FabSwingers.com forum: Pro cons of fab vs real life for women

By *ip123 OP Man
over a year ago

North East

I think there’s a disproportionate amount and attention that women are allowed on fab the rude retorts the sometimes horrible put downs. I contend that in the real world these women who adore power on here wouldn’t show it

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

They see more willies on fab

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By *ip123 OP Man
over a year ago

North East

They’re more than welcome to watch porn lots of penis there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pussy power!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So fab isn't real?

Pxx

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

And there's a disproportionate amount of men who send vile messages that they wouldn't dare say to someone's face.

Crappy people will exist regardless of gender.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Judging by the appalling behaviour we see every day in public from both women and men we’re pretty sure that you’re wrong.

Don’t offer to fight us though.

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By *ip123 OP Man
over a year ago

North East

I just think you wouldn’t say someone is fat and disgust you, in the same way you wouldn’t put an age frame on who can fuck yr ass and mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just think you wouldn’t say someone is fat and disgust you, in the same way you wouldn’t put an age frame on who can fuck yr ass and mouth

I’ve actually been told that to my face when I was meeting! I didn’t even know what to say I was beyond shocked!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I just think you wouldn’t say someone is fat and disgust you, in the same way you wouldn’t put an age frame on who can fuck yr ass and mouth

If someone has sent you an abusive message, report them

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"I just think you wouldn’t say someone is fat and disgust you, in the same way you wouldn’t put an age frame on who can fuck yr ass and mouth

I’ve actually been told that to my face when I was meeting! I didn’t even know what to say I was beyond shocked! "

You picked a doozy there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say there's a disproportionate amount of men who clearly aren't getting any.

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By *ip123 OP Man
over a year ago

North East

Mike Tyson said … quote the internet is getting far to many people comfortable saying shit without been smashed in the face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just think you wouldn’t say someone is fat and disgust you, in the same way you wouldn’t put an age frame on who can fuck yr ass and mouth

I’ve actually been told that to my face when I was meeting! I didn’t even know what to say I was beyond shocked!

You picked a doozy there "

Just someone who couldn’t handle being rejected by a ‘fat’ girl it would seem

it’s the easiest insult to use

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What’s your solution?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just think you wouldn’t say someone is fat and disgust you, in the same way you wouldn’t put an age frame on who can fuck yr ass and mouth

I have age preferences for sex in general, sex doesn't just come from Fab. No one should be going round calling anyone fat but unfortunately it happens everywhere, not just on here.

Pxx

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By *ip123 OP Man
over a year ago

North East

I think there’s a lot of women getting a lot of attention that they don’t get in rl and then get an attention attitude

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I'm the same on here as I am in my life outside of here.A lot less posing in lingerie in real life though.

I don't get a lot of attention on here which suits me fine I don't need it to enjoy my time on here and I don't fall for the false compliments some give on here either,because they are the ones who blow smoke up your ass to start,then tell you how you are a fat ugly slag and how they had no intention of meeting you anyhow when you say no thanks to them. I'm also as fussy as to whom I meet on here as I would be outside of fab. If that makes people think I'm on a power trip then it just means we aren't suited anyhow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think there’s a lot of women getting a lot of attention that they don’t get in rl and then get an attention attitude "

Those people are easy to ignore.

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By *ip123 OP Man
over a year ago

North East

Power belongs to who u give it too tho .. there’s lots of fake Dom’s around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or the women here realise that the attention is just cause men want to fuck someone... sometimes anyone. So we pay no heed to it and behave exactly as we would in 'real life'.

Does my ego get bigger cause a stranger says he likes my tits? No.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"I think there’s a lot of women getting a lot of attention that they don’t get in rl and then get an attention attitude "

I don't disagree but then again there are lots of men on here who also believe their own press.

There are also people who unfortunately are exactly the same irl and are so used to having everything handed to them they feel it's ok to treat people as numbers.

It's not really gender specific but the ratio of men to women in here does mean there will always be an imbalance.

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By *ip123 OP Man
over a year ago

North East

But …. Fake subs who want to be owned and need a daddy are just as responsible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one should be nasty to anyone

But also sounds like op is a bit salty about being turned down by reading the post

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By *ip123 OP Man
over a year ago

North East

No Iv just finished playing golf had a wonderful club sandwich and am heading to bed for an edge session but thank you for the thoughts x

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By *ip123 OP Man
over a year ago

North East

It’s obviously disproportionate but there’s a element of expectation vs real world with how we .. guys are expected to react and relate

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I smell sour grapes haha… that whiff of rejection…

I am just as picky in real life as I am online. But I’ve been never nasty about it.

And if it is people “who’d never get a second look on the street” why approach them at all then if they are fat/ugly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t really get what your point is, you’re rambling and ranting.

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By *ip123 OP Man
over a year ago

North East

Kinda missing to point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I smell sour grapes haha… that whiff of rejection…

I am just as picky in real life as I am online. But I’ve been never nasty about it.

