Join us FREE, we're FREE to use
Web's largest swingers site since 2006.
Already registered?
Login here
Back to forum list |
Back to The Lounge |
Jump to newest |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"No. It's none of my business." No sense of curiosity? | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Hell yeah. I follow the trail. " Thank god I'm not the only one | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Would be good to get a veri as it most likely help in the future." Get to a swingers club fella. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I look at the names on the verification but I don't compare myself to other people " Im guilty of comparing myself to the veri lol | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I look at the names on the verification but I don't compare myself to other people Im guilty of comparing myself to the veri lol" I don’t compare myself I’m just a nosy bitch and I also like to see who people have met. Some I won’t even meet if they’ve met certain people. We all have our ways of doing fab. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Yes I follow the trail. And I compare myself. " Always be yourself. Don't compare to anyone else. I never leave sexual veris. I dislike reading those | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I look at the names on the verification but I don't compare myself to other people Im guilty of comparing myself to the veri lol I don’t compare myself I’m just a nosy bitch and I also like to see who people have met. Some I won’t even meet if they’ve met certain people. We all have our ways of doing fab. " This, I'm nosey also | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Yes I follow the trail. And I compare myself. Always be yourself. Don't compare to anyone else. I never leave sexual veris. I dislike reading those " I don’t either and I don’t show them. I just like looking at everyone else’s | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Yes I follow the trail. And I compare myself. Always be yourself. Don't compare to anyone else. I never leave sexual veris. I dislike reading those I don’t either and I don’t show them. I just like looking at everyone else’s " Some of them may be pure fiction x | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Yes I follow the trail. And I compare myself. Always be yourself. Don't compare to anyone else. I never leave sexual veris. I dislike reading those I don’t either and I don’t show them. I just like looking at everyone else’s Some of them may be pure fiction x" Its not about reading the veri but looking at the profile of whose left the veri | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Not only do I compare but sometimes I look at profile and think ....really? With him? I'm a bad man " Is it the other man's personality or looks you disapprove of? | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Yes I follow the trail. And I compare myself. Always be yourself. Don't compare to anyone else. I never leave sexual veris. I dislike reading those I don’t either and I don’t show them. I just like looking at everyone else’s Some of them may be pure fiction x Its not about reading the veri but looking at the profile of whose left the veri" Nah. I just check they're real | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Not only do I compare but sometimes I look at profile and think ....really? With him? I'm a bad man Is it the other man's personality or looks you disapprove of?" Dont disapprove lol but im an ugly shallow man lol | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"When you look at a profile of someone you like the look of you look at the veris...do you click on whose left the veri? Do you look at that persons profile/pics?and think... " I do if I’m genuinely interested in meeting them - yes. What I’m looking for now is pretty specific - guys who are great company out of the sack and bloody good in it. I like to try to find ways of cutting through all the hyperbole and gushing sentiment to get a feel of what they’re actually like - particularly if they’re not very local. If someone with an out of focus pic of their gash as their only pic and a badly written profile heaps praise on them - I’m not likely to take it too seriously. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Hell yeah. I follow the trail. Thank god I'm not the only one" Same here. Standard. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Yeah I do, I go down that rabbit hole and look at who's verified them too. If their verifications are from people that look a bit grimy I give them a miss." That sums it up perfectly lol | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Yes I follow the trail. And I compare myself. Me too " Well don't! You're all stunning | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"When you look at a profile of someone you like the look of you look at the veris...do you click on whose left the veri? Do you look at that persons profile/pics?and think... " Nope… playing six degrees just leads you into a rabbit hole Your opinions of someone may not be the same as someone else’s… and just because you may not have a high regard of someone it doesn’t mean they do | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Not only do I compare but sometimes I look at profile and think ....really? With him? I'm a bad man Is it the other man's personality or looks you disapprove of? Dont disapprove lol but im an ugly shallow man lol" Ok, what are you judging them on, looks or personality? Or something else? Just curious. