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By *oveAndBang OP   Couple
over a year ago

where the mood takes us

After a while on Fab We've noticed that majority of couples profiles are full of female's pictures and very few or none of male's ones. As much as we both appreciate tasty photos of ladies in hundreds of different poses We would love to see guys being shown too. What's your thoughts about it?

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I agree. I want to see the man too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What sort of poses

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By *oveAndBang OP   Couple
over a year ago

where the mood takes us


"What sort of poses"

Probably not the ones You've sent us

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Yep as a straight woman who is half a couple ,this frustrates me too.

If only the female plays then i get having no pics of him,otherwise think they should have one or 2 of him.

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By *oveAndBang OP   Couple
over a year ago

where the mood takes us


"Yep as a straight woman who is half a couple ,this frustrates me too.

If only the female plays then i get having no pics of him,otherwise think they should have one or 2 of him.

"

Precisely,

If it's a cuck couple or hotwife couple then fair enough

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By *agertha73Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Definitely want to see the men too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they hide the other half and only let them out to play

Poor guys.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We just don't engage with them. They have their reasons which we respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a source of bewilderment to us.

How do you couples ever get together?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"This is a source of bewilderment to us.

How do you couples ever get together?

"

Honestly? We rarely do.

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By *randMrsJones500Couple
over a year ago

london

this is a source of frustration for mrs jones when we are looking for couples. she is bi curious rather than bisexual and for us a couples meet is about a full swap with opposite partners

so ladies please encourage your partner to put some photos up for mrs jones!!!

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By *itsAndTaffCouple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex

Totally agree especially if the guy will be involved in the play

I (Mrs) generally get the final day in who we meet & im more interested in the guy than the woman so if the profile is mainly full of pics if the woman it's a no before the conversations even started from us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a source of bewilderment to us.

How do you couples ever get together?

Honestly? We rarely do. "

We feel for you.

Hope springs eternal. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are both happy to put our faces and bodies out here. Nothing wrong with enjoying sex and nudity is nothing to be ashamed of.

But we understand that is not everyone. But at least show equal pictures of the couple.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"This is a source of bewilderment to us.

How do you couples ever get together?

Honestly? We rarely do.

We feel for you.

Hope springs eternal. X"

Thank you. We kind of gave up after a couple of depressing experiences, we concentrate more on single men now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree, there's not enough photos of the males on couples profiles. It would appear the females are far more photogenic than their male partners. There's a mixture on our profile but still slightly more of Mrs BB

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By *dible_KinkCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Its hard for us as Mrs is straight so isn't interested in seeing loads of pics if the female and none of the male. If a man is active then he should be pictured, it's quite simple. We always have a pretty equal mix, if slightly more of Mrs, but always a fair showing of us both.

Mr.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Sorry not sorry but I like taking photos for my man, which more often or not end up on here. Guess you can use it as an additional filter which is always good. We don't see if as a problem as we're seeking single men when we meet and they tend to prefer pictures of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You mean the penis part

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Agree, there's not enough photos of the males on couples profiles. It would appear the females are far more photogenic than their male partners. There's a mixture on our profile but still slightly more of Mrs BB "

People often say it's because the man is less photogenic. That doesn't fill me with hope frankly.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"You mean the penis part"

I think a lot of people assume that I don't care as long as he's got a penis. I do.

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

We tend to avoid those profiles. Unless they attach pics to a message. We presume they won’t be our type.

In these times it’s very easy to take photos of anything and load them on here within minutes. If they don’t know what photos to take then they probably wouldn’t be exciting in the bedroom either

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By *oveAndBang OP   Couple
over a year ago

where the mood takes us


"Sorry not sorry but I like taking photos for my man, which more often or not end up on here. Guess you can use it as an additional filter which is always good. We don't see if as a problem as we're seeking single men when we meet and they tend to prefer pictures of me "

Totally get You however for a couple looking for both, man and woman it's just frustrating sometimes

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By *istydustyCouple
over a year ago

newbury

Very frustrating and we not consider those couples as equal. We stated that issue in our profile .

