FabSwingers.com forum: Giving your mobile number..

By *eyeY OP Couple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Trying to understand why some are so nervous about it..

Not a critical comment! Each to their own etc..

We're not stupid and get the worry of hounding messages etc, but in this day and age you can just block a number, obviously we are talking about people you have confidence are genuine and had prior messages.

What other reasons might we be missing guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With number now most of the time link to other social media. People will find your Facebook, Instagram etc etc so your private life can be disclosed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their wife might pick it up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Their wife might pick it up."

If mine picked it up, shit……I’d never stop her talking long enough to speak to them myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Links to social medias are probably the biggest one if you were to have them on your profile. Wouldn’t take long for someone with skullduggery in mind, to find you on your other socials (if you have them).

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By *eyeY OP Couple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

"With number now most of the time link to other social media. People will find your Facebook, Instagram etc etc so your private life can be disclosed "

True, experienced that and unlinked ours..

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By *eyeY OP Couple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

conce
"Their wife might pick it up."

Very true.. lol, obviously not a concern in our case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Links to social medias are probably the biggest one if you were to have them on your profile. Wouldn’t take long for someone with skullduggery in mind, to find you on your other socials (if you have them)."

That’s why I have a pay and go swingers SIM card that isn’t connected to anything and is in one off my older iPhones

Also if number gets put anywhere or shared out it’s a easy snap sim and get a new free one

And no needing to explain to family and friends about number change or blocking numbers

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By *eyeY OP Couple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Naturally we do, to be honest if we got to that point we'd already have their pictures and them ours.. We're friends with 3 couples on Facebook and obviously keep any reference to what they/we do well away..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont give my number i dont want to be asked at 3am if i like scary movies

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By *eyeY OP Couple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

That’s why I have a pay and go swingers SIM card that isn’t connected to anything and is in one off my older iPhones

Also if number gets put anywhere or shared out it’s a easy snap sim and get a new free one

And no needing to explain to family and friends about number change or blocking numbers

This is an idea for when we move in together..

So you have little worry about giving that number out then we guess?

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By *eyeY OP Couple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

"I dont give my number i dont want to be asked at 3am if i like scary movies"

Do not disturb?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

They didn't buy a dual SIM phone at upgrade time, so don't have a burner number they can use 247.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont give my number i dont want to be asked at 3am if i like scary movies"

Damn there goes my Saturday night fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont give my number i dont want to be asked at 3am if i like scary movies

Do not disturb?"
exactly dont desturb me

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

We have a swingers mobile, just an old phone we use for this lifestyle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont give my number i dont want to be asked at 3am if i like scary movies

Damn there goes my Saturday night fun."
sorry for your loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have a swingers mobile, just an old phone we use for this lifestyle.

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nicecouple have the shagphone i remember cos its red like commisioner gordons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s why I have a pay and go swingers SIM card that isn’t connected to anything and is in one off my older iPhones

Also if number gets put anywhere or shared out it’s a easy snap sim and get a new free one

And no needing to explain to family and friends about number change or blocking numbers

This is an idea for when we move in together..

So you have little worry about giving that number out then we guess?"

Nope I don’t as it’s just a throw away SIM card

That sits switched off only gets switched on to arrange meets at a set time that me and the other person or people have agreed to it sits on for 15 minutes past sed time if not called or picked up gets switched back off

Also if number gets shared around I can just snap the sim and order another free sim maybe loose £5 credit but that’s it

Also comes in handy if at clubs or nightclubs and people want my number I can have that phone on me and give them that

Works well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to hand mines out, but after being contacted by the police (they got in contact with me cause my number was on his phone) Id rather just use my fab account than my personal phone number. Also Im not a fan of constant messaging on a phone so prefer keeping it to here nowadays.

Then there is the whole social media thing that has been mentioned above.

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By *eyeY OP Couple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

We appreciate the input! We wanted to check if there was anything we hadn't considered..

Due to recent ghosting/bailing out of meets we had arranged we will only now bother to make any plans if we have a mobile number.

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By *eyeY OP Couple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

"I used to hand mines out, but after being contacted by the police (they got in contact with me cause my number was on his phone) Id rather just use my fab account than my personal phone number. Also Im not a fan of constant messaging on a phone so prefer keeping it to here nowadays.

Then there is the whole social media thing that has been mentioned above."

That is a new one.. Can imagine the pause when asked "Can you tell us your relationship with ......?" Eek!

That is actually a scenario a burner phone could be worse for.. They'd potentially turn up at your house!

As we said, not in any way a criticism.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

If we've been chatting, or met, why not?

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By *idnight RamblerMan
over a year ago

Pershore

Never leave footprints.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then there is the whole social media thing that has been mentioned above.

That is a new one.. Can imagine the pause when asked "Can you tell us your relationship with ......?" Eek!

That is actually a scenario a burner phone could be worse for.. They'd potentially turn up at your house!

As we said, not in any way a criticism."