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Hell yeah. I follow the trail. " This... I like to read how he speaks about people he has met | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"When you look at a profile of someone you like the look of you look at the veris...do you click on whose left the veri? Do you look at that persons profile/pics?and think... " I follow veries but more because I'm nosey lol | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Not only do I compare but sometimes I look at profile and think ....really? With him? I'm a bad man Is it the other man's personality or looks you disapprove of? Dont disapprove lol but im an ugly shallow man lol Ok, what are you judging them on, looks or personality? Or something else? Just curious. " Looks....sorry | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Not only do I compare but sometimes I look at profile and think ....really? With him? I'm a bad man Is it the other man's personality or looks you disapprove of? Dont disapprove lol but im an ugly shallow man lol Ok, what are you judging them on, looks or personality? Or something else? Just curious. Looks....sorry" No need to say sorry, I decide who to chat to based on a face picture. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Sometimes yes I do. I will also not meet someone if they are veried by certain people it's just easier not to,than get pulled into background dramatics that happen on here. " Exactly the same for me | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"We follow the trail, then follow that trail, and the next one. 3 hours later we've no idea who we were looking at in the first place. It's the Fab equivalent of a YouTube rabbit hole...... Winston " I do this all the time | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"We follow the trail, then follow that trail, and the next one. 3 hours later we've no idea who we were looking at in the first place. It's the Fab equivalent of a YouTube rabbit hole...... Winston " Has the journey ever led you to someone you'd rather meet than your original starting point? | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Another reason I follow the veri trail is for consistency. If someone says we have a lot on common in regards to being fussy about who they meet and how often but their verification trail says otherwise it's a handy filter." The issue with that is we all have different ideas as to what we're fussy about. I've seen women on the forums say they're fussy, yet I've declined offers from more than one man on their verifications. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"We follow the trail, then follow that trail, and the next one. 3 hours later we've no idea who we were looking at in the first place. It's the Fab equivalent of a YouTube rabbit hole...... Winston Has the journey ever led you to someone you'd rather meet than your original starting point?" Thats a good question...... I don't think so. It's often led to people we've added to our hotlist though. Winston | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Another reason I follow the veri trail is for consistency. If someone says we have a lot on common in regards to being fussy about who they meet and how often but their verification trail says otherwise it's a handy filter. The issue with that is we all have different ideas as to what we're fussy about. I've seen women on the forums say they're fussy, yet I've declined offers from more than one man on their verifications. " I get that completely. I don't send messages so all conversations are started by others and I average 1 new message a month. When I suddenly get 3 or 4 messages from different women who have all been verified by a man with a history of grooming and who has been repeatedly removed from chatgroups for predatory behaviour it raises an eyebrow and is an immediate red flag. Or when women start working their way through my verifications to ask about me. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I follow the trail. Ppl are strangers on here and all the info you can get is helpful. " I think this sounds sensible | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"When you look at a profile of someone you like the look of you look at the veris...do you click on whose left the veri? Do you look at that persons profile/pics?and think... " Yes and it pretty much always puts me off meeting the person. That's why I prefer to see no veris on their profile. I don't care who/ how many they've met, I just don't want to know. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Not only do I compare but sometimes I look at profile and think ....really? With him? I'm a bad man " Hahaha I do this too ! | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Yes I follow the trail. And I compare myself. " Ditto! I’m small framed so if all the veris are from the opposite body type to me I avoid! Might be unfair to them but it would make me too self conscious to enjoy it! | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Sucks like a Dyson and loves the taste of a man's tonsils... Treat with respect etc " Would be happy to see more veri's like this. Some of the veri's left on women's pages or about women on couples pages are very m'lady cliche cut and paste texts. Some of them are so gushingly bland about a meet which could have been anything from caressing the ladies hand through to being buttfucked pegged with a dinosaur dick.......that they become a bit meaningless. Dost he save a girls blushes? No, it comes across a creepy and a bit pointless. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Sucks like a Dyson and loves the taste of a man's tonsils... Treat with respect etc Would be happy to see more veri's like this. Some of the veri's left on women's pages or about women on couples pages are very m'lady cliche cut and paste texts. Some of them are so gushingly bland about a meet which could have been anything from caressing the ladies hand through to being buttfucked pegged with a dinosaur dick.......that they become a bit meaningless. Dost he save a girls blushes? No, it comes across a creepy and a bit pointless. " Yeah need to know if she will take hard anal with cream pie or else what's the point in wasting time on her. Don't want no prudes. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Sucks like a Dyson and loves the taste of a man's tonsils... Treat with respect etc Would be happy to see more veri's like this. Some of the veri's left on women's pages or about women on couples pages are very m'lady cliche cut and paste texts. Some of them are so gushingly bland about a meet which could have been anything from caressing the ladies hand through to being buttfucked pegged with a dinosaur dick.......that they become a bit meaningless. Dost he save a girls blushes? No, it comes across a creepy and a bit pointless. Yeah need to know if she will take hard anal with cream pie or else what's the point in wasting time on her. Don't want no prunes." What's not to like about prunes? Winston | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"A lot of people on this thread hide their verifications…. But they check out other people just in case of what?…. " Oooh guilty as charged | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"A lot of people on this thread hide their verifications…. But they check out other people just in case of what?…. " If someone has theirs displayed they are asking for them to be read. So what if someone reading them hasn't displayed theirs. Some people are private, some aren't. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Sucks like a Dyson and loves the taste of a man's tonsils... Treat with respect etc Would be happy to see more veri's like this. Some of the veri's left on women's pages or about women on couples pages are very m'lady cliche cut and paste texts. Some of them are so gushingly bland about a meet which could have been anything from caressing the ladies hand through to being buttfucked pegged with a dinosaur dick.......that they become a bit meaningless. Dost he save a girls blushes? No, it comes across a creepy and a bit pointless. " Erm, a verification is not a sex review. They're simply meant to confirm that someone turned up, is what they say they are and wasn't a serial killer. Perhaps you should consider an escort site? | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"No. It's none of my business. No sense of curiosity?" Someone's sexual history doesn't interest me. As long as we're compatible that's all I care about. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Sucks like a Dyson and loves the taste of a man's tonsils... Treat with respect etc Would be happy to see more veri's like this. Some of the veri's left on women's pages or about women on couples pages are very m'lady cliche cut and paste texts. Some of them are so gushingly bland about a meet which could have been anything from caressing the ladies hand through to being buttfucked pegged with a dinosaur dick.......that they become a bit meaningless. Dost he save a girls blushes? No, it comes across a creepy and a bit pointless. Yeah need to know if she will take hard anal with cream pie or else what's the point in wasting time on her. Don't want no prunes. What's not to like about prunes? Winston " Probably wouldn’t want too many prunes if she likes buttfucking with a dinosaur dick | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I look at the names on the verification but I don't compare myself to other people Im guilty of comparing myself to the veri lol I don’t compare myself I’m just a nosy bitch and I also like to see who people have met. Some I won’t even meet if they’ve met certain people. We all have our ways of doing fab. This, I'm nosey also " Ditto this | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"A lot of people on this thread hide their verifications…. But they check out other people just in case of what?…. If someone has theirs displayed they are asking for them to be read. So what if someone reading them hasn't displayed theirs. Some people are private, some aren't. " I don’t have an opinion. I make up my own stuff when people are verified but don’t show them. I imagine they have fucked their way through the site. Just when people suggest hidden profiles shouldn’t be able to read other peoples profiles. Maybe the whole site should be like for like. You can only read them if you display yours. If your into the lifestyle your in, or not. Just thinking out loud. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"No. It's none of my business. No sense of curiosity? Someone's sexual history doesn't interest me. As long as we're compatible that's all I care about." It’s kind of where I sit. But there is still the curiousity factor that I’m nosey. so I do read. