FabSwingers.com forum: Guys that stand me up

By *merican Woman OP Woman
over a year ago

live by the Pool xx

Bored of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bored of it"

Pick guys that won't stand you up. Simples.

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

They're idiots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll lie you down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bored of it

Pick guys that won't stand you up. Simples.

How are we supposed to know that we’re not mind readers of who are going to stand us up as to who aren’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve even sent a wink & messaged single fellas to join us but to no avail . Don’t know what’s going on ?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Is it the same guy that stood you up 6 times on the other thread?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Is it the same guy that stood you up 6 times on the other thread?"

No Evie! Cos no one is gonna stand for 7!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it the same guy that stood you up 6 times on the other thread?

No Evie! Cos no one is gonna stand for 7! "

Or are they……..

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By *he Wrangler and BelleCouple
over a year ago

Bishops Strortford

Its is strange, the amount of men here who cant get a meet and then the amount who stand ladies up....Maybe there ought to be a time wasters league table?

D x

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Always amazes me that a sex site has a lot of wasters and fantasist. You should be on here looking for sex and when you get chance to meet you meet. If you want a wank turn on you porn and have a tug.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Always amazes me that a sex site has a lot of wasters and fantasist. You should be on here looking for sex and when you get chance to meet you meet. If you want a wank turn on you porn and have a tug. "

I'm rarely on here looking for sex

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ll lie you down."

Had the perfect opportunity to say you'd let her down and you blew it

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I think you have to know how to manage things not sure exactly how long you’ve been on fab or indeed any similar site inc vanilla sites.

I’ve found you have to be quite discerning, on here check veris are current and multiple and not circular possible fake ones. Chat here then a social - I arrange socials such that not only public but also somewhere I can easily get to/from under my own steam and if they don’t show it’s the kinda place I don’t feel it would look obvious and I’d be comfortable being there alone.

Then if no show, annoying, but not the end of the world and you can just get on with your day. Simple. But I’m a bit of an “old hand” fab wise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bored of it"

What happened?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ll lie you down.

Had the perfect opportunity to say you'd let her down and you blew it

I wanted to know what it feels like to be a White Knight.

It’s a bit shit really. Should have gone with your suggestion.

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By *merican Woman OP Woman
over a year ago

live by the Pool xx

"I’ll lie you down.

Had the perfect opportunity to say you'd let her down and you blew it

Was that a guy joke?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you have to know how to manage things not sure exactly how long you’ve been on fab or indeed any similar site inc vanilla sites.

Then if no show, annoying, but not the end of the world and you can just get on with your day. Simple. But I’m a bit of an “old hand” fab wise "

Never had a no show.

Social always first. No play or sex chat. They fuck off to have a wank over someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ll lie you down.

Had the perfect opportunity to say you'd let her down and you blew it

I wanted to know what it feels like to be a White Knight.

It’s a bit shit really. Should have gone with your suggestion.

It's alright, you can be my white knight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ll lie you down.

Had the perfect opportunity to say you'd let her down and you blew it

Was that a guy joke?"

Just a joke in general to be fair. Standing you up and letting you down, though sound like opposites, actually mean the same thing in that you are left disappointed. Kinda like myself after having to explain my awful joke

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By *merican Woman OP Woman
over a year ago

live by the Pool xx

I kinda see why I'm aiming towards women now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t believe it no way are getting stood up

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

They must have been UTD supporters, only they could be that foolish.

I really hope you have better luck in the future and don't get messed around

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Pick nice fat older guys - they won’t let you down. Not like the young, hung, adonis type

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

There is a common denominator here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bored of it"

If you want to make your way to Manchester, I'll happily stand in.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

This is why I go to clubs

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Are their lurkers who see a challenge here, thinking they could be #7, etc?

Some people like the chase and can have no intention of meeting.

Do you do social meets first OP? That might filter out a lot of wasters, as can not sharing many pics or sex talk, to feed wanking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are their lurkers who see a challenge here, thinking they could be #7, etc?