If it's a burner phone then how would they turn up at your house. Burner phones are untraceable

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

"With number now most of the time link to other social media. People will find your Facebook, Instagram etc etc so your private life can be disclosed "

This happened to me in the past. It took quite a while to regain my professional reputation but I lost a lot of work through it.

Marc

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I don't mind sharing mine but I think as most have mentioned before, people can be worried about being found on social media really as often enough, people tend to keep their lifestyle and personal life separately so definitely a factor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then there is the whole social media thing that has been mentioned above.

That is a new one.. Can imagine the pause when asked "Can you tell us your relationship with ......?" Eek!

That is actually a scenario a burner phone could be worse for.. They'd potentially turn up at your house!

As we said, not in any way a criticism."

yeah there was no realtionship, he was clingey, and I had blocked him but he still had my number and messages in his phone so when they contacted me it was a bit of a shock

ive never used a burner phone ever and am not that active on fab all the time to bother with one

everyone has there own way of doing fab

mines works well for me only been ghosted once in 10 years

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

I have a separate old phone with a top up sim just for sites like fab / social sites.

It’s just for video call verifaction mostly and few texts / calls when needed to meet. Outside of that it’s switched off slung in a drawer

Works perfect for me

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By *estLondonDeepMan
over a year ago

London

Unless it changed recently, it's quite hard to find someone or a personal account on Facebook and Insta (Meta companies) from a phone number. It changed roughly the same time as the introduction of GDPR. No idea about Chinese owned social media.

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Don’t really see the need to hand out phone numbers these days. There’s so many messaging apps around that were not bothered about swapping numbers

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By *eyeY OP Couple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Then there is the whole social media thing that has been mentioned above.

That is a new one.. Can imagine the pause when asked "Can you tell us your relationship with ......?" Eek!

That is actually a scenario a burner phone could be worse for.. They'd potentially turn up at your house!

As we said, not in any way a criticism.

If it's a burner phone then how would they turn up at your house. Burner phones are untraceable "

How so? It's a standard sim in a normal phone to our knowledge..

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

Then there is the whole social media thing that has been mentioned above.

That is a new one.. Can imagine the pause when asked "Can you tell us your relationship with ......?" Eek!

That is actually a scenario a burner phone could be worse for.. They'd potentially turn up at your house!

As we said, not in any way a criticism.

If it's a burner phone then how would they turn up at your house. Burner phones are untraceable "

I can assure you, first hand knowledge, they’re still traceable. Anything with a SIM card in can be traced very easily.

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By *eyeY OP Couple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Yep!! As we thought

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By *eyeY OP Couple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

"Don’t really see the need to hand out phone numbers these days. There’s so many messaging apps around that were not bothered about swapping numbers"

Guess after being fucked around by a couple it's a trust thing for us. We shifted our entire weekend to accommodate and they just disappeared with a rather pathetic excuse an hour after we were supposed to meet.. Won't do it again

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By *eyeY OP Couple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

"Unless it changed recently, it's quite hard to find someone or a personal account on Facebook and Insta (Meta companies) from a phone number. It changed roughly the same time as the introduction of GDPR. No idea about Chinese owned social media."

Actually not, prior to unlinking mobile number's from our Facebook accounts, we had a couple we're meeting soon and an estate agent we have been dealing with pop up as friend suggestions.. Albeit Mr had their numbers saved as contact's (but why wouldn't you)

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Don’t really see the need to hand out phone numbers these days. There’s so many messaging apps around that were not bothered about swapping numbers

Would having their phone number have made any difference ?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I don't use Instgrambook or whatever, but if I've got a meet arranged off here we always swap numbers

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Privacy. Just privacy.

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By *eyeY OP Couple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

"Don’t really see the need to hand out phone numbers these days. There’s so many messaging apps around that were not bothered about swapping numbers

Would having their phone number have made any difference ?"

Fair point and probably not, but feel the lack being able to contact allowed the swerve..

Let us be clear, it was their initial contact and invitation. Also m if we'd made arrangements to meet anyone swinging or vanilla , would we not be justified in calling? Believe it's manners really..

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

I no longer give out my number. I have had more than 1 guy hound me... If I was online they would message me, then if I didn't answer, they would send a kik telling me they had, then if I didn't respond to that they would WhatsApp me aswell then text.... Nope! No thanks!

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By *eyeY OP Couple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

"I don't use Instgrambook or whatever, but if I've got a meet arranged off here we always swap numbers

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Privacy. Just privacy. "

This for me. Fab and real world are totally separate for me. A handful of people I have met on here are now in my real world so they have my number. Other than that nope I don’t give mine x

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By *merican WomanWoman
over a year ago

live by the Pool xx

Men tend to call and leave creepy voicemails, or threaten to track I'd down with our number, or threaten to use our number on call girl websites, or the call my number crap loads of times without my permission

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I give my number out if we're getting on well and it looks like we're going to meet up. If things go wrong after that, I'll block them.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"We have a swingers mobile, just an old phone we use for this lifestyle.

nicecouple have the shagphone i remember cos its red like commisioner gordons

Yep. We do. We recently upgraded it actually

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By *xxLandNxxxCouple
over a year ago

nuneaton

"Trying to understand why some are so nervous about it..

