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By *reedom of speech OP   Man
over a year ago

Watford

What keeps you going

What is life all about

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

If I knew the answer to that then I wouldn't feel like I am drowning x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if life was just like a park and ride?

What if our initial journey was to the massive car park that is purgatory and then we're all waiting to get on a bus to the promised land?

Have you thought about that?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I have a son and don't want him to think badly of me. I don't want be the reason he needs therapy.

The meaning? For me it's making it to the end, going "home" and being thankful to get back there.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever the wind takes me

My kids and my mum. And my dogs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My children keep me going. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What keeps me going? Achieving new levels, learning new things.

What's life all about? Find happiness and enjoy it while you can.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No idea what life is about except just doing the best you can with what you have.

I don't consciously consider keeping going an alternative never occurs to me. I'm lucky on that respect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because what’s the alternative?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of you need to make some phone calls. Seriously, if you don't have anyone you can confide in...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My kids. Not that I’d stop going without them but seeing them every day makes me know I’m doing something right.

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

It must be different for everyone but I think it's the love of those you care about. Their love and yours for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

42

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t know what life is all about. I just think we’re here until we’re not but it’s up to us to make the most of what relatively little time we have.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Life’s what you make it

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"42"

But what’s the question?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I also think that the meaning is love.

We forget to share that love as we grow. We take things for granted. We become greedy. We become selfish.

We kill because it suits us, because we don't want bugs in our living space, or because that lamb is gonna taste nice.

The older I get the more I think we were put here to experience love of all things, yet, we turn bad. A bit like the first time you get left in the family home alone, and instead of showing respect and consideration, you have a house party or do other stuff you shouldn't be doing. That's humans. Then at the end we go back to "source" and get eye rolled at, told to try again, and boom. Reborn into another cycle of bullshit greed and ego.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What keeps you going

What is life all about

"

Love, sexual attraction, mental stimulation and a home to call your own would be the main things I guess?

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By *urvytreatWoman
over a year ago

somewhere nice

Sounds soppy, but my hubby and my budgies. Love our home and our lovely calm happy life. I’m very lucky and very greatful for what I have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whats the answer to life, the universe and everything.

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By *ob Carpe DiemMan
over a year ago

Benidorm for a week

I enjoy waking up in the morning, I'll probably miss it when it's gone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think too many people spend too much time contemplating the answers to these questions.

Just enjoy the moments, they can be gone in the blink of an eye.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think humans are quite arrogant in that we all assume we have a purpose a reason for being here. Basically we mostly have a biological imperative to continue the species in much the same way an ant does. We're at the top of the food chain for now but that can easily change and the way things are going probably will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I like the occasional bit of deep

However to answer your question I think it’s about striving to be the best you can be. To leave the world better than it was when you came into it even if that’s in small ways like just being a decent human being

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

At the moment, I don't really know, to be honest. The amount of shite and pain I put up with in my life, I really don't know why I bother.

Probably because Mr KC is amazing and I adore him and I quite like my kids too (even though having kids destroyed my body to the point of disability).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think humans are quite arrogant in that we all assume we have a purpose a reason for being here. Basically we mostly have a biological imperative to continue the species in much the same way an ant does. We're at the top of the food chain for now but that can easily change and the way things are going probably will. "

Totally agree with this!!!

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I do a job where I see people pass away far too soon and I have to say it's the little things I try and find joy in.

My pets ,a beautiful sunset or sunrise ,chatting to good people or eating delicious food.you've hot to grab those moments whilst you can and try and remember that the bad days won't last.

Love to all who need it .

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"I enjoy waking up in the morning, I'll probably miss it when it's gone "

To some this might sound flippant but actually it's exactly what life is about. The little things that make you happy and also give you the strength to deal with the challenges

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do a job where I see people pass away far too soon and I have to say it's the little things I try and find joy in.

My pets ,a beautiful sunset or sunrise ,chatting to good people or eating delicious food.you've hot to grab those moments whilst you can and try and remember that the bad days won't last.

Love to all who need it .

"

A lot of folk realise that too late, love backatcha beautiful soul

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"What keeps you going

What is life all about

"

Having sex.

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live


"What keeps you going

What is life all about

"

Who knows the outcome is the same for all of us

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Just do the best you can.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I think too many people spend too much time contemplating the answers to these questions.

Just enjoy the moments, they can be gone in the blink of an eye. "

I agree. Every time I come on here I think bloody hell people do overthink things! I tend to just plod on, deal with things as best I can and try (as hard as it can be sometimes!) to stay positive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not about anything. There is zero point to my existence. However, 3.5 billion years of evolution have ensured that the complex chemical reactions we call life behave in such a way that the human body is to all intents designed to fight for survival.

