FabSwingers.com forum: My biggest fear - that I always had

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So guys I am not a stranger to this type of living, Clubs , meetings people, adult decisions.

But some of us like to keep this place as a little secret- due to work situation, or other factors

I am very careful who I am meeting.

My biggest fear was always meetings someone who knows my life circumstances.

So I am dreading bumping into some teachers ( of my offspring)

Yesterday I bumped into someone I know

And I froze .

Please ( try not to be dick or laugh about it ).

I am very private person.

People who are not on swingers market they don't get it - judgment is huge -specially towards single galls god forbid you got kids .

You know what I am talking about!

Anyway.

I am.so happy that - you ( ??) came to me we had chat , and my fear just disappeared.

So to all of you guys who can't behave

Sending only dick picks

Talking down , calling me bitch if I politely rejected you.

Remember you never know who you bump into one day in the club .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My biggest fear is a lot worth an meeting or bumping into someone I know

So glad it ended in a good way, and good to hear a positive story like this.

Not all people will be dickish’ about things, after all we’re adults and the odds should be in our favour that we can all act that way.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"So guys I am not a stranger to this type of living, Clubs , meetings people, adult decisions.

But some of us like to keep this place as a little secret- due to work situation, or other factors

I am very careful who I am meeting.

My biggest fear was always meetings someone who knows my life circumstances.

So I am dreading bumping into some teachers ( of my offspring)

Yesterday I bumped into someone I know

And I froze .

Please ( try not to be dick or laugh about it ).

I am very private person.

People who are not on swingers market they don't get it - judgment is huge -specially towards single galls god forbid you got kids .

You know what I am talking about!

Anyway.

I am.so happy that - you ( ??) came to me we had chat , and my fear just disappeared.

So to all of you guys who can't behave

Sending only dick picks

Talking down , calling me bitch if I politely rejected you.

Remember you never know who you bump into one day in the club .

I wouldn't worry. Unless they're completely open with their life to all and sundry then they're in the same position as you and are unlikely to rock up at work come Monday morning and start shouting "guess who I bumped into in a swingers club at the weekend?"

It's a rare idiot that would 'self-out' themselves by announcing they were there themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That end part is so true it’s why i am the way I am as you never what to burn a bridge before you even get a chance to make sed bridge to bad lot have burned that bridge with me unknownly

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