Not a critical comment! Each to their own etc..

What other reasons might we be missing guys?

Definitely with a couple we like a WhatsApp group you can see who’s chatting and get to know both half’s of the couple. Gave out our number once to a single guy and was bombarded with messages at all hours asking if we was horny so that’s kind of put us off doing that again.

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

I don’t put my number on any form of social media, at all. And certainly wouldn’t give it out on here to people.

Even now I get blokes messaging me on Facebook from here asking to meet, a total breach of my privacy.

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By *eyeY OP Couple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

"Privacy. Just privacy. "

Agreed, we respect that utterly! Use telegram as well to that end. But to arrange something and then ghost.. Acceptable? We don't waste other people's time..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With number now most of the time link to other social media. People will find your Facebook, Instagram etc etc so your private life can be disclosed "

Actually don't think that is still the case -- it used to work. (Spoken with disappointment LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 people from fab have my number but those are people I've chatted to on here for a long time...no one gets it willy nilly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Phone number - if they can't trust me with their phone number, they certainly shouldn't trust their cock anywhere in the vicinity of my teeth.

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By *eyeY OP Couple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

"Trying to understand why some are so nervous about it..

Not a critical comment! Each to their own etc..

What other reasons might we be missing guys?

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By *eyeY OP Couple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

"Phone number - if they can't trust me with their phone number, they certainly shouldn't trust their cock anywhere in the vicinity of my teeth.

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trying to understand why some are so nervous about it..

Not a critical comment! Each to their own etc..

What other reasons might we be missing guys?

It takes literally seconds to block a number.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Privacy. Just privacy.

Agreed, we respect that utterly! Use telegram as well to that end. But to arrange something and then ghost.. Acceptable? We don't waste other people's time.."

Neither do we. Ghosting is common, it's happened to us a few times.

The thing is just as we can block their number they can block ours. We do keep a dedicated swinging phone though but only give the number once we've agreed a meet as in date, time, location

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trying to understand why some are so nervous about it..

Not a critical comment! Each to their own etc..

What other reasons might we be missing guys?

It takes literally seconds to block a number. "

They can call you from another number.

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham

"Don’t really see the need to hand out phone numbers these days. There’s so many messaging apps around that were not bothered about swapping numbers

Unrelated to phones, but don’t ever rearrange vanilla plans for a first meet. If timings are difficult, try again next time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact of social media are connected

It's just how it is .

If you are Normal

You won't go and like their Facebook picks - hi remember me blah blah .

It can get messy when you got someone who mistakes fab as dating

BLOCK

Blowing up my phone and when I call them out on bs - I was only friendly

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I don't use Instgrambook or whatever, but if I've got a meet arranged off here we always swap numbers

Best part is, there's a Lady who used to post on here quite regularly that came to stay at mine for a couple of nights lives in Suffolk, and she's got a crap signal on her phone

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By *eyeY OP Couple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

"Privacy. Just privacy.

Agreed, we respect that utterly! Use telegram as well to that end. But to arrange something and then ghost.. Acceptable? We don't waste other people's time..

Neither do we. Ghosting is common, it's happened to us a few times.

The thing is just as we can block their number they can block ours. We do keep a dedicated swinging phone though but only give the number once we've agreed a meet as in date, time, location "

Fair enough, that is giving your number though and our point entirely..

We just won't bother if there's not the trust to give us numbers from now on.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

We just won't bother if there's not the trust to give us numbers from now on. "

About half the posters on this thread have said they won't share their phone number so you are greatly reducing your number of potential meets

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By *eyeY OP Couple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Got to go to work now, but..

Everyone is entitled to their own ways of contact, privacy and how they go about this lifestyle!

We were looking any additional reasons (that we might not have considered) to be cautious about giving our number's and reasons why others may not.

However for us though if they can't trust us with phone numbers, why should we trust them with our partner..

Have a great day all!!

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Fab life. Real life.

I've had a weird stalker in the past too.

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By *heaspieswingerMan
over a year ago

Peak District

We give our phone numbers out if people ask.

But our numbers aren’t linked to social media. In the past when people have given us their numbers, they’ve popped up as friend suggestions on Facebook. But we ignore it as it’s none of our business. Our private lives and swinging lives are separate.

By the time we get to meet, we’ve already exchanged face photos anyway. The technology exists to extrapolate the faces from this and search for people (as creepy and disturbing as that is.) At this point as long as someone isn’t shouting it to the world or being a dick, it’s not a big deal for us

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By *eyeY OP Couple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

We just won't bother if there's not the trust to give us numbers from now on.

