FabSwingers.com forum: Does anyone really meet on here?

By *hillman789 OP Man
over a year ago

Middlewich

For the blokes on here...there are so many of us either some are getting it all or 10% lucky dudes do!?

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By *riendlyStarMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"For the blokes on here...there are so many of us either some are getting it all or 10% lucky dudes do!?"

No luck a few replies but nothing substantial, I do need to update my profile I think but no I haven't had any luck

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Keep at it, something will cum your way

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I'm not even in the top 99% but never had any problems

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Yes I do, sorry for stealing all your potential meets op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes people meet on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they do

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By *ourneforfunMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

Of course people meet, but the ratio of men to women is not on our side, so it can take a while to get your first.

Once you get some good feedback it helps.

My advice is dont be so keen to meet, chat to a few people in chatrooms and forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only at christmas.. 5 more months and you'll be drowning in pussy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Yes. Effort in = rewards out

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By *pstanding CitizenMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

My latest meet was on Friday evening

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Only at christmas.. 5 more months and you'll be drowning in pussy."

Or corned beef hash

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m drowning in clunge.

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By *ess King tvTV/TS
over a year ago

KING'S LYNN

"For the blokes on here...there are so many of us either some are getting it all or 10% lucky dudes do!?"

Retrain like me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure, why wouldn't I/we be getting meets?

Does this place need a FAQ or guide for people a slice short of a whole cake? Or is it just considered part of the vetting procedure, a Darwin style sink or swim litmus test?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once upon a time but it wasnt down to luck thats for sure

It was due to me just being me

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Yeah it's that top tier set of exceptional men that are getting all the meets, with all the women. I wouldn't waste your time

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

I havent for a while ..what with covid and moving areas but have had my fair share of lovely meets with some amazing ladies and also wonderful couples with my good lady wife so i cannot complain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only at christmas.. 5 more months and you'll be drowning in pussy.

Or corned beef hash

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Does this place need a FAQ or guide for people a slice short of a whole cake?"

99% of the target audience wouldn't read it. See also profile advice not taken...

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"Yeah it's that top tier set of exceptional men that are getting all the meets, with all the women. I wouldn't waste your time

Burn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The 10% all meet up at a Wetherspoons that’s where they swap notes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look them in my basement …. No sharesies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel we've met our fare share of men.

Couples next.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"The 10% all meet up at a Wetherspoons that’s where they swap notes "

Not falling for that.

We all know there's a mass WhatsApp chat with 400 women on it, all manipulating 40,000 men into a state of frustration, while cackling manically. It's been well documented...

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

No. No one ever meets. Just send a pic of your bum to everyone and moan lots on the forum ...... it's a way of life.

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

Yes plenty

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By *illanelleWoman
over a year ago

Ryde, Isle of Wight

"I’m drowning in clunge. "

Such a good word lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The 10% all meet up at a Wetherspoons that’s where they swap notes

Not falling for that.

We all know there's a mass WhatsApp chat with 400 women on it, all manipulating 40,000 men into a state of frustration, while cackling manically. It's been well documented...

You must mean 370 women and 30 men with profiles pretending to be women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes ppl do meet. I have more luck with couples than single ladies so maybe depends what you're looking for. Always best to try clubs tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m drowning in clunge. "
haha love that word

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By *educerMan
over a year ago

Brentwood

Socials and clubs, get yourself out there.

Contrary to popular belief women wont just turn up out of the blue at your front door.....

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Is just a myth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m drowning in clunge. "

I always thought the saying was 'knee deep in clunge'

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I did. Once upon a time. I’ve seen more cocks than Bernard Matthews. Not that I’m complaining

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I did. Once upon a time. I’ve seen more cocks than Bernard Matthews. Not that I’m complaining

.....sigh. so far, so cute

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

If you aren’t getting the outcome you desire on here then change how you approach things.

Go to socials, clubs, get your face seen and your personality across.

Unless you’ve got a good variety of pics and a fantastic profile, you don’t stand out online.

