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"I usually just tell them. Then we chat a bit more and they tell me that they watch "He's Just Not That Into You" and I don't know what to think " Hey are you judging me *eyes you suspiciously* I only watched it because…well because Scarlett Johansson…so there | |||
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"I haven't really dated properly for a while so I'm a bit rusty and also a bit lazy. I quite like to meet people where we just click and it makes things a lot easier. I'm not great at keeping conversations going even if I really like someone but especially if it feels a bit one sided. Ultimately though, if I like someone, I tell them. We're adults, it's easier to say it and then talk about that and if it'll go anywhere. Pxx" Oh yeah sometimes I have doubts about conversations, am I talking too much, not enough…arrrggh! | |||
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"I usually just tell them. Then we chat a bit more and they tell me that they watch "He's Just Not That Into You" and I don't know what to think Hey are you judging me *eyes you suspiciously* I only watched it because…well because Scarlett Johansson…so there " No judgement here. Unless you've seen "He's Just Not That Into You 2: He Is Actually Into You" | |||
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"Tell you later when iv time" Errr why don’t you have time for me now??! Rude | |||
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"In the past, when a woman has interested me, I've always made the first move and have not been shy in manifesting my interest. Call it being masculine if you will, but it's how I prefer to engage. Better to have the initiative " I like this. Straight to the point, no guessing games | |||
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"I’m too old for this modern dating malarkey where someone who isn’t into you doesn’t tell you, or ‘ghosts’. I gave so much effort to find out something I already felt for years in a relationship, I’m not doing that again. So here’s me. If I ask for a date, I fancy the pants off you to call it a date. If I want a second date, it means I like you a lot. and I’ll tell you. I’m pretty direct if I didn’t want anything more, because I would want the same, been there with all the maybe’s and it’s wasted time and energy. We all won’t ever get that back. " This! All this. It’s those reasons I stopped dating, can’t be doing with that nonsense. I like your direct and respectful approach. We need more of this in the dating pool | |||
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"I don't think I am the dating type anymore, as everyone whom I have had a date with of late has ghosted. I am happy to tell men I like them and I'd like to go on a date with them. Not shy." Ahh I’m sorry they ghost you. That’s shitty behaviour and you deserve way more! | |||
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"what does ghosted mean,, not use to all the sayings" They just disappear and never reply to another message | |||
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"I don't think I am the dating type anymore, as everyone whom I have had a date with of late has ghosted. I am happy to tell men I like them and I'd like to go on a date with them. Not shy. Ahh I’m sorry they ghost you. That’s shitty behaviour and you deserve way more! " Thank you. Seems to happen to a lot of people sadly. | |||
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"what does ghosted mean,, not use to all the sayings" Ghosted means stopping contact with no warning or explanation. | |||
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"what does ghosted mean,, not use to all the sayings Ghosted means stopping contact with no warning or explanation. " I went out with Casper once, we're still in touch | |||
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"I don't even know any more OP. I'm too old to play silly games. " Meli likes Janet Kay | |||
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"I’m too old for this modern dating malarkey where someone who isn’t into you doesn’t tell you, or ‘ghosts’. I gave so much effort to find out something I already felt for years in a relationship, I’m not doing that again. So here’s me. If I ask for a date, I fancy the pants off you to call it a date. If I want a second date, it means I like you a lot. and I’ll tell you. I’m pretty direct if I didn’t want anything more, because I would want the same, been there with all the maybe’s and it’s wasted time and energy. We all won’t ever get that back. " This Mrs | |||
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"Tell you later when iv time Errr why don’t you have time for me now??! Rude " so needy | |||
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"…after a trashy evening watching “He’s Just Not That Into You” it got me thinking about the whole dating world. Are there rules you are supposed to follow? Do you follow them? Men/Masc peeps, if you like a woman do you just tell them straight away? If you aren’t interested in taking it to a second date do you tell her or use those lines in the film “I’ll call you” but never do? Women/Femme folks, do you wait for guys to approach you? Or do you take control and go ask them out? Non identity folk, what do you do when it comes to dating and your rules? I don’t date so I can’t answer these questions myself so I’m asking you guys…plus I’m nosey! " Pfft, what riddiculousness. If I like someone, I go ask them out. Dont care what gender they are. I actually find it very weird dating heteronormative men. They follow these weird unspoken rules and act very strangely... like, rather than communicating and saying "Hey, Id really like to kiss you right now", they just try to "sense" when the right moment is. And you can tell when they are trying to do "the right moment" because they go all quiet and serious and look slightly anxious. There is a moment when everyone feels awkward, and then you kiss (or I say "err...I feel like you want to kiss me right now, is that whats going on for you?") What a weird, crazy, stupid thing to do. Nah, I just ask, and I communicate all the time. I also establish very early on with heteronormative guys that they are not responsible for the relationship progression or the way sex happens. Then they can chill the heck out. Dating other girls or queer folk is much less weird. I am not an enby but I know a fair few! Im gonna say that one of the main reasons people identify as non-binary is because of these stupid rules and their desire to not play by them. Love and good communication! Fay | |||
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