About half the posters on this thread have said they won't share their phone number so you are greatly reducing your number of potential meets"

We're purely asking a question and don't see the point of your statement. If you have a different perspective we respect that. However to say what we've done and potentially consequences of that is personal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only have my work number and if I leave my job the next guy inherits the number and the booty call

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By *ealDea1Man
over a year ago

Louth/M1

What many might not know is you can use another number on a your regular mobile for your WhatsApp... has to be live to get initial verification code... but it allows that unknown number on your phone without the need to carry a second phone... the downside is it means you can't use your WhatsApp to partner if they don't know what you've done... you could genuinely say it's to stop potential hacking... I run my WhatsApp that way and not one friend has asked why the number is different yet... you can obviously use WhatsApp for calls and video chat if wanted... you can also have it constantly muted and it doesn't affect your normal mobile use...

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Apologies.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Privacy. Just privacy.

Agreed, we respect that utterly! Use telegram as well to that end. But to arrange something and then ghost.. Acceptable? We don't waste other people's time..

Neither do we. Ghosting is common, it's happened to us a few times.

The thing is just as we can block their number they can block ours. We do keep a dedicated swinging phone though but only give the number once we've agreed a meet as in date, time, location

Fair enough, that is giving your number though and our point entirely..

We just won't bother if there's not the trust to give us numbers from now on. "

That's entirely your prerogative. We have reasons we won't interact with people too.

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By *r Mind CandyMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

I have a Fab burner phone, however I don't give the number out to unverified or random peeps. As I tend to meet at my place due to having a playroom at home, a cheeky video call before a meet is always a good idea. I would rather give my phone number out before my address.

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By *eyeY OP Couple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Apologies. "

Accepted with thanks! Have a good weekend!

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

"We have a swingers mobile, just an old phone we use for this lifestyle.

nicecouple have the shagphone i remember cos its red like commisioner gordons

I have a shagbag, always ready for action be it dogging, party, club meet or gang bang.

I'm an organised type of lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a fwb who got caught up ...turned stalker/pesk.... each time I blocked a number he simply got a new sim card .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so to each his own but no I don't give my number out there are too many apps about to chat on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have a swingers mobile, just an old phone we use for this lifestyle.

Great idea...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s why I have a pay and go swingers SIM card that isn’t connected to anything and is in one off my older iPhones

Also if number gets put anywhere or shared out it’s a easy snap sim and get a new free one

And no needing to explain to family and friends about number change or blocking numbers

This is an idea for when we move in together..

So you have little worry about giving that number out then we guess?"

It's a burner phone essentially so no absolutely nothing to worry about

Anyone who gives the main mobile number who also uses Facebook and social media are crazy imo but hen I'm tech minded and know the damage that could be done in the wrong hands.

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By *merican WomanWoman
over a year ago

live by the Pool xx

Creepy voicemails.

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By *hilledGuyClactonMan
over a year ago

Little clacton

They can pretty much find your social media accounts..

Also if it don't workout they could keep posting your number in various places.

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By *merican WomanWoman
over a year ago

live by the Pool xx

Loads to worry about

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

"Their wife might pick it up.

If mine picked it up, shit……I’d never stop her talking long enough to speak to them myself

Haha a fellas number called me once and it turned out to be his wife... Was it yours?

She was aggressive at first and I had to reason with her.

I was, at the time, single and if she has beef, it's her husband she should be having a go for a breach of contract...

It got quite civil by the end of our wee chat...

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

"so to each his own but no I don't give my number out there are too many apps about to chat on"

A girlfriend who is an escort will not meet unless she speaks to potential clients on a number. It's for her safety as the police can ultimately find him if they need to.

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By *ady CurvaceousWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I was traced onto Facebook, then stalked, threatened and a black-mail attempt. Threats against my family, my son and my work. Police involved. Giving ANY personal information is dangerous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s why I have a pay and go swingers SIM card that isn’t connected to anything and is in one off my older iPhones

Also if number gets put anywhere or shared out it’s a easy snap sim and get a new free one

And no needing to explain to family and friends about number change or blocking numbers

That’s actually a really good idea

F (Mrs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was traced onto Facebook, then stalked, threatened and a black-mail attempt. Threats against my family, my son and my work. Police involved. Giving ANY personal information is dangerous. "

I agree...

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Because they can sell your number to a call centre for a "mobile phone upgrade".

Had three of those fuckers this week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trying to understand why some are so nervous about it..

Not a critical comment! Each to their own etc..

What other reasons might we be missing guys?

Neither of us has an issue giving our numbers out, but we will only share with people we get a ‘good vibe’ about after chatting on here for a while. You can’t access any private details about us on our social media unless you’re friends with either of us, and we don’t post pictures on here that have been posted elsewhere either. Usually we are happy for WhatsApp chats with people we get on with, but have recently discovered Kik as well.

