FabSwingers.com forum: Does anyone still meet for a drink?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I love meeting new people

Sitting outside

Choosing a place for time to slide by

But of people watching

Light conversation

Soft flirting

Glass of wine

Nothing hurried

Chilling and feeling fine

Anyone else like to meet people for the first time in a similar setting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes me. But nobody wants to join me when I ask ha. I've a meet up for today exactly like what you have stated. (Ff meet only incase anyone is interested

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Maybe people are busy, or want to get down & dirty straight away (I also like that kind of meet)

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually find I meet genuine interested people in just such settings outside of fab and that’s how I met my long tern fwb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Personally I love it but it's finding other like-minded people as per.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we both like meeting people socially and just chatting.

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By *xmarkxx321Man
over a year ago

sittingbourne

Yes,a social is the best initial meet no expectations

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea how to do it to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life’s too short for idle chit chat, more important to be spending quality time having plenty fun (not a fan of meeting in pubs sitting with a pint of beer talking much about nothing)...!

but that’s just me, know plenty others enjoy passing time this way so good on them - if that’s what makes them happy then there’s no reason for explanations...

just not for me...

since much rather prefer to be on all fours getting repeatedly ploughed by big dicks

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Yes, I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it's a great way to get to know more about someone.

Always happy to hhave drink or bite to eat and put the wworld to rights

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

Yes I do, doesn't often happen now.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

We do.

It’s how every single meet we’ve arranged has started.

Casual drinks and flirty chat with no set agenda

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I like to meet for a daytime coffee/walk/talk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not from here but every “date” I’ve had from bumble has been a meeting for a drink situation

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Yep

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By *hin_chillinWoman
over a year ago

secret location Cork

I love meets like that, relaxed conversation, lots of laughs with a bit of flirting thrown in too....

I find by putting in a bit of time and effort getting to know someone before and during a social meet it leads to much better fun later.

For me mental stimulation is as important as physical

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By *hristopherd999Man
over a year ago

Brentwood

Yes

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By *osie xWoman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

This is ideal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I'm travelling around for work this summer so got a meet up for London in 2 weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it’s been the best way to have a social with someone I’ve found

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, definitely. Although hard to find at the moment. Got stood up only Thursday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do, can't find a likely match that does though.

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Yes we always do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep love to meet for a drink and chat

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By *isa40Couple
over a year ago

Cornwall

Yes, we like to meet first have a chat and see how we all get on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I aways post for social meetings.. where i dont travel going to clubs works out to be an expensive night so i always try have socials near home but seems like no one wants to do that close to home no more.. or just stick to clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, yes, yes...love a relaxed flirty social

NBVN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might even arrange one today

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I don't often meet,but if I do it's always socially first .

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By *anilla switchWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Yes that’s why I like attending social event’s, get to meet and flirt with lots of new faces!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah always a social first

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Drinks are a must

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Yes love them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like meets as you decribed.. harmless socials in a pub garden, nothing in it just good company,chats and making new friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No im too specific and the world too hectic and dont have the time or real desire to meet people anymore the universe has spoken and its too loud to ignore i tried i give myself points for that

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By *osey WalesMan
over a year ago

Surrey

I also enjoy the scenerio you describe OP.

If i have the time, just sitting outside a coffee shop, watching the world go by, people watching, playing the "i wonder what they do" game etc !

And not always with company !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Completely depends on the connection, I’ve actually met more to look at jobs for them as friends than I have anything else so far.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Chillaxing is great with no attachment the norm time to get to know. It's how I enjoyed my clubbing nights unlike most only out on the pull

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

That is my go to first meet with anyone x

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By *xmarkxx321Man
over a year ago

sittingbourne

"Yes, definitely. Although hard to find at the moment. Got stood up only Thursday

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omg really..........he/she must be mad!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to meet for a drink if that's not possible then a coffee is fine too

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Yes, definitely. A social meet is essential to establish whether I like them as a person. If I don't enjoy being in their company socially then there is no way I will be taking things any further. I don't have sex with people I don't actually like.

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By *htcMan
over a year ago

Not for me. Any type of asking for social for me is kind reply no thanks, even if is the hottest person and sex is guaranteed it's still a no.

It's too time consuming, and a waste of time.

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By *eisty LadyWoman
over a year ago

Count Your Blessings Cottage, Gratitude Grove

That’s better than a coffee at McDonald’s which is when Fab men tend to suggest

On other sites I’m offered dinner and wine as a first social

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I do prefer a social meet first, you get a vibe if you are going to be compatible.

I don't stick my dick in just any old Tara, Delores or Harriet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes I do, doesn't often happen now.

Putting sex aside

I’d probably meet anyway if time and location aren’t an issue. It’s nice to meet people and there’s already a common ground

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes, definitely. Although hard to find at the moment. Got stood up only Thursday

That’s unfair x

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Yes, absolutely love it!

I've been on a largely American-based porn forum for years now and every time I go to America or one of the people I chat to comes to the UK we arrange exactly this sort of a catch-up somewhere interesting. It's a fantastic way to spend an afternoon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is my preferred way to meet people. I have to meet someone in the flesh to know if there’s a spark or connection.

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By *cplsMan
over a year ago

Nr Waltham

Given an opportunity, I love too!

Break the ice, feel the chemistry, or not. Make an effort x

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By *ixiePoisonWoman
over a year ago

Darlington

I like a social meet too, drinking bit of flirting, checking each other out!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like a social meet too, drinking bit of flirting, checking each other out! "

It’s almost old school isn’t it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That’s better than a coffee at McDonald’s which is when Fab men tend to suggest

On other sites I’m offered dinner and wine as a first social"

Macdonalds!!!

Bloody hell, really?

I love taking someone out to the restaurant.

White table cloths

Fresh food

Great wine

And a lovely conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely. It’s often the best bit. Love a night of good company and great wine. Laughter does often beat sex

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

Yes. Drinks. Drinks and dinner. Dinner and drinks.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Yes, always. I insist on it.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I love it especially if a scone is involved.

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

Of course.. even better with a ice cold glass of cider in a pub garden in the summer and a huge mug of hot choc in the winter

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I've been asked to meet for a coffee tomorrow.

If I have the energy and it's not too far I'll go and let you know what went down.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've been asked to meet for a coffee tomorrow.

If I have the energy and it's not too far I'll go and let you know what went down. "

Let’s hope you have a great time

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"I've been asked to meet for a coffee tomorrow.

If I have the energy and it's not too far I'll go and let you know what went down.

Let’s hope you have a great time "

Thanks. I'll keep you posted.

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By *eisty LadyWoman
over a year ago

Count Your Blessings Cottage, Gratitude Grove

"That’s better than a coffee at McDonald’s which is when Fab men tend to suggest

On other sites I’m offered dinner and wine as a first social

Macdonalds!!!

Bloody hell, really?

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Yeah really

I’d be less posted off if it was a boneless bucket from KFC haha

I love going out for meals and taking time to really get to know someone before things progress

I love taking someone out to the restaurant.

White table cloths

Fresh food

Great wine

And a lovely conversation "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer not to

I don't date men in real life and don't want to risk bumping into someone I know and having to explain anything

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Always a social meet for me first. I also organise weekly socials - a pub quiz social and on a Sunday a coffee meet up where a few of us get together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love meeting new people

Sitting outside

Choosing a place for time to slide by

But of people watching

Light conversation

Soft flirting

Glass of wine

Nothing hurried

Chilling and feeling fine

Anyone else like to meet people for the first time in a similar setting?"

That's a lovely way to meet and spend time however, I've no real opportunities to meet anyone new in my current routine

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