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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Overheard a few couples chatting in LC

"Eww I didn't fancy him - beer belly and tight shirt isn't a good look"

"Yeah she has curves in all the right places and a great rack"

Visually they both looked very similar in terms of build. Why does the woman get a positive spin on it with the BBW tag and blokes don't?

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

None of them for me...if that beer belly in on the floor

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've never heard of women being attracted to 'big' guys especially whereas some guys look for this build almost as a fetish. Weird.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

"[Removed by poster at 21/11/12 14:02:43]"
You know guys usually just go for whatever we can find....Especially here..

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Maybe no-one can think up a decent acronym for the blokes

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

plenty of women like

big

guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because curves are sexy on women... And not so much on men... Nothing to grab at... That being said skinny men are hot...

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

BBW - Big Beautiful Women

BBM - Beer Belly Man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never heard of women being attracted to 'big' guys especially whereas some guys look for this build almost as a fetish. Weird."

lots of women like or dont mind big men,

same as some men dont like big women.

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By *penyoureyes2722Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Well I do have to admit, I like certain parts of men very big

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

"Well I do have to admit, I like certain parts of men very big

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and those parts are???????????

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By *penyoureyes2722Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

"Well I do have to admit, I like certain parts of men very big

and those parts are???????????

Well long fingers for one thing

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

"Well I do have to admit, I like certain parts of men very big

and those parts are???????????

Tongue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I happen to quite like a chunky bloke!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is nothing wrong with a little padding on either but the key word is little padding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I happen to quite like a chunky bloke! "

Me to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've heard the BBW equivalent for the men is: BHM- Big Handsome Man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A big belly on a man can put his goods "in the shade" so to speak. And we all want to show ourselves in the best light.

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

BBW is no more than a euphism for fat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"BBW is no more than a euphism for fat."

Very observant; thanks for clearing that up!

do you have an actual point to make?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big boobs and hips of bbw female can symbolise fertility and breast feeding so they look like a good mate.

Big belly guy makes him lool too slow and unathletic to be a good hunter and therefore not a good mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look not lool!!!

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By *ovlad1986Man
over a year ago

Bedworth

"Big boobs and hips of bbw female can symbolise fertility and breast feeding so they look like a good mate.

Big belly guy makes him lool too slow and unathletic to be a good hunter and therefore not a good mate. "

Not all big belly guys are slow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BBM big bellied man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or pushin cushion.

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By *ovlad1986Man
over a year ago

Bedworth

"Or pushin cushion.

Don't say bbm people start putting crazy numbers and letters up but do like it

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"BBW is no more than a euphism for fat.

Very observant; thanks for clearing that up!

do you have an actual point to make? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind a " BBW " @ all. Infact, i've had great sex with afew.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

overweight, fat, chunky, chubby, stocky, obese, large, cuddly, big

i've been called them all

none of them particularly bother me now but that hasn't always been the case

i think people need to be careful when using the term 'fat' though

by careful, i guess i mean respectful and/or thoughtful

it's ok to call yourself fat, but hearing someone else say it can be confidence damaging

not because as a stand alone term it is that offensive, but because it is usually coupled with other negative words

fat and ugly

fat and smelly

getting back to the OP however, no i don't feel BBW is sexist - it is no more than a descriptive

and i have enough labels to choose from already, so personally i can live without acronyms being added to the list too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"BBW is no more than a euphism for fat."

Indeed. It's political correctness gone mad.

I am fat. It's a fact. Not a request for compliments.... or put downs. Just a fact.

It doesn't matter what words other people use to describe me. I'm just me. Some will like me, some won't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"BBW is no more than a euphism for fat.

Indeed. It's political correctness gone mad.

I am fat. It's a fact. Not a request for compliments.... or put downs. Just a fact.

It doesn't matter what words other people use to describe me. I'm just me. Some will like me, some won't.

You're not fat in the same way as you tell me I'm not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"BBW is no more than a euphism for fat.

Indeed. It's political correctness gone mad.

I am fat. It's a fact. Not a request for compliments.... or put downs. Just a fact.

It doesn't matter what words other people use to describe me. I'm just me. Some will like me, some won't.

Here:hear, x.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"BBW is no more than a euphism for fat.

Indeed. It's political correctness gone mad.

I am fat. It's a fact. Not a request for compliments.... or put downs. Just a fact.

It doesn't matter what words other people use to describe me. I'm just me. Some will like me, some won't.

You're not fat in the same way as you tell me I'm not

You're gorgeous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Overheard a few couples chatting in LC

"Eww I didn't fancy him - beer belly and tight shirt isn't a good look"

"Yeah she has curves in all the right places and a great rack"

Visually they both looked very similar in terms of build. Why does the woman get a positive spin on it with the BBW tag and blokes don't?

i think as men are more obsessed with sex, there is way more porn aimed at men than woman, thats why bbw is a mans fetish..

i have a friend who always goes for chunky guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe no-one can think up a decent acronym for the blokes"

BFC ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't see the sexism in it. Then is calling a woman a woman or a man a man sexist?

Don't like any of the 'box' labels much truth be told.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 21/11/12 14:02:43] You know guys usually just go for whatever we can find....Especially here.."

