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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How do you make use of these?

Does what is written have a big impact?

Do you use it to be able to see who the person has met previously?

do you like to read them or just the fact the person is verified puts you at ease ?

Always curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just wanna see that the person is real and will turn up. Beyond that, I don’t need details, etc.

Some read like FuckAdvisor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I pay no attention to them at all

Use to till I got stood up by people who have glowing vers

Ones from a guy who has over 300 who has vers from clubs and also very well know to host private parts for tv/ts

Once Got stood up by a couple who have close at least one ver from close to ever club in the uk

All those glowing vers and stuff didn’t stop them from standing me up

So why pay them any attention at all

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I prefer the ones that basically confirm the person turned up and was who they claimed to be. Any territory marking, descriptions of sex, reviews of skill or instructions to me on how to treat the person and I'm off. We do look at who they've met but it rarely has an impact on our decision to meet or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to read the reviews of the person to help me get a picture if they were fun, nice, polite, not pushy, experienced, etc. I enjoy reading them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just wanna see that the person is real and will turn up. Beyond that, I don’t need details, etc.

Some read like FuckAdvisor. "

Exactly this

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend not to read them. I look to see if they're genuine, how many they've got, and who from. Again it's mainly to see if they're genuine. Don't need to know details. Can work out if we're compatible by chatting in meeting.

Same goes for pics with me. Will have a quick look, but generally only need to see a few to know if I want to fund out more about that person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol.

"Treat her with respect she's a goodun and sucks like a Dyson..."

Well of course I will, but only this one and only because you said too hahaha.

I mean, you have a look to get an idea but it isn't the be all end all. Usually decisions are made to cut the cord much sooner, sometimes later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I pay attention to them…for example I’m not interested in guys with a tonne of meet veris in a short time span or those verified exclusively by BBWs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of veris put me off, especially if they are all one offs..

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

My verifications can be seen but not read, I see no real need to advertise what happens on meets

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

Often enough.. some veris are not exactly the whole truth.. the wordings are from the person verifying you so it's from their perspective, and not your own.. and often enough.. some veris can be a bit misleading often enough

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I only read the veris of the people I would like to meet.

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

They aren't going to say bad thing's, otherwise people wouldn't publish them, mostly bullshit I would have thought anyway. Just a tick would be enough why do they have to give details about the whole night. Treat them with respect or else ffs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

300+ veris then profile states, not looking to fuck my way through fab...

Good bad an the ugly, not always a good thing but needed on fab i guess

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I just use them as another filter to determine how consistent a profile is. The content often doesn't fit with the bio.

I don't decide to meet anyone based on their veries but I do decide not to meet someone based on who they have already met when I know there will always be associated drama.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I pay no attention to them at all

Use to till I got stood up by people who have glowing vers

Ones from a guy who has over 300 who has vers from clubs and also very well know to host private parts for tv/ts

Once Got stood up by a couple who have close at least one ver from close to ever club in the uk

All those glowing vers and stuff didn’t stop them from standing me up

So why pay them any attention at all "

Sorry to hear

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like to read the reviews of the person to help me get a picture if they were fun, nice, polite, not pushy, experienced, etc. I enjoy reading them."

Good to get a feel for them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I just wanna see that the person is real and will turn up. Beyond that, I don’t need details, etc.

Some read like FuckAdvisor.

Exactly this

Miss S x"

Keep it simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of veris showing put me off. 4 max.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Loads of veris showing put me off. 4 max. "
whes this max people keep talking about

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My verifications can be seen but not read, I see no real need to advertise what happens on meets

I had this and then I was asked if they could read them …which I don’t mind showing at all…. But tend to not show them because I believe all meets vary so if you’re great for one person doesn’t mean you’ll match with another … let the meets talk for themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"300+ veris then profile states, not looking to fuck my way through fab...

Good bad an the ugly, not always a good thing but needed on fab i guess

There's 30,000+ on Fab most days so they haven't met many.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I only read the veris of the people I would like to meet."

Seems fair…. Paint a bigger picture for interest already there

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They aren't going to say bad thing's, otherwise people wouldn't publish them, mostly bullshit I would have thought anyway. Just a tick would be enough why do they have to give details about the whole night. Treat them with respect or else ffs."