I suppose as well it depends on how private people want to keep their lifestyle choice - I am aware that some people absolutely do not want outed, and I guess that plays a factor in protecting personal details

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was traced onto Facebook, then stalked, threatened and a black-mail attempt. Threats against my family, my son and my work. Police involved. Giving ANY personal information is dangerous. "
sorry that happened to you most men don't understand what we go through sometimes...something so simple as giving your number out can lead to so much .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was traced onto Facebook, then stalked, threatened and a black-mail attempt. Threats against my family, my son and my work. Police involved. Giving ANY personal information is dangerous. sorry that happened to you most men don't understand what we go through sometimes...something so simple as giving your number out can lead to so much ....."
should say ppl not men as this could happen to either but you don't understand it unless it's actually happened to you or someone you are close to.

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By *r WhispererMan
over a year ago

brynmawr

There’s no need for phone numbers now, apps like Kik telegram and line make username based communication easy and safe. I don’t give out my number to anyone until I know them a little and that includes all social media.

Telegram is my weapon of choice for now, Kik won’t accept new contacts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trying to understand why some are so nervous about it..

Not a critical comment! Each to their own etc..

What other reasons might we be missing guys?

I don't give my main/personal/work number out, ever. I have a second phone with a 30 day rolling contract for about £4 per month that I use purely for online hookups and even then, if I was to come off this site to chat to someone, I'd want it to be on KIK or TG, where no number is required.

I was stalked by a guy at work about sixteen years ago, I was then stalked by an ex a few years ago who had shown no previous psychotic tendencies - and I'd known him for years, just not that side of him.

You can block their number, sure, but they still HAVE your number, you can't erase it from their end once they've saved it.

Some people may not have disabled 'search/find by mobile number' on various social media sites or communication apps (FB, SC, WA, TG, KIK, Linkedin), so a quick search on various sites and they could get your full name, employment/employer details, pictures of you, your friends, your family. Maybe you uploaded a picture stood at your front door with the house number and identifiable features on display (all depending on your privacy settings)? A lot of apps request access to your contacts and then suggest people in your phone book that you might want to add to the apps, so they can find you on other sites and apps that way (depending on your privacy settings).

You can do a LOT with a mobile number. You can use it to find out much more online. It opens up a ton of extended information.

Blocking their number isn't really effective. Your phone will still receive the text message (at least on Android), but it will be hidden in a spam and blocked folder. Temptation may get the better of your and you might check the folder to see if they've messaged you and see something you wish you hadn't. As I said, if you've forgotten to disable the 'search/find by number' or app access to contacts options, you might block their number and then find yourself getting messages on FB, SC, TG, WA and more.

My local police force was placed into special measures. They don't have a great record or reputation when it comes to tackling online harassment.

On my Android 11 phone, I can't see an option anywhere to automatically delete spam or blocked number texts, so they will sit in that folder until you manually go in and delete them or until Google auto deletes them, if that's a thing, it doesn't say. Likelihood is if there's a message there you won't be able to avoid the temptation to read it.

They can still get free SIM cards from the likes of giffgaff or other providers for 99p at the shops and just top them up at the till and they can easily message you from new, throw away numbers. Depending on how they top up, they might not even need to register any personal information with the network. You can pick up certain SIMs at Tesco, top them up at the till and don't have to register any personal details, so it's very easy for idiots to get new, throw away numbers.

They can still pass your number to their friends to call or harass you, if they are blocked. I've seen this happen a lot when I used to work in mobile telecommunications. Some friends and family are blindly loyal, and will believe and accept any story they're told by their friends or loved ones and psychos will usually get their friends to chip in with the dirty work if you've blocked their number.

They can still call you from a withheld line. Sure, you can block calls from withheld numbers, but then you risk missing work calls, calls from hospital clinics, calls from the bank or credit card providers, lots of companies withhold their number when they call. I know my doctor's surgery used to, but they've since stopped, but some lines from the hospital still show up as withheld. My local sexual health clinic always makes me arrange a call back to discuss dispensing my PrEP every three months and then always tell me 'the call might show up as withheld so don't ignore it.' It's too much of a pain to keep blocking and unblocking withheld numbers.

They can register your number for certain spam messages. My friend's ex registered her for a load of explicit spam when she left him after he cheated on her. She was getting like thirty e-mails about penis enlargements and other random crap every day until she created a new account. She started getting calls from Iraq, India and other random places and it was obvious he'd given her number out.

They can maliciously go onto porn and sex sites and give your number out to a load of randoms, or simply for their own amusement. What's to stop them from sending private messages to people on here with your number in reply to 'dirty phone sex' threads? They can then delete their profile and their message history is deleted.

They can add your number to all sorts of marketing sites, spam and survey sites so that you start getting texts and calls from all over the world, trying to sell you things, asking you to do surveys, or simply just trying to scam you.

You'll call me paranoid no doubt, but it's actually all from personal experience and over ten years of working as a call centre manager for one of the largest mobile telecoms providers in the UK. I've had a mobile phone since I was about twelve so I've grown up with the technology and worked with it closely, including provisioning new lines, changing mobile numbers and dealing with customers who had been signed up to spam and marketing messages by vindictive ex partners or spurned hook ups. Most text info services require a text to be sent from the number that is registering, but some shady websites - that aren't regulated - will let anyone put in any random number.

