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By *ong-leggedblond OP   Woman
over a year ago

Next Door

Following on from my previous thread.

Do you check yourselves often for lumps or changes?

I had a breast lump removed over 30yrs ago and I check often.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Yep, check the sack and look at my poo. That's not the sexiest thing you'll read here tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a feel yesterday as my boobs felt a little tender... But I think i made them sore by checking IF they were sore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"check the sack and look at my poo"

Do this when you're on the loo

If both are red, then what to do

Is call the Doc and hope it's 'flu

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By *ong-leggedblond OP   Woman
over a year ago

Next Door


"I have a feel yesterday as my boobs felt a little tender... But I think i made them sore by checking IF they were sore "

Oh be careful, you should examine your boobs with the palm of your hand.

Check again in a day or so.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

All over it like a car bonnet!!

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

Yes but currently it is hard to tell what is good abnormal and what is bad abnormal. I guess that is what you get for forcing the body to do things it doesn't think it needs or wants to do.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"All over it like a car bonnet!! "

Shush! Don't mention what I do to you in your boots x

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By *heNerdyFembyWoman
over a year ago

Eastbourne (she/they)

In remission for 6.5 years now for Hodgkins Lymphoma, and I fundraise for SU2C, cannot encourage people to check for anything out of the ordinary enough.

If something is strange get it checked. I know many people who put off checking cos they felt they would be wasting time.... some would have but importantly some weren't and would have caught things sooner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a feel yesterday as my boobs felt a little tender... But I think i made them sore by checking IF they were sore

Oh be careful, you should examine your boobs with the palm of your hand.

Check again in a day or so.

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Yeah I'm gonna do it again in the shower.. I'll try Thursday x

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester


"All over it like a car bonnet!!

Shush! Don't mention what I do to you in your boots x"

they won’t fit you !!!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

So so important. I lost my friend at 28 years old because she went to her GP (3 times!) as her nipples were leaking. She was told it’s normal in women or her age especially as she’d had children. She knew deep down it wasn’t right. A year later she was dead. If you have doubts get a second opinion too x.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I worked for a cancer charity so check my breasts often!

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

I do, breast cancer is prevalent on my mums side, her, my aunt and great aunts have all had it

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"So so important. I lost my friend at 28 years old because she went to her GP (3 times!) as her nipples were leaking. She was told it’s normal in women or her age especially as she’d had children. She knew deep down it wasn’t right. A year later she was dead. If you have doubts get a second opinion too x. "

Oh fuck!

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Yes. I check mine weekly and I know what's normal for me at different stages of my cycle.

My aunt died of breast cancer at 31, so as a family we're big on checking.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"So so important. I lost my friend at 28 years old because she went to her GP (3 times!) as her nipples were leaking. She was told it’s normal in women or her age especially as she’d had children. She knew deep down it wasn’t right. A year later she was dead. If you have doubts get a second opinion too x.

Oh fuck! "

Awful. I was 28 too so a long time ago and things have improved I’m sure but the second opinion thing has always stuck with me. I even double check things with the pharmacist sometimes after seeing a GP x

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By *ong-leggedblond OP   Woman
over a year ago

Next Door

Ladies, do you or would you check you vulva/labia?

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By *ong-leggedblond OP   Woman
over a year ago

Next Door


"So so important. I lost my friend at 28 years old because she went to her GP (3 times!) as her nipples were leaking. She was told it’s normal in women or her age especially as she’d had children. She knew deep down it wasn’t right. A year later she was dead. If you have doubts get a second opinion too x. "

Sorry to hear this Nora.

And yes, definitely get a second opinion if you have any doubts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So so important. I lost my friend at 28 years old because she went to her GP (3 times!) as her nipples were leaking. She was told it’s normal in women or her age especially as she’d had children. She knew deep down it wasn’t right. A year later she was dead. If you have doubts get a second opinion too x.

Oh fuck!

Awful. I was 28 too so a long time ago and things have improved I’m sure but the second opinion thing has always stuck with me. I even double check things with the pharmacist sometimes after seeing a GP x "

I wish things had changed! I heard story after story about people being misdiagnosed or told nothing was wrong in my role at a cancer charity

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By *ong-leggedblond OP   Woman
over a year ago

Next Door

Also gents, you need to check breast area and armpits.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Also gents, you need to check breast area and armpits."