Haha seems fair ….

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By *BootyfulDayWoman
over a year ago

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"300+ veris then profile states, not looking to fuck my way through fab...

Good bad an the ugly, not always a good thing but needed on fab i guess

I’ve got loads of veris, not 300, but the majority of mine are from socials and read like socials….if someone wants to judge me and assume I’ve slept with them all then that’s on them I guess!

I have had guys slut shame me for it but it just shows they didn’t glance at them hehe

I like reading fun veris, don’t need the sex details and don’t like giving veris describing sex stuff too much but fun ones that show personality are fun to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Loads of veris showing put me off. 4 max. "

4 with the same name? In one room at the same time? Was the meet request ‘for max only’ ?

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By *orny DeucesCouple
over a year ago

Mansfield

300+ verifications could be from a site organised social/club event and the person(s) in question was able to chat to many or even hosted the event.

Could be they are very active on the webcams and put on a decent show.

Not every verification is a verification that sexual activity happened.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I love collecting them and reading others verris x

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

I don't really care about number of veris even if they are sexual meets. It's what the site is designed for, really.

I hope no one is put off by the number of mine as they are mostly social meets

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"300+ veris then profile states, not looking to fuck my way through fab...

Good bad an the ugly, not always a good thing but needed on fab i guess

I have had guys slut shame me for it but it just shows they didn’t glance at them hehe

I like reading fun veris, don’t need the sex details and don’t like giving veris describing sex stuff too much but fun ones that show personality are fun to me

That’s where reading them comes in handy rather than just seeing the number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They used to matter to me but it quickly starts to feel like your professor slughorn collecting people

And i ont read em anymore either i dont care about other peoples opinions of someone i care about my opinion of them and there opinion of me and they can tell me that easy enough

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Can give you some ideas what to expect if anything it's just one person's experience or many more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Loads of veris showing put me off. 4 max.

4 with the same name? In one room at the same time? Was the meet request ‘for max only’ ?

4 of any kind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Loads of veris showing put me off. 4 max.

whes this max people keep talking about "

Hart to Hart

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

They can be useful. If I'm looking through someone's veris and all of them are from BMFC events I would probably not fit their preferences so wouldn't initiate contact. If they state they are after 1-1 and all their veris are from gang bangs I would be cautious. Also I'm aware that fab can be a little in-cestuous at times, which doesn't work for everyone. They can also be used alongside their messages, forum posts and profile to build a fuller picture when deciding if I want to meet someone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Loads of veris showing put me off. 4 max.

4 with the same name? In one room at the same time? Was the meet request ‘for max only’ ?

4 of any kind.

Like Noah…but double ?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I follow the veri trail. I never read what had been said as let's be honest, no-one is going to show a shit verification. I do use them to know who to avoid as they have met certain people...been dragged into drama is not fun x

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By *urnedoutniceagainMan
over a year ago

louth

It’s a bit of a minefield where verifications are concerned. As has previously been memtioned no one will display a bad one and too many are off putting for me. I don’t ask for them and don’t show them ( I have been on and off here over the years) I find you can tell a lot about a person who is happy to chat before meeting.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I almost want a bad verri just so I can display it now! As I would display all verris let people make their own minds up of me x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I almost want a bad verri just so I can display it now! As I would display all verris let people make their own minds up of me x"

Like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It just proves they are a real human. We all have different experiences with people so the content of veris are irrelevant.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

In the beginning I'd display my veris as they gave a very accurate account of what I was like in person and what the experience of meeting me was like.

I naively assumed that in the swinging world jealousy and the green eye were not present to the extent they truly are.

It quickly became more problematic than advantageous to post any veri that wasn't purely social. And even this, after a time proved troublesome.

I proceeded to stop posting any veris publicly and politely requested verified people from displaying my veri as well. This massively improved the experience overall.

I still enjoy veris, especially the really good ones, as they serve as a pleasant trip down memory lane

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It just proves they are a real human. We all have different experiences with people so the content of veris are irrelevant. "

Totally agree

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Mine are absolutely shocking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dirty veris with foul descriptive language that sound like a readers wives extract are always entertaining

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So basically we’re saying keep them clean and also people need to be brave and display the shit ones too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Proves they are real, a recent one on a couples profile hopefully proves they are still a couple. Past that, I don't pay any attention to them. Someone else's experience won't shape my opinion of someone. People can be well verified and still be an arsehole.

