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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok ladies / couples how do I get started hard work I knew but never thought this hard. Can't get first meeting for love not compliments without verification it doesn't even get response ! Won't give up but need help or offer of meet PLEASE HELP

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

You've only been here 3 weeks, thats no time at all... It's not instashag. There are people posting thia same thing after 6 months or more on the site.

Do you think your profile (and the messages you send people) are really selling you??

If you had 50 messages and were choosing who to reply to, what is it on your profile that stands out from the other 49 people who've mailed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im sorry but swinging is not a public service. You cannot ask women to have sex with you to 'help you out and get your first verification'.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"Ok ladies / couples how do I get started hard work I knew but never thought this hard. Can't get first meeting for love not compliments without verification it doesn't even get response ! Won't give up but need help or offer of meet PLEASE HELP "

It's the same for all blokes here. You gotta get burned a few times and then you will hone your 'craft' until you succeed.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Like others have indicated - you need to stand out from the crowd a bit and have an interesting profile. Now that can take many forms and shapes, pics and words... but it needs to sell you.

You also need patience - it will not happen over night. Throwing a tantrum will repel not attract people.

It may not be fair (Life aint) but the number of single males outweights the number of single females/ couples so you have to sell yourself better. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best thing to do is look in the meets section then go to a social and introduce yourself to the other people who are there,then one of them can verify you.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Profile wise your pics are a nice selection but your spiel is short. Like the others have said you need to sell yourself. And it can take months and months to get a meet. Try going on cam and gets veri's that way x x good luck x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Or be like me and go for the incredibly boring and dull profile, yawningly obviously profile and whinging, txt speak, spelt wrong one liner messages and see how you get on.

Ps. There may be a tad of amusement in this post.

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