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"Even on the rare occasion I match, conversation hardly ever transpires. Dating sites are just a waste of time!" ![]() | |||
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"Thing that annoys me is lack of effort in their opening messages like 'hi' or 'hello' or an emoji. I always write my intro messages with a few sentences introducing myself." … Agreed, I was an active messenger when I match with someone and it’s impossible to communicate with anyone who does one word messages, thinks an emoji is a sentence, and doesn’t ask questions I too deleted tinder but do have a profile on a dating site, not to meet anyone but to snoop around on if I’m bored, mostly to see if I recognise any friends, family or neighbours | |||
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"Even on the rare occasion I match, conversation hardly ever transpires. Dating sites are just a waste of time!" Funny isn't, different people's experiences? I have totally bombed out on fab despite being on here for an embarrassing number of years. My only two fwb were from regular dating sites (Not Tinder).. | |||
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"I deleted tinder after a couple of months too. Nobody actually wants to talk, felt like it was just all about validation. " Yeah, as if you struggled on tinder... This is a serious thread. I'm out here not getting a single like, not a single bit of interest, and you're trying to compare when you'd have gotten hundreds of likes and matches, and plenty of messages on top of that. Sounds more like you were just ignoring lots of opening messages. | |||
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"What other sites have you tried? Have you got single friends , where do they use? Just wondering if it’s an area thing that’s an issue " Only other one I tried was Bumble, but got the same result, so decided to just stick with Tinder by itself. I have a few single friends, and they get dates here and there. There are a lot of people to match with in Aberdeen | |||
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"I deleted tinder after a couple of months too. Nobody actually wants to talk, felt like it was just all about validation. Yeah, as if you struggled on tinder... This is a serious thread. I'm out here not getting a single like, not a single bit of interest, and you're trying to compare when you'd have gotten hundreds of likes and matches, and plenty of messages on top of that. Sounds more like you were just ignoring lots of opening messages." Nope, not the case at all. Moreover, I have no idea why you'd insinuate that I'm a liar. ![]() | |||
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"I deleted tinder after a couple of months too. Nobody actually wants to talk, felt like it was just all about validation. Yeah, as if you struggled on tinder... This is a serious thread. I'm out here not getting a single like, not a single bit of interest, and you're trying to compare when you'd have gotten hundreds of likes and matches, and plenty of messages on top of that. Sounds more like you were just ignoring lots of opening messages. Nope, not the case at all. Moreover, I have no idea why you'd insinuate that I'm a liar. ![]() You're a beautiful woman - you'd have gotten lots of matches and messages. Not saying that you're lying, more that you would've gotten a lot of messages, and the few guys you liked enough to message ignored you. Being selective on there is one thing, but to suggest you struggled on tinder just isn't true | |||
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"I'm with you OP, tinder is wank" Yeah that's the conclusion I've drawn as well ![]() | |||
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots. Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes? Please tell me I'm not alone? :D" I'll be super honest but as I join the forums a lot I notice your negativity hugely, that and that only would be a put off for me, your a decent looking bloke your cock is absolutely fine despite what you may think but the negativity and comparing yourself constantly is a off-putting. If the tinder was as negative as your posts then I'd say be that's maybe why. There is absolutely nothing wrong with you appearance wise, face and cock look good, embrace it. | |||
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots. Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes? Please tell me I'm not alone? :D" No matches as in you didn’t swipe on the likes you received? | |||
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"I deleted tinder after a couple of months too. Nobody actually wants to talk, felt like it was just all about validation. Yeah, as if you struggled on tinder... This is a serious thread. I'm out here not getting a single like, not a single bit of interest, and you're trying to compare when you'd have gotten hundreds of likes and matches, and plenty of messages on top of that. Sounds more like you were just ignoring lots of opening messages." You self depreciation is exhausting It's no wonder why no one would meet you, if you're like this online I dread to think how you are in person | |||
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots. Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes? Please tell me I'm not alone? :D I'll be super honest but as I join the forums a lot I notice your negativity hugely, that and that only would be a put off for me, your a decent looking bloke your cock is absolutely fine despite what you may think but the negativity and comparing yourself constantly is a off-putting. If the tinder was as negative as your posts then I'd say be that's maybe why. There is absolutely nothing wrong with you appearance wise, face and cock look good, embrace it." ![]() | |||