I don't give my primary number out at all. I use it for work and for all of my friends, medical stuff, banking and all of my online shopping. I have two factor verification setup on every site that I use and which offers it and I am an early adopter of online shopping. I use pretty much every site you can think of, all connected to my core mobile number for shipping or one time texts.

It takes literally HOURS, even possibly an entire day to go through hundreds of apps, websites and contacts and to change your number on all of those sites if you need to get a new number due to harassment. You need to manually remove two factor authentication on every site and app that you use it with BEFORE you change your number, or you won't be able to receive the authorisation text to be able to begin the number change, and that's time consuming. I found this out the hard way with my Discord account and my personal online tax account. Discord wouldn't do a thing, tough s**t they told me. I was going to lose all of my servers, messaging history, contacts and all of my special titles that I'd been given for backing various Kickstarter campaigns.

Thankfully the O2 store was able to reconnect my number as it hadn't been put back into the pool of available numbers, so I could reconnect it, get my codes and change the number over. It's a nightmare.

You might have a cool number that you don't want to lose, that's really easy to remember.

These sites are full of time wasters and game players. Be VERY careful who you give your number to.

I have a second phone, with a second line that I use for hook ups. I have a disposable SIM that's only £4 per month on a 30 day rolling contract. I prefer to use apps that do not require a number like KIK. If trust is built, I'll give out the second number but after what my ex did, I think it would be a long time before I gave anyone my primary number again.

I had a guy on here - no idea to this day who he was - who invited me to his place. The address he gave me was someone else's. When I got back to the car he messaged me to say he'd taken plenty of pictures of me and my car and that he just needed my name. I'm not sure if he intended to try and extort me or what (I've been out for 22 years), but it was unsettling. Imagine if he had my main mobile number!

NEVER give your only/primary number out to anyone you don't know and trust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trying to understand why some are so nervous about it..

Not a critical comment! Each to their own etc..

What other reasons might we be missing guys?

You can block their number, sure, but they still HAVE your number, you can't erase it from their end once they've saved it.

You can do a LOT with a mobile number. You can use it to find out much more online. It opens up a ton of extended information.

My local police force was placed into special measures. They don't have a great record or reputation when it comes to tackling online harassment.

You might have a cool number that you don't want to lose, that's really easy to remember.

These sites are full of time wasters and game players. Be VERY careful who you give your number to.

NEVER give your only/primary number out to anyone you don't know and trust."

Bet that took ages to type...should just left a voicemail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trying to understand why some are so nervous about it..

Not a critical comment! Each to their own etc..

What other reasons might we be missing guys?

You can block their number, sure, but they still HAVE your number, you can't erase it from their end once they've saved it.

You can do a LOT with a mobile number. You can use it to find out much more online. It opens up a ton of extended information.

My local police force was placed into special measures. They don't have a great record or reputation when it comes to tackling online harassment.

You might have a cool number that you don't want to lose, that's really easy to remember.

These sites are full of time wasters and game players. Be VERY careful who you give your number to.

NEVER give your only/primary number out to anyone you don't know and trust.

Bet that took ages to type...should just left a voicemail

Not really, I use Swype so it's pretty fast to put something together

. It's an important subject!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Only 2 people from fab have my number.

If I get any sent unsolicited they usually end up on a toilet wall somewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I give my number to those I trust.

Those I don’t yet trust, I don’t.

#theyknokwwho.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Lots have a "FAB Phone", a cheap PAYG phone used for just this purpose and only turn it on when you need to use it.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots have a "FAB Phone", a cheap PAYG phone used for just this purpose and only turn it on when you need to use it.

Cal"

My friend's at uni used to call mine my 'porn phone.' I'm not sure why because they knew it was a sex hook phone and nothing to do with porn.

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

"I used to hand mines out, but after being contacted by the police (they got in contact with me cause my number was on his phone)."

Sorry about that but I’m now out on parole and free to meet. DM me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to hand mines out, but after being contacted by the police (they got in contact with me cause my number was on his phone).

Sorry about that but I’m now out on parole and free to meet. DM me. "

Messaged since your funny!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then there is the whole social media thing that has been mentioned above.

That is a new one.. Can imagine the pause when asked "Can you tell us your relationship with ......?" Eek!

That is actually a scenario a burner phone could be worse for.. They'd potentially turn up at your house!

As we said, not in any way a criticism.

If it's a burner phone then how would they turn up at your house. Burner phones are untraceable

How so? It's a standard sim in a normal phone to our knowledge.."

You can obtain a sim without registering it. Buy a second hand phone for cash and a sim and use so untraceable

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By *ryan...Man
over a year ago

1950's Original

Then there is the whole social media thing that has been mentioned above.