Unfortunately, 3.5 billon years of evolution didn't do a lot to select for a desire to survive when life doesn't require a fight. Now that for the vast majority of humans in Western cultures there is no need to fight to survive against genuinely life threatening situations like famine, war or the like we're left with people who have far less need to struggle to survive and far less need to be physically active simply to get by than any previous generation. I'm not convinced we're particularly well adapted to it.

At the same time our increasing scientific knowledge has eroded the once universal belief in gods and we're left facing a world we weren't designed to live in without the psychological crutch we once relied on to answer our existential questions. Pretty much all we have left is a universal drive to simply keep going. I am one of the fortunate ones who, despite a nasty hiccup a few years back, has a generally positive outlook and is able to find enjoyment if not any meaning in life.

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What keeps you going

What is life all about

"

The thought of my compo money coming soon is keeping me going for now.....hopefully when it arrives, it'll keep me going for a long time afterwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not about anything. There is zero point to my existence. However, 3.5 billion years of evolution have ensured that the complex chemical reactions we call life behave in such a way that the human body is to all intents designed to fight for survival.

Unfortunately, 3.5 billon years of evolution didn't do a lot to select for a desire to survive when life doesn't require a fight. Now that for the vast majority of humans in Western cultures there is no need to fight to survive against genuinely life threatening situations like famine, war or the like we're left with people who have far less need to struggle to survive and far less need to be physically active simply to get by than any previous generation. I'm not convinced we're particularly well adapted to it.

At the same time our increasing scientific knowledge has eroded the once universal belief in gods and we're left facing a world we weren't designed to live in without the psychological crutch we once relied on to answer our existential questions. Pretty much all we have left is a universal drive to simply keep going. I am one of the fortunate ones who, despite a nasty hiccup a few years back, has a generally positive outlook and is able to find enjoyment if not any meaning in life.

Mr"

Nicely put (and aptly deep)

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By *unx2019Couple
over a year ago

Moray

Just be the best you can, change should to could, yesterday's gone and tomorrow nevers comes as it becomes today.

As humans we spend so much time trying to please others, trying to be what we think they want us to be. At 60 now realise probably spent at least half of it trying be something I'm not or ever was, honestly folks be yourself and if prole don't like it then they not worthy of being with you.

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By *reat me rightWoman
over a year ago

Rotherham


"My kids and my mum. And my dogs."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a better, more well-rounded person than I was yesterday. I don't always accomplish that, and I'll make mistakes, and I'll overthink my decisions but it's the best I can do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is going to sound rare but my car honeslty keeps me going, I bought it when I was in a very very very dark place, I have spent thousands on it and couldn’t think of it any other way. It’s my safe spot and the place I feel happiest in. It keeps me going when times are tough

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By *orthwhile27Man
over a year ago

figure it out


"Because what’s the alternative? "

Everton..... obviously

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden


"What keeps you going"

At the moment, that tomorrow will be a bit better than today.


"

What is life all about

"

I wish I knew.

I wonder where consciousness goes when we die.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no "meaning of life", as Mrs Nicecouple already explained. My personal motivation for keeping going changes depending on the state of my MH. Being responsible for providing love, security and guidance to two young people is always there, however ill I get. When I'm well, just waking up in the morning and having the opportunity to delight in being alive and experience the world is my incentive. Not a "meaning" or sense of purpose, as such, just a contented acceptance of being.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

There is no meaning to life. Just enjoy every moment and stop thinking you are not achieving something you are missing.

What fucking dog, cat, ape, horse spends hours in mental agony wondering what it is all about ?

Being YOU is enough but it won't last forever. Stop contemplating the meaning of life and live.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s about enjoying the time that you’re here…. Not taking it too seriously …. And maybe trying to help those less fortunate in some way or another ?

So many answers … we can just choose our own that give us that warm fuzzy feeling inside

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By *estLondonDeepMan
over a year ago

London

Being creative.

Learning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What fucking dog, cat, ape, horse spends hours in mental agony wondering what it is all about?"

Lassie, Garfield, Harambe, Shergar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What fucking dog, cat, ape, horse spends hours in mental agony wondering what it is all about?

Lassie, Garfield, Harambe, Shergar."

Sessions.

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By *ire_thornMan
over a year ago

Sol The Narion system

Sometimes the only thing that fuels me is that I know at least three people depend on and need me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What keeps you going

What is life all about

"

Are you ok?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle


"What fucking dog, cat, ape, horse spends hours in mental agony wondering what it is all about?

