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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Of fab...use this site as a crutch? Is it easier for you to be sexy or flirty or naked hidden away on the Internet? Hows your non fab sex life? Confidence? Away from this site do people look at you ? Approach you? Flirt with you? Do you act differently when out socialising?

For me it is a crutch but it has given me confidence to flirt and chat to people in the real world which I would have struggled with in the past

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of fab...use this site as a crutch? Is it easier for you to be sexy or flirty or naked hidden away on the Internet? Hows your non fab sex life? Confidence? Away from this site do people look at you ? Approach you? Flirt with you? Do you act differently when out socialising?"

I am quite confident sexually outside of fab. I will approach people if I want to etc. I like fab because it enables me to find specific things more easily... its a great place to find couples who are open to 3somes for example.

There are some things I enjoy on fab that I wouldnt do outside of fab though... like sending pics to people I dont know!

I also date, and thats where I get nerves. Romantic stuff is pretty scary for me! Im good for the first couple of dates, then after that I get really anxious that they dont/wont like me... its a work in progress But fab hasnt really affected that.


"For me it is a crutch but it has given me confidence to flirt and chat to people in the real world which I would have struggled with in the past"

Oh, this is so great to hear! Im glad your experience of fab has been so good for you!

Smiles!

Fay x

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Fab is another avenue for me to get some D.

Off site I have a sexy buddy who gives me much pleasure.

I like the socials on Fab, but I have a good social life away from Fab too.

I get chatted up and flirted with in real life, which is a laugh, but I don't think anything of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of fab...use this site as a crutch? Is it easier for you to be sexy or flirty or naked hidden away on the Internet? Hows your non fab sex life? Confidence? Away from this site do people look at you ? Approach you? Flirt with you? Do you act differently when out socialising?

For me it is a crutch but it has given me confidence to flirt and chat to people in the real world which I would have struggled with in the past"

For me been plus size means I'm rarely approached in real life. I don't approach either for fear of rejection. What I love about here is the men who's profile states from the offset that they prefer plus size women. They are the men I reply to and message. And absolutely yes it's done wonders for my confidence. I still get lots of messages telling me how fat or ugly I am but I guess that's part of the parcel with sites like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use fab to practice my spelling and grammar and learn new acronyms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

on here, club and cruising sites - the inner whore cums out to play, obviously in society have to keep her in check otherwise chance I’d get arrested - which may not be a bad thing...!?

passing as a twink my new cell mates I’m sure would indulge in exercising my arsehole and mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use fab to practice my spelling and grammar and learn new acronyms. "

Dont use mine for practice so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've become more confident and more assertive in the real world since having plenty of fun times on here. Love it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of fab...use this site as a crutch? Is it easier for you to be sexy or flirty or naked hidden away on the Internet? Hows your non fab sex life? Confidence? Away from this site do people look at you ? Approach you? Flirt with you? Do you act differently when out socialising?

For me it is a crutch but it has given me confidence to flirt and chat to people in the real world which I would have struggled with in the past

For me been plus size means I'm rarely approached in real life. I don't approach either for fear of rejection. What I love about here is the men who's profile states from the offset that they prefer plus size women. They are the men I reply to and message. And absolutely yes it's done wonders for my confidence. I still get lots of messages telling me how fat or ugly I am but I guess that's part of the parcel with sites like this."

May I ask if the abuse you receive is generally from profiles you haven't replied to?

These men are the most damaged in todays society and this is not to be taken as a personal insult on yourself. It is more a reflection on their own personal confidence. They generally cast a large net hoping to catch anything that will humour them. As soon as they get rejection they go on the defensive and get abusive. Generally picking on something that they know their victims will be insecure about. This is a feeble attempt to make people feel small and themselves feel big. IGNORE THEM. They are not worth a second thought. Focus on the positivity you receive x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use fab to practice my spelling and grammar and learn new acronyms.

Dont use mine for practice so "

Lol

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

It's a place to meet people at social parties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of fab...use this site as a crutch? Is it easier for you to be sexy or flirty or naked hidden away on the Internet? Hows your non fab sex life? Confidence? Away from this site do people look at you ? Approach you? Flirt with you? Do you act differently when out socialising?

For me it is a crutch but it has given me confidence to flirt and chat to people in the real world which I would have struggled with in the past

For me been plus size means I'm rarely approached in real life. I don't approach either for fear of rejection. What I love about here is the men who's profile states from the offset that they prefer plus size women. They are the men I reply to and message. And absolutely yes it's done wonders for my confidence. I still get lots of messages telling me how fat or ugly I am but I guess that's part of the parcel with sites like this.

May I ask if the abuse you receive is generally from profiles you haven't replied to?

These men are the most damaged in todays society and this is not to be taken as a personal insult on yourself. It is more a reflection on their own personal confidence. They generally cast a large net hoping to catch anything that will humour them. As soon as they get rejection they go on the defensive and get abusive. Generally picking on something that they know their victims will be insecure about. This is a feeble attempt to make people feel small and themselves feel big. IGNORE THEM. They are not worth a second thought. Focus on the positivity you receive x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of fab...use this site as a crutch? Is it easier for you to be sexy or flirty or naked hidden away on the Internet? Hows your non fab sex life? Confidence? Away from this site do people look at you ? Approach you? Flirt with you? Do you act differently when out socialising?