That is a new one.. Can imagine the pause when asked "Can you tell us your relationship with ......?" Eek!

That is actually a scenario a burner phone could be worse for.. They'd potentially turn up at your house!

As we said, not in any way a criticism.

If it's a burner phone then how would they turn up at your house. Burner phones are untraceable

How so? It's a standard sim in a normal phone to our knowledge..

You can obtain a sim without registering it. Buy a second hand phone for cash and a sim and use so untraceable "

You could years ago but I'm pretty sure it won't activate now without giving your life story first..

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By *ryan...Man
over a year ago

1950's Original

"Trying to understand why some are so nervous about it..

Not a critical comment! Each to their own etc..

What other reasons might we be missing guys?

Google " sim swap"..they only need your number to lock you out of your own phone..then get your details...

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I've had my mobile number most of my phone owning life. I dont want it to become tainted by people I dont like or people who become a nuance. So I'm very guarded about it. I do give my number but only when I feel safe and secure about a person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trying to understand why some are so nervous about it..

Not a critical comment! Each to their own etc..

What other reasons might we be missing guys?

You can block their number, sure, but they still HAVE your number, you can't erase it from their end once they've saved it.

You can do a LOT with a mobile number. You can use it to find out much more online. It opens up a ton of extended information.

My local police force was placed into special measures. They don't have a great record or reputation when it comes to tackling online harassment.

You might have a cool number that you don't want to lose, that's really easy to remember.

These sites are full of time wasters and game players. Be VERY careful who you give your number to.

NEVER give your only/primary number out to anyone you don't know and trust."

Excellent post!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are cases of which I know of people on here (men and women) who have amassed enough information about other fab users for them to be able to trace them. To say that's inappropriate is an understatement and some people seem to lack the understanding of where the privacy line lies and not to cross it. We use separate phones and therefore separate SIMs. The trick is not to use your social media apps on the second phone or open new accounts for them with your personal details. This way the social media companies do not have your second number or your identity. The phone is then effectively in a sandbox. Everybody has different reasons for keeping things separate, including avoidance of nuisance calls/messages, stalking, general sense of privacy, professional privacy, etc. The need for privacy obviously depends on the individual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I would give so people can get in touch if there not going to make a meet at least you know you've not been ghosted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Privacy, safety. The social media doesn't apply because I don't have it linked. I don't give my number out any more than I do my full name because people can be weird, creepy and stalkerish. With apps like telegram and Kik, there's no need to share my number anymore. I did once and ended up having to change it. Lesson learnt.

Pxx

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I don't give out my number unless I have met someone and I trust them. Mainly because I don't want to.

It's a lot easier to track someone down on social media etc if you have their number.

I have no interest in having a second phone for fab I'm not that invested in here to bother.

I have had friends on here who did give out their number only to have it shared on here and two years later one still gets random calls from people she never spoke to at all hours expecting her to meet them for sex. Not to mention the guy who hassled another friend off several different phones because she refused to meet him again.

So no I won't give out my number until I know the person well enough to trust them with it. If that doesn't suit someone I am chatting to that's fine. They can move on to someone else.

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

My phone is on my profile not had one call or text lol. Must be dam ugly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

once bitten twice shy, so only now give out to a select few I have met in person and got to know as friends that I can trust...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely give out my number in my vanilla life.

I've given it to two fab people.. One I know is the most trustworthy person on earth.. The other ended up being a total shit storm

I use telegram - hide my number and don't link to contacts in my phone book, but can still make calls, do video calls or chat.. Its kinda perfect for fab?

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

I gave my number out to a woman years ago, like 2018

We chatted and when she turned up at like, she was actually a he

He continues to call me to this day. I can’t block withheld numbers because lots of companies call back from withheld numbers. So once a month or so he’ll ring me and ask if I want to meet.

I don’t give mine out anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just tell them I haven't got a mobile....it proper fucks with there head

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By *heklumpsCouple
over a year ago

South

Yh giving out your number can be a huge regret. We now have fab burner phones. Lessons learnt the hard way!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I stopped giving out my no to fabbers when I got threatening messages from a complete bell end. I done the fb stalker thing and sent a screenshot of his family to him with a message telling him if he didn't stop bothering me I would inform his wife. Done the trick!

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By *eyeY OP Couple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Some very good points in here now. Taken on board all! Thanks

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By *hill1965Man
over a year ago

Camberley

That’s why I have a pay and go swingers SIM card that isn’t connected to anything and is in one off my older iPhones

Also if number gets put anywhere or shared out it’s a easy snap sim and get a new free one

And no needing to explain to family and friends about number change or blocking numbers

The same, protect yourself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't give my main/personal/work number out, ever. I have a second phone with a 30 day rolling contract for about £4 per month that I use purely for online hookups and even then, if I was to come off this site to chat to someone, I'd want it to be on KIK or TG, where no number is required.

You can block their number, sure, but they still HAVE your number, you can't erase it from their end once they've saved it.