Some people like the chase and can have no intention of meeting.

Do you do social meets first OP? That might filter out a lot of wasters, as can not sharing many pics or sex talk, to feed wanking"

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By *merican Woman OP Woman
over a year ago

live by the Pool xx

"Are their lurkers who see a challenge here, thinking they could be #7, etc?

Some people like the chase and can have no intention of meeting.

Do you do social meets first OP? That might filter out a lot of wasters, as can not sharing many pics or sex talk, to feed wanking"

Social first only. But think guys just want a quickie and piss off after arranging something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this by the guy who’s already stood you up 6 times it is this another guy?

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By *merican Woman OP Woman
over a year ago

live by the Pool xx

"Is this by the guy who’s already stood you up 6 times it is this another guy?"

It's men in the past off fab. But it's getting to a point where I might just stop meeting guys.

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By *ausage1970Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Bored of it"

Wtf why do people do that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this by the guy who’s already stood you up 6 times it is this another guy?

It's men in the past off fab. But it's getting to a point where I might just stop meeting guys."

Women and couples have also been known to stand others up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this by the guy who’s already stood you up 6 times it is this another guy?

It's men in the past off fab. But it's getting to a point where I might just stop meeting guys."

Tbf, you said that after Mr 6 times. Maybe stop saying you ‘might’ stop meeting guys and just do it. Announcing it in the forums ain’t much use either, your intended audience probably don’t even know if it’s existence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bored of it"

That is (fab) for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bored of it"

His loss!!

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By *merican Woman OP Woman
over a year ago

live by the Pool xx

"Is this by the guy who’s already stood you up 6 times it is this another guy?

It's men in the past off fab. But it's getting to a point where I might just stop meeting guys.

Then if it's irritating you that much, simply stop commenting on my thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never stood anyone up yet once arranged or spontaneously! Had time wasters that have not done anything once got there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this by the guy who’s already stood you up 6 times it is this another guy?

It's men in the past off fab. But it's getting to a point where I might just stop meeting guys.

Then if it's irritating you that much, simply stop commenting on my thread

Where did I say it’s irritating me?

Simply offering a solution to your continuing issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this by the guy who’s already stood you up 6 times it is this another guy?

It's men in the past off fab. But it's getting to a point where I might just stop meeting guys.

Women and couples have also been known to stand others up "

This does happen in our area pal. Sure I spoke to u in lc when it was open and mentioned this lol

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Stand them up first

LvM

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By *merican Woman OP Woman
over a year ago

live by the Pool xx

"Is this by the guy who’s already stood you up 6 times it is this another guy?

It's men in the past off fab. But it's getting to a point where I might just stop meeting guys.

Then if it's irritating you that much, simply stop commenting on my thread

Where did I say it’s irritating me?

Simply offering a solution to your continuing issue. "

You really weren't helping but thank you anyways lol

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

"Are their lurkers who see a challenge here, thinking they could be #7, etc?

Some people like the chase and can have no intention of meeting.

Do you do social meets first OP? That might filter out a lot of wasters, as can not sharing many pics or sex talk, to feed wanking"

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By *igg25Man
over a year ago

andover

I’m calling bullshit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bored of it

Pick guys that won't stand you up. Simples.

How are we supposed to know that we’re not mind readers of who are going to stand us up as to who aren’t "

Do some of that female intuition stuff..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this by the guy who’s already stood you up 6 times it is this another guy?

It's men in the past off fab. But it's getting to a point where I might just stop meeting guys.

Women and couples have also been known to stand others up

This does happen in our area pal. Sure I spoke to u in lc when it was open and mentioned this lol "

You probably did

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By *heBirminghamWeekendMan
over a year ago

here

"Are their lurkers who see a challenge here, thinking they could be #7, etc?

Some people like the chase and can have no intention of meeting.