Lassie, Garfield, Harambe, Shergar."

You never even mentioned Mr. Ed or Littlest hobo ...

Shergar is meat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

My son

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shergar is meat"

And he might not have been had he spent time wondering what it was all about.

Let that be a lesson to us all.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"What fucking dog, cat, ape, horse spends hours in mental agony wondering what it is all about?

Lassie, Garfield, Harambe, Shergar.

You never even mentioned Mr. Ed or Littlest hobo ...

Shergar is meat"

Bunny the talking dog asks some burning questions which tells me they genuinely do think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What keeps you going

What is life all about

"

My 2 cats.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What fucking dog, cat, ape, horse spends hours in mental agony wondering what it is all about?

Lassie, Garfield, Harambe, Shergar.

You never even mentioned Mr. Ed or Littlest hobo ...

Shergar is meat

Bunny the talking dog asks some burning questions which tells me they genuinely do think."

Oh she's amazing!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"What fucking dog, cat, ape, horse spends hours in mental agony wondering what it is all about?

Lassie, Garfield, Harambe, Shergar.

You never even mentioned Mr. Ed or Littlest hobo ...

Shergar is meat

Bunny the talking dog asks some burning questions which tells me they genuinely do think.

Oh she's amazing!"

She makes my heart melt and my mind *does explodey action*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What fucking dog, cat, ape, horse spends hours in mental agony wondering what it is all about?

Lassie, Garfield, Harambe, Shergar.

You never even mentioned Mr. Ed or Littlest hobo ...

Shergar is meat

Bunny the talking dog asks some burning questions which tells me they genuinely do think."

Bunny knows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My son keeps me going

What life is about making happy memories so when your older you can think back & have a chuckle to yourself

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

Galway

Love is what it's all about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant think of the word il think on it and get back to you

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By *reedom of speech OP   Man
over a year ago

Watford


"What keeps you going

What is life all about

Are you ok? "
I am good just trying to make people think about what that say and do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life for me isn't worth living, if not to help others, be it people or even animals.

I work in healthcare for a living so I do try to practice what I preach.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I don't know what life is all about, but while I'm living it, I want to do what I can to enjoy it

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Just loving life really! Living it to the full! Seize the day! Let every moment count! At the mo it's the thought of my very first 2 great grandchildren arriving end of Oct! Can't wait! Life is very good! I have very little money wise but alot of happiness x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love myself to be honest, couldn’t give a rat’s about anyone else unless they make me happy if not they can do one.

Some day’s are shit an some are amazing. Not going to sit around an wast life i’ll do the stuff i like to do. If i’m with someone i’ll do my best to make them happy (that’ll make me happy to) an if i can’t the door is there don’t let it hit your ass on the way out.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Up Your Frock!

What keeps me going is my duty to bring earthshattering multiple orgasms to the woman in the street - and some light relief to others…. Ive been very lucky to do things in my life that not many get to do and im constantly thankful for the chances I’ve been given. I worked hard too and now im pacing myself and working for my weekends …. Keep stress to a minimum and enjoy the people around me.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Adventures and friendships

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop thinking what your reply should be.....just go do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stubborness loyalty and the will to be yhere if im needed to and a simple curiosity to know if i win by the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forget about the past, don't worry about the future. Just live in the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no meaning to life. Just enjoy every moment and stop thinking you are not achieving something you are missing.

What fucking dog, cat, ape, horse spends hours in mental agony wondering what it is all about ?

Being YOU is enough but it won't last forever. Stop contemplating the meaning of life and live. "

I like this

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

My dreams trying to fulfill them and family and friends

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By *romagefraisWoman
over a year ago

Sunderland


"What keeps you going

What is life all about

"

Everything! Friends, family, sex, work, my children, warm weather, lush days at the beach, nice food, country drives, night out, drinking, dancing, having a laugh. Life is amazing.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"There is no meaning to life. Just enjoy every moment and stop thinking you are not achieving something you are missing.

What fucking dog, cat, ape, horse spends hours in mental agony wondering what it is all about ?

Being YOU is enough but it won't last forever. Stop contemplating the meaning of life and live. "

Well said Granny C

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

A good sense of peace, a nice smile and A great cup of coffee

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

SNottingham

Find yer groove & don't listen to others.

They are invariably wrong any way.

If you listened to "Nay Sayers" - you'd never get anything done. Never take a risk. Never be creative...

Take a leap for God's sake!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My sons keep me going, they’re 19 and 20 now and seeing the great young men they’ve become keeps me going!

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By *adistic_visionMan
over a year ago

bolsover

Not enough prescription drugs to do the job

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