Pxx

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"So basically we’re saying keep them clean and also people need to be brave and display the shit ones too

Someone volunteer to come in cam room with me and leave a shit one I will display it? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you make use of these? - One of the biggest deciding factors to meeting someone for myself.

Does what is written have a big impact? - Not really

Do you use it to be able to see who the person has met previously? - Yes I do

Do you like to read them or just the fact the person is verified puts you at ease ? - I like to read them and know the person I’m wanting to meet has met someone they’ve at least turned up to meet someone else puts me a little more at ease.

Always curious

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"How do you make use of these? - One of the biggest deciding factors to meeting someone for myself.

Does what is written have a big impact? - Not really

Do you use it to be able to see who the person has met previously? - Yes I do

Always curious

I check out yours, and then anyone you have seen I know not to bother chasing as thats like asking someone to down grade from a ferrari to a bin

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I don't tend to read verifications at all as when i meet defenitly the meeting will not be based or inspired by the verifications they state. To me important is the profile and the conversation, mostly how it starts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you make use of these? - One of the biggest deciding factors to meeting someone for myself.

Does what is written have a big impact? - Not really

Do you use it to be able to see who the person has met previously? - Yes I do

Always curious

I check out yours, and then anyone you have seen I know not to bother chasing as thats like asking someone to down grade from a ferrari to a bin

Aww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you make use of these? - One of the biggest deciding factors to meeting someone for myself.

Does what is written have a big impact? - Not really

Do you use it to be able to see who the person has met previously? - Yes I do

Always curious

I check out yours, and then anyone you have seen I know not to bother chasing as thats like asking someone to down grade from a ferrari to a bin

Oh god don’t be crazy don’t say that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally don’t like lots and lots of verifications on a profile, I think too many can look tacky. Each to their own. (Just my opinion)

Less is more. I think even socially you only need a handful to show you are genuine. I can’t imagine someone wanting to read hundreds...

With my own account I have chosen not to post everything I am up to on my page for everyone to see! There are people on my friend’s list (and not) that don’t need to know everything I’m up to and who with!!!

The amount of people I meet up with or fuck during my time on FAB is personal to me and won’t ever verify everything on display.

I have had two long term FWB on here, both lasting one year. One was very regular and one more occasional. One was informed of the other FWB and the other wasn’t informed I had another FWB.

Another more recent and social meet I decided to inform the one FWB about that particular one but it proved I shouldn’t have because it ended in a row and us ending things together which made my decision for keeping the other FWB quiet from

them a very wise decision after all.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I love reading veris cos im nosy.

Gives me a glimpse into their lives and If someone doesn't like how many I have (im not bothered by how many they have) then it's a good filter for me

Oh and I only show social ones, don't want everyone to know who I am fucking

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

We like to read them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only show two veris, one social and one meet. I don’t have endless ones but enough that some guys take offence. Some are socials but that doesn’t matter.

I like mine to be tasteful, just confirm I’m genuine and fun to be with. I cringe at the ones who go in to fuck advisor details

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

I always read them to make sure that don’t pass this one by and treat them with respect…

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

They are one of a number of tools provided, that allow folks make (hopefully) informed decisions about who they want to meet, or avoid. Like any tool/ system, they can be gamed somewhat.

Unsurprisingly, everyone will have different thoughts on the usefulness of verifications, all of which are valid. And those will further vary based on the demographic you fall into, and what you are trying to attract.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Verifications work for us, show if they are willing to meet more than once, which is a good sign.

Often it’s more about what they don’t say more than what they do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

But it’s difficult to request what people write about you…. If they want to write the details then do you say no?

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"But it’s difficult to request what people write about you…. If they want to write the details then do you say no? "

Give broad strokes beforehand on how detailed the veri should be. If they go overboard, just don’t display the verification, seeing as that is an option.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

The only time i'll check veris is when a sexy lady is interested in me as she must be a fake scam or blind as a bat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can give you some ideas what to expect if anything it's just one person's experience or many more "
i agree and people arent timewasters i dont want to read what they have done etc at the end of the day we all know what we like

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