And if it is people “who’d never get a second look on the street” why approach them at all then if they are fat/ugly?

Cos it’s a hole innit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kinda missing to point "

What is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kinda missing to point

What is it?"

We may never get to find out.

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By *ip123 OP Man
over a year ago

North East

It’s at the top of the debate ?????

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I men stopped coming out with all the shit patter like "oh your stunning, gorgeous etc especially when they've never seen a face pic and trying to blow smoke up people's arses then these women wouldn't have this "power" you speak off.

I believe nothing that anyone says on here regarding my looks/body etc. I know exactly what I look like and certainly don't need my ego boosted by some stranger.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"I think there’s a disproportionate amount and attention that women are allowed on fab the rude retorts the sometimes horrible put downs. I contend that in the real world these women who adore power on here wouldn’t show it "

What? Can you explain it like I’m 5?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you see as being the real world? I mean, a bar/workplace/supermarket? There's no 'real' equivalent for comparison.

Still, men do and will chase women for sex. Depending on how many guys have hit on her that night, she's more than within her rights to tell the next man to f off.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Here here

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I think there’s a lot of women getting a lot of attention that they don’t get in rl and then get an attention attitude "

There's people in every demographic who behave inappropriately.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"I think there’s a lot of women getting a lot of attention that they don’t get in rl and then get an attention attitude "

#youknowwhoyouare

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Dunno. People don't really tend to go up a woman in Tesco, whack their tackle and say FAF.

So this and real life aren't totally comparable.

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

"It’s obviously disproportionate but there’s a element of expectation vs real world with how we .. guys are expected to react and relate

But there's also a portion of guys on here who think that they are guaranteed sex.

Do they expect that in real life?

I expect nothing more or less in here than I do away from here

Good manners and respect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s obviously disproportionate but there’s a element of expectation vs real world with how we .. guys are expected to react and relate

But there's also a portion of guys on here who think that they are guaranteed sex.

Do they expect that in real life?

I expect nothing more or less in here than I do away from here

Good manners and respect "

I agree with you exactly that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And there's a disproportionate amount of men who send vile messages that they wouldn't dare say to someone's face.

Crappy people will exist regardless of gender. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or the women here realise that the attention is just cause men want to fuck someone... sometimes anyone. So we pay no heed to it and behave exactly as we would in 'real life'.

Does my ego get bigger cause a stranger says he likes my tits? No.

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I couldn't agree more

From a frustrated male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please can you keep your messages to the forum.

No need to message me directly with insults.

Thanks

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

"It’s obviously disproportionate but there’s a element of expectation vs real world with how we .. guys are expected to react and relate

But there's also a portion of guys on here who think that they are guaranteed sex.

Do they expect that in real life?

I expect nothing more or less in here than I do away from here

Good manners and respect "

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

I call men out for misogyny IRL too. Maybe I deserve to be smashed in the face as MR puts it

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

Please can you keep your messages to the forum.

No need to message me directly with insults.

Thanks"

Report him

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Not experienced those women on here. You mean on forums, messaging ?

Maybe it’s a response to the vile messages / behaviour of some men?

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I've had very few men demand I meet them ASAP for sex, in the real world.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"It’s obviously disproportionate but there’s a element of expectation vs real world with how we .. guys are expected to react and relate

For 41 you have the attitude and insights of a teenage boy , grow up.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"I've had very few men demand I meet them ASAP for sex, in the real world.

Did you have your tits out though when you spoke to them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I couldn't agree more

From a frustrated male"

What are you frustrated about?

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"I've had very few men demand I meet them ASAP for sex, in the real world.

Did you have your tits out though when you spoke to them? "

Of course. I walk around with them swinging by my knees.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I'm going to agree with the OP somewhat, that some women are very rude in their rejection of men, because they think they aren't worthy.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"I've had very few men demand I meet them ASAP for sex, in the real world.

Did you have your tits out though when you spoke to them?

Of course. I walk around with them swinging by my knees."

I’d be like a rat up a drainpipe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry you got abuse, nobody deserved that but tbh your attitude towards women is quite alarming....Maybe a little self reflection might be in order, you cannot control peoples responses but you can control how you react to it, tbf we've all had abuse and it seems a daily occurrence but some of us don't feel the need to tell the world about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These threads are always labelled with a particular gender. It's not a gender issue, it's a people issue. There are just as much shitty people on here as in real life, doesn't take away from the good ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think there’s a lot of women getting a lot of attention that they don’t get in rl and then get an attention attitude "

They also get a lot more unwanted attention and abuse than they would in real life.

It's the way there internet is, unfortunately.

There's also a lot more men expressing entitlement here than they would in real life.

If the site isn't for you, stick to real life

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Personally I get more attention (and sex, actually!) away from fab than I do on here.

It's just that I get far less meaningless bullshit away from fab than I do on here (oh you're the most gorgeous woman on fab and I'm truly not just saying that to get my dick wet, promise).

Weirdly I also get far less aggro declining an offer away from fab than I do on here, although I'm well aware that isn't the norm.