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots. Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes? Please tell me I'm not alone? :D I'll be super honest but as I join the forums a lot I notice your negativity hugely, that and that only would be a put off for me, your a decent looking bloke your cock is absolutely fine despite what you may think but the negativity and comparing yourself constantly is a off-putting. If the tinder was as negative as your posts then I'd say be that's maybe why. There is absolutely nothing wrong with you appearance wise, face and cock look good, embrace it. ![]() And another ![]() | |||
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"Tinder is one of those things you don't take seriously... Message them with no intent other than making them laugh! Conversation soon flows then you're away and one thing leads to another ![]() This can be said for all dating sites including Fab. It’s just a bit of fun. Don’t take it too seriously. The moment you do it’s beaten you. Lol. | |||
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"I deleted tinder after a couple of months too. Nobody actually wants to talk, felt like it was just all about validation. Yeah, as if you struggled on tinder... This is a serious thread. I'm out here not getting a single like, not a single bit of interest, and you're trying to compare when you'd have gotten hundreds of likes and matches, and plenty of messages on top of that. Sounds more like you were just ignoring lots of opening messages. Nope, not the case at all. Moreover, I have no idea why you'd insinuate that I'm a liar. ![]() This is actually quite rude of Cammo. He frequently calls people (usually women from what I have seen) liars, all whilst moaning his lack of success on here and elsewhere... Yet his veris paint a different picture ![]() | |||
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"I deleted tinder after a couple of months too. Nobody actually wants to talk, felt like it was just all about validation. Yeah, as if you struggled on tinder... This is a serious thread. I'm out here not getting a single like, not a single bit of interest, and you're trying to compare when you'd have gotten hundreds of likes and matches, and plenty of messages on top of that. Sounds more like you were just ignoring lots of opening messages. Nope, not the case at all. Moreover, I have no idea why you'd insinuate that I'm a liar. ![]() ![]() I didnt mean to insinuate she is a liar. She obviously would have done well on tinder in terms of likes and messages, but has been selective with who she wanted to message. Nothing wrong with being selective at all. Unfortunately the ones she liked didn't message back. Didn't mean that she wasn't successful though | |||
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"I deleted tinder after a couple of months too. Nobody actually wants to talk, felt like it was just all about validation. Yeah, as if you struggled on tinder... This is a serious thread. I'm out here not getting a single like, not a single bit of interest, and you're trying to compare when you'd have gotten hundreds of likes and matches, and plenty of messages on top of that. Sounds more like you were just ignoring lots of opening messages. Nope, not the case at all. Moreover, I have no idea why you'd insinuate that I'm a liar. ![]() You probably ignored his opening message ![]() | |||
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"I deleted tinder after a couple of months too. Nobody actually wants to talk, felt like it was just all about validation. Yeah, as if you struggled on tinder... This is a serious thread. I'm out here not getting a single like, not a single bit of interest, and you're trying to compare when you'd have gotten hundreds of likes and matches, and plenty of messages on top of that. Sounds more like you were just ignoring lots of opening messages. Nope, not the case at all. Moreover, I have no idea why you'd insinuate that I'm a liar. ![]() ![]() Do you complain to all the woman on tinder like you do here? | |||
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"I deleted tinder after a couple of months too. Nobody actually wants to talk, felt like it was just all about validation. Yeah, as if you struggled on tinder... This is a serious thread. I'm out here not getting a single like, not a single bit of interest, and you're trying to compare when you'd have gotten hundreds of likes and matches, and plenty of messages on top of that. Sounds more like you were just ignoring lots of opening messages. Nope, not the case at all. Moreover, I have no idea why you'd insinuate that I'm a liar. ![]() ![]() I haven't messaged her, actually. Wouldn't have had a chance either way | |||
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"Congratulations ![]() ![]() How do you know exactly what Rex looks like? As it happens, he has a great personality that comes through big time, both in written messages and in person. That's why he gets replies to messages etc. | |||
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"Congratulations ![]() ![]() If you go oop north, there's billboards of him all over the shop, like Che Guevara in Cuba or something. ![]() | |||
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"Congratulations ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() He's also on Wish, but I wouldn't recommend looking. His action figure looks like someone put Hugh Jackman in a tumble dryer for a few hours. ![]() | |||
