FabSwingers.com forum: Pictures

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So many insist on sending a photo with the first message and I get that, so I follow what their profile asks but as soon as I send a face picture even with a message just saying a Hello! I never get a response, or on the very odd occasion a response is a not my type sorry, I get I’m not going to be everyone’s cup of tea, but come on surely I can’t be that bad looking,

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you arent their type what else do you want them to say? Should someone meet you just because you have sent a facepic even if they arent attracted?

By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

It's nothing to do with "good looking" it's to do with attraction... I can appreciate a good looking man but it doesn't mean I am attracted enough to consider having sex with him... Attraction is a weird thing and not being attracted cannot be helped... Assuming that is why people aren't interested and not that you aren't what they are looking for

By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

You're assuming that just because they ask for a pic and you send one that they aren't replying because of the pic.

Most people look at the senders profile before they even open the message and have made their decision regardless of what you put in your message.

By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

"So many insist on sending a photo with the first message and I get that, so I follow what their profile asks but as soon as I send a face picture even with a message just saying a Hello! I never get a response, or on the very odd occasion a response is a not my type sorry, I get I’m not going to be everyone’s cup of tea, but come on surely I can’t be that bad looking,"

On. I can’t comment as I’ve never seen you but if you arnt their type nothing you can do just move on

By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Send someone else’s face and see if that works