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Sorry not sorry but I like taking photos for my man, which more often or not end up on here. Guess you can use it as an additional filter which is always good. We don't see if as a problem as we're seeking single men when we meet and they tend to prefer pictures of me

Totally get You however for a couple looking for both, man and woman it's just frustrating sometimes"

I can appreciate that. But I can kinda see why. When as a couple a female picture will get significantly more fabs than the male. Can't be particularly nice. I try and fab or send messages when I see nice male pictures. Sometimes I think we can/should hype them up more.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Variety is the essence of a good couple’s profile x

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

It has always spoke VOLUMES to me. The old excuse of 'she loves having her pic taken' or 'he doesn't like his pic taken' is bullshit in most cases.

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

It depends what the couple are looking for. People can run their profiles however they like.

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By *oveAndBang OP   Couple
over a year ago

where the mood takes us


"Variety is the essence of a good couple’s profile x"

Your gallery is ideal! Same as people on the pictures! Pictures together in a bathroom are probably the best one we've seen on fab

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By *randMrsJones500Couple
over a year ago

london


"Its hard for us as Mrs is straight so isn't interested in seeing loads of pics if the female and none of the male. If a man is active then he should be pictured, it's quite simple. We always have a pretty equal mix, if slightly more of Mrs, but always a fair showing of us both.

Mr."

agreed. it doesnt have to be an equal mix (ours isn’t) but it does seem fair to give a couple some indication of what the man looks like especially if he is playing. once a contact has been made it is then up to both parties how and when they share face pics and take the conversation forward

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln


"Sorry not sorry but I like taking photos for my man, which more often or not end up on here. Guess you can use it as an additional filter which is always good. We don't see if as a problem as we're seeking single men when we meet and they tend to prefer pictures of me

Totally get You however for a couple looking for both, man and woman it's just frustrating sometimes

I can appreciate that. But I can kinda see why. When as a couple a female picture will get significantly more fabs than the male. Can't be particularly nice. I try and fab or send messages when I see nice male pictures. Sometimes I think we can/should hype them up more. "

Do fabs actually matter to a guy ? Beards gets loads of fabs but he doesn’t put his pictures up for them and neither do I. We just put selfies up where we are having fun, out and about or on holiday. When we put up meet requests we always ask for Facebook/instragram style photos from guys as we feel any they put on there would be a better quality than ones likely to be seen on here.

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By *razy ShenanigansCouple
over a year ago

Chelmsford

It's a long running debate and likely one that won't ever be solved but yes, as a couple looking for couples we do like to see pics of both asap so we can establish an all round attraction, too often we've engaged in chat only for the face pics of both to be sent and we've had to end it there and then

Obviously we have more of Alyson in our gallery but there's a fair few of me as well

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

You display what sells or draws the customers in in the shop window, not the dusty old crap no one wants.

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By *andy and DannyCouple
over a year ago

Barnstaple

I feel that our profile should have more pics of me ( dan) and we do have them for anyone that's interested, I just can't imagine hundreds of couple's winging there way to north Devon because of some pics of me lol

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Sorry not sorry but I like taking photos for my man, which more often or not end up on here. Guess you can use it as an additional filter which is always good. We don't see if as a problem as we're seeking single men when we meet and they tend to prefer pictures of me

Totally get You however for a couple looking for both, man and woman it's just frustrating sometimes

I can appreciate that. But I can kinda see why. When as a couple a female picture will get significantly more fabs than the male. Can't be particularly nice. I try and fab or send messages when I see nice male pictures. Sometimes I think we can/should hype them up more.

Do fabs actually matter to a guy ? Beards gets loads of fabs but he doesn’t put his pictures up for them and neither do I. We just put selfies up where we are having fun, out and about or on holiday. When we put up meet requests we always ask for Facebook/instragram style photos from guys as we feel any they put on there would be a better quality than ones likely to be seen on here. "

I think they do from what I see on the forum. And it's a nice confidence boost when people like your photos regardless of gender I think. So if we want to see more male couple photos, can't harm to fab send a compliment can it?

Know if I get a nice component on a photo it increases the likelihood of me posting another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are both on our profile.

People shouldn't have to wait for pics of both to sent to then not fancy the one not shown.

Saves time.

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

We have exactly the same frustration Y enjoys women possibly more than the guy's, but even so..

We've tried to get a balance, however it's predominantly pictures of her..

Have we posted enough of D?

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"You display what sells or draws the customers in in the shop window, not the dusty old crap no one wants. "

I'll fetch my feather duster shall I?

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Rightly or wrongly, I assume the male doesn't play. It's the main reason I don't play with couples.

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By *arc6662018Man
over a year ago

reading

How do I ask wife to swap

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By *ansexualPandaMan
over a year ago

Near You

Yes please bi couples, more photos of the guy too!