You can do a LOT with a mobile number. You can use it to find out much more online. It opens up a ton of extended information.

My local police force was placed into special measures. They don't have a great record or reputation when it comes to tackling online harassment.

You might have a cool number that you don't want to lose, that's really easy to remember.

These sites are full of time wasters and game players. Be VERY careful who you give your number to.

NEVER give your only/primary number out to anyone you don't know and trust.

Excellent post!!

Thank you. I know it's a long post but it is very important and worth reading.

To the guy saying that you can't register a new number without giving your life story - you can.

Most supermarkets sell pay as you go SIMs at the till and you can still buy top ups at certain stores.

I recently had to get a Vodafone SIM and topped it up with £10. I had to test the network coverage and data speeds because I was having issues with my Talk Mobile SIM and they were denying that there was a network fault. Turns out I had the same issue with the Vodafone SIM and when I called Vodafone they made me register my personal details as the number was live, but no user info was attached to it. One of the three masts in my area was down and the traffic was redirecting to only one of the other two, whilst the third picked up no additional traffic, resulting in congestion, poor signal and slow data speeds.

In this scenario they might have a rough location registered for the SIM, though the police may need to be involved to see the exact location and they will have the IMEI number of the device you're using, but that's it.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Rarely give it now as have had hassle x

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By *hroatitboyMan
over a year ago

GLA

Had a stalker situation and whilst it wasn’t with my mobile I was being sent photos of me everywhere I went on here - so a bit cautious about giving out anything that had any information of me.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I've always been fortunate when numbers have been exchanged this be it single women or couple's we have a lot of respect for each other it's how it's supposed to be.those whom are unable to toe the line things get extremely messy .I've not come across this which I'm grateful for not having to get my hands dirty

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By *eyeY OP Couple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Wow! Some very upsetting stories of putting your trust in members of this site! The guarded attitude among some is utterly understandable!!

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Being harassed... You might block them, but they can call text whatever from other numbers.

Google Search, if you've ever used your phone number for buying/selling. They can find out where you live.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can have my number if you want, no fukka rings me anyways

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I give mine out if I'm meeting someone, but not to randoms.

Listening to someone wank isn't of interest to me, and 99% of the time someone asks for my number that's what they seem to want it for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've never seen the point of witholding our numbers - usually give out mine first and only hers if the filtering conversation warrants.

Most that don't or can't swap a number aren't likely to make much of a friendly interface and we aren't in a rush to shag just anyone

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By *udistcpl1Couple
over a year ago

Wirral

Perhaps we will come unstuck? I use tik tok but that is about it? Could that be tracked?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then there is the whole social media thing that has been mentioned above.

That is a new one.. Can imagine the pause when asked "Can you tell us your relationship with ......?" Eek!

That is actually a scenario a burner phone could be worse for.. They'd potentially turn up at your house!

As we said, not in any way a criticism.

If it's a burner phone then how would they turn up at your house. Burner phones are untraceable

How so? It's a standard sim in a normal phone to our knowledge..

You can obtain a sim without registering it. Buy a second hand phone for cash and a sim and use so untraceable

You could years ago but I'm pretty sure it won't activate now without giving your life story first..

Not at all. Did it 2 weeks ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There has always been the simple option of buying a cheap pay as you go phone. Problems solved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a lot of people don't realise is their phone number is linked to a lot of social media accounts.

Somebody could find out quite a lot about you with your phone number depending on what privacy settings you have.

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By *eisty LadyWoman
over a year ago

Count Your Blessings Cottage, Gratitude Grove

I never give out my number, except to immediate family; parent, sibling, my kids and for medical appointments

My friends contact me on Facebook messenger

I’m not having blokes ring me at 3am wanting to wank off, blocking numbers doesn’t work as they just withhold their number - it’s far easier not to give out the number at all

I do have telegram I use for a select few contacts, that is by username not phone number so safer to use

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never give out my number, except to immediate family; parent, sibling, my kids and for medical appointments

My friends contact me on Facebook messenger

I’m not having blokes ring me at 3am wanting to wank off, blocking numbers doesn’t work as they just withhold their number - it’s far easier not to give out the number at all

I do have telegram I use for a select few contacts, that is by username not phone number so safer to use "

Blocking their number would work they wouldn't be able to call you even if they did withhold the number. They can however find you from a different number.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What a lot of people don't realise is their phone number is linked to a lot of social media accounts.

Somebody could find out quite a lot about you with your phone number depending on what privacy settings you have. "

Yeah I don’t link my number to my socials, I get a lot of unsolicited messages on my socials and don’t want them trying to call me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What a lot of people don't realise is their phone number is linked to a lot of social media accounts.

Somebody could find out quite a lot about you with your phone number depending on what privacy settings you have.

Yeah I don’t link my number to my socials, I get a lot of unsolicited messages on my socials and don’t want them trying to call me! "

Same here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only talk through Fabs even with regular playmates.

Once they have your number - if you block them they might give your number out to others

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