FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

Younger men older women

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Let’s see what the views on this matter are?

Do women like it when a younger guy tries to communicate? What are yes’ and no’?

Any advice?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

How would you approach a woman of a similar age to you? Just be yourself and treat them as you would any other woman .

On here check that they're looking for men your age

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Personally I don't.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Surely an age shouldn’t matter though? Why does it put so many people of?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can you explain any more as to why? Don’t have to answer!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Surely an age shouldn’t matter though? Why does it put so many people of?"

I can only speak for myself but in a nutshell I don't want to fuck someone who is young enough to be my son.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely an age shouldn’t matter though? Why does it put so many people of?

I can only speak for myself but in a nutshell I don't want to fuck someone who is young enough to be my son."

I can totally relate to that...so likewise

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I was sat next to a 72 year old Lady and a couple of her mates when England Women beat South Africa on Monday evening at Derby if that's any good

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I broke my own age rule to give the come-hither to a man 16 years my junior here Half my age plus 7 was the guide i was given so I thought why not. I fancied him madly but he was so polite in chats I thought I was friend zoned ... turns out he was shy. A year later we are a couple lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eisty LadyWoman
over a year ago

Count Your Blessings Cottage, Gratitude Grove

I hate it when people message me and say they’re into ‘older women’ - creepy when coming from 20somethings, effing annoying when a bloke in his late 40s says it

If anyone calls me older they should’nt be surprised if I tell them to F off

There’s no need to mention age in a message. It’s like they don’t give a shit about looks, intelligence, personality etc and it’s more about whether they’ve shagged a granny

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Surely an age shouldn’t matter though? Why does it put so many people of?"

Age isn't significant to me socially but sexually it is.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

I think what puts me off approaching older women and being honest about wanting to meet them is I don't want them to think I'm just another younger guy seeing them as a fuck-it list item and fetishizing them for being older. Of course sex would be what I wanted but would definitely enjoy chatting to them and getting to know them as a person as well, their like and dislikes to see if we're compatible

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Younger guys aren’t for me!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Younger guys aren’t for me! "

You joined 5 weeks ago, and I'm 5 years too old for you

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *armandwet50Couple
over a year ago

Far far away


"Surely an age shouldn’t matter though? Why does it put so many people of?"

Age obviously matters to you, why should it not matter to the other party?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely an age shouldn’t matter though? Why does it put so many people of?

I can only speak for myself but in a nutshell I don't want to fuck someone who is young enough to be my son."

This

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *estLondonDeepMan
over a year ago

London

I do find it a little odd when a woman specifies the maximum age of the person she'll meet is less than half her own age. That's a little creepy, only wanting to meet men of her children's age group (some may not have children, but hopefully you get the point). Each to their own though.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I think what puts me off approaching older women and being honest about wanting to meet them is I don't want them to think I'm just another younger guy seeing them as a fuck-it list item and fetishizing them for being older. Of course sex would be what I wanted but would definitely enjoy chatting to them and getting to know them as a person as well, their like and dislikes to see if we're compatible "

If you're genuine enough they'll see that.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely an age shouldn’t matter though? Why does it put so many people of?

I can only speak for myself but in a nutshell I don't want to fuck someone who is young enough to be my son."

This. Through and through…. x N

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let’s see what the views on this matter are?

Do women like it when a younger guy tries to communicate? What are yes’ and no’?

Any advice?"

It's been done time after time after time

Boring

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

People are just people whether they’re 30 or 100. It’s just personal preference, be yourself, don’t change your behaviour because of their age and see what happens.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

As long as he doesn't fetish my age or experience I am OK with it.

I am acutely aware of potential drama though

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"As long as he doesn't fetish my age or experience I am OK with it.

I am acutely aware of potential drama though "

I'm acutely aware that the idea of 'an older woman ' and the reality are very different

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *illycarrolCouple
over a year ago

n/cle on tyne

Carol gets more msgs off younger guys, 20 to 30 than older guys, they think of her as more experienced and sexy than there younger counterparts ,when i think back when i was that age she would of been a perfect fantasy women for me

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

[Removed by poster at 28/07/22 11:17:18]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Been with a lot of older women and I’ll say my success really took off when I stopped making my attraction to them based on them being an old bat

If you want to be with an older woman, try not to remind them how old and grey they are first. Treat them the same way you’d treat a younger woman. Respect, make them laugh, show them a good time

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Don't mind talking to younger men but would not meet below 30! Get asked alot by 21/22 year olds find it amusing and obvs flattering! Even if it's only a shag! To think someone that young would want to baffles me x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me I prefer guts around my age or slightly older.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate it when people message me and say they’re into ‘older women’ - creepy when coming from 20somethings, effing annoying when a bloke in his late 40s says it

If anyone calls me older they should’nt be surprised if I tell them to F off

There’s no need to mention age in a message. It’s like they don’t give a shit about looks, intelligence, personality etc and it’s more about whether they’ve shagged a granny"

This

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Watching the washing machine"

I've never been dated since cycled

Been with older women quite well

& Quit

It's like being targeted/homeless (streetbased)

They pop the £5 skit or Run off Past - lol

Who's washing themselves watching me ??

Laughing seriously-Lifer!

Less the advice

Who pretends to date formula one drivers years back ?

Where did you find it

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *amnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

tf1


"Surely an age shouldn’t matter though? Why does it put so many people of?

I can only speak for myself but in a nutshell I don't want to fuck someone who is young enough to be my son."

This. It’s creepy to fuck someone that young.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ipppyMan
over a year ago

Poole


"Don't mind talking to younger men but would not meet below 30! Get asked alot by 21/22 year olds find it amusing and obvs flattering! Even if it's only a shag! To think someone that young would want to baffles me x"

Hope you like a little older too xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you mean try to communicate? Do wanking signs at me and hope I come running opened mouth knickers around my ankles.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"Surely an age shouldn’t matter though? Why does it put so many people of?"

Your right, age shouldn't matter. But you have set an age limit yourself, so I guess it does?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Treat with R E S P E C T

Dont act like a kid

Don’t assume you know it all

We don’t like to licked all night

Don’t send dick pics

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top