I guess as many other posters have already said, people feel more comfortable behaving in awful and inappropriate ways online than they ever would face to face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is also a disproportionate amount of men who are vile and abusive because they are hiding behind a computer screen

So it goes both ways

Best thing to do is report and block

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Let’s stick to the OP about pro and cons for women please. He’s not mentioned about men adoring power on here just women. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let’s stick to the OP about pro and cons for women please. He’s not mentioned about men adoring power on here just women. Thank you

That'll be a first, a thread staying on track

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Oh! Not what I expected when I read the title. I'm all about giving up power so that's not me...

Responding just to the title, the pros for me are actually being noticed and having conversations. This never happens offline. No exaggeration. Cons are dealing with the odd abusive person but that's not specific to women, everyone has to.

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By *ip123 OP Man
over a year ago

North East

Iv honestly not seen a better version of my original than all these beautiful horrible and moronic answers x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv honestly not seen a better version of my original than all these beautiful horrible and moronic answers x "

I haven’t read the full thread, but the posts I’ve read have not been moronic or horrible, they’ve been factual.

It’s easy to see what you want to see, if you look hard enough.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Judging by the appalling behaviour we see every day in public from both women and men we’re pretty sure that you’re wrong.

Don’t offer to fight us though. "

Quite dispiriting at times isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv honestly not seen a better version of my original than all these beautiful horrible and moronic answers x "

So because nobody agrees with you, you resort to insult.

Ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv honestly not seen a better version of my original than all these beautiful horrible and moronic answers x "

Isn't this much like the attitude you are standing against that you claim women have?

Well, they're standing against that has attitude too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And there's a disproportionate amount of men who send vile messages that they wouldn't dare say to someone's face.

Crappy people will exist regardless of gender. "

totally agree

The number of men who think a one line message is enough to mete up just shows how little they understand the swinging world.... and then they get arsey when told no thanks. We tend to delete rather than respond.

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By *ip123 OP Man
over a year ago

North East

Thanks hippy

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By *ip123 OP Man
over a year ago

North East

I adore women the ppl who I know know I’ll hope will attest to that but.. Iv forget the original message

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By *ip123 OP Man
over a year ago

North East

I think it’s just hard for a normal guy to get a chance on here with anyone who not pretending to be 17 or subby blah blah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do well outside of Fab too! There isn’t a lot of difference and yes I care about age outside of fab as well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a very resentful post and women should not be blamed for it. You think fab is a paradise for women? It is not. Not easy, not uncomplicated.

Plus women are allowed to have power in any realm they choose. The way they choose. Unapologetically

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it’s just hard for a normal guy to get a chance on here with anyone who not pretending to be 17 or subby blah blah

It's difficult for all here, only from different angles.

Your profile states straight, if that's the case and therefore you're not willing to meet men.

The only difference between you and us is that we do.

Change that and you too can get lucky.

My point being, we are ideally looking for a couple or woman and not yet had that chance.

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

This is a very resentful post and women should not be blamed for it. You think fab is a paradise for women? It is not. Not easy, not uncomplicated.

Plus women are allowed to have power in any realm they choose. The way they choose. Unapologetically

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it’s just hard for a normal guy to get a chance on here with anyone who not pretending to be 17 or subby blah blah

I see plenty of "normal guys" doing fine here. What's the issue with fake subs? You think women are pretending to be submissive? In what way?

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

Is it a day ending in y again? I swear something like this is posted every day.

Rude people are rude, it doesn't matter if they are male or female.

Women have no more or less power on fab than they choose to in real life...

The same way they generally have the same ideas about the age and attractiveness of a potential meet/partner/fwb in the 'real world' as they do on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just think you wouldn’t say someone is fat and disgust you, in the same way you wouldn’t put an age frame on who can fuck yr ass and mouth

Do you mean that men are saying that women are fat and disgust them?

What's your issue with age ranges? Do you think people should fuck anyone no matter their age?

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"I think there’s a lot of women getting a lot of attention that they don’t get in rl and then get an attention attitude "

I think there's a lot of entitled men with fragile egos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What? Can you explain it like I’m 5?"

I've read it all upto 16.40pm and I've not understood any of the op's replies! Mike tyson? Where did that come from? Fake dom's?

I've not understood but some of the responses, I think red flag!

Just my opinion.

I'll go back to being plugged into the matrix lol

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By *ip123 OP Man
over a year ago

North East

At least we are talking x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m off for a wank.

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By *ip123 OP Man
over a year ago

North East

You will be missed xx

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By *ip123 OP Man
over a year ago

North East

But there’s the same in contention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m off for a wank. "

Miss you already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But there’s the same in contention "

If you use the Reply + quote button we will know who you are replying to.

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By *ohnandJulieCouple
over a year ago

"And there's a disproportionate amount of men who send vile messages that they wouldn't dare say to someone's face.

Crappy people will exist regardless of gender. "

Exactly this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m off for a wank.

Miss you already "

I’m back

That’s the fast and furious.

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