FabSwingers.com forum: how many times

By *oodmess OP Man
over a year ago

yumsville

do you mail someone for first contact?

Personally its once and once only for me.

Its not a rule built in stone but if they cant be arsed getting back, that sort of tells me what I need to.

I dont even bother even if they have a 'meet today' post up...

Too fussy or just practical?

Probably a thread for single guys???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mail people. I'm not on searches because I prefer to go looking. I only mail once.

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

I tend only to mail once. Some have it on their profiles anyway, and I always respect specifics like that on profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as many as it takes until am blocked or get a reply

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Send one...if no reply dont contact again expecially when you know that they delete without reading

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

My rule-of-thumb is twice - but it depends.

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By *oodmess OP Man
over a year ago

yumsville

"as many as it takes until am blocked or get a reply

haha brill

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Why would you message someone more than once if they didnt reply to your first message?

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

"Why would you message someone more than once if they didnt reply to your first message?"
Correct

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"Why would you message someone more than once if they didnt reply to your first message?"

My thoughts exactly....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never make first contact. I play the waiting game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i really like the look of someone ill keep trying. u can win some over with the right msgs

not gonna be everyones approach granted

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

"Why would you message someone more than once if they didnt reply to your first message?"

1. They hit the delete all button

1a. accidentally

1b. on purpose to clear out their inbox

2. The message didn't interested them at that time.

I've had many good meetings with people who deleted my first message.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We will often make first contact with people but will only mail them once. If they don't reply or delete then we wouldn't contact them again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mail once and once only ,never twice unless by accident , three times is oooh so naughty and four is out of order , five your becoming a pest and six a stalker ......seven to ten you need help! ....

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

only once for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"as many as it takes until am blocked or get a reply

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never send first message, not unless they were really fucking hot!! then might be tempted..x

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

I've had many good meetings with people who deleted my first message."

And Vice-versa

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I don't message. I use telepathy. But more than once and I get a headache.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

And Admin spake, saying, 'First shalt thou take out thine Holy Member. Then, shalt thou mail three times. No more. No less. Three shalt be the times thou shalt mail, and the number of the mailing shall be three. Four shalt thou not mail, nor either mail thou two, excepting that thou then proceed to three. Five is right out. Once the number three, being the third number, be mailed, then, takest thou thy Holy Member in hand and stroketh vigorously, for having no reply to thine third mailing, thou hast no chance of a shag...

Nods to Python, M productions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And Admin spake, saying, 'First shalt thou take out thine Holy Member. Then, shalt thou mail three times. No more. No less. Three shalt be the times thou shalt mail, and the number of the mailing shall be three. Four shalt thou not mail, nor either mail thou two, excepting that thou then proceed to three. Five is right out. Once the number three, being the third number, be mailed, then, takest thou thy Holy Member in hand and stroketh vigorously, for having no reply to thine third mailing, thou hast no chance of a shag...

Nods to Python, M productions

jesus that was tough going

and im still none the wiser

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once only. If they delete then I move on. Easy.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Nods to Python, M productions

And it's the magic number.

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