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

It frustrates me. If we were looking for single men we'd skip over any profiles with no pictures, and the same applies to couples with only pictures of the lady. And no, a blurry, half-inserted penis doesn't class as a suitable picture in my eyes.

We have a pretty equal amount of both of us, and won't engage with couples that don't have at least two or three full-body shots of both people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We try to have equal amounts, more fun to take them together anyway

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"You display what sells or draws the customers in in the shop window, not the dusty old crap no one wants.

I'll fetch my feather duster shall I? "

And the flying helmet and the wet celery as well?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"It frustrates me. If we were looking for single men we'd skip over any profiles with no pictures, and the same applies to couples with only pictures of the lady. And no, a blurry, half-inserted penis doesn't class as a suitable picture in my eyes.

We have a pretty equal amount of both of us, and won't engage with couples that don't have at least two or three full-body shots of both people. "

You have a couples profile?

Lily! Since when?

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"You display what sells or draws the customers in in the shop window, not the dusty old crap no one wants.

I'll fetch my feather duster shall I?

And the flying helmet and the wet celery as well? "

Flying helmet I'll do, celery is just grim

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)


"Have we posted enough of D?"

I think it's a good selection with some great piccies. Nicely done!

Gbat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do like to see the fella too , but reckon done fella’s don’t like their pictures taken for some reason

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By *istydustyCouple
over a year ago

newbury

Comone guys woman’s love to see gorgeous man body.

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By *mma29Couple
over a year ago

wirral

I agree...Where's the eye candy for the girls?! I'm guessing the female half has set the condition their fella can't join in and can only watch

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By *istydustyCouple
over a year ago

newbury

Or is for him getting 2 girls show with no male involved? I am still don’t know why is that way? I am straight but some soft play with women is acceptable xox I do prefer testosterone xx

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By *mma29Couple
over a year ago

wirral


"Or is for him getting 2 girls show with no male involved? I am still don’t know why is that way? I am straight but some soft play with women is acceptable xox I do prefer testosterone xx"

Maybe, though I'm of the same preference as you...even if they thought they were just watching I don't think anyone would want to have a ming leering at them, I couldn't think of anything more off-putting!

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By *istydustyCouple
over a year ago

newbury

That’s why we going to clubs/having social to chat with couples. See their dynamic ect.

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Depends on the dynamic, what they want and look for

Jo x

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

It’s probably just a single female who uses the account knowing a majority of single blokes aren’t looking for couples

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"You display what sells or draws the customers in in the shop window, not the dusty old crap no one wants.

I'll fetch my feather duster shall I?

And the flying helmet and the wet celery as well?

Flying helmet I'll do, celery is just grim "

Depends what it’s used for

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By *arry and AnnCouple
over a year ago

Louth


"After a while on Fab We've noticed that majority of couples profiles are full of female's pictures and very few or none of male's ones. As much as we both appreciate tasty photos of ladies in hundreds of different poses We would love to see guys being shown too. What's your thoughts about it? "

Ann just looks better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm awful at taking selfies. The one I took earlier made me look like a startled Fragle.

Nelly, however, is awesome at it.

When we're together we either never get time or forget.

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By *arriedUKCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Portsmouth

We have always tried to put both on.

Clearly it's easier to take nice picture of a female, harder to show the male but is important both are shown.

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By *phrodite_AdonisCouple
over a year ago

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We’ve got pics of both.

We’re a full swap couple and will only engage with profiles who have the same vibe on the pic front.

Photos of mainly the fem tell us to avoid the profile. It’s a good filter.

Sasha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After a while on Fab We've noticed that majority of couples profiles are full of female's pictures and very few or none of male's ones. As much as we both appreciate tasty photos of ladies in hundreds of different poses We would love to see guys being shown too. What's your thoughts about it? "

Your photos are super nice. Do you both take them?

I can see men are less careful at taking pics on here, Less effort, aesthetically talking and at editing them.

For my couple’s profile I’ll have to take the photos. Or he will under my supervision. Even for his solo profile, I took the photos . Maybe it’s just the fact that women are more into making the effort to have photogenic profile.

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"It’s probably just a single female who uses the account knowing a majority of single blokes aren’t looking for couples "

Single female my arse

Jo xx

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By *istydustyCouple
over a year ago

newbury

I think more pictures of female are when she is bi . straight couples having hard time here x

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