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By *axBonkers OP   Man
over a year ago

Doncaster

Re-watching Californication and there is quote that resonated with me as sometimes people don't engage through nervousness and end up missing out.

“A morning of awkwardness is better than a night of loneliness.”

Would you agree or disagree with this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being alone doesn’t necessarily mean you are lonely.

But if it means genuine loneliness then yes I agree.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Seems like a sensible statement. Fab in microcosm

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

How awkward is it?

'I can't remember your name'awkward or ' OMG you're my best friends husband ' awkward.

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By *axBonkers OP   Man
over a year ago

Doncaster


"How awkward is it?

'I can't remember your name'awkward or ' OMG you're my best friends husband ' awkward.

"

Probably the "oh morning, did that just happen" kinda awkwardness

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"How awkward is it?

'I can't remember your name'awkward or ' OMG you're my best friends husband ' awkward.

Probably the "oh morning, did that just happen" kinda awkwardness "

I hope never to be in that position but I've seen what loneliness does to a person. I'd probably choose the awkward morning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does this statement mean it's better to have spent the night with someone you feel awkward with, instead of loneliness?

I'll take loneliness rather awkwardness.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Having one night with someone won't dispel long term loneliness, and might make you feel worse when that person is gone.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Does this statement mean it's better to have spent the night with someone you feel awkward with, instead of loneliness?

I'll take loneliness rather awkwardness. "

I took it to meant asking someone for a drink etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How awkward is it?

'I can't remember your name'awkward or ' OMG you're my best friends husband ' awkward.

"

So true..if I wake up next to my boss I'll take the loneliness option thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd take the loneliness. It's better than feeling like you gave your body away to some twat. I know what both feel like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I avoid the awkwardness by not sleeping with people. Just sex for the sake of sex.

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By *axBonkers OP   Man
over a year ago

Doncaster

I read it as it could be better to act on something and feel awkward than wonder what could have been.

It's good to get a different perspective on the quote though and I do agree that no fling is a fix long term loneliness and should not be taken lightly.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"I'd take the loneliness. It's better than feeling like you gave your body away to some twat. I know what both feel like. "

Its even worse when you feel that way after a wank

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

A morning of gratitude is better than a night of loneliness

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"How awkward is it?

'I can't remember your name'awkward or ' OMG you're my best friends husband ' awkward.

So true..if I wake up next to my boss I'll take the loneliness option thanks

"

the horror!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd take the loneliness. It's better than feeling like you gave your body away to some twat. I know what both feel like.

Its even worse when you feel that way after a wank "

Daft bugger

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I haven't rewatched Californication, but my memory of it would incline me to disagree with the statement.

Such temporary relief of loneliness, perhaps accompanied with awkward regret, feels like a recipe for a deep dive into the black hole of the soul.

Also, I'm not sure I can just use another body as a quick fix for loneliness. Although, I am haappy to use a willing body for a quick fix for horniness.

I like my awkwardness at the beginning, build from there and have enough connection to navigate future awkward moments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd pick a lonely night over awkwardness any day. But being alone doesn't mean loneliness, I have some of my best days when people fuck off.

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