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"Gosh Cammo. I really think you should stop trying to meet people either on here or on other dating apps. You really arent in a good place for meeting people. Go do some self reflection, personal growth, all that shenanigans. Then come back to it in a couple of years when you are a person who can bring their entire self. No one wants to date or play with someone who hates themselves so much. Even I wouldnt give you a chance (and I dont give a damn what people look like). Go be celibate and perfect your masterbation technique, and stop whinging! It makes other people feel shit about themselves too. Spread the love and positivity, not the body-hate and self-disgust. Or ignore me... either way! Tough love! Fay ![]() Brilliantly put Fay ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Go do some self reflection, personal growth, all that shenanigans." To be fair to Cammo, he has mentioned personal growth a lot. | |||
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"That said it's because of tinder I am where I am sexually now! 5 years ago at 60 I got a new phone one of my daughters set it up for me! She said I've downloaded tinder for u! I said what on earth for? Having been celibate and not interacting what so ever with a man for 13 years! She said well u never know ! So gave it a look and from there to pof to here! And a jolly good lot of fun on the way! Been an enlightening 5 years for me x" Absolutely fantastic! you go girl! | |||
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"Tinder is one of those things you don't take seriously... Message them with no intent other than making them laugh! Conversation soon flows then you're away and one thing leads to another ![]() This 100% for any site including here, you need that initial grab of their attention, Marc and me met off the back of some cheeky flirting on a thread (and also at a time i was adamant i wasnt looking to get involved with anyone), get more involved in threads and less self depricating, get to some socials and let people get to know you in person and not just a photo on a screen, you'll be surprised how your luck may change | |||
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"Tinder is one of those things you don't take seriously... Message them with no intent other than making them laugh! Conversation soon flows then you're away and one thing leads to another ![]() Good for you guys ![]() | |||
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"Tinder is one of those things you don't take seriously... Message them with no intent other than making them laugh! Conversation soon flows then you're away and one thing leads to another ![]() ![]() Keep positive man you never know ![]() | |||
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" Good for you guys ![]() I suspect this mentality is a big part of what is holding you back. Keep your chin up | |||
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"Tinder is one of those things you don't take seriously... Message them with no intent other than making them laugh! Conversation soon flows then you're away and one thing leads to another ![]() ![]() He won me over with his wit and personality, not just his looks, the whole package, show that and you'll get further than you think | |||
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"Tinder is one of those things you don't take seriously... Message them with no intent other than making them laugh! Conversation soon flows then you're away and one thing leads to another ![]() ![]() ![]() I'm very positive about myself, even though its not coming across that way. I know what I have to offer and what my strengths are, but im also realistic as to how far I will get by being a plain looking, average built single guy | |||
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"Tinder is one of those things you don't take seriously... Message them with no intent other than making them laugh! Conversation soon flows then you're away and one thing leads to another ![]() ![]() It's not always about the package you know ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Lots of matches... But hardly anyone ever sends a msg, and even fewer will go on a date. " Lots of matches is still better than nothing ![]() | |||
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots. Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes? Please tell me I'm not alone? :D" It’s all a game, really. Get some feedback on your photos choices. Create a fake female profile and look at what other guys are doing with theirs. Emulate those you think stand out as likely to be attractive or hit the goals you’re going for/feedback you’ve received. Practice! Care less about a match going anywhere and just go for it with the chat. If it starts to go well, move off the app ASAP. Ideally to a meet but WhatsApp or whatever works too. If you sit chatting on the app back and forth for days you’ll probably never meet up with them. Swipe right without even looking — don’t bother wasting time reading profiles and making a considered decision at this point. If you’re a woman, you can afford to do this, but as a man it’s generally far far more efficient and a lot less demoralising to carefully consider any matches you actually do get, rather than doing it before hand. If you’re not getting many matches after a few months then delete and remake your account with tinder. This shows you to people again and on a different day, different time, different pictures etc they might decide to swipe right. | |||