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"When you look at a profile of someone you like the look of you look at the veris...do you click on whose left the veri? Do you look at that persons profile/pics?and think... " Yes, always. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"No. It's none of my business. No sense of curiosity? Someone's sexual history doesn't interest me. As long as we're compatible that's all I care about. It’s kind of where I sit. But there is still the curiousity factor that I’m nosey. so I do read. " Not read them but look at who as left the veri | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"No. It's none of my business. No sense of curiosity? Someone's sexual history doesn't interest me. As long as we're compatible that's all I care about. It’s kind of where I sit. But there is still the curiousity factor that I’m nosey. so I do read. Not read them but look at who as left the veri" Oh I avoid that. Don’t want to get into a place where I start to compare myself, I’ll never make any type of move of I did that. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"No. It's none of my business. No sense of curiosity? Someone's sexual history doesn't interest me. As long as we're compatible that's all I care about. It’s kind of where I sit. But there is still the curiousity factor that I’m nosey. so I do read. Not read them but look at who as left the veri Oh I avoid that. Don’t want to get into a place where I start to compare myself, I’ll never make any type of move of I did that." I think you hit the nail on the head there. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"No. It's none of my business. No sense of curiosity? Someone's sexual history doesn't interest me. As long as we're compatible that's all I care about. It’s kind of where I sit. But there is still the curiousity factor that I’m nosey. so I do read. Not read them but look at who as left the veri Oh I avoid that. Don’t want to get into a place where I start to compare myself, I’ll never make any type of move of I did that. I think you hit the nail on the head there." It’s worrying isn’t it. They’ve seen 6ft ripped pro wrestlers in the past but she likes quirky humour and polite guys…..hmmmmm. I think I’ll save my copy and pasted message in my notes folder for now. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Sucks like a Dyson and loves the taste of a man's tonsils... Treat with respect etc Would be happy to see more veri's like this. Some of the veri's left on women's pages or about women on couples pages are very m'lady cliche cut and paste texts. Some of them are so gushingly bland about a meet which could have been anything from caressing the ladies hand through to being buttfucked pegged with a dinosaur dick.......that they become a bit meaningless. Dost he save a girls blushes? No, it comes across a creepy and a bit pointless. Yeah need to know if she will take hard anal with cream pie or else what's the point in wasting time on her. Don't want no prunes. What's not to like about prunes? Winston " You're alright I suppose. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"No. It's none of my business. No sense of curiosity? Someone's sexual history doesn't interest me. As long as we're compatible that's all I care about. It’s kind of where I sit. But there is still the curiousity factor that I’m nosey. so I do read. Not read them but look at who as left the veri Oh I avoid that. Don’t want to get into a place where I start to compare myself, I’ll never make any type of move of I did that. I think you hit the nail on the head there. It’s worrying isn’t it. They’ve seen 6ft ripped pro wrestlers in the past but she likes quirky humour and polite guys…..hmmmmm. I think I’ll save my copy and pasted message in my notes folder for now. " Is everyone you've ever fucked a carbon copy like a Robert Palmer video? | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"No. It's none of my business. No sense of curiosity? Someone's sexual history doesn't interest me. As long as we're compatible that's all I care about. It’s kind of where I sit. But there is still the curiousity factor that I’m nosey. so I do read. Not read them but look at who as left the veri Oh I avoid that. Don’t want to get into a place where I start to compare myself, I’ll never make any type of move of I did that. I think you hit the nail on the head there. It’s worrying isn’t it. They’ve seen 6ft ripped pro wrestlers in the past but she likes quirky humour and polite guys…..hmmmmm. I think I’ll save my copy and pasted message in my notes folder for now. Is everyone you've ever fucked a carbon copy like a Robert Palmer video? " All at the same time? I wish. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I look at the veris and may click on the profile, but not to compare myself to people. Mainly cos I am plain nosy and a perve " I'm impressed you can suck your own nipples x | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I look at the veris and may click on the profile, but not to compare myself to people. Mainly cos I am plain nosy and a perve " I do this too. I'd never compare myself because that way madness lies. If someone is really interested in you, who they've met previously is of little consequence. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Post new Message to Thread |
back to top |