FabSwingers.com forum: Playing the “Role”

By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

Evening all

It started about 4 weeks ago … matched with a lady on a dating site ….

Little older than myself , profile didn’t give too much away

Anyways we exchange messages and numbers start flirting few pictures here n there

Anyways into her fantasies and likes …. She likes a man to be dominant not forceful but take control tell her what to do … call her names

So I’m rather inexperienced in the whole sex thing … (due to missing a big chunk of growing up ) as a result I’d say I’m quite payed back . Some would say submissive

I’d seen some porn and asked her if she liked the specifics of what I watched

She said it was

Anyways I spent this afternoon playing a role completely out of my comfort zone

She has given me nothing but compliments said she’d never have known that it seemed very natural

Learned a little something about myself

It was exciting but like a rollercoaster …. A thrill and nice to experience but I’m not sure I could be like that every time

Have you taken a roll in the bedroom that you don’t find natural …?

How did you find it ?

It was nice to know she really enjoyed it and that was my pleasure

Is this the same for you ?

Hope you’re weekend has been filled with all sorts of fun/sexy shinanigans

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

It's not how I would approach dating tbh

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

We’ve recently swapped sides so that I sleep closest to the door.

It felt comfortable for me straight away.

I think I’m just a natural.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

The only role I found/find difficult is not being in control.

If its just a standard fuck session with no element of BDSM I struggle to hold back and not incorporate those elements - like punching their bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too much effort. I like the dynamic to happen organically which can be different with different people...Some of which have taken me by surprise, but if it feels natural with someone then it's worth exploring

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"It's not how I would approach dating tbh "

I can’t really reply to this

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"We’ve recently swapped sides so that I sleep closest to the door.

It felt comfortable for me straight away.

I think I’m just a natural."

Glad to hear it

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Sometimes it takes a while for the dominant side to emerge.

To some it comes easy, to others it takes a while to actually let go, you will find as time goes on it will become a lot easier.

The most important thing is to communicate, it is important to know and understand limits, not just theirs but yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The main thing is that you're happy and comfortable with it. I wouldn't do it just for her if it's something you don't want to, but you may discover something about yourself you didn't know.

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"Too much effort. I like the dynamic to happen organically which can be different with different people...Some of which have taken me by surprise, but if it feels natural with someone then it's worth exploring"

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"Sometimes it takes a while for the dominant side to emerge.

To some it comes easy, to others it takes a while to actually let go, you will find as time goes on it will become a lot easier.

The most important thing is to communicate, it is important to know and understand limits, not just theirs but yours"

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"The main thing is that you're happy and comfortable with it. I wouldn't do it just for her if it's something you don't want to, but you may discover something about yourself you didn't know.

Definitely did

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"The main thing is that you're happy and comfortable with it. I wouldn't do it just for her if it's something you don't want to, but you may discover something about yourself you didn't know.

Definitely did

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