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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When you look at a profile what is the very first thing you look at?

Age?

Location?

Body type?

Or do you go straight to the blurb?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile text, if that doesn't interest me I don't look further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age, location, profile text, then photos if I'm still interested.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Their green arrow

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Their green arrow "

But thats not on a profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Body type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics then text

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Doesn’t matter what the profile says…… I have to see a face.

If I’m not attracted then there’s absolutely no point in taking it any further.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Blurb then pics

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Pictures "

See if they're on my hotlist, like you

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Age, location, bio.

Pics always last and more often than not never.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"Their green arrow

But thats not on a profile "

It tells me everything I need to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Veris and pics, before I even open the message. Then the looking for, if I’m above the age range and they have sent me a message it really annoys me don’t know why!

I don’t always look at the blurb J xx

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By *orthwhile27Man
over a year ago

dark side of the moon

Pictures then blurb.

If there are physical requirements that you don't have then it's pointless carrying on.......next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pictures

See if they're on my hotlist, like you "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you look at a profile what is the very first thing you look at?

Age?

Location?

Body type?

Or do you go straight to the blurb?"

Sex, location, read the bio and find I'm not for them. Leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We really send a first message, so that might have a say on how we do it.

Pictures, bio, verifications (if any).

Age and area are likely to have already been noticed with the info attached to message.

We're likely to do things differently if we're there ones looking to send the first message

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Pictures are the first thing I look at. Then their blurb

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Pictures first... Of I don't like those then I don't go amy further... It's usually the content that puts me off, cock, flacid cock in a birds nest, cock in someone, more of other women than who the profile belongs to... Have seen a lovely arse on an avatar only to see it belongs to some woman he had his cock in... No ta

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Height, then blurb

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Pictures first... Of I don't like those then I don't go amy further... It's usually the content that puts me off, cock, flacid cock in a birds nest, cock in someone, more of other women than who the profile belongs to... Have seen a lovely arse on an avatar only to see it belongs to some woman he had his cock in... No ta"

I just give you pictures of me and my cap

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By *he Artful TodgerMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire but travel

Pictures - Then preferences, bio, more pictures and verifications

Distance last it’s not a show stopper for me

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton


"Doesn’t matter what the profile says…… I have to see a face.

If I’m not attracted then there’s absolutely no point in taking it any further. "

If there is no face in the message or on their profile, it's a delete... Mine is visible, not showing me yours when contacting is a bit rude.... Although some think their abs or cock are enough for attraction, I think... It's not! The word, banter, on their profile can be a bit off putting too tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Name, age, text

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Doesn’t matter what the profile says…… I have to see a face.

If I’m not attracted then there’s absolutely no point in taking it any further.

If there is no face in the message or on their profile, it's a delete... Mine is visible, not showing me yours when contacting is a bit rude.... Although some think their abs or cock are enough for attraction, I think... It's not! The word, banter, on their profile can be a bit off putting too tbh"

I send my face with first message. If they think I'm ugly, my patter ain't gonna cut it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always pictures for me (mrs)

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By *WillowxWoman
over a year ago

Oo err Devon

Hmm, location, blurb, pics, age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bio ...

people with generic one life no effort ...

.... pass

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

All of it really in no particular order. Pics first probably.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read it first.

If I don't like what I read I leave without looking any further.

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Age, location and height. If they're too old/young, hundreds of miles away, or massively tall I'm very unlikely to want to meet them

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By *nexpectedExplorerMan
over a year ago

Gower

Preferences (within bio, not just the lists as they don’t always match). Then pics.

If I don’t match their preferences but their profile pic is interesting, I might still have a browse, maybe fab a few, but won’t message. If they don’t match my preferences I’ll probably move on, but may still have a quick flick through pics

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By *nexpectedExplorerMan
over a year ago

Gower

Although it does depend how I got there. If it was via a forum or through a pic that appeared in updates, I may find myself in pics before I’ve had a chance to look at profile etc

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

Their pics then blurb

Age then height

Location

And if still peek my interest I'll send a wink or brave enough a message ??

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Photos then the interests and age range. Then the write up. If we don't match at anytime we stop looking at the profile.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

If they smoke or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

Location, height, body type, age - then blurb - then photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read it all but I tend to check his sexuality first, it's just a habit. Just a shame not every man reads our profiles x

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton


"Doesn’t matter what the profile says…… I have to see a face.

If I’m not attracted then there’s absolutely no point in taking it any further.

If there is no face in the message or on their profile, it's a delete... Mine is visible, not showing me yours when contacting is a bit rude.... Although some think their abs or cock are enough for attraction, I think... It's not! The word, banter, on their profile can be a bit off putting too tbh

I send my face with first message. If they think I'm ugly, my patter ain't gonna cut it "

Unattractive to someone does not mean ugly! I hate that... It's why a no is seen as rejection and something horrible to happen to you... It's not!

Sorry... It just fell out!

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Age,then bio then pics usually. If their profile pic interests me I sometimes look at their pics first though.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"Age,then bio then pics usually. If their profile pic interests me I sometimes look at their pics first though. "
location would be one of the first things as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Location then pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Location, pics/videos then blurb

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Doesn’t matter what the profile says…… I have to see a face.

If I’m not attracted then there’s absolutely no point in taking it any further.

If there is no face in the message or on their profile, it's a delete... Mine is visible, not showing me yours when contacting is a bit rude.... Although some think their abs or cock are enough for attraction, I think... It's not! The word, banter, on their profile can be a bit off putting too tbh

I send my face with first message. If they think I'm ugly, my patter ain't gonna cut it

Unattractive to someone does not mean ugly! I hate that... It's why a no is seen as rejection and something horrible to happen to you... It's not!

Sorry... It just fell out! "

Never be sorry for letting it fall out x

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By *lderflowerappleWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Pictures first... Of I don't like those then I don't go amy further... It's usually the content that puts me off, cock, flacid cock in a birds nest, cock in someone, more of other women than who the profile belongs to... Have seen a lovely arse on an avatar only to see it belongs to some woman he had his cock in... No ta"

This is perfectly put! I'm with you on this.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Profile text, then photos.

If you use the advanced search features then you already know if they fit your age, location, sexuality, verification status and any other important preferences- so all that is left to browse is their bio and their photos.

If when you're browsing you block any profiles that you're 100% sure you'd never be interested in then it stops them showing up in future searches, which cuts down on browsing time.

The tools are there to use.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures first then I will read their bio..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures first then location, age, bio

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at verifications first as that’s important to me as I know what I’m looking for and then I’ll look at the pictures and go from there

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