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By *untime5 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cornwall

Ladies can have hundreds of unopened messages on here. Assuming there’s already an attached photo, what message subject would make you curious to open it?

100% I’m using the best ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oi you, look at my wod.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's your favourite type of lettuce?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's your favourite type of lettuce?"

Open it too find a joke about Iceberg, breaking the ice most likely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's your favourite type of lettuce?

Open it too find a joke about Iceberg, breaking the ice most likely "

No no, thats when I ask how much a polar bear weighs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Large package enclosed

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

Something geeky or bdsm related

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Message subject I rarely look at Their profile is the reason I would open a message.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

OP you clever sausage. Then you just need to copy and paste.

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly


"OP you clever sausage. Then you just need to copy and paste. "

This is true, all my message titles say 'copy and paste' and it works every time

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"Something geeky or bdsm related "

Can I flog your darkside?

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By *wistedsoul35Man
over a year ago

cumbria


"Oi you, look at my wod. "

Oh, so that's how I get a reply from you ... Will remember that

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"Ladies can have hundreds of unopened messages on here. Assuming there’s already an attached photo, what message subject would make you curious to open it?

100% I’m using the best ones "

I don't even look at the subject message you get a bit of the message before opening it and that usually tells me how it's going to go .... hi how are you .... lol so I don't open just go straight to profile see if any effort has at least been made there ... and if not it's a delete x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's your favourite type of lettuce?

Open it too find a joke about Iceberg, breaking the ice most likely "

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"OP you clever sausage. Then you just need to copy and paste.

This is true, all my message titles say 'copy and paste' and it works every time "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like tractors so if the subject line said there was a picture of a tractor in the message, I would defo open that.

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By *ig_eric_tionMan
over a year ago

IPSWICH

It doesn't seem to matter. Most of mine get opened. Not many replies though.

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By *lderflowerappleWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

If it's come direct from a forum thread I've posted to, I guarantee a reply.

Otherwise, a quick squiz of the profile and the first line of the message determines whether it's an immediate delete, read and delete, or read and mark unread for later attention.

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By *ir LixalotMan
over a year ago

Blackburn

Should we start including more Euclidean Geometry in initial messages, a lot of the female profiles say they want intelligence.. do we stop at diffraction gratings and the consequences of altering Planck's constant by one decimal place? Asking for a friend

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By *untime5 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cornwall


"Something geeky or bdsm related

Can I flog your darkside?"

Well I’d write that if you hadn’t blocked guys

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By *untime5 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cornwall


"OP you clever sausage. Then you just need to copy and paste. "

That’s what I was hoping! Hadn’t considered looking at the profile before opening the message. I’m always to excited to get one that I see what it says straight away

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By *P4RTANMan
over a year ago

near

DP attached

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything with a marriage proposal is guaranteed to get a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do the following work:

“My dwarf wants to meet you”

“If I lick you, you’re mine”

“MASSIVE COCK”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anything with a marriage proposal is guaranteed to get a reply "

Will you marry my teddy bear?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Money off coupon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like tractors so if the subject line said there was a picture of a tractor in the message, I would defo open that. "

I dumped my girlfriend for this! She now an Ex-tractor-fan!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anything with a marriage proposal is guaranteed to get a reply

Will you marry my teddy bear? "

Show me his ring

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I don't always look at the msg subject.

Maybe "cake" would work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't always look at the msg subject.

Maybe "cake" would work."

Or face pic Friday

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By *ineMan
over a year ago

In cave behind a waterfall on a hill


"I don't always look at the msg subject.

Maybe "cake" would work."

Cream?

Lemon Drizzle?

Cheese?

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By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London

Wuu2 hun?

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By *estoraleverMan
over a year ago

cheshire/staffordshire


"I like tractors so if the subject line said there was a picture of a tractor in the message, I would defo open that. "

Haha I actually do have a tractor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's "A message"?

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By *echnosonic_BrummieMan
over a year ago

Willenhall


"I like tractors so if the subject line said there was a picture of a tractor in the message, I would defo open that. "

What if I sent a picture of myself and said "I must be a tractor because I really want to pull you"?

