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Where do it pretences come from?

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By *atnip make me purr OP   Woman
over a year ago

Reading

Some are clearly societal like the tall men thing. Why do you prefer a blonde? Why do you prefer a dad bod? Big boobs?

How often do you go off type and how did that go?

Is there a difference between preferences for physical attributes than fur mental?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t nesserly have a “type” I am more attached to the person they are if they kind polite and a wonderful person

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By *orny DeucesCouple
over a year ago

Mansfield

Some believe it's a parental thing, likeness to them (The Oedipus complex), or direct opposite.

While some believe it to be living out a fantasy based on an early crush.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Connection is what I always find outweighs physical attributes but of course their has to be a level of attraction too.

I lost my cherry to a mature neighbours wife in my teens and have always been more attracted to older ladies they just have something about them that younger ladies didn’t . As I’ve gotten older the look of a lady under 50 does attract me but have never found that connection !

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

I really really do not have a type apart from they have to be female lol i have connected with many different ladies over the years and each 1 were amazing adventures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the most liberating thing for me is I honestly don't have a specific type. So with me, majority of the time it really does boil down to what someone's energy and vibe are like, and whether they get pleasure from the same kinks and have the same as, or even wilder and more interesting, sexual desires than me.

A nice pair of bouncy boobs wouldn't go a miss though hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really have a type never have looked back at my dating history

Fab has also proved to me that I am no ones type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pale skin- I like to see the veins through it, I like the way it bruises and marks during and after impact play

Ginger hair- I love the contrast of colour, more so with pale, freckily skin. A pretty ginger boy can send shivers through me.

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By *atnip make me purr OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"Connection is what I always find outweighs physical attributes but of course their has to be a level of attraction too.

I lost my cherry to a mature neighbours wife in my teens and have always been more attracted to older ladies they just have something about them that younger ladies didn’t . As I’ve gotten older the look of a lady under 50 does attract me but have never found that connection !

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That bears out what the poster above said that many preferences come from early crushes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never been a person who has a 'type'. Everyone I've been with they are mostly very different physically. I gravitate towards energy mostly, personality is none negotiable.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I don't have a physical type when it comes to men but very much do with women. I've no idea where my preferences come from but they're very pronounced.

When it comes to personality I do have a definite type though. I know who I will get along with best and who I'll quickly find frustrating.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

With my erratic brain I can't say I have a type.

If you saw the people I've been attracted to over the years you'd be left scratching your head, unless you're one of this people who think having a specific physical type means you're fussy, and not, means you'll fuck "anything".

The only personality trait I think I'm more attracted to is a calm persona. I like people who don't bounce around a room, and are in control of their emotions.

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By *olfy and SheepCouple
over a year ago

Lanark

Pretence comes from Precamping shops

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