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"I want to know, why forum users hide having sex with other forum users? we are all adults, why the shame/secrecy?" There is absolutely no need to announce these things. Most decent people appreciate discretion. Just like in real life. You would be amazed what goes on behind closed doors. | |||
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"I just find it odd that people hide it to get with other users, seems dishonest, just wondered if there was a reason for it " I don’t get how it’s dishonest though? | |||
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"I want to know, why forum users hide having sex with other forum users? we are all adults, why the shame/secrecy?" How do you know someone is hiding anything? Are you getting 3rd party info - because that's not always reliable or true. Are you basing that assumption on a lack of veris? Because not everyone shows them. Are you mistaking banter and apparent friendship in forum threads for something more? Struggling to see what you're basing your case on.... 
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"Flaunting your business can lead to issues such as lamppost pissing or stalker behaviour" This! Too much drama sometimes | |||
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"Flaunting your business can lead to issues such as lamppost pissing or stalker behaviour" What's lamppost pissing? Is it an interest I've not been made aware of? | |||
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And you yourself had said you'd not have sex with anyone that had sex with old Martha, so I choose to hide that I'd had sex with her, that wouldn't feel a little sly to anyone else? | |||
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"I want to know, why forum users hide having sex with other forum users? we are all adults, why the shame/secrecy?" Possibly because they didn’t enjoy themselves and it would be rude to highlight that to all to everyone publicly. Or that it’s a secret for a reason. Just my thoughts. I’ve been wrong many a time. | |||
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"Flaunting your business can lead to issues such as lamppost pissing or stalker behaviour" This. Also some people on the forums take pleasure in tracking and keeping tabs on people that they don’t like for use against them with others. Not everyone is a swinger and jealousy can lead to nasty behaviour at times | |||
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"Feel like I need to elaborate as my question clearly wasn't constructed very well As an example If I had sex with Martha Stewart (I'm not sure why she's the first name that popped into my head )
And you yourself had said you'd not have sex with anyone that had sex with old Martha, so I choose to hide that I'd had sex with her, that wouldn't feel a little sly to anyone else?"If people are going to try the whole "I won't meet you if you've met someone I don't like" then good luck to them. Drama tends to invite drama. | |||
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"Feel like I need to elaborate as my question clearly wasn't constructed very well As an example If I had sex with Martha Stewart (I'm not sure why she's the first name that popped into my head )
And you yourself had said you'd not have sex with anyone that had sex with old Martha, so I choose to hide that I'd had sex with her, that wouldn't feel a little sly to anyone else?
If people are going to try the whole "I won't meet you if you've met someone I don't like" then good luck to them. Drama tends to invite drama. " | |||
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"Feel like I need to elaborate as my question clearly wasn't constructed very well As an example If I had sex with Martha Stewart (I'm not sure why she's the first name that popped into my head )
And you yourself had said you'd not have sex with anyone that had sex with old Martha, so I choose to hide that I'd had sex with her, that wouldn't feel a little sly to anyone else?"The question is then, what’s wrong with Martha and why are you vetoing anyone who’s met her? Ultimately in life, we don’t know the sexual history of people that we meet for the most part, is it important that we do? Or only that we like them and they like us? | |||
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"Feel like I need to elaborate as my question clearly wasn't constructed very well As an example If I had sex with Martha Stewart (I'm not sure why she's the first name that popped into my head )
And you yourself had said you'd not have sex with anyone that had sex with old Martha, so I choose to hide that I'd had sex with her, that wouldn't feel a little sly to anyone else?"People do that all the time. Its not a forum thing. People browse existing veris and may decide that a previous meet puts them off for whatever reason. You won't know what that reason is, nor will you have any control over it. I'm 100% sure that there are forum 'personalities' that form likes and dislikes of other forum users based on things they've seen in posts, read in veris and heard from third parties (again, gossip and the opinion of others isn't always factual). I'm also 100% sure that some will deny ever getting jiggy with someone if they think it will hamper them getting a meet with someone else. Such is life. You cant control it so don't worry about it. A | |||
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"I want to know, why forum users hide having sex with other forum users? we are all adults, why the shame/secrecy?" I thought this as well. I'm still waiting on my forum user ring in the mail for the top secret meetings. C | |||
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"Feel like I need to elaborate as my question clearly wasn't constructed very well As an example If I had sex with Martha Stewart (I'm not sure why she's the first name that popped into my head )
And you yourself had said you'd not have sex with anyone that had sex with old Martha, so I choose to hide that I'd had sex with her, that wouldn't feel a little sly to anyone else?"Have you just found your grandmother's profile on here? Oh well, seven degrees of separation and all that. | |||
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"Feel like I need to elaborate as my question clearly wasn't constructed very well As an example If I had sex with Martha Stewart (I'm not sure why she's the first name that popped into my head )
And you yourself had said you'd not have sex with anyone that had sex with old Martha, so I choose to hide that I'd had sex with her, that wouldn't feel a little sly to anyone else?"i think your overthinking things far too much the problem is some folks can see forum folks like fab celebs dumb as fuck i know but its true so just like when tom cruise got a wife some people will get pissy about it others just want to scream hey i fucked this person for the same reason or a bit like professor slughorn you have the collectors | |||
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"Feel like I need to elaborate as my question clearly wasn't constructed very well As an example If I had sex with Martha Stewart (I'm not sure why she's the first name that popped into my head )
And you yourself had said you'd not have sex with anyone that had sex with old Martha, so I choose to hide that I'd had sex with her, that wouldn't feel a little sly to anyone else?"But why would you want to play that game with them and give them that power over your experience? People have all sorts of beef with others on fab, its a hugely competitive place, seething with jealousy and posturing. If i was you I'd concentrate on yourself and try to avoid the drama | |||
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"Feel like I need to elaborate as my question clearly wasn't constructed very well As an example If I had sex with Martha Stewart (I'm not sure why she's the first name that popped into my head )
And you yourself had said you'd not have sex with anyone that had sex with old Martha, so I choose to hide that I'd had sex with her, that wouldn't feel a little sly to anyone else?