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots. Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes? Please tell me I'm not alone? :D It’s all a game, really. Get some feedback on your photos choices. Create a fake female profile and look at what other guys are doing with theirs. Emulate those you think stand out as likely to be attractive or hit the goals you’re going for/feedback you’ve received. Practice! Care less about a match going anywhere and just go for it with the chat. If it starts to go well, move off the app ASAP. Ideally to a meet but WhatsApp or whatever works too. If you sit chatting on the app back and forth for days you’ll probably never meet up with them. Swipe right without even looking — don’t bother wasting time reading profiles and making a considered decision at this point. If you’re a woman, you can afford to do this, but as a man it’s generally far far more efficient and a lot less demoralising to carefully consider any matches you actually do get, rather than doing it before hand. If you’re not getting many matches after a few months then delete and remake your account with tinder. This shows you to people again and on a different day, different time, different pictures etc they might decide to swipe right. " Ah, so now I know why I matched with so many sexy men who then deleted me ![]() | |||
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots. Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes? Please tell me I'm not alone? :D It’s all a game, really. Get some feedback on your photos choices. Create a fake female profile and look at what other guys are doing with theirs. Emulate those you think stand out as likely to be attractive or hit the goals you’re going for/feedback you’ve received. Practice! Care less about a match going anywhere and just go for it with the chat. If it starts to go well, move off the app ASAP. Ideally to a meet but WhatsApp or whatever works too. If you sit chatting on the app back and forth for days you’ll probably never meet up with them. Swipe right without even looking — don’t bother wasting time reading profiles and making a considered decision at this point. If you’re a woman, you can afford to do this, but as a man it’s generally far far more efficient and a lot less demoralising to carefully consider any matches you actually do get, rather than doing it before hand. If you’re not getting many matches after a few months then delete and remake your account with tinder. This shows you to people again and on a different day, different time, different pictures etc they might decide to swipe right. " We once did a fake male profile on another dating site as a prank but was absolutely amazed how many women were willing to speak to me, especially i used average looking guy but good bio and chat up lines lol | |||
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" It’s all a game, really. Get some feedback on your photos choices. Create a fake female profile and look at what other guys are doing with theirs. Emulate those you think stand out as likely to be attractive or hit the goals you’re going for/feedback you’ve received. " Not the best advice in my opinion. I personally think the accounts that do well on any platform come from those who are themselves and original. Emulating others isn’t really you / true self… | |||
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots. Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes? Please tell me I'm not alone? :D It’s all a game, really. Get some feedback on your photos choices. Create a fake female profile and look at what other guys are doing with theirs. Emulate those you think stand out as likely to be attractive or hit the goals you’re going for/feedback you’ve received. Practice! Care less about a match going anywhere and just go for it with the chat. If it starts to go well, move off the app ASAP. Ideally to a meet but WhatsApp or whatever works too. If you sit chatting on the app back and forth for days you’ll probably never meet up with them. Swipe right without even looking — don’t bother wasting time reading profiles and making a considered decision at this point. If you’re a woman, you can afford to do this, but as a man it’s generally far far more efficient and a lot less demoralising to carefully consider any matches you actually do get, rather than doing it before hand. If you’re not getting many matches after a few months then delete and remake your account with tinder. This shows you to people again and on a different day, different time, different pictures etc they might decide to swipe right. We once did a fake male profile on another dating site as a prank but was absolutely amazed how many women were willing to speak to me, especially i used average looking guy but good bio and chat up lines lol" Couldn't have been just an average looking guy if it was getting matches and messages | |||
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"They can't handle American spirit I guess ![]() How do you get kicked off Tinder? | |||
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" It’s all a game, really. Get some feedback on your photos choices. Create a fake female profile and look at what other guys are doing with theirs. Emulate those you think stand out as likely to be attractive or hit the goals you’re going for /feedback you’ve received. Not the best advice in my opinion. I personally think the accounts that do well on any platform come from those who are themselves and original. Emulating others isn’t really you / true self…" Emulating doesn’t mean you have to wholesale pretend to be someone else. I probably conveyed the point badly if that’s your interpretation. Of course, you have to inject your own personality into it and be real or it all falls down when you transition to dating/meeting people. I think we’ve perhaps had very different experiences of Tinder. For me it took effort to stand out and get matches. If you don’t get any then you never get the chance to let personality shine. At that point it doesn’t matter how ‘authentic ’ your profile is; you’re still sat at home watching crap on Netflix, alone! | |||