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Check the profile in stealth stealth mode before I read messages anyway

If the profile appeals then anything that really shows they’ve read my profile and we’re likely to be compatible

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By *ammo89Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Ladies can have hundreds of unopened messages on here "

Women have it much tougher than men on fab

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By *he_TicklersCouple
over a year ago

Havant & Aberdare

We usually quote something from the profile

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By *untime5 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cornwall


"Women have it much tougher than men on fab"

I was friends with a girl who was good at playing the hot photos game and very popular on Fab. She’d get a ridiculous number of messages and would have needed a PA to reply to all of them. On a road trip we decided to answer as many as possible.

There was one crappy, copy and paste list of about 30 questions from a guy who was nothing special. We wrote really thorough answers to them all.

Then the guy replies with a one sentence response *shrug*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies can have hundreds of unopened messages on here

Women have it much tougher than men on fab"

I'm not sure it's necessarily tougher, I'd say different difficulties.

So, Assuming there’s already an attached photo, what message subject would make you curious to open it?

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By *untime5 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cornwall


"So, Assuming there’s already an attached photo, what message subject would make you curious to open it?

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I get so few that I open them all, unless it’s clear from the first line that it’s a single guy who wants to suck cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi how are you? would make me open it.

The content makes the difference

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By *untime5 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cornwall

… oh and that was tongue in cheek. The single guys are definitely at the bottom of the Fab pile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"… oh and that was tongue in cheek. The single guys are definitely at the bottom of the Fab pile"

Speak for yourself

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By *undance_KidMan
over a year ago

London

Just send an abusive message, that will guarantee a reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just send an abusive message, that will guarantee a reply."

I honestly think that's true. Decent men just getting soooo frustrated they need to be 'seen'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just send an abusive message, that will guarantee a reply.

I honestly think that's true. Decent men just getting soooo frustrated they need to be 'seen'."

I think decent men just give up and leave.

To send an abusive message is not what anyone decent would do.

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By *undance_KidMan
over a year ago

London

I know Woody and I wouldn’t. I think if you make the message in a slightly semi joking taking the piss kind of way then you have more chance rather than being overly complementary.

That’s my experience anyway.

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By *unkym34Man
over a year ago

London

I’ve always found that putting I have cake and booze and I’m willing to share in the subject field always gets my message read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“Hey”

Gets me every time, I just can’t resist!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like tractors so if the subject line said there was a picture of a tractor in the message, I would defo open that.

I dumped my girlfriend for this! She now an Ex-tractor-fan! "
I see what you did there lol...

lately I delete anything entitled 'wow'.

I'm more inclined to open and respond to messages like ' morning stroll/walk in park or adventure type stuff' ....

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By *untime5 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cornwall


"“Hey”

Gets me every time, I just can’t resist!!"

I feel like that might not be true. But hey, you replied to my messages so I must be doing something right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know Woody and I wouldn’t. I think if you make the message in a slightly semi joking taking the piss kind of way then you have more chance rather than being overly complementary.

That’s my experience anyway. "

There’s no right or wrong answer to these questions. What you and I would do is different and also different to everyone else.

And depending what mood I’m in.

That cock desperate woman wouldn’t stand a chance sending boobs and a FAF today, but Friday night ?? Maybe if replay with a ‘when and where?’

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By *undance_KidMan
over a year ago

London

Agreed. One woman’s trash is another woman’s treasure, you kno wha I’m trying to say anyway !

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I don’t look at the subject heading generally, I read the preview of the message.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

I normally refer to something they mention in their profile, and something I'll mention in the message to help show I've read it.

No idea if it helps, but it's got to be better than 'Hi' hasn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies can have hundreds of unopened messages on here. Assuming there’s already an attached photo, what message subject would make you curious to open it?

100% I’m using the best ones

I don't even look at the subject message you get a bit of the message before opening it and that usually tells me how it's going to go .... hi how are you .... lol so I don't open just go straight to profile see if any effort has at least been made there ... and if not it's a delete x "

Excellent idea, thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rubber duck in the subject seemed to work well but varying degrees of response!

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"I don’t look at the subject heading generally, I read the preview of the message. "

I keep meaning to ensure the preview shows something interesting, but I really struggle with not starting a first message in a polite way, so it would always say something like "Hi Claire, hope your evening is going well...", which obviously isn't the most intriguing.

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