FabSwingers.com forum: Why do I get likes and winks from men?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My profile says I'm straight so why do I get likes, winks and fabs from men????

Do straight women get this problem from other women.

Baffling!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they want to make your anus bleed like a menstruating vagina

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

I get them as well, just ignore & carry on.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Because they think you like it up em

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By *unnesscoupleMan
over a year ago

Inverness

"Because they want to make your anus bleed like a menstruating vagina "

Ouch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alpha male obvs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they want to make your anus bleed like a menstruating vagina "
thats just my guess tho

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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

If you don't want them, it might be worthwhile setting your filters to block them. That's what we did when we first joined and have only had the occasional "couple" message us.

C x

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

Because there are lots of men in here. Why don’t you just block men from messaging

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Same reason I get winks and messages from straight guys, nobody reads the profile text. Mine clearly states no straight guys ….but I still get messages off them.

Get used to it and delete/ block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My profile says I'm straight so why do I get likes, winks and fabs from men????

Do straight women get this problem from other women.

Baffling!"

Send some back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give us a kiss and I’ll tell ya

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Set your message filters so men can't message you.

Huge percentage of people don't read profiles so they won't know what your preferences are, they just fab/wink/message anyone that catches their eye in the hope that eventually someone will be interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They want to bum ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They fab mine and message me on occasions and I just take it as a compliment and always reply

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

They like the challenge of trying to turn a straight man into a bisexual one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all replies. Very enlightening.

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By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner

"They fab mine and message me on occasions and I just take it as a compliment and always reply

Same here. I also occasionally give a line if I see a picture I like.

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

I used to get the same and even had one guy constantly messaging so I just blocked him and then blocked all men, it just seemed easier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because not all men who say they’re straight on their profiles….are telling the truth.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a woman I work with, she's lesbian and has no interest in men at all.

Doesn't stop me thinking she's hot (Mr).

They're showing their appreciation, maybe expressing their sexuality, nothing to do with who you find attractive.

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

I wouldn't sweat it, mate. A guy liked your pic - just be pleased it was appreciated.

Obviously block and ignore if they send unwanted messages etc, but just take a fab or a wink as a compliment.

You don't become bi or gay until you've had over 10000 fabs from guys, so just watch out when you approach that number!

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Yes women message and wink I will talk to anyone I explain I'm not bi but happy to b friends x

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By *quarerootMan
over a year ago

Helston

"My profile says I'm straight so why do I get likes, winks and fabs from men????

Do straight women get this problem from other women.

Baffling!"

I’m as baffled as you!

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Because you post pictures that appeal to them

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

It might be as simple as you take a decent picture and look good to them. How awful.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"My profile says I'm straight so why do I get likes, winks and fabs from men????

Do straight women get this problem from other women.

Baffling!"

You have a certain ‘look’ OP

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By *onBurgundy99Man
over a year ago

Cheshire

I dont mind the fabbing of pics but the continuance of private messages was a nuisance. I've set the filter now to block them

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

Just take it as a compliment chap! If only we all got winks in the real world!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

No idea, it's baffling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My profile says I'm straight so why do I get likes, winks and fabs from men????

Do straight women get this problem from other women.

Baffling!"

It's your wet shirt pics, they are brilliant!!

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By *ananabrumMan
over a year ago

castle bromwich

Beacause a lot of straight profiles aren't actually straight I get messages daily from straight men. Strangely bisexuality seems to still cary a stigma

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

"My profile says I'm straight so why do I get likes, winks and fabs from men????

Do straight women get this problem from other women.

Baffling!

It's your wet shirt pics, they are brilliant!!

They are, rather.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I don't get any winks from them as they're blocked

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Maybe you’re giving off homo-erotic vibes from your pics

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By *thfloorCouple
over a year ago

Hove

"My profile says I'm straight so why do I get likes, winks and fabs from men????

Do straight women get this problem from other women.

Baffling!"

Just cos you don't fancy men doesn't make you entirely unattractive to men who do. Yep I'm a woman and will fab straight women and gay men, and anyone else that I find appealing.

How is it different to being fabbed/winked by someone you don't actually fancy even though they're the "right" gender for your orientation?

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