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"They can't handle American spirit I guess ![]() I know someone who got kicked off Tinder, as she was using it for multiple one night stands. She suspects one or more of her meets reported her. I told her about Fab, not sure if she joined. | |||
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots. Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes? Please tell me I'm not alone? :D" Sorry fella, never had an issue on there whether bearded or not. C | |||
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots. Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes? Please tell me I'm not alone? :D Sorry fella, never had an issue on there whether bearded or not. C" Lucky for you, Guess it's just me then. | |||
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots. Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes? Please tell me I'm not alone? :D Sorry fella, never had an issue on there whether bearded or not. C Lucky for you, Guess it's just me then." If we say its def just you will you stop this shit? | |||
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"If it wasn't for tinder I wouldn't have found my way back here ![]() ![]() May I ask how you made your way here because of tinder? | |||
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots. Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes? Please tell me I'm not alone? :D Sorry fella, never had an issue on there whether bearded or not. C Lucky for you, Guess it's just me then. If we say its def just you will you stop this shit?" Would be nice to hear this honesty from others | |||
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots. Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes? Please tell me I'm not alone? :D Sorry fella, never had an issue on there whether bearded or not. C Lucky for you, Guess it's just me then. If we say its def just you will you stop this shit? Would be nice to hear this honesty from others" I tell you this myself. I'd do it more often to others if they didn't ban for it. C | |||
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots. Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes? Please tell me I'm not alone? :D Sorry fella, never had an issue on there whether bearded or not. C Lucky for you, Guess it's just me then. If we say its def just you will you stop this shit? Would be nice to hear this honesty from others I tell you this myself. I'd do it more often to others if they didn't ban for it. C" Thanks for your honesty | |||
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"If it wasn't for tinder I wouldn't have found my way back here ![]() ![]() Talking to someone on there it came up in conversation when we were having an open and frank chat about what we were wanting, they mentioned they were on here and reminded me about the site (I was on here years ago with an ex) | |||
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots. Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes? Please tell me I'm not alone? :D" Go to CJ's in Glasgow and make things happen... ![]() | |||
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots. Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes? Please tell me I'm not alone? :D" You are not alone | |||
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots. Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes? Please tell me I'm not alone? :D Sorry fella, never had an issue on there whether bearded or not. C Lucky for you, Guess it's just me then. If we say its def just you will you stop this shit? Would be nice to hear this honesty from others" You do..all the bloody time | |||
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots. Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes? Please tell me I'm not alone? :D Sorry fella, never had an issue on there whether bearded or not. C Lucky for you, Guess it's just me then. If we say its def just you will you stop this shit? Would be nice to hear this honesty from others You do..all the bloody time " Well your honesty is appreciated. Not many have the directness to tell me it's my appearance and body that is the issue, but you've stepped up ![]() | |||
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"I deleted tinder after a couple of months too. Nobody actually wants to talk, felt like it was just all about validation. Yeah, as if you struggled on tinder... This is a serious thread. I'm out here not getting a single like, not a single bit of interest, and you're trying to compare when you'd have gotten hundreds of likes and matches, and plenty of messages on top of that. Sounds more like you were just ignoring lots of opening messages. You self depreciation is exhausting It's no wonder why no one would meet you, if you're like this online I dread to think how you are in person " dread is stating it lightly | |||
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots. Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes? Please tell me I'm not alone? :D Sorry fella, never had an issue on there whether bearded or not. C Lucky for you, Guess it's just me then. If we say its def just you will you stop this shit? Would be nice to hear this honesty from others You do..all the bloody time Well your honesty is appreciated. Not many have the directness to tell me it's my appearance and body that is the issue, but you've stepped up ![]() Are you blind? Do you read the comments people leave you? We are so fed up of your melodrama its unreal. | |||
