FabSwingers.com forum: Want to find someone attractive

By *eyeY OP Couple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

A strange one maybe, but it's happened to us.

Their profile is appealing, hot pic's and bio..

Messages are courteous with the right naughty undertones..

Then the face picture comes and it's a no! Not ugly, just no..

Superficial yes! Before it's pointed out, but you just can't get why you are not interested..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You encountered a Bobfoc

(Body off baywatch, face off crime watch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why we want face pics asap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with that. You wanna fancy the people you fuck.

Some will call it shallow, I call it a necessity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You encountered a Bobfoc

(Body off baywatch, face off crime watch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I have face pics on my profile! Lol

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

Happens so often on here. I guess I'm just too fussy.....or have weird taste

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Paper bag over the head. Sorted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think it’s superficial, everyone has criteria of what they want from a meet and no point taking things further if you’re not happy with it.

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By *eyeY OP Couple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

"You encountered a Bobfoc

(Body off baywatch, face off crime watch

Oh many times lol! But more a case of not unattractive, just not sure why we're uninterested..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Paper bag over the head. Sorted

Right, you don't stare at the mantle when you're poking the fire ay

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I've been on both sides of this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Paper bag over the head. Sorted

Can you make it a posh bag for me please. From Mrs NE’s favourite store perhaps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Paper bag over the head. Sorted

Right, you don't stare at the mantle when you're poking the fire ay

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Paper bag over the head. Sorted

Can you make it a posh bag for me please. From Mrs NE’s favourite store perhaps.

Her favourite shop only does plastic bags and we’re both too pretty for prison

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Paper bag over the head. Sorted

Can you make it a posh bag for me please. From Mrs NE’s favourite store perhaps.

Her favourite shop only does plastic bags and we’re both too pretty for prison

Dammit! My fiendish plan is thwarted once again.

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By *eyeY OP Couple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

"Paper bag over the head. Sorted

Right, you don't stare at the mantle when you're poking the fire ay

Potentially lol!! But at some point that bag will come off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Paper bag over the head. Sorted

Right, you don't stare at the mantle when you're poking the fire ay

Potentially lol!! But at some point that bag will come off

Ooh you kinky devils

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By *eyeY OP Couple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

"Paper bag over the head. Sorted

Can you make it a posh bag for me please. From Mrs NE’s favourite store perhaps.

Her favourite shop only does plastic bags and we’re both too pretty for prison

Dammit! My fiendish plan is thwarted once again. "

Pmsl!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s preference I guess. Beauty in the eye of the holder an all that shit lol

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By *eyeY OP Couple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

"Paper bag over the head. Sorted

Right, you don't stare at the mantle when you're poking the fire ay

Potentially lol!! But at some point that bag will come off

Ooh you kinky devils

Have we met then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Paper bag over the head. Sorted

Right, you don't stare at the mantle when you're poking the fire ay

Potentially lol!! But at some point that bag will come off

Ooh you kinky devils

Have we met then?

Yeah and I'll have me bag back thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both put bags on you’re head just in case one falls off

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By *estLondonDeepMan
over a year ago

London

I suspect there's a few in my Hotlist who would be removed pronto if they posted a face pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry for your loss

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

"Paper bag over the head. Sorted

Right, you don't stare at the mantle when you're poking the fire ay

Potentially lol!! But at some point that bag will come off

Always double bag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You encountered a Bobfoc

(Body off baywatch, face off crime watch

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

I am the same at the mo... It's all in the face and attitude but even, what I would consider, really gorgeous men aren't doing it for me at the mo... I'm not saying there's nobody I fancy, there definitely is, but it's not bloody far off these days. And if I like the face enough, they either have a personality I don't like or I don't believe they really like me and are probably willing to fuck anyone

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By *ouple4PlayXCouple
over a year ago

Essex

"A strange one maybe, but it's happened to us.

Their profile is appealing, hot pic's and bio..

Messages are courteous with the right naughty undertones..

Then the face picture comes and it's a no! Not ugly, just no..

Superficial yes! Before it's pointed out, but you just can't get why you are not interested.."

Don’t think it’s necessarily superficial. There’s gotta be attraction for chemistry right and everyone has different views of what they fancy. No need to apologise for that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am the same at the mo... It's all in the face and attitude but even, what I would consider, really gorgeous men aren't doing it for me at the mo... I'm not saying there's nobody I fancy, there definitely is, but it's not bloody far off these days. And if I like the face enough, they either have a personality I don't like or I don't believe they really like me and are probably willing to fuck anyone

YOu really underestimate yourself lass!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face is the most important factor in deciding whether you want to play or not. Up to date face pics before you meet and unfiltered xx

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By *eyeY OP Couple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

"Paper bag over the head. Sorted

Right, you don't stare at the mantle when you're poking the fire ay

Potentially lol!! But at some point that bag will come off

Ooh you kinky devils

Have we met then?

Yeah and I'll have me bag back thanks

Well give us the return address then!! Lol x

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

YOu really underestimate yourself lass!"

Nah, I just know how alot of the guys are, on here, because it's a "sex site" ... Blowing smoke up your arse to get laid, even if it's by someone they don't fancy much... I ain't for that, is all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find when I see some people that I feel like I already know their personality type. It's almost as though something about their face reminds me of someone I have met before though I can never remember who or where. This isn't unusual, I barely remember my own name sometimes but it is more a feeling that its their personality type I've met rather than someone who looks like them - really hard to articulate the feeling. I try hard to ignore these feelings and give the person a chance to show what they're really like but it's hard when something about their look has already caused a whole series of assumptions about them.

This nearly always happens with men rather than women but I think this may be that in my day to day life, outside of family and friends I have very little contact with women.

Maybe something about this person's look reminds you of someone (or possibly a mix of someone's) who you have met and not liked previously?

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By *eyeY OP Couple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Appreciate the comments and fun! It's really a case of you actually WANT to find them attractive.. partly why we do club's as we've played with some we'd have passed on, (and continue to do so) if it were just here and not in person..

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By *eyeY OP Couple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

"I find when I see some people that I feel like I already know their personality type. It's almost as though something about their face reminds me of someone I have met before though I can never remember who or where. This isn't unusual, I barely remember my own name sometimes but it is more a feeling that its their personality type I've met rather than someone who looks like them - really hard to articulate the feeling. I try hard to ignore these feelings and give the person a chance to show what they're really like but it's hard when something about their look has already caused a whole series of assumptions about them.

This nearly always happens with men rather than women but I think this may be that in my day to day life, outside of family and friends I have very little contact with women.

Maybe something about this person's look reminds you of someone (or possibly a mix of someone's) who you have met and not liked previously?

Mr"

Oh Christ! Utterly, we've also experienced some who have been spookily similar to ex's and family or friends... just couldn't and told them the truth on that one.

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By *merican WomanWoman
over a year ago

live by the Pool xx

"A strange one maybe, but it's happened to us.

Their profile is appealing, hot pic's and bio..

Messages are courteous with the right naughty undertones..

Then the face picture comes and it's a no! Not ugly, just no..

Superficial yes! Before it's pointed out, but you just can't get why you are not interested.."

Well pretty sure few people have different tastes. If you think they're ugly. Doesn't mean they are unattractive. Just means they're not your cup of tea and move on. Not the end of the world.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

This is why I show my mug early if not on show already, it either dissapoints straight away or saves wasting too much time for me and them

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