Have you just found your grandmother's profile on here?
Oh well, seven degrees of separation and all that."No mate she's well dead at this point | |||
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"I want to know, why forum users hide having sex with other forum users? we are all adults, why the shame/secrecy? I thought this as well. I'm still waiting on my forum user ring in the mail for the top secret meetings. C" Knew I was missing something, did you get the spunksealed envelope? | |||
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"First of all, people don't need to announce what they're doing and who with. It's no one else's business. Secondly, despite the supposedly open, non judgemental swinging scene people get jealous insecure and sometimes nasty. So people keep their private stuff private. " Feel like you completely missed the reconstructed question But I think it was answered already with Drama attracts drama so fuck them both off and have a wank  | |||
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"Feel like I need to elaborate as my question clearly wasn't constructed very well As an example If I had sex with Martha Stewart (I'm not sure why she's the first name that popped into my head )
And you yourself had said you'd not have sex with anyone that had sex with old Martha, so I choose to hide that I'd had sex with her, that wouldn't feel a little sly to anyone else?"Poor Martha. 
Just hide your veris. It's no-one else's business who you fuck. If they desperately need a list just make something up.  | |||
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" Think of the forums as a little village community. " Y...M...C...A Young(ish) Men with Confusing Arguments. | |||
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"Feel like I need to elaborate as my question clearly wasn't constructed very well As an example If I had sex with Martha Stewart (I'm not sure why she's the first name that popped into my head )
And you yourself had said you'd not have sex with anyone that had sex with old Martha, so I choose to hide that I'd had sex with her, that wouldn't feel a little sly to anyone else?
The question is then, what’s wrong with Martha and why are you vetoing anyone who’s met her?
Ultimately in life, we don’t know the sexual history of people that we meet for the most part, is it important that we do? Or only that we like them and they like us? "I bet Martha learned some kinky shit in prison. Who wouldn't want sex with her? OP I've been told that having sex with certain people on here is a quick way to commit fabicide. Not one single shite was given: if I like someone enough to have sex with them and they like me enough to let me, then I wouldn't give a shite about anyone else's judgement of that. I certainly wouldn't hide their veri because of someone else's opinion; that would just demean us both. | |||
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"Feel like I need to elaborate as my question clearly wasn't constructed very well As an example If I had sex with Martha Stewart (I'm not sure why she's the first name that popped into my head )
And you yourself had said you'd not have sex with anyone that had sex with old Martha, so I choose to hide that I'd had sex with her, that wouldn't feel a little sly to anyone else?
The question is then, what’s wrong with Martha and why are you vetoing anyone who’s met her?
Ultimately in life, we don’t know the sexual history of people that we meet for the most part, is it important that we do? Or only that we like them and they like us?
I bet Martha learned some kinky shit in prison. Who wouldn't want sex with her?
OP I've been told that having sex with certain people on here is a quick way to commit fabicide. Not one single shite was given: if I like someone enough to have sex with them and they like me enough to let me, then I wouldn't give a shite about anyone else's judgement of that.
I certainly wouldn't hide their veri because of someone else's opinion; that would just demean us both."I'm one of them. They all go UNLOS. It's the Lacey curse . My vag is haunted or some shit. | |||
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"Feel like I need to elaborate as my question clearly wasn't constructed very well As an example If I had sex with Martha Stewart (I'm not sure why she's the first name that popped into my head )
And you yourself had said you'd not have sex with anyone that had sex with old Martha, so I choose to hide that I'd had sex with her, that wouldn't feel a little sly to anyone else?
The question is then, what’s wrong with Martha and why are you vetoing anyone who’s met her?
Ultimately in life, we don’t know the sexual history of people that we meet for the most part, is it important that we do? Or only that we like them and they like us?
I bet Martha learned some kinky shit in prison. Who wouldn't want sex with her?
OP I've been told that having sex with certain people on here is a quick way to commit fabicide. Not one single shite was given: if I like someone enough to have sex with them and they like me enough to let me, then I wouldn't give a shite about anyone else's judgement of that.
I certainly wouldn't hide their veri because of someone else's opinion; that would just demean us both.
I'm one of them. They all go UNLOS. It's the Lacey curse . My vag is haunted or some shit. "Or... Once you've had the best it's time to give up. Though maybe chuck a bit of holy water up there to be on the safe side (doesn't hurt to be sure). | |||
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"I just find it odd that people hide it to get with other users, seems dishonest, just wondered if there was a reason for it " It’s not dishonest. It’s being private. | |||
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