my house and now I'm like why should I have to?!?!?

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