FabSwingers.com forum: Sucess rate...

By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

This is for the guys who send as a first message the whole descriptive "this is what I'm going to do to you" message:

How successful are your replies that lead to meets??

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By *mma29Couple
over a year ago

wirral

I'd love to know the answer to this one. Because I thought it must be zero. But I could be wrong.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Do you think they actually want meets?

I always imagine them to be sat typing out their erotic fiction, one handed, whilst wanking furiously like some sort of sexually depraved Jessica Fletcher.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is for the guys who send as a first message the whole descriptive "this is what I'm going to do to you" message:

How successful are your replies that lead to meets?? "

Automatic delete for me

If they're overly aggressive, borderline r4pey then I block the profiles

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

My usual what I want to do to you message involves buying coffee and chatting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think they actually want meets?

I always imagine them to be sat typing out their erotic fiction, one handed, whilst wanking furiously like some sort of sexually depraved Jessica Fletcher.

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thats message 5

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never sent that sort of msg, not to a stranger anyway, fair enough to someone you've met a few times and know what they like but as an opener...could never see it working for me

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

I’ve never sent one and never will.

I have been sent them by “females” and i deleted them. I’m sure this works once in a while for some, but I’m sure the success rate will be low.

Remember us forum people are a little bit different so it might work much better on the rest of the site.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I always delete when I see that in the notification let alone open and read it

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I imagine they go in cycles of just sending out messages. Like 100 a day and then they give it a week or so and then start again.

We get repeat offenders who send the exact same message. I screenshot the email trail and send it to them.

I do wonder why they keep doing it…it’s just the same as cold calling - the success rate must be so minimal!

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"This is for the guys who send as a first message the whole descriptive "this is what I'm going to do to you" message:

How successful are your replies that lead to meets?? "

Surely it has a zero percent success rate?

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I wonder how many will actually admit to sending this type of message??

I'm guessing none

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are funny to read, but would be deleted with no reply.

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

That type of message, from someone I don't know, really turns my stomach

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"Do you think they actually want meets?

I always imagine them to be sat typing out their erotic fiction, one handed, whilst wanking furiously like some sort of sexually depraved Jessica Fletcher.

thats message 5

Pacing yourself is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wonder how many will actually admit to sending this type of message??

I'm guessing none

Of course....possibly guys on the forums will send to non forum users but aint nobody gonna admit that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think they actually want meets?

I always imagine them to be sat typing out their erotic fiction, one handed, whilst wanking furiously like some sort of sexually depraved Jessica Fletcher.

thats message 5

Pacing yourself is it?

like the boat race stroke stroke stroke

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"Do you think they actually want meets?

I always imagine them to be sat typing out their erotic fiction, one handed, whilst wanking furiously like some sort of sexually depraved Jessica Fletcher.

I knew my husband loved Murder She Wrote for a good reason

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

It’s about the same as any other message you send on here

90-99% chance is goes unopened

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

"Do you think they actually want meets?

I always imagine them to be sat typing out their erotic fiction, one handed, whilst wanking furiously like some sort of sexually depraved Jessica Fletcher.

That’s me that is

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

100% success.

But then again, I don’t send them out in a mass marketing way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would imagine ZERO

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By *urvybeckiWoman
over a year ago

Enfield

I usually fall asleep before reach the end of the message

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

The strange thing about this is that there must actually be a market for these type of messages.

I've seen some of these messages sent to women and couples but when I look at the profiles sending them, many of them are well verified.

Some of their verifications claim to have been attracted by their upfront approach.

Therefore to answer your question op, based on that I have to assume that USP does have a certain rate of success for those guys but doesn't necessarily mean it works for everyone.

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

"This is for the guys who send as a first message the whole descriptive "this is what I'm going to do to you" message:

How successful are your replies that lead to meets?? "

Honestly it’s rare I send out texts and I never say what I’m going to do or anything like that , it’s appreciate her photo or bio or remarks on a forum and I like to make connections around the country because I like attending events when I can it’s nice to meet someone that I’ve actually contacted once or twice ..

Success rate is probably around 1 reply in 10

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% rate if I send it to a guy

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"I wonder how many will actually admit to sending this type of message??

I'm guessing none

Most of those that do aren't forum users, as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never sent one

Never will

I don’t message anyone lady’s first at all if it leads to chat in non sexual way then great if it doesn’t it doesn’t

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By *moothCriminal_xMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Just to add some balance - the polite, witty, profile view based first message also goes unanswered 99% of the time!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"I wonder how many will actually admit to sending this type of message??

I'm guessing none

I won't admit to sending them because I don't send messages at all and when someone contacts me I don't have sexual conversations anyway.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Never sent one like that, I'm a gentleman, I wouldn't walk up to a total stranger and say in the real world why would I do it on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first messages always start with a polite hello, how are you then go on to why I am actually sending the message, something on the persons profile that caught my eye or if I want to know more about something they have said on their profile.

Gets very few responses but I can't think of any other way of doing it. Happy to hear any suggestions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think they actually want meets?

I always imagine them to be sat typing out their erotic fiction, one handed, whilst wanking furiously like some sort of sexually depraved Jessica Fletcher.

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By *hilledGuyClactonMan
over a year ago

Little clacton

Never sent one like that

Usually Just keep it simple, ask about a social or if they've asked questions on their profile.

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

I very, very rarely send a first message but if I do I don't send any like that. I would say something about me and things that our profiles have in common.

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By *eardyBikerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Do you think they actually want meets?

I always imagine them to be sat typing out their erotic fiction, one handed, whilst wanking furiously like some sort of sexually depraved Jessica Fletcher.

I'll never watch murder she wrote the same way again

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

So is that how you get meets I need to try this

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By *eardyBikerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Would never send that ...would you wk up to someone in thd Street/ bar and do that...the only thing you won't get online is the slap/ punch in the face for it

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Im too shy and respectful to send something like that ..well until i know and have met them and know something like that would go down well with them ..then the gloves are off

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"Do you think they actually want meets?

I always imagine them to be sat typing out their erotic fiction, one handed, whilst wanking furiously like some sort of sexually depraved Jessica Fletcher.

That's a really good point that I hadn't even considered.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

I send them all the time….. im going to…. Tell you a bit about myself….. engage in some conversation….. ask you about yourself…. See if we have some kind of connection …. Find out about any shared interests…. Hobbies…. Common ground…. Ask if you’d like to get a drink with no pressure or expectations ….. see if we click and flirt naturally in Person….. let things run their course……

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0 from 987

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