FabSwingers.com forum: Is a 'gift list' another form or payment for sexual services?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I was recently sent a list from a well know rainforest website from a woman suggesting that if I was to buy her a gift I would receive something in return.

Now I understand buying a gift for someone I am having a relationship with and would have pleasure buying it.

Is this not payment for sexual services but under a different name?

(For the record, she has been reported and I have blocked any further contact).

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

It’s the worlds oldest profession

Whatever way they wanna spin in. They still selling themselves

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I was recently sent a list from a well know rainforest website from a woman suggesting that if I was to buy her a gift I would receive something in return.

Now I understand buying a gift for someone I am having a relationship with and would have pleasure buying it.

Is this not payment for sexual services but under a different name?

(For the record, she has been reported and I have blocked any further contact)."

Yep.

Still 'touting for business'.

I gave 'gifts' on occasion to long term play friends and FB's years ago - underwear, wine, chocolates, novelty joke stuff - but they were entirely my choice, my idea and not solicited for in any way.

Anyone asking for anything via a message or prior to a meet is just look for 'payment' in either goods or whatever to facilitate a meet.

As per the great advice from the kids from Grange Hill - 'Just say no'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this not payment for sexual services but under a different name?

Yes it is

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

I’ll even go as far as saying it’s worse

At least with a prostitution there’s a deal. Sex for money

These “gifts” and “rewards” are always vague

Most of the time they are implying gifts = sex bit in reality they’ll just take the gift and say thanks. It’s a gift right?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It's asking for expenses and against site rules.

As you've already done, block and delete

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