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots. Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes? Please tell me I'm not alone? :D Sorry fella, never had an issue on there whether bearded or not. C Lucky for you, Guess it's just me then. If we say its def just you will you stop this shit? Would be nice to hear this honesty from others You do..all the bloody time Well your honesty is appreciated. Not many have the directness to tell me it's my appearance and body that is the issue, but you've stepped up ![]() I think he's either a troll or seriously attention seeking Either way it's depressing to read? He somehow manages to derail every single thread he posts on | |||
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots. Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes? Please tell me I'm not alone? :D" We have been together for 26 years so wouldn't know where to begin with modern dating. But I do have a couple of freinds who where on numerous dating websites for years before they got anywhere. Freind One was on and off various sites for about 8 years. Met a few ladies over that time and even dated a few for a bit but wasn't till last year he met "the one". Freind Two was on dating sites for about 6 years. Got no where on any of them so he gave up. Then the lady in his local corner shop asked him out after years of flirting and they've been on 3 dates now. The real issue is no one dare ask anyone out face to face anymore. There seems to be this mindset that says its wrong to bother people in their workspace, its inappropriate to ask out a work collegue or you are a creep if you approach someone you barely know. Yeah I get it, there's some strong arguments as to why that's happened and I can see why but it just feels like all modern dating is a reliance on dating apps. It's worse after lockdown as well. What happened to.people talking face to face or being willing to talk to new people without a phone involved? | |||
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots. Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes? Please tell me I'm not alone? :D We have been together for 26 years so wouldn't know where to begin with modern dating. But I do have a couple of freinds who where on numerous dating websites for years before they got anywhere. Freind One was on and off various sites for about 8 years. Met a few ladies over that time and even dated a few for a bit but wasn't till last year he met "the one". Freind Two was on dating sites for about 6 years. Got no where on any of them so he gave up. Then the lady in his local corner shop asked him out after years of flirting and they've been on 3 dates now. The real issue is no one dare ask anyone out face to face anymore. There seems to be this mindset that says its wrong to bother people in their workspace, its inappropriate to ask out a work collegue or you are a creep if you approach someone you barely know. Yeah I get it, there's some strong arguments as to why that's happened and I can see why but it just feels like all modern dating is a reliance on dating apps. It's worse after lockdown as well. What happened to.people talking face to face or being willing to talk to new people without a phone involved? " Fair play to your friend who is dating the lady from the corner shop, good for him. It's a nice organic story for this age ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots. Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes? Please tell me I'm not alone? :D We have been together for 26 years so wouldn't know where to begin with modern dating. But I do have a couple of freinds who where on numerous dating websites for years before they got anywhere. Freind One was on and off various sites for about 8 years. Met a few ladies over that time and even dated a few for a bit but wasn't till last year he met "the one". Freind Two was on dating sites for about 6 years. Got no where on any of them so he gave up. Then the lady in his local corner shop asked him out after years of flirting and they've been on 3 dates now. The real issue is no one dare ask anyone out face to face anymore. There seems to be this mindset that says its wrong to bother people in their workspace, its inappropriate to ask out a work collegue or you are a creep if you approach someone you barely know. Yeah I get it, there's some strong arguments as to why that's happened and I can see why but it just feels like all modern dating is a reliance on dating apps. It's worse after lockdown as well. What happened to.people talking face to face or being willing to talk to new people without a phone involved? Fair play to your friend who is dating the lady from the corner shop, good for him. It's a nice organic story for this age ![]() ![]() If you both physically attracted to eachother, you definitely won't think it's creepy. Just bloody lucky that person approached you. Personally, my honest response to your profile, it's your photos that would put me off. You wrote a good bio and you got plenty of verifications. But something about your demeanor comes across not very confident or plain. And just the random holding your cock isn't really that appealing. Think I would be bored in bed with you. So I would definitely upload better photos ![]() | |||
