FabSwingers.com forum: Diversity of society

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'd love to be able to say we live in a world where we all have the same likes and dislikes, that we all think the same way, we all have the same moral code and we all support the same football team, but the reality is that we dont. Society isn't like that, it is a complex arrangement of complex human beings with different levels of acceptability. We have different things that we deem right or wrong. We have vastly different needs, and we have an extraordinary different innermost secrets and desires.

It is good and proper that some people are offended by things that do not offend others as it is a good barometer of how human morality is keeping our society in check and when the scales tip too much one way or the other it is this morality barometer that kicks in and tells us to pull back, but it shouldn't be the yardstick by which all things are measured.

A person's fantasy can be just that, and when it involves consenting adults of a like minded nature then it should be interpreted for what it is, not because there is some subliminal dark secret manifesting itself.

Is there any difference in one person's desire to be submissive than another person's desire to don an Anne Summers schoolgirl outfit and play out a naughty girl/older man spanking fantasy?

Where does the line between consentual play cross over into the things we don't like to confront, or only whisper about in dark corners of a dark room for fear of the thought police accusing us of being the very thing we abhor the most?

How do we uphold the right to speak freely about some of our deepest thoughts if at some point we supress those who exercise those rights?

It's not a sick world we live in, just a diverse one.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

if it involves consenting adults and not including the vulnerable, your choice & go for it.

It is also my choice to find some highly inappropriate and offensive and if asked what I thought about it, I will say.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"if it involves consenting adults and not including the vulnerable, your choice & go for it.

It is also my choice to find some highly inappropriate and offensive and if asked what I thought about it, I will say."

And rightly so. It is the barometer of which I spoke kicking in.

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By *ister PlayMan
over a year ago

Warwickshire / Birmingham

You're all sick!

Missionary position, lights off monogamy is the only morally acceptable form of sexual expression. And only on certain special days.

... Wait... Am I on the correct site here?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You're all sick!

Missionary position, lights off monogamy is the only morally acceptable form of sexual expression. And only on certain special days.

... Wait... Am I on the correct site here?

No, mormonswingers.com is only open on Sundays after morning worship.

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

"It's not a sick world we live in, just a diverse one."

Unfortunately there is a sick side to this world which I come across regularly within my profession however there are far too many people who mistake diversity for depravity!!

It would be boring if we were all the same and as long as it doesn't harm anyone then live true to yourself and don't judge others for being true to themselves

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's not a sick world we live in, just a diverse one.

Unfortunately there is a sick side to this world which I come across regularly within my profession however there are far too many people who mistake diversity for depravity!!

It would be boring if we were all the same and as long as it doesn't harm anyone then live true to yourself and don't judge others for being true to themselves

I couldn't agree more. Sure there are some sick people in this world but fortunately they are not in the main. Unfortunately, the media rely heavily upon them to sell news. The majority of people are decent human beings - with a few little quirks here and there.

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