Do you do social meets first OP? That might filter out a lot of wasters, as can not sharing many pics or sex talk, to feed wanking

Always best to start with a “get invited to join a random ‘school reunion’ while watching the 6N in a premier inn in West Brom”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this by the guy who’s already stood you up 6 times it is this another guy?

It's men in the past off fab. But it's getting to a point where I might just stop meeting guys.

Then if it's irritating you that much, simply stop commenting on my thread

Where did I say it’s irritating me?

Simply offering a solution to your continuing issue.

You really weren't helping but thank you anyways lol"

What were you hoping for then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bored of it"

There are reliable ones out there, you just need to find them... Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We’ve even sent a wink & messaged single fellas to join us but to no avail . Don’t know what’s going on ? "

I’d wink back, with a smile xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Given the chance I'd love to spend a day with you dinner drinks fun if your ever down south I'll stand by x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"American women, stay away from me, American women mama let me be,don't come hanging round my door, I don't wanna see your face no more I got more important things to do than spend my time growin' old with you"

"Lenny kravits"

Sorry couldn't resist

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple
over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...

"I kinda see why I'm aiming towards women now lol"

Silver linings.

Lady Astor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps we should have a reliability rating. If I say I'll be there, I will be. Although I was 15 minutes late once. Went to the wrong hotel, same chain....

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By *Starlord69XMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

Oh my god ......come to the south west xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread baffles me, doesn't take a lot...lol

I mean i don't understand the intentions of men that do this but read so much about it

It's incredible how many profiles mention,,if you agree to meet please turn up..thats half the reason why were here right

Im baffledddd

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I get bored chatting to men who trail off when they realise they aren't getting in my drawers easily.

Every time it happens my brain goes Oh, there goes another 4 hours of my life I won't get back.

I keep doing it though.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"Bored of it"

Say a lot about the men you pick try picking something a different.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Bored of it

Pick guys that won't stand you up. Simples.

Difficult to gauge which one who will stand you up though. We're not mind readers, there's no real clues. I wish there was! I would want an auto block on timewasters

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"I get bored chatting to men who trail off when they realise they aren't getting in my drawers easily.

Every time it happens my brain goes Oh, there goes another 4 hours of my life I won't get back.

I keep doing it though."

Yes I get them men too. I now limit how many messages I send.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"This thread baffles me, doesn't take a lot...lol

I mean i don't understand the intentions of men that do this but read so much about it

It's incredible how many profiles mention,,if you agree to meet please turn up..thats half the reason why were here right

Im baffledddd"

I don't get it either, thought men wanted sex? Erm, maybe not after all or they meant to be inundated with too much choice??

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Are their lurkers who see a challenge here, thinking they could be #7, etc?

Some people like the chase and can have no intention of meeting.

Do you do social meets first OP? That might filter out a lot of wasters, as can not sharing many pics or sex talk, to feed wanking

Always best to start with a “get invited to join a random ‘school reunion’ while watching the 6N in a premier inn in West Brom”

Who would possibly bundle a perfectly innocent young man into a swingers club after dragging him away from a hotel bar?

Shocking, outrageous behaviour.....

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Didn't we have this convo the other day?

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I’ll put it down to nerves.

But for me it’s such a waste of time if you get along really well and made it to a actual meeting and don’t turn up.

No matter how bad it is. I would still turn up

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Bored of it

Pick guys that won't stand you up. Simples.

Difficult to gauge which one who will stand you up though. We're not mind readers, there's no real clues. I wish there was! I would want an auto block on timewasters

Unless we decide to chat to men who sound desperate we can't know who will or won't turn up.

I had one man in all my time here not turn up, and I knew he wouldn't, even though he had lots of verifications, so I didn't bother getting dressed.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"I get bored chatting to men who trail off when they realise they aren't getting in my drawers easily.

Every time it happens my brain goes Oh, there goes another 4 hours of my life I won't get back.

I keep doing it though.

Yes I get them men too. I now limit how many messages I send."