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"I don't use it, however OP, you appear a handsome guy, maybe the females are to nervous to write back/ think they won't have a chance. No idea- some F are on there as they love the attention but not interested in meeting. Maybe you could put a snap shot on here and all the tinder experts could help you out ![]() ![]() If he's written to them. I doubt that be the reason. Usually I don't respond to my tinder matches is because I studied their profile or message properly and nothing on it really entices me to reply. Like something they said has put me off lol ![]() | |||
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots. Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes? Please tell me I'm not alone? :D Sorry fella, never had an issue on there whether bearded or not. C Lucky for you, Guess it's just me then. If we say its def just you will you stop this shit? Would be nice to hear this honesty from others You do..all the bloody time Well your honesty is appreciated. Not many have the directness to tell me it's my appearance and body that is the issue, but you've stepped up ![]() It’s attention ![]() | |||
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"Tinder is one of those things you don't take seriously... Message them with no intent other than making them laugh! Conversation soon flows then you're away and one thing leads to another ![]() ![]() Have you considered the reasons why people don't seem interested BEFORE they get anywhere near your cock? I'm sorry to say, you come across as a deeply unhappy, and completely self centred person. If anyone disagrees with you they're either a liar or they couldn't understand. Then you backtrack to avoid an argument, while explaining how unhappy you are. You cycle through phases of 'i'm leaving because it's making me sad', 'i'm going to change and be more positive', 'i'll tell everyone how much easier life is for them'. On here, you're hard work, all the time. A lot of people have offered support, advice, empathy and positivity. Somehow, you manage to ignore or forget all of it in seconds. If dating apps and fab make you so unhappy, why don't you stop using them and spend time offline, with other people. Is it time for you to take into account the impact your posts and comments have on other people? | |||
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"I reckon it's more difficult when you reach 50+ to find dates." Perhaps so, but it's certainly not impossible... | |||
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"Personally, my honest response to your profile, it's your photos that would put me off. You wrote a good bio and you got plenty of verifications. But something about your demeanor comes across as very plain" I mean, that's just my face, there's nothing I can do to change my face. Haha | |||
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots. Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes? Please tell me I'm not alone? :D" I feel like I’m alone in never having tried Tinder? ![]() | |||
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots. Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes? Please tell me I'm not alone? :D I feel like I’m alone in never having tried Tinder? ![]() That’s 2 of us. I’ve never been anywhere near dating/hookup apps/sites. Oh wait…..what’s Fab’ again…… ![]() | |||
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"In response to whoever said just swipe right on everyone, Tinder uses an algorithm and swiping right on everyone actually lowers your chances of being shown to people. There's plenty articles online about Tinder's ELO scores if anyone wants to read about it. Not saying you do this Cammo, but just some info for anyone using Tinder. " I'd echo this to anyone using Tinder as well It's never how I've interacted with it. I've only ever right-swiped people I would want to talk with ![]() | |||
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"In response to whoever said just swipe right on everyone, Tinder uses an algorithm and swiping right on everyone actually lowers your chances of being shown to people. There's plenty articles online about Tinder's ELO scores if anyone wants to read about it. Not saying you do this Cammo, but just some info for anyone using Tinder. " True to a point. But for 99% of guys just swiping right on everything is still the right move. Most efficient use of time | |||
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots. Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes? Please tell me I'm not alone? :D Sorry fella, never had an issue on there whether bearded or not. C Lucky for you, Guess it's just me then. If we say its def just you will you stop this shit? Would be nice to hear this honesty from others You do..all the bloody time Well your honesty is appreciated. Not many have the directness to tell me it's my appearance and body that is the issue, but you've stepped up ![]() ![]() Your constant attention seeking and “woe is me” is completely draining OP. I can’t imagine how much of a mood hoover you must be in real life. I have no doubt that you are struggling on dating apps if your forum posts are anything to go by. | |||
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots. Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes? Please tell me I'm not alone? :D Sorry fella, never had an issue on there whether bearded or not. C Lucky for you, Guess it's just me then. If we say its def just you will you stop this shit? Would be nice to hear this honesty from others You do..all the bloody time Well your honesty is appreciated. Not many have the directness to tell me it's my appearance and body that is the issue, but you've stepped up ![]() ![]() I'm nothing like this in person. In real life I put myself across as well as I can, and don't mention anything about my obvious deficiencies. But on here I can be more honest about why I'm failing on this side of things. I don't say any of these things for attention, only to bring myself to terms with it over time so I won't be bothered by it anymore ![]() | |||