It’s all in your hands how successful FAB is for you…the tools are provided for you to use.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"If you aren’t getting the outcome you desire on here then change how you approach things.

Go to socials, clubs, get your face seen and your personality across.

Unless you’ve got a good variety of pics and a fantastic profile, you don’t stand out online.

It’s all in your hands how successful FAB is for you…the tools are provided for you to use.

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, we definitely meet. But, for me, I like physically fit, younger guys, so my ability to find men that suit, has been so easy.

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By *o scandalousWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yes people meet.

In my experience it’s the guys that don’t show up. I’ve been ghosted more times than I care to count, then get the lame ass excuses a day or two later.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Yes people meet.

In my experience it’s the guys that don’t show up. I’ve been ghosted more times than I care to count, then get the lame ass excuses a day or two later."

They are plainly stupid

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"I’m drowning in clunge.

I always thought the saying was 'knee deep in clunge'

They must all be squirters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They definitely do, and although the easy advice is to go to clubs I'm not a big fan of that advice because clubs aren't for everyone.

I'd say the best you can do is work on your profile to make it the best it can be and just keep trying with messages and you never know what can happen from there. Some women get 100s of messages, others don't so it's always worth a go in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sure, why wouldn't I/we be getting meets?

Does this place need a FAQ or guide for people a slice short of a whole cake? Or is it just considered part of the vetting procedure, a Darwin style sink or swim litmus test?"

So true!

If your not successful with the ladies in real life then truth be told your going to really struggle on here.

Wit, charm, personality, humour, respect for yourself as well as others and an infectious positive attitude are just a few of the key tools that are easier to implement or get across when face to face outside of fab life. The thing is these tools and traits are just as important on Fab and due to the medium they take even more effort to deploy or get across.

A cut and paste "wanna meet to fuck now" with Cock picture attached will deliver about the same level of success as if you used that approach in a real life pub.

Sadly a fact of life is not everyone gets picked for the football team. All you can be is your best self. If that doesn't make the grade then there are paid services out there for those who decide to go that route.

Swinging is a lifestyle with its own culture what it most definitely isn't is a free brothal for tight fisted incels hoping to finally fill their boots.

Happy swinging.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"Yes people meet on here

Do they..?!

...only at socials and clubs though, right?!

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"Socials and clubs, get yourself out there.

Contrary to popular belief women wont just turn up out of the blue at your front door....."

...well you've never given me your front door number?!

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Socials and clubs, get yourself out there.

Contrary to popular belief women wont just turn up out of the blue at your front door.....

...well you've never given me your front door number?!

I'm still waiting to give you my cream

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By *onBurgundy99Man
over a year ago

Cheshire

My impression so far is a bit of a waste of my time if i'm honest. Or my online game must just be utterly woeful it seems much easier to meet and talk to women / pick up in person than on here. Far far higher success rates in the real world!

Maybe I'm just too polite about things and need to be more forthcoming with stuff I don't know.

Maybe the guys with good success, share some wisdom!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For the blokes on here...there are so many of us either some are getting it all or 10% lucky dudes do!?"

Try attending an organised social and get networking. I find that helps.

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By *onBurgundy99Man
over a year ago

Cheshire

"If you aren’t getting the outcome you desire on here then change how you approach things.

Go to socials, clubs, get your face seen and your personality across.

Unless you’ve got a good variety of pics and a fantastic profile, you don’t stand out online.

It’s all in your hands how successful FAB is for you…the tools are provided for you to use.

In fairness that actually sounds like nail on head advice right there to all

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"Socials and clubs, get yourself out there.

Contrary to popular belief women wont just turn up out of the blue at your front door.....

...well you've never given me your front door number?!

I'm still waiting to give you my cream

It must be clotted by now..?!

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By *educerMan
over a year ago

Brentwood

"Socials and clubs, get yourself out there.

Contrary to popular belief women wont just turn up out of the blue at your front door.....

...well you've never given me your front door number?!

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