4 hours isn't that long, considering. I make it clear I don't meet at the drop of a hat at the beginning of a conversation, and don't do sex chat or pics. That might be why I've only had the one no show in 12 years, but I'm still bored with talking to men I think will probably stop chatting. I rarely bother with a conversation now.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Are these men meet verified?

Are they the 2am wanking crew?

How long have you interacted before setting a time and place?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This thread baffles me, doesn't take a lot...lol

I mean i don't understand the intentions of men that do this but read so much about it

It's incredible how many profiles mention,,if you agree to meet please turn up..thats half the reason why were here right

Im baffledddd

I don't get it either, thought men wanted sex? Erm, maybe not after all or they meant to be inundated with too much choice??

Speaking for myself, fuck yeah i do,,but for the percentage of guys on here then obviously not.

If theres to much choice then handle it properly instead of burning bridges,,,still baffled aha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bored of it"

Again???? Lol maybe the problem is not them????? Lol

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"I get bored chatting to men who trail off when they realise they aren't getting in my drawers easily.

Every time it happens my brain goes Oh, there goes another 4 hours of my life I won't get back.

I keep doing it though."

4hrs?

Jeez, I don’t want a relationship

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

"Is this by the guy who’s already stood you up 6 times it is this another guy?

It's men in the past off fab. But it's getting to a point where I might just stop meeting guys."

You have to start meeting first with this track record… i read some posts saying a guy had stood you up 6 times - if thats true then more fool you after failure 2 he should have been binned. Xx. Lots of decent guys on here - who turn up.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

This is not helping my deja vu

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of it helps op. I wouldn’t stand you up.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"I get bored chatting to men who trail off when they realise they aren't getting in my drawers easily.

Every time it happens my brain goes Oh, there goes another 4 hours of my life I won't get back.

I keep doing it though.

4hrs?

Jeez, I don’t want a relationship

I did hear you're a 3 minute hero

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get bored chatting to men who trail off when they realise they aren't getting in my drawers easily.

Every time it happens my brain goes Oh, there goes another 4 hours of my life I won't get back.

I keep doing it though.

4hrs?

Jeez, I don’t want a relationship

I did hear you're a 3 minute hero

Blimey, that was the luxury version then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is not helping my deja vu"

Have you said this before?

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"We’ve even sent a wink & messaged single fellas to join us but to no avail . Don’t know what’s going on ? "

Maybe it’s a night they are at home with their wives. You need to pick a night that they are working away. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly, it's just you.

Reflect, adapt, improve.

There's some really good threads about getting meets, maybe you could review them, get some tips.

Attention seeking though, always a good start. That's like, my favourite trick.

Inbox is open ladies, wit woo

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By *tephenBunChowMan
over a year ago

Haywards heath/Waterlooville

I wouldn't stand you up. Their loss.

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By *_Love_CandyWoman
over a year ago

Greater London

Know that feeling. I don't get it lol aah well, their loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hard to believe a sexy looking lady like u would be ignored.

is their loss...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you have started a few threads saying very similar. Maybe Try something different if this keeps happening. Are you always having video or phone chats with these men? Something like that obviously doesn't mean you won't get stood up but I do find it reduces your chances if you ask a lot more questions and get to know people a little bit before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh but hun, you're so gorgeous babes, they must be mad to stand you up, I'd never stand you up, it's their loss, you're beautiful, etc...

There, is that enough smoke blown up your arse?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh but hun, you're so gorgeous babes, they must be mad to stand you up, I'd never stand you up, it's their loss, you're beautiful, etc...

There, is that enough smoke blown up your arse?