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots. Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes? Please tell me I'm not alone? :D Sorry fella, never had an issue on there whether bearded or not. C Lucky for you, Guess it's just me then. If we say its def just you will you stop this shit? Would be nice to hear this honesty from others You do..all the bloody time Well your honesty is appreciated. Not many have the directness to tell me it's my appearance and body that is the issue, but you've stepped up ![]() ![]() ![]() You need psychological input. | |||
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"Lots of matches... But hardly anyone ever sends a msg, and even fewer will go on a date. Lots of matches is still better than nothing ![]() It's not really... It means nothing. | |||
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots. Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes? Please tell me I'm not alone? :D I feel like I’m alone in never having tried Tinder? ![]() ![]() Wash your mouth out! Fab is for genuine swingers, remember? Not general hook-ups ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots. Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes? Please tell me I'm not alone? :D Sorry fella, never had an issue on there whether bearded or not. C Lucky for you, Guess it's just me then. If we say its def just you will you stop this shit? Would be nice to hear this honesty from others You do..all the bloody time Well your honesty is appreciated. Not many have the directness to tell me it's my appearance and body that is the issue, but you've stepped up ![]() ![]() ![]() Probably just need a break from all these apps to be honest. Been comparing myself to others too much recently. I get that its draining for others ![]() | |||
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots. Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes? Please tell me I'm not alone? :D Sorry fella, never had an issue on there whether bearded or not. C Lucky for you, Guess it's just me then. If we say its def just you will you stop this shit? Would be nice to hear this honesty from others You do..all the bloody time Well your honesty is appreciated. Not many have the directness to tell me it's my appearance and body that is the issue, but you've stepped up ![]() This. I pondered the other week whether this was body dysmorphia, or pure attention seeking. It's definitely attention seeking, it's better to just ignore it. He's like a real life Marvin the Paranoid Android, sucking the life out out of everyone. | |||
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"I’d only get a few a year on there or on other apps. I gave up when Covid started I think. " That's an outstanding set of lingerie ![]() | |||
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots. Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes? Please tell me I'm not alone? :D Sorry fella, never had an issue on there whether bearded or not. C Lucky for you, Guess it's just me then. If we say its def just you will you stop this shit? Would be nice to hear this honesty from others You do..all the bloody time Well your honesty is appreciated. Not many have the directness to tell me it's my appearance and body that is the issue, but you've stepped up ![]() ![]() ![]() I've never see it phrased that way I just cackled so hard lol....but yes agreed. | |||
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"Fuck me is this still going? ![]() Is that a question or an offer?! ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Fuck me is this still going? ![]() Only another 40 posts to go…… ![]() | |||
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"Fuck me is this still going? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Oooft! It was actually a question, but now I'm not so sure ![]() | |||
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"Fuck me is this still going? ![]() ![]() Buckle up then mate, we're in for the long haul ![]() | |||
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"Fuck me is this still going? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Always ready to answer a question ![]() | |||
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"Fuck me is this still going? ![]() ![]() ![]() Not in Cammo’s case; don’t you know he only has a short willy? ![]() | |||
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"Fuck me is this still going? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I did not know this ![]() | |||
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"Fuck me is this still going? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Your wifi must be down then ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Fuck me is this still going? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Haha! ![]() | |||
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"Fuck me is this still going? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Don’t worry; many would regard it as a blessing (don’t green arrow him ffs) ![]() | |||
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"Fuck me is this still going? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I was being sarcastic lol | |||
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"Fuck me is this still going? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I know ![]() ![]() | |||
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