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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I've just returned from the most amazing weekend in Blackpool where everything that went on was extra special.

But now I'm experiencing the worst comedown ever. Post fun blues maybe.

Does anyone else experience lows after a great swinging experience?

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I read the title as if aha were singing it.

All will be fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

probably when youve been talking getting along then it goes tits up or blocked as usual

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"probably when youve been talking getting along then it goes tits up or blocked as usual "

Average day for a single fella

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"So I've just returned from the most amazing weekend in Blackpool where everything that went on was extra special.

But now I'm experiencing the worst comedown ever. Post fun blues maybe.

Does anyone else experience lows after a great swinging experience?"

Get your next adventure organised , will give you that excitement of whats coming instead on focusing on what you had

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Next meets and socials organised here. Look forward, because backwards is in the past, and we don't go there

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"So I've just returned from the most amazing weekend in Blackpool where everything that went on was extra special.

But now I'm experiencing the worst comedown ever. Post fun blues maybe.

Does anyone else experience lows after a great swinging experience?

Get your next adventure organised , will give you that excitement of whats coming instead on focusing on what you had "

That sounds a bit like chasing the dragon.

OP, have a wee rest today and then just enjoy the smile moments the memories give you until the next adventure

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Yes. I've never had subdrop before (and I'm going to try my best to avoid that) but I definitely get a drop after intense brilliant experiences.

Honestly? Accept that it's happening. I'll normally make sure there's something else in the diary so if the drop hits bad I can say "right Meli, you've got this".

Dial up the self care to 13 - drink good food, food that brings you happiness. Healthy but delicious. Up the water intake, have a smoothie or even a bit of chocolate if you want it. Read something that can transport you to another land, a different time, brings a smile to your face. Watch romcoms. Musicals. Daft things that gently lift the depleted dopamine, reminds you it's okay. Get outside. Walk. Breathe. Bask in nature, the ever changing landscape, the simplicity and beauty to be found in it.

Think back on the memories and smile. Life is short and you've had some great experiences. Memories don't have to go on forever to be wonderful.

But most importantly?

It will pass.

And you'll have many more adventures to come.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes. I've never had subdrop before (and I'm going to try my best to avoid that) but I definitely get a drop after intense brilliant experiences.

Honestly? Accept that it's happening. I'll normally make sure there's something else in the diary so if the drop hits bad I can say "right Meli, you've got this".

Dial up the self care to 13 - drink good food, food that brings you happiness. Healthy but delicious. Up the water intake, have a smoothie or even a bit of chocolate if you want it. Read something that can transport you to another land, a different time, brings a smile to your face. Watch romcoms. Musicals. Daft things that gently lift the depleted dopamine, reminds you it's okay. Get outside. Walk. Breathe. Bask in nature, the ever changing landscape, the simplicity and beauty to be found in it.

Think back on the memories and smile. Life is short and you've had some great experiences. Memories don't have to go on forever to be wonderful.

But most importantly?

It will pass.

And you'll have many more adventures to come.

"
thank you x

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Definitely. Sometimes I almost feel hungover after going to a club even though I don't drink when I do. Kind of mad really. It's worth it though.

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian


"Definitely. Sometimes I almost feel hungover after going to a club even though I don't drink when I do. Kind of mad really. It's worth it though. "

This is actually very true

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Ah any time Op! It's a good time to check in with friends as well - I've already given a heads up to a girlfriend because she gets it and I won't feel embarrassed for not being high energy me.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Definitely. Sometimes I almost feel hungover after going to a club even though I don't drink when I do. Kind of mad really. It's worth it though. "

I get this. A good experience is intoxicating.

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London


"So I've just returned from the most amazing weekend in Blackpool where everything that went on was extra special.

But now I'm experiencing the worst comedown ever. Post fun blues maybe.

Does anyone else experience lows after a great swinging experience?"

Yes, I think there's often a comedown, endorphins can and do come at a cost

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So I've just returned from the most amazing weekend in Blackpool where everything that went on was extra special.

But now I'm experiencing the worst comedown ever. Post fun blues maybe.

Does anyone else experience lows after a great swinging experience?

Yes, I think there's often a comedown, endorphins can and do come at a cost "
it sucks big time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So a decent night's sleep and a good head wobble and the blues have passed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% I get this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes for sure.

Your body reacts to the exhilaration and craves for more..

THE ANSWER

Regular mind blowing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m always so horny after. I look to play again J x

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