Had me in the first half, not gonna lie

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By *AB74Man
over a year ago

Midlands

There seems to be a few non genuine folk about lately... Were not all bad my love

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"This is why I go to clubs"

Yes i can see the appeal. They're already there so no ghosting is possible unless they disappear from the club? Are the men more genuine in clubsm

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By *ostAirmenMan
over a year ago

crewe

They must be crazy . At least you get stood up I can’t even get a conversation x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is why I go to clubs

Yes i can see the appeal. They're already there so no ghosting is possible unless they disappear from the club? Are the men more genuine in clubsm"

It depends what you mean by genuine. Obviously if they are in a club they are there aren't they so not going to stand you up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is why I go to clubs

Yes i can see the appeal. They're already there so no ghosting is possible unless they disappear from the club? Are the men more genuine in clubsm

It depends what you mean by genuine. Obviously if they are in a club they are there aren't they so not going to stand you up. "

Maybe the "American woman " thing is a turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is why I go to clubs

Yes i can see the appeal. They're already there so no ghosting is possible unless they disappear from the club? Are the men more genuine in clubsm

It depends what you mean by genuine. Obviously if they are in a club they are there aren't they so not going to stand you up.

Maybe the "American woman " thing is a turn off. "

Why would it be?

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I think you have to know how to manage things not sure exactly how long you’ve been on fab or indeed any similar site inc vanilla sites.

Then if no show, annoying, but not the end of the world and you can just get on with your day. Simple. But I’m a bit of an “old hand” fab wise

Never had a no show.

Social always first. No play or sex chat. They fuck off to have a wank over someone else.

Always have a plan b, value yourself and your time always.

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over a year ago

I'm sure some people get jitters or nerves and not just for a meet but maybe for trying to tell someone that, but as we are all on this site, I'd say we should all be open to say how we feel and as long as total piss hasn't been taken, roll with it

Sorry to hear its happened to you and hope if you are still looking for fun, the next is twice as good in all ways x

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By *merican Woman OP Woman
over a year ago

live by the Pool xx

"This is why I go to clubs

Yes i can see the appeal. They're already there so no ghosting is possible unless they disappear from the club? Are the men more genuine in clubsm

It depends what you mean by genuine. Obviously if they are in a club they are there aren't they so not going to stand you up.

Maybe the "American woman " thing is a turn off. "

...I mean....look at your profile pic...just sayin haha

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By *merican Woman OP Woman
over a year ago

live by the Pool xx

"Honestly, it's just you.

Reflect, adapt, improve.

There's some really good threads about getting meets, maybe you could review them, get some tips.

Attention seeking though, always a good start. That's like, my favourite trick.

Inbox is open ladies, wit woo

Haha wit woo.

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By *merican Woman OP Woman
over a year ago

live by the Pool xx

"Bored of it

Again???? Lol maybe the problem is not them????? Lol"

Your right...I prefer women anyways lol

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By *merican Woman OP Woman
over a year ago

live by the Pool xx

Too many posts to reply, sorry lol

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Ever thought about moving

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By *merican Woman OP Woman
over a year ago

live by the Pool xx

"Ever thought about moving "

Think we all should relocate lol

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Ever thought about moving

Think we all should relocate lol"

Well that sounds like a plan you can start up here first and I'll move further north

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By *merican Woman OP Woman
over a year ago

live by the Pool xx

"Ever thought about moving

Think we all should relocate lol

Well that sounds like a plan you can start up here first and I'll move further north

I'll move south. It's a better option.

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over a year ago

"Ever thought about moving

Think we all should relocate lol

Well that sounds like a plan you can start up here first and I'll move further north

I'll move south. It's a better option."

Could be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh but hun, you're so gorgeous babes, they must be mad to stand you up, I'd never stand you up, it's their loss, you're beautiful, etc...

There, is that enough smoke blown up your arse?

Had me in the first half, not gonna lie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In 5 years I've only been stood up once. I know sometimes it can't be helped but maybe be stricter when it comes to picking people to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should? I'm mostly on here to talk crap in the forums and read random opinions on random stuff and learn new ways to think. Occasionally one or other of us gets around to organising a bit of sex.

I would agree that if you arrange something you should keep to your word or at least give a reasonable excuse with a reasonable amount of notice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Findthis bs .. 100 men to 1 women and you get let down. Maybe verify with the person your meeting first on video call or look at their veris or your very picky

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