For me it is a crutch but it has given me confidence to flirt and chat to people in the real world which I would have struggled with in the past

For me been plus size means I'm rarely approached in real life. I don't approach either for fear of rejection. What I love about here is the men who's profile states from the offset that they prefer plus size women. They are the men I reply to and message. And absolutely yes it's done wonders for my confidence. I still get lots of messages telling me how fat or ugly I am but I guess that's part of the parcel with sites like this.

May I ask if the abuse you receive is generally from profiles you haven't replied to?

These men are the most damaged in todays society and this is not to be taken as a personal insult on yourself. It is more a reflection on their own personal confidence. They generally cast a large net hoping to catch anything that will humour them. As soon as they get rejection they go on the defensive and get abusive. Generally picking on something that they know their victims will be insecure about. This is a feeble attempt to make people feel small and themselves feel big. IGNORE THEM. They are not worth a second thought. Focus on the positivity you receive x

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Totally agree unfortunately fab is a magnet for incels who have absolutely zero success in real life mainly due to their attitude, nasty / unappealing personality and sadly the hate / anger / blame they display towards women.

They come to Fab expecting it to be a free escort site where they will finally get knee deep in pussy. When the reality hits that fab is much harder than real life and takes even more effort and commitment they turn nasty spewing venom at anybody they think they can hurt.

To all the single ladies and couples who have been on the receiving end of this don't take it personally and don't ever give them a 2nd thought Its 100% a reflection of them and they aren't worth a nano second of your time or emotional energy.

KJ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of fab...use this site as a crutch? Is it easier for you to be sexy or flirty or naked hidden away on the Internet? Hows your non fab sex life? Confidence? Away from this site do people look at you ? Approach you? Flirt with you? Do you act differently when out socialising?

For me it is a crutch but it has given me confidence to flirt and chat to people in the real world which I would have struggled with in the past

For me been plus size means I'm rarely approached in real life. I don't approach either for fear of rejection. What I love about here is the men who's profile states from the offset that they prefer plus size women. They are the men I reply to and message. And absolutely yes it's done wonders for my confidence. I still get lots of messages telling me how fat or ugly I am but I guess that's part of the parcel with sites like this.

May I ask if the abuse you receive is generally from profiles you haven't replied to?

These men are the most damaged in todays society and this is not to be taken as a personal insult on yourself. It is more a reflection on their own personal confidence. They generally cast a large net hoping to catch anything that will humour them. As soon as they get rejection they go on the defensive and get abusive. Generally picking on something that they know their victims will be insecure about. This is a feeble attempt to make people feel small and themselves feel big. IGNORE THEM. They are not worth a second thought. Focus on the positivity you receive x

Totally agree unfortunately fab is a magnet for incels who have absolutely zero success in real life mainly due to their attitude, nasty / unappealing personality and sadly the hate / anger / blame they display towards women.

They come to Fab expecting it to be a free escort site where they will finally get knee deep in pussy. When the reality hits that fab is much harder than real life and takes even more effort and commitment they turn nasty spewing venom at anybody they think they can hurt.

To all the single ladies and couples who have been on the receiving end of this don't take it personally and don't ever give them a 2nd thought Its 100% a reflection of them and they aren't worth a nano second of your time or emotional energy.

KJ"

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Isn't this the real world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I flirt for a job so this just adds to the flirt bank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't this the real world "

Real life dating just means meeting people, securing dates, connections via real life encounters such as pubs, nightclubs, workplaces, events, coffee shops etc etc. Basically anywhere people met prior to the Internet.

Fab comes under Internet dating / and online hook ups whilst the goal is to move to the face face "real world" the interactions and I tial connection start on line.

As a general rule if you struggle meeting people when face to face your also going to struggle to make connections with people on Fab or similar.

KJ

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

local, but not too local

This is a fun, low-judgement outlet for aspects of my personality I usually keep to myself.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

My entire sex life has come through dating apps/sites like Fab and Fet. Really struggle to meet women and make friends in the real world. I'm a pretty plain guy, not that confident and keep myself to myself most of the time.

But through sites like this I can show off a side of myself, people react to me differently here. I get looks and compliments from people that wouldn't even notice me in the street.

It's nice

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

This shit is hard mode for me. I don’t struggle pulling on the other apps or out at the pub, yet it’s impossible on here sometimes. It does happen, but the amount of effort I have to put in isn’t worth it to me

If your an average guy, I’d say avoid fabs all together. It’ll only ruin your said esteem

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Much the same in real life tbh! But I don't have a non fab sex life! Don't want one x

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Isn't this the real world

Real life dating just means meeting people, securing dates, connections via real life encounters such as pubs, nightclubs, workplaces, events, coffee shops etc etc. Basically anywhere people met prior to the Internet.

Fab comes under Internet dating / and online hook ups whilst the goal is to move to the face face "real world" the interactions and I tial connection start on line.

As a general rule if you struggle meeting people when face to face your also going to struggle to make connections with people on Fab or similar.

KJ"

Clearly my attempt at irony failed. And for the record, I have no problem making connections with people either digitally or in the flesh. However, I just prefer to use Fab on the main to meet new people, because I know those I connect with on here have a similar outlook on life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My entire sex life has come through dating apps/sites like Fab and Fet. Really struggle to meet women and make friends in the real world. I'm a pretty plain guy, not that confident and keep myself to myself most of the time.

But through sites like this I can show off a side of myself, people react to me differently here. I get looks and compliments from people that wouldn't even notice me in the street.

It's nice "

It's great that you have found medium that works best for you

You have also clearly put effort into your profile and its sells what your about and what your looking for really well

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