Nonsense. Men are as different in this respect as women. I've always been extremely choosy and wouldn't have dreamed of going with any Sue, Mary or Ann who came along even in my teens and early twenties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 21/11/12 14:02:43] You know guys usually just go for whatever we can find....Especially here..

However, others dream of it constantly ....

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"BBW is no more than a euphism for fat.

Very observant; thanks for clearing that up!

do you have an actual point to make? "

I thought I'd made it perfectly clear.

You have an alternative view?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Overheard a few couples chatting in LC

"Eww I didn't fancy him - beer belly and tight shirt isn't a good look"

"Yeah she has curves in all the right places and a great rack"

Visually they both looked very similar in terms of build. Why does the woman get a positive spin on it with the BBW tag and blokes don't?

IM A BBM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Overheard a few couples chatting in LC

"Eww I didn't fancy him - beer belly and tight shirt isn't a good look"

"Yeah she has curves in all the right places and a great rack"

Visually they both looked very similar in terms of build. Why does the woman get a positive spin on it with the BBW tag and blokes don't?

IM A BBM

The term for men, as mentioned above, is BHM.

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By *ntheswingCouple
over a year ago

middlesbrough

We give skinny guys a miss. A guy has to have a little meat on him. Pretty much the same for girls, skinnies need not apply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Overheard a few couples chatting in LC

"Eww I didn't fancy him - beer belly and tight shirt isn't a good look"

"Yeah she has curves in all the right places and a great rack"

Visually they both looked very similar in terms of build. Why does the woman get a positive spin on it with the BBW tag and blokes don't?

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as a stocky bloke myself its always annoyed me how many bbw i have heard commenting over the years on tubby blokes saying such things as christ look at the gut on him and jesus i would.nt do him with a shitty stick

Now come on girls as much as i love bbw you have to see the irony here yet if you even saidto them errr that dress is a little tight dear your treated as if you just killed a panda bear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Overheard a few couples chatting in LC

"Eww I didn't fancy him - beer belly and tight shirt isn't a good look"

"Yeah she has curves in all the right places and a great rack"

Visually they both looked very similar in terms of build. Why does the woman get a positive spin on it with the BBW tag and blokes don't?

as a stocky bloke myself its always annoyed me how many bbw i have heard commenting over the years on tubby blokes saying such things as christ look at the gut on him and jesus i would.nt do him with a shitty stick

Now come on girls as much as i love bbw you have to see the irony here yet if you even saidto them errr that dress is a little tight dear your treated as if you just killed a panda bear. "

There's ugly people of all shapes and sizes. Meaning ugly on the inside...

Some people get an inflated sense of self worth when they get hundreds of mails and compliments from hundreds of horny desperate men......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi im large and it doesn't stop me having great sex or doing anything,we all have our own taste to what we want and should all be respected for it weather fat or slim.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well.

i love curvy woman. size doesnt bother me.

its her personality and ability to laugh and enjoy herself which matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well.

i love curvy woman. size doesnt bother me.

its her personality and ability to laugh and enjoy herself which matters."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well.

i love curvy woman. size doesnt bother me.

its her personality and ability to laugh and enjoy herself which matters."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi im large and it doesn't stop me having great sex or doing anything,we all have our own taste to what we want and should all be respected for it weather fat or slim.

There's someone for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never heard of women being attracted to 'big' guys especially whereas some guys look for this build almost as a fetish. Weird."

I had a lover who was a large guy, and he was the sofetest, gentlest man i had ever met, kind and funny... thankfully I never place too much on looks, I prefer to get to know someone, as this is where you find their true beauty. I have to admit I am sucker for someone who makes me laugh, or at least smile....

S xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"BBW - Big Beautiful Women

BBM - Beer Belly Man"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i can only go on personaly experience.

but everytime i have met a curvy woman (and im being careful so not to offend) i have left after feeling great and that it was a excellent meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"BBW is no more than a euphism for fat."

I'm a curvy woman, and I hate the term BBW!! Similarly, when a lady I know recently called me 'cuddly', I requested this never occurred again, as I hate this term too. Id rather be called fat tbh, at least it's straight to the point with no ambiguity!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never heard of women being attracted to 'big' guys especially whereas some guys look for this build almost as a fetish. Weird.

S xx"

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

^^^^^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend of mine says that when he tells people he likes men that very few react.

But when he tells them that he exclusively likes FAT MEN then they usually don't get it.

He reckons it's like having to 'come out' twice.

He had one colleague tell him he was 'sick' for fancying fat people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A friend of mine says that when he tells people he likes men that very few react.

But when he tells them that he exclusively likes FAT MEN then they usually don't get it.

He reckons it's like having to 'come out' twice.

He had one colleague tell him he was 'sick' for fancying fat people

That made me snigger.

You have some sick mates....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Overheard a few couples chatting in LC

"Eww I didn't fancy him - beer belly and tight shirt isn't a good look"

"Yeah she has curves in all the right places and a great rack"

Visually they both looked very similar in terms of build. Why does the woman get a positive spin on it with the BBW tag and blokes don't?

personally i dont think they do, most men dont like bbw's

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BBW - sexist term!!