This is good advice, as I found an access this way.

I use to feel my ex wife. It's not only sexy, but as you're likely to be the one who notices any difference

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon


"Yep, check the sack and look at my poo. That's not the sexiest thing you'll read here tonight "

It will turn someone one - get set for some direct messages!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I check my self each time I’m in the shower, start with my chest and then down to my balls, I found a lump in my balls a few years ago and got it checked out, doctors said it was notning to worry about. Lads and lady’s anytning your unsure of get it checked

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Yep, check the sack and look at my poo. That's not the sexiest thing you'll read here tonight

It will turn someone one - get set for some direct messages! "

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Considering I beat testicular cancer back in 2007, I check myself regularly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So so important. I lost my friend at 28 years old because she went to her GP (3 times!) as her nipples were leaking. She was told it’s normal in women or her age especially as she’d had children. She knew deep down it wasn’t right. A year later she was dead. If you have doubts get a second opinion too x. "

And if you really think deep down there’s something really wrong be persistent and ask for a second opinion if needed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats why i take so many pics so you lot can check for me

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Not really. I guess I should do it more often.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So so important. I lost my friend at 28 years old because she went to her GP (3 times!) as her nipples were leaking. She was told it’s normal in women or her age especially as she’d had children. She knew deep down it wasn’t right. A year later she was dead. If you have doubts get a second opinion too x. "

What a devastating loss

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"Thats why i take so many pics so you lot can check for me "

Take a few more of your testicles from behind. Just so I can be sure

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Not as often as i should

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I try to, but I do get paranoid that I’m not checking proper.

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By *adyHWoman
over a year ago

South Glos

CoppaFeel! Is a great charity that is raising awareness about being body aware and knowing yourself. They promote “Check ‘em Tuesday”

You can also sign up for monthly reminders to ‘cop a feel’….the text reminders are free (I donate monthly to cover the cost of my free text)

It’s an amazing charity ran by an amazing woman Kris and her team. Kris has been living with secondary metastatic cancers since 2009 (and much more since)

Definitely worth a look guys and gals

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By *heNerdyFembyWoman
over a year ago

Eastbourne (she/they)


"I try to, but I do get paranoid that I’m not checking proper."

Honestly I would imagine that is a good sign, being paranoid means its more likely nothing is out of place.

If something were out of place you probably wouldn't feel paranoid.

Does that make any sense?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thats why i take so many pics so you lot can check for me

Take a few more of your testicles from behind. Just so I can be sure "
on it

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"I try to, but I do get paranoid that I’m not checking proper.

Honestly I would imagine that is a good sign, being paranoid means its more likely nothing is out of place.

If something were out of place you probably wouldn't feel paranoid.

Does that make any sense?"

It does, yes

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"So so important. I lost my friend at 28 years old because she went to her GP (3 times!) as her nipples were leaking. She was told it’s normal in women or her age especially as she’d had children. She knew deep down it wasn’t right. A year later she was dead. If you have doubts get a second opinion too x. "

I went to my GP once because I had reddish brown fluid leaking from my nipple and had an appointment for the breast clinic within 2 weeks; had a mammogram, an ultrasound and a sample of the fluid taken at one appointment, and was told it wasn't anything sinister (consultants words) but they want to remove the milk ducts.

I got my operation date for a few weeks later. From seeing my GP to having the operation was around 6 weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was always put off getting mammograms as women said they were very painful.

It really wasn't as bad as I feared. It's definitely worth doing. My area has a mobile unit so it was really easy too.

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By *opman121Man
over a year ago

stoke on trent

I check every week u never know what’s around the corner

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

Check them Tuesday, how am I supposed to justify the other 6 days a week I'm also checking them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do, yes. Receive a text from CoppaFeel every month to remind me to check my boobs

coppafeel.org/remind-me/remind-me-sms/

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"I do, yes. Receive a text from CoppaFeel every month to remind me to check my boobs

coppafeel.org/remind-me/remind-me-sms/"

Happy to help x

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