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My misses thinks she's fat...... I think she's curvy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My wife thinks that she's fat... I say she's curvy so wot I say means naff all

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"My wife thinks that she's fat... I say she's curvy so wot I say means naff all"

Curvy, although I had to have a good look at all 100 pics to make sure.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

you have plenty of verifications from very happy people who have met u guys so i wudnt worry too much about wot label to attach as she does seem to please those she meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

she doesnt look fat in her pictures.

curvy yes.

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex


"My wife thinks that she's fat... I say she's curvy so wot I say means naff all"

We wouldn't kick her out of bed lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This sounds like the usual female pre-Xmas 'I'm fat so we're ALL going on a diet until Xmas' kind of 'I'm fat' claim to me.....

And no she isn't. Gotta a cute ass in some of your pics though..... Lol!

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

Knowing the views of some people on here, I think you're very brave to post something that could potentially knock your wife's confidence even more.

What a gamble!

(PS I don't personally think she's fat)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my first thoughs were 'nipples'

but no your mrs looks lovely, id love a curvy body like that

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By *ntimacyUnlimitedMan
over a year ago

wakefield

Curvy.

And very, very sexy

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By *weet DevilMan
over a year ago

dukinfield

i think id need to have an hands on before i could comment // please have her bathed and sent round at once thanks you

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

My mums words to me the other day you are not obese ust round...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She curvy and a red she's perfect ynwa

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi the mrs here I just tried to explain to him it's how I feel

I ad relationship before him and was made to wear baggy clothes no makeup etc was made to feel horrible in my self

I will say wen I av a tan I feel better in myself get some confidence

Thank you for all your loverly comments xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have you asked he why she is feeling fat or thinks she is fat ?

i am quite happy with my size, but if i have any self doubt or things aren't going well with work or family life, my size becomes more of an issue than it is normally.

i haven't looked at the profile deliberately as whatever i or others judge will make little difference if she has a downer on herself.

and for every 50 that say curvy, it only takes 1 to say fat and whether it's true or not, it will be that that she chooses to believe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A sexy curvy lady but no way defined as fat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi the mrs here I just tried to explain to him it's how I feel

I ad relationship before him and was made to wear baggy clothes no makeup etc was made to feel horrible in my self

I will say wen I av a tan I feel better in myself get some confidence

Thank you for all your loverly comments xx"

So we can all come round then..????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo curvy not fat. That said I would not fuck her as she wears an LFC shirt

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

indeed bussy .. wot a great response and ur absolutely right

how a person views them selves and how a person feels about their own body image can be so far removed from reality its untrue

Gok Wan has made numerous TV series on this basis !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think id need to have an hands on before i could comment // please have her bathed and sent round at once thanks you "

Haha love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"indeed bussy .. wot a great response and ur absolutely right

how a person views them selves and how a person feels about their own body image can be so far removed from reality its untrue

Gok Wan has made numerous TV series on this basis ! "

Body dismorphia is a strange thing. My ex had suffered bulimia when she was younger. She had been an actress and backing singer and some arsehole told her she needed to lose weight to be successful.

The dismorphia carried on as she got older. one day I gave her a pencil and asked her to draw what she thought was her outline ona wall. I then stood her against it and traced around her. Her vision of herself was twice her real size

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi the mrs here I just tried to explain to him it's how I feel

I ad relationship before him and was made to wear baggy clothes no makeup etc was made to feel horrible in my self

I will say wen I av a tan I feel better in myself get some confidence

Thank you for all your loverly comments

xx

So we can all come round then..????

"

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

Curvy, definately curvy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"indeed bussy .. wot a great response and ur absolutely right

how a person views them selves and how a person feels about their own body image can be so far removed from reality its untrue

Gok Wan has made numerous TV series on this basis ! "
That well-known closet Heterosexual? He'll be outed soon and there'll be no more grabbing ladies boobs shouting 'what a pair of bangers!' from him!!!!! You mark my words!!!

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

lol .. his sexuality aside .. he is a master of restoring womens confidence who have lost it and for that i cant fault him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol .. his sexuality aside .. he is a master of restoring womens confidence who have lost it and for that i cant fault him "

me ? or gok ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol .. his sexuality aside .. he is a master of restoring womens confidence who have lost it and for that i cant fault him

me ? or gok ? "

PMSL! Mr Wan.......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Defo curvy not fat. That said I would not fuck her as she wears an LFC shirt "

Tut tut

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Defo curvy not fat. That said I would not fuck her as she wears an LFC shirt "

Tut tut

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"

me ? or gok ? "

having not witnessed the tricks of ur trade can i sit on the fence for a moment .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi the mrs here I just tried to explain to him it's how I feel

I ad relationship before him and was made to wear baggy clothes no makeup etc was made to feel horrible in my self

I will say wen I av a tan I feel better in myself get some confidence

Thank you for all your loverly comments xx"

If it's how you feel then it's how you feel. Lots of people have said they think you look gorgeous. I hope that deep down you believe that.

Doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. Question is, are you happy? I have good days and bad days body wise but overall I'm happy. Today I feel fat but I'm still happy.

Give yourself a hug. x

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